Bouz: The thing is most ladies, go for guys that are after just sex, without them knowing. Just because the guy cojld provide all she wants like shoes, bags, pocket money and has a car. You want to settle with him because he is man enough to provide for a family, now the question is does he also want to settle down with you, or is he after your ass, since he has what you want, my dear don't play your self oh, love who love you. Whether he has or not, you too will grow together or rather love who can provide for you, but when your ass gets dumped, don't come here to scream how men are scum, cuz i think your the scum here .
why not advised men too to love who loved them too?
donaldwhal: This one world-class? I laugh in Ikwere. Anyway, in a town of blind people, it is a one-eyed man that is made a king. For the record, this is not world-class o. It’s just bricks and steels cladded in colored aluminum. May be it’s in a class of best Eastern hospitals sha. Nigerians, our eyes too dark. Looters and politicians have colonized people’s brains with poverty.
Skillsnigeria: Sorry for your life, because am chatting with you, am now your mate. I run a company, Houses and cars are just few of what I have. Yes I started with a shop many many years ago to use as office, every successful business man today have an humble beginnings
ravensckar: Of all the useless posts that I've read today, yours is the most useless. The way some of you type at times, one can't help but wonder if you reason from your anus.
There's nothing absolutely wrong with someone who hasn't achieved anything at 27. He still lives with his parents. So? He hasn't got a job or a wife? Ehn? So long as he has his education, skill and focus (not deviating from his goal). He will definitely make something out of his life. For your information, at 27 too, despite being a graduate, I was still living with my parents. I was working tirelessly but still earning less than today's minimum wage. Whenever I heard the word 'marriage', my soul will depart my body in fear. Fast forward to this moment, the Lord has been extremely faithful. Man is balling and enjoying life. How did it happen? I never lost sight of my goal and the day an opportunity came knocking, I was at home to receive it. No knowledge or certificate is ever a waste unless the bearer doesn't understand what education entails.
PS- Dear graduates (both fresh & old) please keep your spirit up and never lose sight of your goals. The Lord will answer your prayers.
halleluyah!
Please bro if you don't mind to help with any opening in your place of work, i seriously need something doing to put food on my table
Ekeeyhandsome: Nope u r not a failure..this is my story I left Nigeria at the age of 28 and made my first 1m year later, 3yrs after I'm worth morethan 15m.. I'm still grinding though, cox the only thing better thn money is more money
zubinike: Your failure is coming here to share this ......oga don't allow time, people or resources determine your success growth.
My 10kobo, Do not despise days of little beginning. Get yourself involve in something doing, a skill or two......and pray for Grace. No late comer to success.
sincerely speaking that's what some people used to measure their success growth
KingofHearts: Way back people open their doors to one another, sharing and exchanging ideas and resources towards collective prosperity.
People move from villages to live with relatives so that they too can succeed.People stretched limited resource towards getting kinsmen educated or financially better through trade support.Hunger wasn’t so spelt out and this visible because your neighbors will call you to come and eat!
There is crazy hunger in the land and level of unemployment is crazy.Men who don’t have money will not marry, anyone without the link to progress in education or make better career decision will look behind and hopeless.
Why does it look and feel like some are behind in our world of today.It is simply because we have forgotten how collective prosperity got us there!!! We no longer open our doors to support each other,our walls use to be low but now higher than the building it’s self,we are always looking for means to defraud and scam each other rather than help each other.Other people cannot correct our children in our absence, families now avoid one another because they don’t want to help,it is now me and my family only.
We are now backward as humans and as a people and need to re-trace our footing towards a path that helped us all..the helpful path of collective prosperity!!
On a lighter mood****if you have husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend you are not using share with or gift someone who is in need oo,if you have spare shoes,clothes please decongest that wardrobe and share,if you have food items in excess kindly ask your neighbor if they need…Buhari time is not a joke ooo
this is a wonderful writeup You are absolutely right bro. Greed is also another major problem eating us deeply.
Myself and i want the best ride, houses, accessories, beautiful wife/husband et al without putting the needy into consideration.
Caleycashh: You better tough up bro!, someone asked if you're dead will they call you!?... She's 100% stating reality, distance yourself from demanding people and achieve something for yourself!, cus if you are worthless or even dead none of them will care!, na person wey belleful dey give person food wey im remain. Really at the end it's you and you alone that matters most, it's an unfair world we live in!
not everyone has that mindset to get tough
Naturally giving is part of some people, the moment you asked they give. Expect you don't ask
Even if you don't ask, they might want to know how you've been fairing. Especially their nuclear family and perhaps closed friends/associates
Caleycashh: Don't mind that guy, na their type they spoil family and are highly manipulative, them no go hussle but wan chop because una relate!... As Naija be so na only my Mom I send and the sending na when I dey alright!... I no follow anybody come this life and I can firmly say even ant no go follow me go!
Lol
In a nutshell you owe no man, with exception to your mum
Divoc19: It's also not fun the see her in helpless situation either. This is what has made our youth desperate for money The Pressure is always too much from loved ones.
Absolutely
It's still boils down on individuals/family's orientation. You don't have to cut corners or easily get influenced by peer pressure, all in the name of you want to put a smile on someone's face.
He can't hoard the money in his account while his mum goes hungry, he has no choice than to support.
Theunbothered: Buhari is not a president, he is a parasite. He just wants to maintain the status quo and cash out. If Nigeria succeeds or not isn't his concern as long as he can go for trips abroad.
Octobertwentysix: You are sick, they aren't the cause of your hardship just look and pass Dem no even send you. Nigerians and bad bele they can never be happy for other people
especially the female folks
I still can' comprehend the reason behind hating ladies by some nairaland guys
harjay1986: aside ota in ogun state mention any part that there road dey bad ... am not sighting that there is no bad road ... but the percentage will be 80% to 20% most all the state has their own but ogun state is not worse in term of road network
exactly my point
Ogun state is not that bad completely in terms of road network
Jashub: [s][/s] You're talking rubbish oga. It is on record that for centuries the south has always been food-sufficient and all crops grown in the north have been grown in the southern part of Nigeria. To make matters worse, even the so called "food production " you boast of in the norrth is always begging for government grants and subsidies every bloody year. Which just goes to show how truly useless your region is. Nonsense