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old post or not, i'd drop mine

@ poster this is what lot of nigerian women do
this is cos in Naija we make excuses for our men. "its a guy thing" "they are dogs" blah blah

@2cantango its not about whther she cheated in the past or not. in fact experience and life has shown that in most cases its the 'good' ones who this happens to. take an example from my aunt she married her husband a virgin never cheated on him alwasy efficient and all that, but now some 20 years on, he is an aristo father he doesn't 'put it in her face" but he's bin caught a couple of times. i wld spare you the other tales i have.

@ everyone who thinks all men cheat- not all men cheat, you just have to knw that.

anyways if he's cheating on you whether he's caught or not or you hear things from pple the truth is you wld know, word.
whether you wanna deny it while you know he's cheating which is what most pple do is up to you, but for me oh, karma is it

to believe in me

doggman gimme the puppy he's sooo cute. and who's the guy in the picture



@ poster there's nothing like the perfect place you can meet him/her anywhere anytime

errr, weird, very its not about the sex. do you love each other at all?. its not gonna get easier when you get married, if you continue without airing you views, well its up to you then but this ain't a reflection of a very good relationship.

ok, sorry eya pele!!!
are y ou not tiredo f being pitied. you need to GET over yourself.
what do you do? i hope to God you have a job or you're in school or something, cos then i'd advice you soak up yourself with work, activites, get too busy to think. occupy every single second until you're too exhausted to think about her.
everybody has suffered heartache at some point, but its not that that matters, its what you do with it.
go out, go meet some other girls, do some other fun things, smoking and drinking is only damagine yourhealth.
let your drive be that you want to be so much better that the next time she sees you she'd wish she never left
tkia man

ok here goes my story

Boy meets girl, boy is crazy about girl, boy asks girl out, girl greess, boy and girl begin to date for a while.
initially boy likes girl more than girl likes boy.
2 years  down the line with so much water passed under the bridge, girl not so sure, shd she leave shd she stay .
guys, boy has done no wrong, girl is just scared boy might cheat on her. girl scared she might like boy more than boy likes her, in fact girl likes boy more than b4 now, and girl never wants to be hurt so she wants to run away leave the relationship. does tHis make sense? can some person advice me, is this normal or pms.

by the way,girl did some sharp runs which she almost got caught in, now she's thinking boy might do same to her. and she doesn't want to lose!!!


what to do? shd she leave? shd she stay? is she being insecure or foolish or just being a girl?

Blood_Shed:
You fool, yes I'm serving, but no matter what I'm earning, it's still work. And since when did I say that Black females should take men hitting them? You dumb biatch. And you can make as many jokes about what you think happened, but at the end of the day I have spoken, so keep lying to yourself.
I bet you look like Donkey Kong dont you? That would explain why you're so offended? Who told you you're fine?, besides you're mother? And she's deceiving you too.

lmfaoooooo jezz had to wipe a tear
see i told you, you're such a loser

loserrrrr


oh besides cos i know you'd copy and reply this else you're not your mother's son which i doubt you are anyways, this will be the last i'd be posting on this thread.
eehhh watch the geek scream he wan comot him shirt ohh on top say you wan beat woman, you ain't seen nothing yet.

hahahahhaaaaaa

sweetie can i ask seriously, were you ever molested or abused as a child? or when growing up? if yes then you have to deal with it, its in your past.

Option 1-maybe you're not into men, maybe you're gay

Option 2- why are you nt comfortable in your own skin? are you oversized or something? sis, look whatever your size if you're big think Monique (phat girls) or if you're uber skinny think models. but most importantly[b] you have to have to [/b] love you b4 someone else can. look at you in the mirror what parts of your body do yo u love the most? touch yourself ( and i'm serious about it), what turns you on?
find out and do it
Option 3 you have too high expectation about what sex is supposed to be like and so when it comes to reality you don't wanna fall short.

i don't really think the problem is the relationship cos you said in your previous relatonship you had sex just because your boyf wanted you to.

you say when you see a cute guy you're turned on, i'm sure you thot of your bf as cute b4 dating him right? if not then you shd date someone else.

but discover your self girl

no, only mad weird pple who want to shag you!!

ok sweetie your english, its kinda confusing but i get like most of it.
of course you know he's not into you anymore, its painful but don't worry you'd only get someone better than him, if you don't leave he'd leave you. trust me i know.
you're worth more than scrambling for the crumbs of his heart

Laurnetta:
if he's a nigerian man then he's cheating and should should kick his sorry ass buttocks out of ur life.

aham miss, so what are you saying? like men in pretoria too don't cheat? right!
whether american spanish english italian whatever if he's gat these tell-tale signs then he's cheating. finish!!

obilizy:
Bloodshed dem go kill u hereooooo, all the ladies just they attack u
for this thread.
Have u forgotten that they went to benjin conference
the mentality of that conference is still fresh in their head
WHAT EVA THE MAN CAN DO WE CAN DO BETTER
oya n, o, w make dem give themself belly make we see

lol, very funny
don't let's get started on your own too oh.

by the way i can get pregnant all by myself. why?
there are sperm banks, and online daddies, ivfs from sperm donors(who by the way don't get to know the receiver) and more, so when you think about it, we CAN do without ya!!!

does it hurt?

Aint a female bashing thing, NOTICE I SAID it is NAIJA girls BASED HERE!!! Obviously it isnt all of them.

And I'm sorry but if someone is all in my face for no reason, trying to get at me like they want to fight FOR NO REASON, threatening and all that, and they continue then I'll slap them out of the way. That's a man's move, a man's move leads to a man's consequences, especially if you warn them. Alot of women out here seem to talk tough, how many times out here have I seen a woman slap a man in public but has the nerve to act surprised when a man reacts. What do you expect? Bottom line: Dont start touble with me for no reason.

And no I'm not jobless, I'm doing my NYSC out here.

Blood_Shed:
What is there not to understand here?

But one thing I DONT understand is how women always try and act tough and try hitting men, yet expect nothing back or act surprised when the man reacts, especially among Black people. If you don't act like a lady then expect not to betreated like one. Act like a big man and get treated like a big man. simple!

No 1. you are serving,, you , bloody corper and you're deceiving yourself you are working abi? where? in a bank  patata abi?
where the max you can get is 45k abi plus your 9k and you call that working? you tooo you count yourself with the working class?
lmfao you are not even close!!
we know ourselves and mr smalls who think you be treated like a "big man" you are so far from it.
oh gawd!!

No2 what do you mean by black girls? are being racist or something? are you trying to say we are black so that's why we'd take a stupid man like yourself, whether we live in Nigeria or the South of France, hitting us?
what are you retarded? it seems you didn't evenhit any lady, maybe she hit you and the other girls around like ganged up against you so now you think we're stuck up cos we stand up for our own and won't take shit whether you come from space or hell.
you busy ogling at what you can never have.hahahahaha
e pain you abi?

why don't you try it in where you're serving oh wait that is if its in a corporate environment not like a factory or something.

listen and listen good, if you ever lay your hands on a woman again i promise you, you'd never do it again. allah!!

chei:
absolute bullshit and total nonsense.
@poster be original self-servicer

an you;re an ass 'chei'

@ sima
this is an ode(that 's not yoruba) to your essence and you're too lazy to read it?? (shakes head)

@ poster
this is so beautiful, i could kiss you from here thank sthere ain't so many men like you out there any more.

i think they houses are very wow. yes possible. higher fences and probly in an estate or something also u wanna look at the island specifically lekki

if you get some govt to sponser it fine if not then some individuals have the money to finance this

that julius berger will build it yes but they are not the only

i thin you shd introduce this to the market fast man
all the best

ohaechesi:
i would take that for a joke or else you wont tell me that you are not aware the major cause for broken homes today was as a result of abuse on that private part by women. don't pretend being ignorant of the fact that most women divide that precious part outside their matrimonial homes. then tomorrow the same woman will turn up with some kind of excusses to the hubby, share me that crap

you call it abuse to the private part?? what are you talking about? sex or rape? that is not the cause for broken homes today.

yeah and i would take it that it is only the 'woman' who are guilty of infidelity in marriage. in fact i wldn't put it past you to say they arehe major cause right? like men don't cheat? they don't beat their wives?they don't abandon their kids?they don't sleep with the maid or her best friend even though she"respects" the hell outta him?

you know what? ou're not making a lot of sense next pleasssseeee!!

izeek:
"doesnt have a boyfriend"

dont u seem to think thats the reason u dont have a boyfriend?

mr english, just answer the question and stop doing work you were not sent. we want a val date. btw mr John chucks, Jesus wept!!!
now i understand why. na ya kind we dey find? next please!!!

to date him/her or not to date him/her

you are the master of your own life but i guess you don't know that yet right?

epi:
oui, l'honnêteté est la meilleure ligne de conduite.

c'est speakee zeee englizzhhh?

@poster, well it depends you know. sometimes you wanna act right and tell alie onl at the end of the day it only lands you in bigger trouble. take for exampple in a relationship you tell small lies to protect the one you love only it comes a round and bites u in the ass.
for me thereis no hard and fast rule.
its not true tha if you lie you'd get caught sometimes it just works out, but don't take liberty for license. i believe if its for a good cause, why not.

just be smart about it.

[/quote][quote author=ohaechesi link=topic=221274.msg3364893#msg3364893 date=1232454865]listen, to hell with you all good for nothing (acclaimed degree holders) Chic's. the way you ladies laments are quit disgusting. ok if you should share of the same right with your hubby (demanding respect from him first), why don't you go out there and get your self a husband rather than waiting for donkey years for one good man to approach you and turn your life around. make you a woman and crown you with dignity. for Christ sake who the hell are you (women) to question the authority of your man? Let me quickly remind you that what men needs from you is just the kids. whereby you think you've grown wings, to your tent oh Israel. why wont you "divide before he comes out from the bathroom" whereby if he should embark on a trip, you will serve it as kola even to your house boy . una never hala until una eat gala

WHO THE HELL ARE  YOU TO TALK RUBBISH ABOUT GOD'S GREATEST CREATURES?
listen this respect thingy is both ways.
its obvious from your post that you're both immature and not very smart. oh you must be like 10 right?

because the few women you've met in your lifetime happen to be cheap whores who "gave it to their houseboys" DO NOT qualify all women by this xter my friend.

i don't use any sis. it gave me serious boils men. (not funny).

i just use sure spray, works for me keeps me smelling great all day

smooooooth:
find out who she was talking with, cld be her girl friend, girls say that alot to each other,they all potential lesbians yet to discover themselves.

woooohhh is that like a recurring fantasy of yours or what? like probly all guys are gays just about to discover themselves too(hiss)

@poster why didn't you just ask for Bleep's sake. something you cld have ended on the spot you dragged it now just cos of the word "i love you"
if she's seeing someone serves you right cos i don't know why she'd be wasting her time with you in the first place when you're not just man enuf to get issues resolved on your own, you have to bring a bunch of confused, oversexed & under sexed, mature & immature strangers to the issue.
you knw what? here's some advice look her in the eye and ask"do you have a boyfriend or since we split did someone take my place or are you seeing some one right now" whichever works for you.

the problem is you married him for the wrong reason-because of PITY. well so what do you expect?
i realized a man who constantly accuses you of infidelity is himself an infidel so what are we talking about?
sweetie, confront him about the voice mail, then keep your lips sealed about the other man,then make up your mind to be better and never do it again
or just keep shagging the other man, cos you can't be sure he just might be doing the same thing to you.
but if you wanna really save your marriage go see a marriage counsellor but keep your secret secret there no use it coming out.