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ettaetta:
relationship ends for just one reason which is the two were not meant for each other.

IsaacBuchi:
What a lot today is that religion is your values. Many religions have lost their values or are confused what values to keep. That why it is to assume that interfaith can be managed.

For me my religion has high moral values and if I marry someone who doesn't share the same values I am simply saying telling my partner is I don't really cherish my values, I can toy with any values whatsoever & you can cheapen or disregard mine anytime.

It's is No No for me!

Dahveydson:
And this applies to ladies too?

smileysmiley:
[s] I shouldn't be helping you clarify your statement but I don't mind helping you anyways. Sorry about the MSc. statement, I've clarified myself on that. You clearly said that a woman's employment status in a relationship doesn't matter. Says who Why wouldn't it matter Yh the guy should bear the bulk of the weight but the woman should not be left idle. I went to a provision store one day to get something and a woman came to get two packs of noodles, she said and I quote "I'll bring the money when my husband gets back". If you are a lady and that statement doesn't irritate you then I can welcome you to the association of liabilities, like seriously Why Why should your employment status be of no importance I repeat if the guy doesn't want you working then by all means enjoy being a housewife but if its the other way round, get your lazy ass up and get a job. Some women even get married to rich men who keeps them as housewives and gives them lots of cash yet if a problem is encountered in the marriage they are left broke, its because of this mentality. Some of them lose their husband along the way and they begin to suffer with the innocent children because of this mentality. You should even feel cheated being a housewife cause while the guy is out there building a career, future security and total independence you are busy breastfeeding Junior at home and increasing your level of dependence. I agree with kramfonos, if a woman decides to be a stay at home [s] I shouldn't be helping you clarify your statement but I don't mind helping you anyways. Sorry about the MSc. statement, I've clarified myself on that. You clearly said that a woman's employment status in a relationship doesn't matter. Says who Why wouldn't it matter Yh the guy should bear the bulk of the weight but the woman should not be left idle. I went to a provision store one day to get something and a woman came to get two packs of noodles, she said and I quote "I'll bring the money when my husband gets back". If you are a lady and that statement doesn't irritate you then I can welcome you to the association of liabilities, like seriously Why Why should your employment status be of no importance I repeat if the guy doesn't want you working then by all means enjoy being a housewife but if its the other way round, get your lazy ass up and get a job. Some women even get married to rich men who keeps them as housewives and gives them lots of cash yet if a problem is encountered in the marriage they are left broke, its because of this mentality. Some of them lose their husband along the way and they begin to suffer with the innocent children because of this mentality. You should even feel cheated being a housewife cause while the guy is out there building a career, future security and total independence you are busy breastfeeding Junior at home and increasing your level of dependence. I agree with kramfonos, if a woman decides to be a stay at home [/s] I shouldn't be helping you clarify your statement but I don't mind helping you anyways. Sorry about the MSc. statement, I've clarified myself on that. You clearly said that a woman's employment status in a relationship doesn't matter. Says who Why wouldn't it matter Yh the guy should bear the bulk of the weight but the woman should not be left idle. I went to a provision store one day to get something and a woman came to get two packs of noodles, she said and I quote "I'll bring the money when my husband gets back". If you are a lady and that statement doesn't irritate you then I can welcome you to the association of liabilities, like seriously Why Why should your employment status be of no importance I repeat if the guy doesn't want you working then by all means enjoy being a housewife but if its the other way round, get your lazy ass up and get a job. Some women even get married to rich men who keeps them as housewives and gives them lots of cash yet if a problem is encountered in the marriage they are left broke, its because of this mentality. Some of them lose their husband along the way and they begin to suffer with the innocent children because of this mentality. You should even feel cheated being a housewife cause while the guy is out there building a career, future security and total independence you are busy breastfeeding Junior at home and increasing your level of dependence. I agree with kramfonos, if a woman decides to be a stay at home pest sorry wife without your permission, you are allowed to treat her like trash. *drops pen* sweetheart you don't have to be defensive, we learn everyday... As for the "likes from guys" statement, I'll take that as a slip cause I don't want to believe that you do something that lame "it takes a crook to spot a crook" [/s]

ifeajikap:
free to file divorce? Then y marry in the first place when u see divorce as an option

agarawu23:
done with u for today.

ifeajikap:
“ one day she will jus wake up nd ask for a divorce” that seems to be ur path with the car nd house tin

agarawu23:
ppl like you end up with broke a$$ dude

agarawu23:
nothing to educate u about miss,

We need ppl like you who wanna marry rich men for rituals in my society.

kramfonos:
I am judging you based on the reply you gave _Tallesty1 on this thread. You stated outrightly that you are a feminist!

Heck! Feminists advocate for equality. They see themselves as men's equals.

I I can only foot the bills of a woman who knows her place - as a being under my authority as her leader, her head.



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agarawu23:
[s][/s]what d'hell is wrong with your mentality and your silly principal?

Ladies like you got bleeped and dumped by guys who deceived you with their friends wealth.

ifeajikap:
it shuldnt be he shuld have this and dat, but we shuld have

kramfonos:
Any woman who expects a man to foot her bills has no right to crave an equal status in the relationship with him. She's below him. She should be at his beck and call. She owes the bread she nibbles to him 'cause he 'wins' it.

kramfonos:
Hogwash!

She uses electricity.

She uses water.

There's mortgage or rent for the house the occupies.

When kids start popping out, there'd be school fees, healthcare expenses, feeding, transportation... The list is endless.


Since you claim men and women are equal, those bills should be split between the husband and wife. How then can she pay up her part when she's unemployed?

So much for feminism. No right-thinking man should marry an unemployed woman.

Josephamstrong1:
I tell u wat.
u've heard dz litany..."takes two to tango"
It takes nt juz d man to run a home. He is d head, u d neck. u juz like d pillar. wat if d man losses hiz job or no More?
Can't u stl cater for ya kids and bills?
Don't kw ya name buh I'll tell u 4free dat wives r to b helper, financially, spiritually, morally and otherwise. In fact it's a must do for her to bring smtn to d table provided she's workin'.
it's nt ya ryt or option. no argument. u don't nid to b reminded dat u're thr to support.
don't want to bliv u a feminist.
Dat's most rsn y Westerners practice gender equality.
Do I forget to tell u dat Dangote's wife brings smtn to d table too... make a call thru and confirm... lol.

smileysmiley:
you are the reason these guys keep bashing girls, why will a lady have a masters and not use it and you say it doesn't matter It doesn't matter if the guy is ok with it but if he isn't, she had better dust that thing and hit the streets in search of a job.

kramfonos:
Oh but you are...a two-faced, scheming hypocrite.

Granted, men are suppose to be financially stable before considering marriage but how dare you imply that an unemployed woman can be excused if she decides to settle down. In essence, a man is suppose to take care of her bills till she finds a job or not. She should lay her financial burdens on a man on one hand and be treated as an equal in the same vein.

I have an issue with you excusing away a prospective wives joblessness. If you're a jobless woman, you have no business marrying. Share the bills!

Goal-post-shifting, quasi-gyno-supremacist!

Josephamstrong1:
Dat ain't ryt

coolsix:
I wonder what is wrong with some men. You are to provide for your family not the other way around. A woman telling that how does that make her feminist? Where in her post did she clamor for equality? She said what a man is to do.

Na wa o I don't understand.

Besides most feminist say that because since men don't grant them that equality why should they now be equal in providing for family?it simple logic. I don't know the reason for all this your story.

kramfonos:
Such presupposition! Your postulation is as untenable as a bounced cheque.

Men want peace of mind, a home to lay our heads and our privacy being respected when we want to.

Men are scared of the increasing possessiveness of today's wives. She wants to know everything you do, she nags, she prioritizes are side of the extended family over yours and she wants the map of your daily itinerary while she wouldn't give half her privacy to you.

Sometimes, even though we'd eventually marry, we just want to enjoy that peace a little longer while we find the few women who'd ensure that peace.



Trust me, we'd heard that a gazillion times. Turn down the volume of that music!

You ask us to be rich before approaching your gender but you blame us to spending time acquiring that wealth 'cause while we're at it, you're getting older? Confused lots members of your gender are!



Yeah! Like we don't know that. Funny how this doesn't apply to a woman.



Aha! Like the average, disillusioned feminist, you'd always shoot yourself in the foot!

So, dear feminist, you campaign for gender equality but you reiterate that the requisites for marriage for a man should surpass a woman's? It's alright for a prospective wive to be jobless but it doesn't apply to a man because, in essence, it's a man's job to provide while a woman might bring nothing to the table? What's good for the goose isn't good for the gander?

So much for gender equality!

Ladies and gentlemen, dudes and lasses, boys and girls, I present to you all Miss Hypocrisy 2016!

Take a bow, woman. You really are shameless in your display of double standards.

SULBELL:
Illiteracy you say? then going by ur assertion, all living human are illiterate. What baffles me in your assertion is that if it was Beyonce or a celeb that is putting on a see through top u will call that civilization right?. The last AMVCC award that saw an exodus of cleavage revealing girls, they were not illiterate right?. Culture my friend is a way of life and it is based on the common believe and resolution among inhabitant. The way americans or British dresses or behave is their culture. Please try to respect the culture of others.

AirSultan:
You see, this is the problem with yous whatever your country is. Always thinking you got the perfect picture of what is going on but in the real sense, you just end up showing yourself as a pokenoser.. I dont get how bathing a kid outside in nigeria concern a random individual from whereeva you r from. Fact is, it aint poverty but a cliche over here. Its about us, get that into your head and stop poking arnd in stuffs that is none of your mothereffing business.

Tallesty1:
Just answer my question if you can. You don't why I asked or what I want my woman to do so you don't know enough to form an opinion.


Are you a feminist?