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Something must be wrong ! Or prolly his waiting for you to call him first to tell him the arrival of his grandchild...but the main question I want to ask ,were you in good terms with him during ur pregnancy?

@Mstick! Same here.
Very familiar story....

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Pls allow the lady be! The child might not be yours ,dont go destroy her home.and if the child is urs,she might have told her husband about what transpired you guys in the past.so let it go.
And come to think about it, the first pregnancy you left her alone ,she could have easily hook up with someone and gave it. But yet she said she was gonna take responsibility all by herself.,as at that time she already had it in mind ,you guys were done.and she might have a friend that saw her through the times she needed you before the miscarriage.
And after 2months she came to you and asked you about marriage and you respond was off.
That sex was a farewell sex.she knew it was gonna be the last time .even if she tells you that the kid she has now reminds her of you,might be different meaning from what you think. So let her be.

@lizzyangel! Amen!
Sure you will hear from me.takecare of you.
And all the best !

@lizzyangel! Honestly I feel your pain as a mother ,losing a child is one of the worst experience any mother can feel or have.i have experienced it and till today I still feel the memory like it was yesterday.my kid was 5years ,lost her 2018 July and she died right in my arm.i pray God will comfort you in the midst of all this.
Everywhere is so rich now,but will help you in my own little way before the month runs out.
And no matter how down or depressed you feel ,never forget God seats on his throne ,have ur confidence in him that hes the only one that can do what no man can do for you.
So long you are striving hard ,he will surely bless the work of your hands.
Stay strong for your unborn,kid and hubby.

@hoodbolina! That's a big lie joor! So you mean If I wear red shirt with blue Jean in a decent manner ,one person will harass me.biko! Gone are those days things happen like that in benin....

@confusedwoman!Well theres alot of mistake been done already.my best advice is to talk to a marriage counselor not even ur pastor.most times it's always not rosy but as far my concern your condition dont need too much stress and all the anxiety..

And having another kid isnt a bad idea but dont you think you are rushing things ,even if your husband loves you ,ofwhich I think he does, your act shows him you are just been selfish, and care alone of your feelings and wants.
Have you thought about how hes feeling?and coping with the fact that one day he might just lose you.

Dear OP! This man loves you, how many men will learn you have such a disease that has no cure,then go ahead and impregnate you and then marry you,and one day if a miracle dont happen ,he becomes a widower with a burden of raising his kids alone.pls be considerate and work on yourself ,live the best moments with him and ur kid,respect him,love him like never before,spend time with him,give him that beautiful memory.
I hope you grab from this little I can let out.

@confusedwoman!Well theres alot of mistake been done already.my best advice is to talk to a marriage counselor not even ur pastor.most times it's always not rosy but as far my concern your condition dont need too much stress and all the anxiety..

And having another kid isnt a bad idea but dont you think you are rushing things ,even if your husband loves you ,ofwhich I think he does, your act shows him you are just been selfish, and care alone of your feelings and wants.
Have you thought about how hes feeling?and coping with the fact that one day he might just lose you.

Dear OP! This man loves you, how many men will learn you have such a disease that has no cure,then go ahead and impregnate you and then marry you,and one day if a miracle dont happen ,he becomes a widower with a burden of raising his kids alone.pls be considerate and work on yourself ,live the best moments with him and ur kid,respect him,love him like never before,spend time with him,give him that beautiful memory.

@collins918! I know it's a big deal ,but since you have discussed it with your wife and she already told you what you needed to know about the whole posting pic stuff! I guess you should stuck it in.no point bringing it here.you will only hurt with comments and talks.so dont allow things come between you and your wife all because of social display.it doesn't worth it.

This can only happen in lagos! Lagos every hustle is a bae oo!.
Only lagos you will buy phone with carton , you have seen the phone oo, getting home again you will see eba and stone inside carton...abeg I hail lagos..

This can happen when the monthly allowance for up keeping is huge and the woman does something.
This kind of house cost almost 5million. Come build with 20k monthly na! Anyways wise woman indeed!

@sepsis! Now see how you just gave room for insult to your wife, that's bad and sad.honestly if she comes across this thread how do you think she might feel.please end it here.Go sort things with her.you are a doctor and most of Job is encouraging ur patients and giving them reasons why some stuff are healthy for them to keep fit.so pls end this thread.theres nothing you will get out of here rather than insults and so much talks like you and igbowoman.

@sepsis! I believe your kid is already taking solid in support with breastfeeding.well you just have to encourage her with love .she will definitely work on herself.no lady likes to be called fat !
So just give her time.she will come around ( body size).

@sepsis! If I may ask , how old is your baby?

@sepsis! You don't need to bother too much , this is your first kid , you should educate urself more on it and dont complain.some women get fat after delivery and with time she will go back to shape , when she stops breastfeeding ,and also the opposite.
Her appetite increased due to her breastfeeding to keep healthy .if she doesn't eat enough and your baby sucks alot she might end up pale and sick.anyways she getting fat isnt a big issue, Just be patient , when your kid starts taking solid and not much on breastmilk, you can encourage her with love to work on her weight , and keep fit...OP! Never you compare your wife or marriage with another.every marriage or spouse has what rocks their boat!.
And note this! As long your wife has started giving birth her hormones wont be the same.it happens to all women giving birth. You should be lucky if she just change in body size , that can be easily amended.
If she lack interest in sex..you are finished ooo.
Nothing can redeem that oo..
So encourage her with love , and dont nag or complain.
Is not easy on her too.

yom2:
have u checked ur analysis again? U even cited the fallen oil price which is d main stay of ur government and u still support a total grounding of the economy in addition. I know ur company will absolve those who will be thrown into the labour market

Bro, sacrificing the economy short term is our best chance of our recovery long term. The entire world is suffering, even Saudi Arabia whose economy is more dependent on oil is doing their best to flatten their curve. The impact of this pandemic will bite way harder than oil prices cos right now nobody is buying oil. Just a few days ago the US oil sold below 0$ the first time in history. Lockdown or not we will still sink into recession.

Oil prices are physical issues that can be remedied by production cuts (which OPEC already agreed to BTW) but you see this covid-19, it's an invisible enemy even your daddy GO cant fight.

Stay safe, stay home.

fortran12:
Hungry will kill more than corona. You cannot stop the virus it can only be slowed down my facemask etc. Let the government open and enforce facemask and social distancing. Corona is not a death sentence 99 percent survive. Its mortality rate is less than malaria so why all the panic?

Yes, the virus isn't a death sentence and no, 99 percent wont recover. The mortality rate for Spain, Italy and the UK is around 10% but that's not even why this is scary. Unlike malaria that one can get via mosquito bite, this virus is contracted through humans. Imagine 10% of one million persons dying from this? This is exactly why the lockdown is necessary, not because of the mortality rate but because of how easy shit can go south.

Humans are crazy stubborn, you can't guarantee people will adhere to the face mask and gloves rule.

The best way out until a vaccine comes is more testing and lockdown until the damn curve flattens.

P.s. the Nigerian health sector is so bad that if this goes south, the mortality rate will more than double that of Italy.

Stay safe, stay home.

AkeNathan:
Well done

Even trump is opening US economy in a week or two

The US has tested over 4 million persons. Still their health experts have said until the US have enough testing capabilities to test everyone the economy shouldn't be opened.

Our government is fighting this the wrong way. Either ways, the economy suffers. Lift the lockdown now and we will see the resurgence and massive increase of confirmed cases and because of our poor testing ability, more persons will get infected really fast and same economy you're trying to protect now will suffer more then.

Let's not even forget the current struggle with falling oil prices. If we survive this we have bigger issues to worry about.

My take is, this lockdown should stay until we are sure we can test more persons.

@bozzyironlady! Lol.....

@ifyjos! Everyone has a story to tell!! Na ur suicide mission.....abeg leave me n my suicide note biko!! Is no news,everyone saw it..no announce..no be new trend again.......before you start sounding like a broken record already!!....
Shey I jobless n hopeless!!
Leave me n it to deal with..
At least I know use my jobless n hopeless take ruin my sister life ....biko you win ooo.....hail hanty ifyjos!! Nairaland paranoid loser queen....

@Mariangeles! I didn't judge her ...she was just too rude n you know that...I know you are an adult! N have gone through some phase in life...OP came for help ,its either as a good hearted fellow help or just read pass..the next thing is scam!! Is that fair?
On a daily base ! When you go out ,you meet people on the streets begging,not bcus they are happy being in that suitation,but life has turned them that way. Every one of us has experienced some kinda of phase in our life..
So am not perfect or proud ...OP came out here! Mayb she has tried all other options n was futile...
Sometimes the way we approach people in most suitation can leave them wounded for eternal..I hope you get what I meant..
Thanks

@ifyjos ! Las las you said something meaningful! No condition is permanent....so the OP condition isnt permanent.... if you so wish to say more, you at your own peril! I have nothing to say ......

@ifyjos!! Lol!! Car washer!! Okay oooo!!! Maybe you should drop his location so I can patronize him...lol!.....

@ifyjos ....you win ooo!!! Just be eating food n be okay.... you are better than everyone....dooh! Miss living the real life......I salute you

@ifyjos...SMH!! You are just a panariod loser!!!

@ifyjos! If what I wrote didnt hit you ,you would not have written to explain how OKEY you are...pls is OKAY not OKEY!!.....girl grow up!!

What a shame! Hypocrite!!
Material things dont bother you but yet you ruined your sisters life because she could not open a business for you and that dirty!!
Abeg make we hear word!! Free olosho!!
Abi! Why will it bother you..
As long your dirty can give you n the result of ur wayward life food to eat....you think say na there life stop...

@ifyjos! Lemme tell you! Alot of person care here..lemme burst ur bubbles, i recieved so many warm hearted Emails.....n girl! Am no attention seeker!! I have all the attention one could ask of....is it money? Am money it self! My personal house! Am a landlady! An entrepreneur!, babes what have you...oh ! Lemme tell you ,a slutty self that love opening her legs n giving birth....baby making machine.....n again a life waster for a sperm donor.....bcus that dirty you call ur boyfriend isnt fit to,atleast guys are here on this forum! They don't just go fucking n impregnating a slut as you,when they have a life to build....
So ifyjos why not concentrate on making urself useful to that daughter of a wayward being n as well the one in ur womb....

@ifyjos..that's the reason why I said you are a wasted creature....n poking her slutty mouth where it doesn't fit...how useless can one be ,getting pregnant at age 15 n still wallowing in a miserable way of still pregnant for a hooligan!!!how do you even see life? School you no go! Work you no learn,Bleep na your first name...you where born into poverty n still live a wayward life n ended bringing a soul into that same poverty n another is forth coming...girl!! Ur father was glad he died I swear that guy will be happy n same time regretful why he had Bleep ur mother to give birth to a wayward child like you.....n ha! To ur poor mother ! She must be crying everyday n wishing she aborted you.....how can one be useless ..no plan ,no future ..depending on one wayward boy that cant even take care of him self....2 wayward children giving birth ..n funny enough what can you produce from ur life ...wayward kids as well....ifyjos go get a life....

@ifyjos ...no wonder you are living a very miserable life..because you keep putting your dirty n slutty mouth in every business you see....dont think of how you will grow up ....n be a better person for your self n that of ur daughter if she even exist...,if the lady is a scam for bringing her worries to public,then you are also a scam...

You are still a kid,who life is just messing with and you think you are all mature n very intelligent...n madam know it all....at the later on ,you are just one wasted creature.....so if you see post like this keep ur eyes shut...n ur tots to yourself........

@ifyjos! How do you know is scam? That means your own story is a scam! Pls if we dont have anything good to say most times we see post..just keep shut.....