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I think if for every disagreement, a man kicks out his wife, then where is the spirit of tolerance and understanding we preach in marriage

On this issue I will accept the position of the Moderator (Site Owner) Seun. I think outrightly refusing to give in is not right for the marriage. Issues like this cause unneccessary rancour in the home. A union is of both parties and for such to work there must be compromise. For instance, How would the man feel if this issue is vice versa, i.e his wife refusing any of his relation who is in such condition a shelter on the basis that the person is troublesome. Marriage this days is different from those days where authority rules. Understanding and ability to compromise and de-emphasise individual egoism/pride brings better solutions to marital problems like this.

The woman on her own part was wrong and negated her womanly role in her reaction. Starving your husband of sex for over 5 months as a result is most upsetting maritally and emotionally. The issue is not of who pays the rent or who is the active financial partner to now dictate the tune. And if you decide to take contrary advice, that is bluffing your wife, soon you will turn to a terror and the peace and happiness you want in your home will be destroyed. For now since the matter has gone this long, try and hold a frank discussion with ur wife and restore your union positively. Apologise where necessary for your earlier stand . Am sure the sister would have got an alternative by now. Dont allow your home to break cos of this.

It will tell you what happend at the grand finale episode. I have just sent u a personal mail of the grandfinale summary.

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Kissing and Romancing by the unmarried are part of fornication because its like the preamble... before the data analysis i.e the main action. However we have brotherly kiss that is not motivated by any inert romantic feeling. Such brotherly kiss  is even mentioned in the bible. We would not consider such as fornication.

Fabian died. While trying to shoot Diego. Just before his wedding to Paloma.

The quesion is sleeping with another man's wife good or bad? Bad. We dont need anybody to tell you that. Just as sleeping with another woman's hussy is bad. And condemned

I hope so because we are still around episode 100 and the whole thing is 239 episodes .

I am so bitter cos AIT has notified us that we wont watch the telenovella between 20th Jan -12th feb 2006 cos of the nations cup. can any body ask them to open AIT in new windows so we can chose b/w football match and when u are mine. The one that interests u.

Stick to ur heart dear.

otokx:
please can u peeps deviate back into the topic?

I had a similar thing before my marriage. I was born and bred in the catholic faith. I got married to my husband who is Pentecostal. before our marriage, we agreed that we want a united family and naturally I dont believe that I will drag him to my church except if he wishes to. I dont think its right to drag a man to ur church in marriage against his will.

Today I attend his church(our church)No body should reject a man she truly loves on the basis of denominational differences. I don't think its right. We pray to and worship one God. My parents who posed a little problem to our marriage cos of the differences in our denomination had to accept my position. U are marrying him not his church and religion. Besides what will make a marriage strong is not dependent on the denomination one attends.

I think both men and women who do that are in d stupid category.
if not , the woman who dates the married man for financial and whatever reason will someday get married and wouldn't want to hear or see such evil in her home. My husband having extramarital affair? It devastates a woman. So the earlier she desist the better if not the law of reaping what one sows or fate may crawl in later for her.

Then the man who thinks its ok is as stupid as the woman cos, he is the loser, guilty of adultery and unfaithfulness. Whatever pleasure he gets or derives is shortlived. besides its his money which would have been better invested that is draining on a woman he is not planning to have a future with.
So there is no reason to think its ok. its not. Marriage vow dosent include that going by the religiously values.

I attend Living faith Church (Winners Chapel) in PHC.

That show of superlative acting skills by both Diego and paloma was the epic. @Adexway Did u say with u watched with fun. Mine was a mix of fun and concern for the 2 magnificent lovers... cos their dream of being together forever still has many hurdles to cross. Yes.!Yesterday's show is a must watch...

judas chapt .... Vs....

Both sides. It depends on d motive of the man in question

yes the bomb has actually strated with Diego seeing his paloma with mariano after she had told him she was going to work throut the evening.

What Is The Role/expectations Of A Woman In Her Home And To Her Husband?

I came across this beautifully written poem about the woman. And in this days of uncountable break-up, marital disharmony, divorce etc., methinks we should also emphasise on solutions to a stronger family and the marriage institution instead of encouraging break up.. I am of the opinion that one of such ways is for the woman to play her role diligently in the family and to her husband(remember Late Pastor Bimbo Odukoya)... and in that way, we will build our homes and win the love and heart of our husbands. I don't think they will have reason or cause to even batter us. or What do u think? Read the poem

[i][/i]Woman
Artfully and delicately moulded,
the creator's masterpiece; his perfect delight!
His choice as man's help-mate;
Much more than a mere missing rib!

Woman...
The epitome of beauty and glamour
Adorned with dignity, full of strenght,
splendour and vigour

Man's mother, sister, friend, and helper
Affectionately configured, warm and tender,
Skilled in the crafts of home and hearth,
diligent in homemaking, ordained to productivity!

By you, God's dream came true, you produced the seed
that bruised the serpent's heel
your mouth is filled with wisdom,
faithful instructions emit from your tongue
the weaker vessel you may be called
yet you are the mother of all men!
You are the virtous women! (Prov 31 Vs 10-31)

Its not just good. Its (among) the best telenovella or soap I have watched in recent time. u will love it.Am an addict.

Share wetin? In this era of infections and HIV. I have never done that and not planning to. be content with what u have. Thats d spirit.

As a woman I will put kitchen strategies in place to enable him get down the weight. As the master of the kitchen, I will watch what I serve him. "Copulation" gives weight.ooo.So if possible reduce the frequency.

This issue is a sensitive one. personally, I would prefer to leave spiritual matters like this to God. Y. We were not there when the prophets of the old performed miracles. God can still use people now. One thing is clear, it will be difficult for such regulations to sail thro in a democratic dispensation.Religious issues are real sensitive and one is rather careful in commenting on them or passing regulations on them. We dont want to offend God. I agree that some people are fake and are just doing marketing in the tv/radio. but that doesnt foreclose the fact that God still use some people to work miracles depending on ur faith. NBC regulation or ban..? Not really the solution.?

With her thick canda lips and dentition, she is nothing to be compared to Omo but she still has some good looks. Compare her with another actress of her stature abeg...

Is anyone suffering from Diegomania.The guy is simply driving me crazy... he sent his messenger Daniela to get paloma to kiss his paper with red lipstick. How will it be during the Nations cup. Somebody should inform AIT to give us thier programme schedule early before some of miss some episodes.

A woman need to enhance her beauty and looks. Her make up is light and simple. Both are beautiful But Oge has a better body built and while Chioma has a better face.