₦airaland Forum

german01:
why?

The owner of the job done collect am already.. all these ones na paparazi

tataiwo09:
presently I'm having two options now, either to go for msc in urban and regional planning or msc. in remote sensing/GIS...Although my first degree is URP....What advice can u give me my people....ur guy needs u

we are in the same situation

My first degree is in planning

Your career prospects will determine

tensazangetsu20:
That's 200 USD o. 20 USD per month. Chei

seriously it's not being easy in this country

MadamVanessa:
Come rain come sun, our darling Tinubu must make sure that he installed MC Oluomo as the next governor of Lagos State.

Call him tout or thug, we dont care, but all what we know is that our darling Tinubu will not hesitate to make Oluomo the next governor.

All these just to get cheap likes..

slyfox35:
The word "Baby Mama" started as a tiny dot in today's society but now that dot has become so large,Baby mamas here and there,Gone are the days where Getting married was a must and an achievement in Nigeria,Most young guys these days just need a child,but there are still some who will prefer to get married though,settle down and have a nice family,but how possible is that with this generation.
Which brings me to the topic of why baby mamas are so rampant now,let's remove unwanted pregnancy out of it, because,most of the "baby daddies" are well to do,and gladly accept the baby. So we wouldn't say it's finance.In my opinion,I prefer baby Mamas,why?
Answer: I am not shaming nor mocking girls of this generation,but the fact is most of them can't keep a home,hence the high rate of divorce between couples these days,the generation of our mothers are long gone in the marriage sphere,where would you see a woman that can bear all what our mothers passed through and still stayed in the marriage.
These days,a little problem in the marriage sparks feminism quotes, independent woman quotes,bla bla bla.
Not to talk of the promiscuous stories we see in marriage stories these days.Why marry when you can't keep your legs closed to an outside body.
The advent of the internet really played a big role in limited marriages and happy homes these days,a girl of 14 those days is mostly innocent and ignorant of the world,a girl of 13 these days is in her room locked up but has the world with her in her phone,she can see and hear anything.
The males are not left out too,some really have unapologetic and obtuse attitude..I envy the era of our parents.
I prefer baby Mama, because I nor fit for drama,I nor fit for heartbreak,them nor dey see strong man for heartbreak o,if e catch you,then u will understand
Which do you prefer,Wife or Baby mama?

Wife, a companion

chiiraq802:
Not only in Enugu State.... Nigeria as a whole the poverty level is really increasing cus of bad and corrupt government.

People hardly eat 3 square meal talk less of balanced diet.
Nigeria as a country is really blessed but we've had and we still have Disasters and Calamities in place of Politicians running the affairs of this country.

Amadioha/Ogun will never forget our Politicians and there lineage. death to them all.

For guys that uses Food to lure girls for sex just because dey(girls) are hungry, pls stop it . It does make sense at all.
Na person weh dey alive dey *LAMBA* .

I don't know what to talk about this APShit and Mannequin Government.

This quota system General regime take Poverty from change to next level .

Yeah it cut across board

Not just Enugu. It's a national menace!

Treetimes:
Being part of the NYSC and depending only on your NYSC Allowances might be very difficult, especially when you have exhausted your last month allowance even before getting the next allowance. And the month is yet still very far we for getting the next one.



There steps are very quick and easy.. No addition hidden charges..

stop deceiving people, you don't loan corpers such amount of money

Respect yourself please

ehinorlive:
please I have interview next week in government organization. I am considering wearing native with palm. this is because of my physical challenges as I can't wear shoes on suit.

note that am on crutches. it is okay?

You don't have issues with that

Best of luck

ejire042:
still open for those interested

Those who applied are yet to be called

ChizzyBuna:
Na you dey carry the belle
Omo which kind dullards full this forum.
Abortion wey girls dey do like say na normal normal. U come here dey talk rubbish.. as long as pikin neverc form
Nothing dey wrong. My only issue her be say she no gree. If u can't give mature advice then please leave

Guy

If you must do abortion for her let it be D&C, in a good standard hospital

It's safer there

Don't risk giving her drugs o... it might affect her womb

DoggoneDogg:
She needs NEPA bill just like her boss

i thought the boss was long dead and being cloned

Abi was there more than a boss @Asorock?

Galloman:
Pls who knows about GIZ Nigeria salary scale?

it's a good coy

Do you get offer there?

Fuckyoumod:
you are a daft person.

What a nonsense response!

You don't know anything about marriage or family bond.
You are the type that would milk your sisters and brothers married or unmarried dry.

Marriage is bigger than that useless family bond of yours. A family bond that does not respect marriage is nonsense.

Now let me tutor you, so you don't go about breaking peoples marriages, when a lady is married, her husband and children becomes her number priority! She starts building her own home. This is how God has planned marriage. That does not mean her siblings father and mother are number two priority, No, rather she must find a way to reach out to them and carry them along as family too.

It is optional dear, when you eventually get married, please follow my advice to avoid divorce.

when the man get married too the woman becomes his first and number 1 priority right?

Let me also tutor you a bit

If a woman is seriously ill that the man has utilized every available means within his reach, medically, spiritually and what have you and yet nothing comes out of it, no changes

It will definitely get to a stage that the man, his family or friends will advise him to take her to her family to see if they can do something about it simply because he has completely utilized all means

But if the said girl is with her family and seriously ill, the family will definitely see to the end. It wont even cross their mind for a second to go dump her for any person

That's the difference between FAMILY and HUSBAND/WIFE

A man/woman can forsake you, but family can't

And even if family forsake you, not all
You will definitely have 1 family members be it father, mother, sisters, brothers, cousins, uncles, aunties et al that will never ever forsake you

jaxxy:
The fact ur are trying hard to compete with her siblings is disgusting just because u do things for her. Competing not with her Frnds bt her only family. Emotional connection is not about who does things for u and then demands u listen to them cos of it ok?

It is about who makes u secure.

So if her boss in the office does all these things u listed here including the hospital links he should automatically demand to be more important than her family because of it??

Just listen to ur self?

U don’t have a clue have emotional security and attachment works. It’s not by demanding it like a lecturer.

I have to conclude ur are either a highly insecure or a very selfish and self centered person.

If u do anything for sm1 u record it and can demand their 2 kidneys for it in future because u did what nobody has done b4 4 them?

Listen to ur arrogant self properly. Then look in the mirror.

The Guy don't deserve that good girl

He thought family love is determined by material things

wirinet:
The OP never asked his girlfriend to throw her family away. He is only asking for them to allow them start their own family without undue interference. If the family can leave their sister in the cold because she decided to start her own family, then that family is very wicked and selfish.

that is how they start

He will take the girl out of her family reach

Na from clap dance take dey start

I love the girl for the genuine love she had for her family

wirinet:
It is wrong to place family over husband (or wife).

ok e right to place husband/wife over family?

DonBenny77:
Good person! I'm dating an orphan I can relate to what he said, my girlfriend's brothers would collect rent from late late dad's property and she won't get a dime. Where the family love?

look at you

You place family's love on materials things

Even if they didn't give her a dime and she still chose to love her family deeply then let it be

Her mentality for love for family differ from una type of material love for family

plaetton:
I think you're an insecure man for expecting your girlfriend, not a wife you have married, detach herself from her family just to please you.
And how dare you try to paint her family members in unpleasant colors.
What about yours ?
You're probably more envious that she has a closely knit family than you have.

The guy no be good person

He was even saying if things goes south he will be the one to stand by her not her family

The guy forget the adage Family over everything

lyndaway:
Family over everything.... family is everything..

Mario Puzo...

Op you’re a selfish human... if Na my sister Godforbid you marry her

Anu

i swear down

The guy dey annoy me

Instead of him to support and show her much more love

Kondomatic:
Ordinary boyfriend wants his girlfriend to detach from her family. Imagine what would happen when he eventually marries her.


I wish the relationship ends this evening, the girl deserves better.

i swear to God

I wish I'm a witch, i will scatter the stupid relationship instanta

bigpicture001:
But we are planning to marry...and I dint mean cut off from ur siblings...I mean pay more attention to ur relationship and and get more involved with ur man...ur brothers and sister wont take a biga risk for you than your loving husband and boyfriend...

Guy you are wrong

Her family will sacrifice and take a bigger risk much more than you

You talk as if we are all dumb.. You are absolutely wrong with that statements

Nbotee:
Ur galfriend not wife... U haven't married her yet and have no right to complain about her attachments with her siblings. For someone who's an orphan U expect her to jus detach herself from her siblings ? And over a boyfriend? How selfish and unreasonable can U b.. If U marry her na complete isolation b dat na abi

My elder sister is a victim of this

The useless man took her far away from us, and my senseless sister accepted because of non existing

bigpicture001:
Must one be part of a family to show the most love and care....?

Which one is breaking..? Didnt youbread where she said she will always place her siblings over her hubby and even child she births.

You don't deserve that lady.. how on earth do you expect her not to love and cherish her family?

I'm not surprised by your actions though, it's a typical African man's mentality

She knows them first before knowing you

I wish that lady can drop your ass off, with this your materialistic mentality about family's love

Amotolongbo:
My submission is not on if the picture is recycled or not.

Our security men should start respecting the traditional rites or values, the way they accord these respect to Islamic and Christian values..

Can the security men pack the white garments, bell, prayer water bottles, anointing oil bottle and bibles as evidence of criminality in the Christian homes?

Can they do the same by packing “wontu“ bottle, “tesubau”, Quran and jelabia also as exhibits of criminality in a Muslim home?

Please respect them and don’t criminalize their values

Yeah you are right though

Nonetheless, the subject matter SUNDAY IGBOHO had been a threat to the national security of the nation, this according to the FG

What happened that very day by the security personnel is allowed and valid, this under the present constitution we practice

If the security personnel got an info of illegal possession of arms, ammunition, drugs et al in my residence, they're liable to come for thorough searching even without prior notice. Most especially the present state of the nation

I presume the security personnel chose to cart away with anything incriminating, threat and what have you to the community and nation and nation at large

In summative, i don't think the security personnel abused the traditional rites and value

This is security issues, not religious

FalseProphet1:
As the topic implies, I recently told it to a girl whom I felt was way older than the lifestyle she was forcing herself to live, I noticed that her mood changed and she went into a rage and said I insulted her... please house look into it, is it an insult?

And why do many girls see that statement as an insult?

it become an insult if you chose to focus only on the female folks

There are way lots of guys too

TheGidRedpiller:
Thats what women actually deserve just so you know. Men are now wise, they now understand their worth and they now know how to make themselves the price that they are!
If i were in the shoes of every guy that cheated on her, i would do the same! I know what you were after and i know you are not worth it!
You get what you deserve sis

That's your mentality and school of thought about ladies

Please don't make it general.

We aren't the same biko

larryking540:
I once asked a lady back in school what typ of guy does she want ,,god fearing ,blabla bla ..
5 years later I asked her again ,it was god fearing even if he doesn't go to church

see the more a lady goes old her value decrease ,,I say It again,their value decreases ,even if they hustle and huslte and 80 percentage rely on pay checks ,
while the value of a man increases incredibly mostly if he is a hustler

who then is the price ?

Are you in competition or what?

I no understand una o

larryking540:
my guy we are entering an era of if na olosho get good behavior na that one we go marry I swear

keep looking for good behaviour

You no sabi memememe

By the way, do you have good behaviour?

larryking540:
the truth is a man is the price ,lady have been long deceived they are the price ,,,,a man calls the shot if he will put a ring on your finger or not ,....

I can't imagine a girl friend can't even sit and plan with his boyfriend and u expect him to marry u,,some say if I ask him ,they will think I am a gold digger ...

I just laugh at lady they purpose to in public and reject the proposal ,,we are entering a different era and it's going to be very brutal ,

to all the good Ladies out there if you got a good dude hold him well

the video clip we just watch ,that lady is going back to square one again in relationship that's why she is all pained ,when I mean square 1 ,I mean starting over again ,from hi to can I have a date with you ,to when do you close from work ,,,,godddddd ,,na that part of relationship they tire me

I still know guys that run after women bumper to bumper for marriage o. Not dating

Guys too should cherish and adore a good lady also, they are hardly come by