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PoliticsRe: 2023: Taraba CAN, Party Chieftain Criticize Tinubu Over Muslim-Muslim Ticket by Voltariane: 1:24pm On Jul 11, 2022
Muslim Muslim ticket. My question is if it was a Christian Christian ticket will it be allowed? I see these as a segregation. Are there no Christian in the north or better still pick someone from the East.
EducationRe: Strike: FG Breaks ASUU’s Rank, To Release Withheld Salaries Of Medical Lecturers by Voltariane: 9:31pm On Jul 08, 2022
When you vote in people with questionable educational background, how do you expect them to take education seriously.
TravelRe: Emirates Cancels All Flights To Nigeria In Retaliation To FG Once A Week Flight by Voltariane: 10:09pm On Dec 10, 2021
[quote author=slimjohn2k5 post=108389227]Na still Naija go loose
Dull govt[/quote



Can't anything good come out of your mouth. When good is done we applaud, when bad is done we rebuke. ]
PoliticsRe: New Converts Stab RCCG Pastor To Death In Lagos Church by Voltariane: 9:02am On Dec 09, 2021
God can allow the enemy to take your body if your work on Earth is done but your soul is his. But the perpetrators should face the full wrath of the law next time they will not allow the devil to use the
FamilyRe: My Wife Refused To Swear That She Does Not Cheat by Voltariane: 5:14pm On Oct 22, 2021
Afodot0022:
Good day my fellow nairalanders. Pls pardon my typo errors and will just make this brief as i can. I need your inputs in this scenerio that is giving me some sort of concern.

I have been married for close to five years now and have two kids to it. My marriage to my wife has been ups and down but have always tried my best to be a responsible husband and also father. I ensure I take care of my home financially to my capabilities.

My wife happens to be a good wife though with her own flaws as she is not perfect. She always has the notion that am cheating on her and have a side chick. But to be honest to you guys, i have never had sex with any other woman except my wife ever since i married her. Though at times the temptation might come to catch some flings out there but will later decline such thought and abort any action have made to do it on the long run.. At times my wife will read chats I do have with some random girls and have the notion that am cheating. I know i have been wrong in this but attimes a man will want to be a man but as i said earlier, have never had sex with those girls. Just random chats that all and it doesnt go further or lead anywhere.

So it happened that me and my wife had a very serious misunderstanding recently that resulted to verbal abuse and also almost physical violence from the two of us. The last time i intended to have sex with my wife, she denied me and this had been in my mind and got me so angry towards her. So it happend that she needed my help for something and did not help, she started shouting and nagging and this got me angry and i almost hit her but i didn't. During those heated moment she started saying things about my cheating and so on. She said if am not cheating that i should swear with bible but i refuse to swear that night. Upon the following day i decided to even swear with bible that i have never had sex with any woman ever sinced i married her. I know i was innocent and i truely swear that very day to make her change her mindset and perception about me.

After the swear, something happened that makes me confused till this very day, I ask my wife to also use the Bible to swear that she had not cheated or slept with any man ever since she got married to me. Could you imagine that despite all my efforts to make my wife to swear using the bible, she refused bluntly that she will never do such. I asked her why but she insisted she is not going to swear.

This got me concerned and was asking myself why is this woman refusing to do this if truely she is innocent and doesnt have any skeleton in her compound. Her excuse was that she cant use the world of God to swear but mind you she is the one that prompted me to do such at first. I even seized her phone that if she doesnt swear i wont return the phone to her but despite my threat, my wife didn't not.

This lasted for hours and I later gave up on the quest. Ever since then have not being myself and have been thinking alot. My wife doesnt look like someone that can cheat on me cos have not seen any traces as such but with this her action, its making me to have a rethink about her.

Pls house i dont know what step to take as i need your mature advice on way forward on this issues troubling me. Every input will be well appreciated especially from married and experienced people.
First of. You shouldn't have swear as a Christian. The Bible says let your yes be yes and let your no be no. Moreover, thy shall no swear. Peradventure your wife might not be cheating but only acting on what has been whispered into her mind by the devil the home breaker. The devil is wise. When he wanted the fall of man he didn't go to Adam but Eve . It was not just a day whispering it took time he kept on convincing her to eat the fruit. What am saying is that there was something to hold on to by the devil which is the fruit. In your case it's the chat. So he keeps whispering into her mind that you are chatting and that she too can do same abi loose trust in her sight. Read the fall of adam and eve. You will understand. That the energy wants to still your joy in marriage but the only way to do that is true your wife the weaker vessel via your chat with other girls as the foundation. My 2 cent
PoliticsRe: Don't Call Them Terrorists, Call Them Bandits: NBC To Media Houses- Steven Kefas by Voltariane: 4:38pm On Oct 22, 2021
Fomorosa:
I have said it before, these are Names of Top 6 Terrorists in Nigeria

1. Buhari (Chief Terrorist)
2. Malami (Principal Terrorist)
3. Pantami (Senior Terrorist)
4. Gumi (Terrorist I)
5. Alhaji Lai (Terrorist II)
6. [color=#D70040]Hell[/color]-Rufai (Terrorist III)


This is exactly why we are yet to be completely rid of Terrorism, Dogs don't eat dog

That is why ppl like vulture griller receive(and will continue to receive) so much hate on this forum. No person with functional brain will clap for this regime
These says it all about our Muslim leaders calling black white and white black
Taqiyya is a practice whereby an individual may be less than fully truthful, when such an individual is reasonably afraid that the consequences of being fully truthful may place him or her into serious jeopardy by an oppressor. In other words, if telling the truth is going to place your life or wellbeing at risk, you can say what you need to survive and stay safe.
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Voltariane: 8:34am On Sep 28, 2021
Is it possible to pair fire with fire and not have destruction? The answer is no. Mr oga what you need to do is pair fire with water. The two will balance each other
SportsRe: Anthony Joshua Loses To Oleksandr Usyk By Unanimous Decision by Voltariane: 9:05am On Sep 26, 2021
Aj no p. You lose you lose. All them wey they bad mouth your lost be the same people wey them sweet mouth your win. I know say come another day you go make naija proud again. I hail oo
FamilyRe: Do You Want A Career Woman Or A House Wife? by Voltariane: 6:27pm On Sep 22, 2021
House wife or a career woman. Looking at what the economy of Nigeria is saying wo I would go for a career woman. Two heads is better than one
Science/TechnologyRe: Silicon Valley Start-up Backed By Jeff Bezos Is Trying To Create Immortality(Pix by Voltariane: 10:04am On Sep 16, 2021
Humans trying to play God.
CrimeRe: Mistress, 26, Baths Housewife With Hot Water Over Husband by Voltariane: 8:11am On Sep 16, 2021
Nothing side chick no to use madam eye see undecided undecided

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