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i think anythn is possible, Obama became president, i thnk eventually cos of d color of our skin we might all begin to want pple to see us in a beta light, then evn d lil wayne's beginto try to portray a certain ''responsibleness'' + deir 'gangsterism. Change is possible.

i love your write-up man, true and then some.

girl i 'm so happy for you congrats,

i think i can relate to what you min now a lot better cos i got a proposal on the 14th and now i realyl understand what all the emotions are all about. it's something one shd never miss no matter how loong you've been dating.

again congratulations

is this a question at all

why don't you too 'save up' yourself for "that" girl so she wld also fell like the first person "to be there" so you can both live happily together in virginville.
(hiss) stupid thread

sistawoman:

Yes love can be blind.

nah i don't think love is blind. i think it can see, it just chooses to look beyond the imperfections to see the perfect one on the inside.

@ poster, well that's what she wants or rather she realized its not about the books or money, difft folks difft strokes

some of y'all might get this and some of you might not. here goes.
we come from a very large family where we have some people who can't take care of their kids but expect those who are well-to do-to take them as their own children.
i.e they give them to you when they are young like 13,14yrs old. then you take them as yours. you train them, teach them (or at lest try to) but most times these kids are so stubborn and untaught already, used to their backward way of life so it becomes a feat to train them and get them to become usefu lto themselves later on in life. some don't even want to go to school. on more than one occassion one wld resolve to other means but it could be disheartening and worrying.
my questons are:
1. they worth the trouble- these children or should someone not even bother taking them under your wings instead give the family a means of liveli hood or allowance

2. do yousubscribe to beating kids?

your comments wld be appreciated

MrCrackles:


Isnt your situation pathetic?

talk don finish

NL just answer his question without castrating the poor guy.
whether its him or his brother oh the question ne wetin he go do

@ poster,
forget about the girl cos i'm very sure she has forgotten about you.
tell your friend, brother or self to focus his energy and time on lookin for a job the girls would come easily then.
cheers

errrr what more proposal do you want, by the way by now you shd have your engagement ring on. you did intro and engagement and you never asked for proposal? abeg what's the use of doing engagement and introductionif its not for marriage? anyway if its bugging you sha you say you've asked but he's guessing?? i really don't get. maybe you shd ask ina joking manner" you know baby you never ACTUALLY proposed to me?" then he'd be like "really? i thot i did" or something. i mean so what did you guys say that he felt it was time to do engagement and intorductiona nd now marriage:/

yep!!! i dig what you mean man, i know someone who says keeping guy friends willl only lead to somethin you don't want, which overtime i've found out to be true . long and short of it, if you keep female friends, there has to be a purpose, what for if you can answer that effectively then you prolly can handle the continuation thereof, however!, for me oh, the male friends i keep end up wanting to be more than friends and if the guy feels the female friends he has kept end up wanting more than just friendship, then there is nothing wrong with him steering clear of females. being friends with them at work or school is a difft thing cos they are together for that cause. the guy himself said he's avoiding them, if he wanted to cheat on his giirl then he won't avoid them in the first place. although he has to have control over himself cos one day his gonna meet a girl who'd come running after him whether he likes it or not!!

@ ben20001
my thots exactly

@ poster,
they are not hard to get you're just not looking in the right places

@ poster and you really think you have something to complain about?
ok so would you rather a man who'd argue with you on every little issue? this man is just being HIM - a man; they are mostly babies inside and though they seem to act tough and all, eventually the fact that he wants your opinion on issues affectiing his life (whether small or big) means he trusts you enuf.
again i think you should be suspicious about this kinda person cos you haven't spent enuf time together for a long period of time. the fact that he's away like for the most part of your relationship means maybe whenever he's with you he wants it to be perfect which is perfectly normal for someone who cares about you. spend a long stretch of time together, but if you ask me i think you really have no basis for complaint but as with all women ""we can never totally be satisfied"" same goes for men.

Sea~Goddes:

honestly if a guy introduces me to their parents, i happen to know that they don't approve of me and there is nothing that will change their minds

about me, i will kindly end the relationship though i may really love the guy. cause eventually if the guy disobeys his parents and we get married,

it is really going to be hard for me to get along with them and you know nigeria marriages are, when u marry a person u are not only marrying that person

but also his/her whole family so it will definitely make me look like an outcast which will be very awkward to deal with.

however if i introduce a guy that i really love and my parents objects, it is going to be very hard to deal it, though they might know more about

marriages/ life and relationships, i must also put my won choices on the table, cox evetually i'm the one who is going to live with that person,

not them but it is going to be very hard

well it seems you already know what you wanna do.
find out from your 'rents the reason if its not cos of tribal or racial differences then sure, but if they say its "something" they can't quite place then truth is you shd watch him closely. most times experience has shown that the "something they can't quite place" is deceit.
But then again it depends on the kinda relationship you have with your 'rents
then again pay close attention to whatever it is they say it is they don't like about him especially if its that they don't trust him or his intentions. but if your "gut" tells you its ok, then go with it and to ohell with what they say, but be careful

Ben20001:


to the toilet

you're not serious

tonye-t:

@Vodka,

honey are you for real?

if u will come my way, i promise to spoil u that day, hope u live in Port Harcourt?

dont mind oga seun na ashewo him be

sure i'm for real now, the thing is i'm not in PH ohh i'm in lagos pity
whaddaya think??

when you are old enuf to take decisions as material as this on your own without asking the permission of a bunch of strangers.
when koo!!! how ni!!!

are you in love with him? if so then you being jealous is kinda normal(not leechy jealous but a little eeky if he does something like not call back or pay you enuf attention) well it cld be that or he's just plain insecure or maybe he's had some bad experience with girls and thinks you'd do the same to him. try to undstand him, you're the one dating him not us

i'm available,
rent me
where'd you take me

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Actually that sounds more like a black guy-- Naija guy. Na dem way.
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essss whaddayamin!!! don't try to paint them bad joh, i've gat a bf and he talks well also dated a whitey who just wanted to shag evertime so stop with the generalisation. ok that aside@ topic and you are complaining because?? maybe its cos you're a lot smarter with your mouth closed. just kidding or maybe he can't get over your sumptous delicious lips let him kiss you johhh

muscular men used to make me cream but some years on and i'd take a skinny thick man anyday any time

@ poster i feel can't really say i feel your pain but i know what you're goin gthru.
well permit me to say this but men like you are really rare and toooooo soft. that's your unbecomingness.

and to answer your question, well womanizing is not the answer, it's not who you are as in its not your person, so eventually you'd end up being more miserable than before.
need i say you shdn't take her back again? need i say you shdn't call her again? i'm sure you know this but the answer is you need to deal with yourself. being with someone that long and then a break up cos if infidelity is prety tough, trust me i know. pple say take a break, be single for a while, me! i believe its not about how long you stay single, i believe its how much happiness you derive from doing whatever it is you wanna do.get in touch with the inner you, take a break from being with someone (unless this is your weakness-you have to have someone with you- get closer to your family and male friends or female friends if you have any). my rule MAKE SURE YOU DERIVE HAPPINESS FROM IT!! even if its simply walking on the beach or listening to hard rock.
all the best in recovering and the next girl that comes along, when you notice these little changes hopefully you'd know what to do

cheers

@ hackney extremely funny profile picture

lovely poem, guess not so many women know this