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FamilyRe: My Suicide Note by Vloml222(op): 10:21pm On Mar 15, 2020
I dont have money issues , I just feel lost n tired of trying.my life seems to be an episode..I really cant say...this pain I absorb , there are days I cry, happy n really frustrated...and now I feel nothing but hate to life...
Dont judge me!
But you can never know how it feels like to walk in such shoes .....n believe me I appreciate ur words..
I came up here to drop a note for evidence ....
So when it happens , no one should feel guilty..
I chose the part I took.
N am glad I will be leaving all behind..
FamilyMy Suicide Note by Vloml222(op): 8:29pm On Mar 15, 2020
Hey guys! This is real and no bullshit!
Am no attention seeker or name it.
Am very much tired of living, this is to everyone out there
Just like me! The truth is no matter what we do or think we cant fit into this harsh world.
Am done.., am really done with living.
I pray my daughter forgives me n my unborn .
FamilyRe: Talks On How To Reduce Belly Fat And Weight Loss by Vloml222(op): 9:34pm On Feb 29, 2020
Hello everyone!
Am back again ..
Back to our previous discussion about how to get rid of unwanted belly fat .
Most people believe that only when we hit the gym one can accomplish the goal of getting rid of belly fat or have a good figure..
YES ! I would agree..but then again hitting the gym n cant control healthy eating habit is a ZERO accomplishment n a waste of finance n time.

And others, believe if I starve I will lose that belly fat n lose that extra weight..I laugh to that. WHY? The more you keep up that routine , the extra weight you keep accumulating n storing enough belly fat.

In essence, there are unique n permanent ways to lose that belly fat n stay fit n healthy..
Why not join our whatapps group n stop believing on our Nigeria factor...(pot belly)
FamilyTalks On How To Reduce Belly Fat And Weight Loss by Vloml222(op): 3:09pm On Feb 29, 2020
Hi everyone!
My name is Nefertiti and today am going to be talking about how we can work on our belly fat n how to control our weight n staying healthy.

First and foremost :
WHAT IS BELLY FAT?

Belly fat is excess abdominal fat surrounding the organs in your stomach. There are three types of fat: triglycerides (the fat that circulates in your blood), subcutaneous fat (the layer directly below the skin’s surface) and visceral fat (dangerous belly fat). Visceral fat is located beneath the muscles in your stomach and poses many dangers to your health when there is too much of it.

AND WHAT ARE THE DANGERS OF A BELLY FAT?
Belly fat doesn’t just sit there; it can have negative impacts on almost every organ in your body through the productions of excess hormones and chemicals. Having too much visceral fat can put you at risk for many other health issues such as cardiovascular disease, Type 2 diabetes and colorectal cancer..

Now to the question HOW DO WE GET RID OF THAT BELLY FAT AND STAYING HEALTHY?
You can join my whatapps group for more tips n guidance...
If you interested simply drop your number .
Thanks !
FamilyRe: Video: Lady Confronts Husband's Side Chick In The Mall For Having Anal Sex by Vloml222(f): 2:27pm On Feb 29, 2020
Lmao! At first I tot the lady making the video, was actually helping the girl to escape the Accuser(wife of the unknown dog)..las las na she buy the matter....
FamilyRe: Nigerian Man Narrates How He Ran Into A Friend Who He Never Knew Had Died by Vloml222(f): 5:28pm On Feb 22, 2020
Wish someone can see my father like this....hmmmm
CelebritiesRe: Davido Hit A Fan Who Try To Get A Selfie With Him In The Airport (video) by Vloml222(f): 9:41pm On Feb 21, 2020
Lmao!!!.....
FamilyRe: Surrogate Mother by Vloml222(f): 8:17pm On Feb 21, 2020
If you're interested or you know anyone who is interested, you can call or WhatsApp me for more details.



I am not and I dont know any. sad
FamilyRe: Surrogate Mother by Vloml222(f): 4:06pm On Feb 21, 2020
Hmmm!
FamilyRe: Boys/men - How Often Do You Call Your Mothers? by Vloml222(f): 10:55pm On Feb 18, 2020
Never
FamilyRe: Problem Living With Mother In Law by Vloml222(f): 7:27pm On Feb 17, 2020
Hmmm! You are the problem to what's happening to you.
You signed up for this ,so take responsibility...
Why do I say so!
First, before your marriage or preparation of your marriage ..you should have insisted on your husband getting an apartment,even if is a room or self cont.
Now it's going south! You cant expect him to just move out to a rented apartment,when he is not paying in the recent one ..like advise he will get now is .."the money you will use to get an apartment or be paying for one , you can use it to get a land n start developing "n to be Frank that's the honest truth..but it would ve been better if your mother Inlaw had a conscience n lovely....
My dear OP! You just had to bear since you love your husband ....remember men are logical.....so just play along , till you give birth n can be able to fix yourself with something....becos if you do anything rational..you might be on the losing side...
FamilyRe: How Do I Show Appreciation To Someone That Sheltered Me by Vloml222(f): 7:07pm On Feb 17, 2020
A good portrait of the man n his wife is a very good one..it will go a long way in their heart...mbit the question how do you get their photos...??oh yeah! You can take it from facebook ....
RomanceRe: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Vloml222(f): 6:32pm On Feb 17, 2020
The truth is you should have asked her what she really wants...I mean , she the one going to carry the baby for 9months ,so it's up to her , not even you.....
And dear OP..you dont convince a woman for a long term stuff...allow her decide...so she wont use against you when it goes south....
FamilyRe: Can You Suck Mucus Out your Childs Nose With Your Mouth? by Vloml222(f): 4:25pm On Feb 15, 2020
Personally I cant do that ooo, so unsafe n unhygienic..
Sometimes I just imagine if you just suck it n mistakenly swallow..ha! Or as u dey suck am the pikin brain pass tru the nose come out.....yuck yuck!!!!
FamilyRe: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Vloml222(f): 4:42pm On Feb 14, 2020
It's so obvious, n you not getting it clear.
First your wife is the crazy type of woman
N she wants to explore.
Shes a bisexual so obvious
N she wants a 3sum
That ends it.
It's either you confront her now or regret later ,that's the truth..
I dont think you court her for long......anyways goodluck on how you handle it.
FamilyRe: My Husband Is Not The Biological Father Of My Child And He Doesn't Know by Vloml222(f): 6:43pm On Feb 13, 2020
LmAO! Seriously........you shouldn't have written madam..
I know your husband hes my colleague...n funny enough he knows ..he just waiting for the right time........ but fear women shall.............
Have you heard this saying...nothing is hidden under the sun..it might take a life time .but one day the truth knocks on your door.
RomanceRe: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Vloml222(f): 6:26pm On Feb 13, 2020
You could buy her a gift( a good ladies wine in a beautiful gift bag,dont add card oooo)..more like an appreciation on a wonderful day as val day...keep it simple n nothing more.
RomanceRe: My Valentine's Gifts For My Girlfriend Are Finally Here. Come And See by Vloml222(f): 12:01pm On Feb 08, 2020
Some of you are just saying things...dear op if shes worth it WHY NOT!!!!,but hope you got something more special for MUM?
FoodRe: The Urhobo Irhibotor Soup: A Life Saver (Photos) by Vloml222(f): 8:32pm On Feb 07, 2020
What is this na! You wan make salivate die.....I cant remember when last I ate that soup...anyways you miss am ....it goes well with starch n very cold water n bed to round up everything.....as in the kind dream after this meal ,na height oooo..
BusinessRe: Can 150k Start A Gas Refill Business? by Vloml222(f): 8:59am On Feb 06, 2020
It's more than enough oooo,but still need like 50k for registration as to avoid harassment from union.....you have to learn from someone like a week...you good to go..
FamilyRe: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by Vloml222(f): 4:42pm On Feb 03, 2020
My advice is getting just one car for now.
She goes through much stress on a daily base than you.
Dont get me wrong, like her job outside lagos,the kid to creche everyday with commercial vehicle...KUDOS to her....well get one car,you can both finance it...
RomanceRe: Tired Of The Loneliness by Vloml222(f): 4:37pm On Jan 08, 2020
This WATERVIEW,MAY GOD RESET YOUR BRAIN ,The Devil has used everything there....you just speak without any self esteem or control.....you are now God abi? You own destinies now...OYA ! START CLAPPING FOR YOURSELF......technician! You now know what is damaged n cant be fixed....idiotsombori!
RomanceRe: Woman Attacks Lady At Ikeja Mall For Trying To Snatch Her Husband From Her by Vloml222(f): 2:23pm On Jan 08, 2020
This lady just lost her man to that chick,looking at the video, the side chick maintained her cool,she could have bounced back to defend herself ,she didn't she just try to ignore n walk away...tell me this now,if the man saw this video,he wont feel remorseful or threatened that the wife has cut him but rather get embarrassed and seize this moment to be in the other chick arms because the chick respected n play matured,this will encourage the man more...women loves ,Men are logical.....
This is a very ,I mean very wrong way to save a marriage or home.......you dont just scratch because its unbearable...
In all of these now,she will go home and be apologising to her husband for embarrassing her own self....
Woman we should learn how to handle some certain situation...nothing every fight is won by shouting or clapping hands together......
FamilyRe: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Vloml222(f): 10:33am On Jan 08, 2020
I would have doubted such story but seriously alot ,I mean alot of unimaginable things happens these days,many have experienced n even can tell but let's save that for another day.My dear ifyjos(OP),I wasnt even shocked on what you did,you know why? You just young n naive ,that's one.
(2).you weren't guided on the mistake you made 5years ago,you where scolded,insulted n even casted with words by the years,n you lost your trust n confidence in your self n in your family..n the only one person that comforted you I guess was your baby daddy.n that's why you have so much believe and trust in him.you could kill for him.. know that feeling.it would have only make enough sense if the guy was worth it.but your up shows ,he doesn't even deserve a slap from you to your sister.


MY DEAR! Your sister doesn't hate you or look you less.
Have you ever stop .,or rather take a pause and place your self in her shoes.it is not easy for her,like you said shes the bread winner of the family...n there you are a liability n painful again you arent even waking up to reality, you still stuck with that one mistake 5years ago,believing in a boy ,that placed you in a family way at a tender age...anyways dear, your sister wants the best life for you,you should be in school ,pursing your dreams ,not wallowing with some irresponsible man..YES you made that mistake ,but dear you have your life a long way to go..you are just 20 n not 50..you should have focus on making your life better for your kid,you dont have to wait for baby daddy or even your sister.....
N what where you thinking ,that your sister should open a business for you,like seriously ,youcant even handle your shits together left alone business...n let me tell you something remove that clause "US".....focus on your self..I make a bet with you today...if that guy I mean your baby daddy makes it big tomorrow,that guy wont give a Bleep about you...he just been around because you are only is option for now....


N for what you did to your sister...dear that's inhumanity
No matter what she did to you,,said to you ....you had no right to slap her ,n jeopardising all she has laboured for....its an UNFORGIVABLE ACT you did...you have ruined your own family..even if she forgive you ,she will always be scarred for life ....but you dont have a choice here ,you have to own up for what you have done...Tell the truth....Go over to her fiance, tell him everything you did..before it's too late....it will be a different one if your sister ended up dead......May God have mercy on...n may your sins never affect your kid.....
N one more thing if all this over,go close to God
Focus n work on yourself,your trust should be on God n not man....
Make yourself a better woman n mother.
FamilyRe: My Kids Nanny Is Leaving - Urgent Advise by Vloml222(f): 3:50pm On Jan 06, 2020
[/quote][quote author=omonikiba post=85539729]This is so urgent now.

This woman is so nice to us, my kids love her and am heart broken she's leaving today.

I have being trying to manage her marriage, she has issues with the MIL and hubby, they don't want to see her around. Her husband wants to take her back to the village, we've done all our best, I knelt down with other elderly people to beg but the MIL insist she's rude and want her to leave.

I will really be hurt to see her go, who else can I trust my kids with? I leave my rooms open with no fear, she doesn't steal and obey all instructions to the letter. In fact, am soooo free with her around my kids.

I have two vacant rooms around, we don't mind housing her, my husband want her to stay with us but I said no, I thought about it carefully and so said no. My reasons are;

* I don't want to have issues with the MIL, we are both house owners, not just tenants that will depart sooner or latter so I don't want any issue with a fellow landlady.

* She is way older than me, I call her mama. So I hate to hurt an elderly person. Taking her DIL in will surely hurt her. And she might think so instigated the DIL against her.

* I don't want other landlords to see me as a bad person.

* What if something happens to this girl or what of if she starts to misbehave?

*My sister and older relations advise against it.

* Her MIL will do everything possible to tarnish my image in our estate.


This girl isn't a bad girl, she is this village girls that if you manage well, you'll get the best out of them but her MIL n hubby are phycos. Very difficult to be with. She's highly unforgiving. She insist this girl must go because she doesn't fit her status. But they saw the kind of person she is before marrying her.

Enough of too much talk.

What do I do to keep her without hurting her MIL.

If she leaves, the stress will be too much for me and I don't think I'll get someone else due to trust.

I need help.

Ignore my typos pls








I will advice you to let her go and do not interfere with her private life,as to protect you and your family...evil everywhere....wish the story were different ,like the said MIL n HUBBY isnt your co-landlords,you could have retained her n given her an accommodation..but dear your hands are tied here,you cant do other wise..just let go of her n prolly just financially help her ,as to sustain herself when she gets to the village till she is stable to get something doing.
Like its said ,wisdom is profitable to direct.

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