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I am a nigerian man with a lot of educated African American friends that definately do not think like you. To stereotype African Americans as only dating africans out of desperation is just worng. The few in the family that raise their eyebrows to their family marrying an African are just ignorant. Every culture has its good and bad. stereotypingis born out of the fear of the unknown and can also be attributed to attempts to validate yourself and hide your insecurities by demonising a group of people.

I hear some African Americans critisize the white man for stereotyping them with a lot of derogatory things (I am ashamed to mention) only for the same people to turn around and stereotype people they share the same roots with. This is very hypocritical, shallow and outright disgraceful very well said.

yes ladies can and most do only date one guy

madam, i understand how you are feeling I'm also getting ready to marry a Nigerian man I'm afro-American, yes it is scary but at the same time it's exciting we will be moving to Nigeria (calabar) in January so I'm just going to enjoy and en brace my new experience . so i suggest you do the same he will teach you what is most important to him and that is what really matters. and what really matters to me is that we have made an agreement to return to the states ounce a year so other wise I'm ready . so take care and enjoy the experience.

I agree with fimmy

yes I can marry a man shorter than me height does not have anything to do with him being a man .

lanegra , I too will be traveling to Nigeria this January I'm excited i have been reading up on everything and I'm taking a online course in Yoruba my husband has already instructed me on somethings like I'm not to travel anywhere alone (he will have a driver for me at all times) do not drink the water only bottled water , Don't go to the servants part of the house , and many other things I plan on visiting Abuja,port Harcourt, calabar and Lagos . i have a full schedule but he has already warned me that i might not be able to get to everywhere i want to go . But never the less I'm going to enjoy myself.hope you do the same.

Take him back but make his life a living hell first then he will know not to take you for granted again. i hope you beat the holy hell out of them when you caught them.even when you go back demand to know his where abouts at all times and do alot of pop up suprises on him and if he complains let him know that this was what he wanted.

No she should not cheat what happend to her respecting her wedding vows.Not to mention she has only been married 6 months shit thats no time at all what it Say's is that she is not committed to her marriage. And that married man is a piece of trash cause if he will cheat on his wife he will defiantly cheat on you .whats a marriage without a few ups and downs .my husband can fuss until the cows come home and i would not cheat. you need to end your friendship with this man before your marriage wind up disloved.

I think men cheat more . and most women know how to cheat and seldom get caught.

It is never OK to cheat. think about if the shoe was on the other foot.How would you feel.

no

I brought a 1998 kia sephia brand new with only five miles on it I had so many problems with it I will never by anything made by kia ever

old glory there are some very good auctions here like I AA most of these cars were running before they came to the auction and only need body work . I have done very well with them. It's true about trust I have had a screaming match with a guy over shipping and wiring money. It's a headace.

stumble on this site accidentally and just fall in love?

I think people can marry who ever they please but me myself I love a black man his nationality really does not matter .But i can say I'm not attracted to the white man .

True love is alive and well it's just that people are not willing to work at there relationship.

I would stay , as long as he is trying to better himself .