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Celebrities › Re: Rita Dominic Looks Hot In New Photos by VTJN(m): 9:33am On Jun 18, 2021
Nomiyesupersaint:
Na packaging remain,nothing dey there
majority of humans dey package, no be today!
NYSC › Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by VTJN(m): 8:33pm On Jun 15, 2021
Nozino:
I haven’t been mobilized yet. Asking in case I need your services.
ok

Absolutely yes
NYSC › Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by VTJN(m): 7:52pm On Jun 15, 2021
Nozino:
Sir, can you influence posting to abj?
was your dashboard suspended?
Politics › Re: Ganduje's Stepping On Kwankwaso's Poster Not Intentional - Kano State Govt by VTJN(m): 2:18pm On Jun 14, 2021
Simplyleo:
Really?

Laff want comot my teeth. grin grin grin
Two of una funny I swear cry cry
NYSC › Re: Nysc Just Suspend My Account by VTJN(m): 1:59pm On Jun 14, 2021
Marks112:
Jeez ,they should not send me back to kaduna o
Don’t wanna die young
One man called me ,asked me who I paid to
Told him I didn’t pay for relocation
He sha started saying they can open my portal right now and still give me the relocation
That I should send him the screenshot of who I paid too
I said I didn’t pay to anyone
Filled form in camp and was relocated
yeah so I heard they've been calling people

I hope and pray they leave you guys in your new redeployed state... Hope for the best!
Family › Re: Not Ambitious, Wants Bride Price Paid Before I Travel; Am I Selfish To End It ? by VTJN(m): 12:08pm On Jun 14, 2021
lordally:
As in her statement made me go blank for few seconds!! As in how would an able body woman choose to be a stay at home wife!!

Nna ehn! The way some girls think dey make me wonder if na the same God create all of us!!!
yeah nothing absolutely is wrong in house wife.. some men prefer it

I pray God bless me, my wife will be a house wife

She will definitely enjoy every luxury of life that career women can't
Family › Re: Not Ambitious, Wants Bride Price Paid Before I Travel; Am I Selfish To End It ? by VTJN(m): 12:05pm On Jun 14, 2021
ibechris:
U are just a guy man.

How can u say that a lady of that kind is not ambitious. She is working,and even earning additional income from her side hustle.

To say one is not ambitious because she doesn't want additional certificate makes me wonder what kind of a man u are.
U that is ambitious what have u achieved after ur B.Sc u are just trying to look for a reason to dump her. That is all see here.

Good luck to u but don't forget to greet President Biden for me.
if I was in his shoe, I will definitely put her in my plans.. she's educated, she has a little monthly income job she does with additional side business

I'm pretty sure she's a good homely lady.. what else
She only needs encouragement to double up and never give up.
Family › Re: Not Ambitious, Wants Bride Price Paid Before I Travel; Am I Selfish To End It ? by VTJN(m): 11:58am On Jun 14, 2021
Brazenbabe:
It's wonderful how not wanting to further one's education has become the SI unit for unambitious.
Yet we would be the first to chant that Mark Zuckerberg and Co were dropouts.
Correct me if I am wrong but your gf didn't say she was going to be a kept woman. She only said she wants a small job with other businesses by the side.
People talk so much about how women change when they travel abroad, but conviniently sidestep the many examples of the men that have travelled and dumped girls who stood beside them or married wives there and had kids in the diaspora while maintaining relationships here.
You speak so much of how you want her to benefit your life, how would you benefit hers if you can't commit to her before travelling.
I do not see how she stops you from achieving your goals, married people and engaged people leave their partners here every day to further their education or look for greener pastures. I am yet to see people that failed to succeed because they were in committed relationships. Is not like you won't start a relationship when you get there sef, so what are you on about?
Having a less demanding job and some businesses would give her time to look after the kids you both would have, and you too. Besides, having all the degrees won't ensure she becomes rich, business doesn't mean she would be broke either. Someone has to take care of the family na. No? All these igbo business tycoons, how many degrees them get? Are you more ambitious than them?
People moan about career wives being to busy but still can't do without them, what do y'all want sef.
My sincere advice is that you break up with her, a clean break. Don't promise that you will keep in touch or anything because you would always feel like you are doing her a favour nd she is below the standards you have set for yourself.
Tell her she doesn't have what you want in a wife, block her every where and stay out of her life, for her own good. It would break her heart totally but she would recover and move on faster.
Meanwhile, you were in a relationship with her for two years and you had no issues with her lack of ambition, now obodo oyibo is calling and suddenly she is no longer ambitious. Women should learn o.
Aptly said

Seriously the op should take note of this
Family › Re: Not Ambitious, Wants Bride Price Paid Before I Travel; Am I Selfish To End It ? by VTJN(m): 11:35am On Jun 14, 2021
tosinhtml:
Mr Yesboss123 grin



Unfortunately or fortunately, depending on the angle you see it, you have a duty to your family to help your siblings in 5 years from now, your elder brother has already put down $50,000 USD. For those who don't know how much that is, It is 25Million Naira in today's Aboki FX rate.

I'm not even sure any of my family members except parents can spend that money on me, no jokes! They will rather buy themselves a new BMW.

The reality is that you have to forfeit the Love of your life for the greater good, just tell her you cannot pay any bride price for now. If she cannot wait, let her go and find someone else. You seem to love her very much, well prepare to keep in contact. Women know guys who have ambition, I can bet that she would never let you slip away. She might even be dating someone by the side while you are away but it would be nothing serious unless you specifically made it clear that you are no longer interested.

Keep in contact, avoid sending too much money back home to her, because humans are unpredictable.

But remember, as pocohantas said. The Devil you know is always better, If or when you decide to move on from her, better marry a Nigerian there o. Once you come back home to pick wives, you will enter one chance walaitalai.
Spot on! nice inputs

But she's a lady, she might be lucky to come in contact with a super driven ambitious young lad doing pretty well and if the op isn't committed enough while away this might easily pave way for her to opted easily for the new guy

Though it's a 50/50 chances

I love your input, op should consider it
Family › Re: Not Ambitious, Wants Bride Price Paid Before I Travel; Am I Selfish To End It ? by VTJN(m): 11:16am On Jun 14, 2021
pocohantas:
Lol. If she can be loyal when he is in right here in Nigeria with her, how is that format? You will see the main format when he comes back from that America armed with citizenship to look for a homebased wife that he doesn’t know her history.

While I won’t advise him to do any intro, I also won’t advise him to just end it like that. The devil you know…
Absolutely

He shouldn't discard her and should not do intro or marriage yet
NYSC › Re: Nysc Just Suspend My Account by VTJN(m): 9:45am On Jun 14, 2021
Marks112:
What have you heard?
I heard meeting will hold tomorrow and decision will be made

But someone told me that they might asked those who were victims to report back to their initial deployed state and given PPA
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Name The Worst Companies To Work For In Nigeria And Give Your Reasons by VTJN(m): 3:44pm On Jun 13, 2021
farady:
I beg to disagree. Some private schools pay moderately to very well. For instance I was surprise when i learn't that a staff in my children school earns above N260K. Other category of staff including teachers are well paid and they are fed at least once a day. This even better than most oil services companies in Lagos and PH.
interesting!

Please sir can you help refer me to get a placement there?

I'm a fresh graduate who came out top of his class

B.sc Geography and planning

I had some experience as a private tutor (physical and online) and class -room teacher

I can take Geography, Economics, English language and some other basics subjects.

Thanks in anticipation!
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Applied For 188 Jobs On Linkedin, No One Clicked. I'm Done Searching! by VTJN(m): 3:21pm On Jun 13, 2021
Ynix:
make it physical, attend their offline meetings
where where is their location?

I'm keenly interested!
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Desperately Searching For A Job by VTJN(m): 3:12pm On Jun 13, 2021
kerny:
Hey, you can apply for Zenith Bank, just drop your CV at their headquarters.
sorry please is zenith bank recruiting?

If yes, how can i put in for it?

Presently based in Lagos and out of job

Thanks in anticipation!
Politics › Re: Police Disperse Protesters In Lagos With Teargas, Arrest Several by VTJN(m): 11:22am On Jun 12, 2021
amazingspiderma:
That's how they cause peaceful protesters to become violent.

Anyway, what's my concern. They voted him in.

I will vote Buhari this time around if they propose a third term.

Una Neva see anything.
Lol
Politics › Re: Lagos Police Warn Protesters To Stop Advancing Gani Fawehinmi Park (Video, Photo by VTJN(m): 11:20am On Jun 12, 2021
ChangetheChange:
More Protesters are coming there
Dem never see anything.
Today na today
Thunder fire Buhari
Thunder fire all Buhari supporters
Thunder fire the Nigeria Police Force
go out and stop doing like NK
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which One Is Better, A 70K Private Job Or A 40K Government Job? by VTJN(m): 7:50am On Jun 11, 2021
Revere27:
Government job is best ooo... With room for improvement and promotion but you see that private Job naa rubbish...

They would use you and still be telling you that you're not doing up to the task given.. No appreciation of workers like that, they hardly give leave for workers.

Government you're free to do much things, sometimes come late to work leave early sef nobody fit hold you.... Try am for private you would know, by the time you're collecting 27,375 as salary your body go tell.


Government Job all the way.
see typical black man mentality

So you want to be less efficient and be getting your pay back to back

What a world indeed!
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NYSC › Re: Looking For A Good PPA In Ogun State by VTJN(m): 7:34am On Jun 10, 2021
TopOL:
Got relocated
ok..
But they are the one to assigned you to a LG and PPA first
NYSC › Re: Looking For A Good PPA In Ogun State by VTJN(m): 6:44am On Jun 10, 2021
TopOL:
Xame here bro....

HV u seen any?
have you been assigned to a PPA earlier that you reject or you got redeployed to ogun state?
NYSC › Re: Looking For A Good PPA In Ogun State by VTJN(m): 6:43am On Jun 10, 2021
dola139:
I'm currently in need of a good PPA in Ogun state with Accomodation and attractive stipends
Whatsapp 09026306050
were you redeployed to ogun state or you camped there?
NYSC › Re: Please I'm Having Serious Issues With Relocation. by VTJN(m): 6:30am On Jun 10, 2021
Prechos:
I was posted to ondo state, did my camp and tried relocating to Abuja from outside but was scammed. Ghosted it and now in Abuja still trying to relocate. it's 3months now and I paid again for it but now all its been showing on my dashboard is application in progress, I don't know what else to do cos I already have a job and things going in Abuja and it's both stressing and frustrating me. Any suggestions on what to do please cos I'm tired of travelling to ondo state for clearanc️ contact me I have a sure person that will help you out
Please I seriously need help.
NYSC › Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by VTJN(m): 6:28am On Jun 10, 2021
Marks112:
Please can a relocated state be changed
I paid someone for ogun but when I checked my portal it is kwara state ,when I called the person he said I should go home that by wednesday it will change to ogun ,hope he’s not just wasting my tine?
yes it can but requires meeting the right person with fund
NYSC › Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by VTJN(m): 6:27am On Jun 10, 2021
Crazeworld:
Can anyone please connect me to a reliable NYSC official who can run direct posting and redeployment?

I plan to be an agent for corps members and prospective corps members alike who are looking for a trustworthy plug

...and at the same time cautious about losing their money to online fraudsters. grin

PS: I need a direct source, not an agent
I have bro

You can contact me let's talk better
NYSC › Re: Help Am Confused About PPA by VTJN(m): 5:32pm On Jun 09, 2021
Adeoye11:
Boss abeg help me oo that one month too tey oo .bauchi is very far I DNT wanna go dea again.
Send me the person contact abeg
hope you've finally find someone to help you out concerning your relocation?
NYSC › Re: Help Am Confused About PPA by VTJN(m): 5:31pm On Jun 09, 2021
Marks112:
My connect also said wait for 3weeks but I got another person who did it in 24hours for 40k ,chat me up will give you the person number,don’t wait o ,their connect is not strong

Full details
Was posted to kaduna,immediately I got there for the camping , I paid this lady 60k to redeploy me to ogun my state of origin ,she told me to full relocation form in camp which I did,when I checked on Monday I saw kwara,she didn’t do anything,I started to regret cos kaduna gave people relocation anyhow ,but because I filled my state of origin I guess they wanted to punish me and gave me kwara �..then I called the lady she said I shouldn’t worry that I should give her 3weeks to 1 month,when will I find ppa,find house everything,I just told her to refund me my money,she started saying even if I go elsewhere that it will take that long ,I told her I will go to kwara like that
She sent my money sha
So there’s this nysc group I’m in the guy that owns the group does redeployment too ,known him for a year o cos I thought I was gonna serve last year ,I always view his status that he posts successful redeployment and all those stuffs ,I didn’t believe him
Then as I was crying on my way from kaduna I saw his post get your desired state in 24hrs ,since I don’t have any other choice I just said I should try him ,but before I paid I begged him ,question his life ,he just kept telling me as long as it is not lagos or Abuja it is sure
I paid 40k sha and sent my state code number ,name and login details and state I want yesterday night
Omo it has changed to ogun this morning I
E restrict my airflow
I just screamed cos that lady already told my mom that anyone that says he/she can do it less than that time is scam
It has changed o,si happy right now,my mumcy said I should try printing it to be sure ,I tried it showed on the letter that sososo with state number she sososo has been relocated from kaduna to ogun based on health ground effect from june1
Omo e legit mad
Just been thanking God
My mind is at rest now
Message me on WhatsApp will give you his number
Connect pass connect o��
welcome to the gateway state.. the industrial hub of the nation

I was also relocated to ogun state
Education › Re: What Happened When I Told My Class Mates That I'm On A 2:1 Not A 1:1 by VTJN(m): 4:05pm On Jun 08, 2021
NNAMDIII:
Person wey come out with 3rd class go still employ all of una las las grin
LMAO wink wink
Education › Re: What Happened When I Told My Class Mates That I'm On A 2:1 Not A 1:1 by VTJN(m): 1:30pm On Jun 08, 2021
kingemaker:
Maintain your over 4.0 cgpa, apply for all scholarships you can think of. Your distinction outside this shit hole is guaranteed.
i graduated with a 4.21cgpa, presently undergoing the mandatory national service (NYSC)

Do i stand a chance of getting a fully funded scholarship?

If yes, which of it would you recommend

Thanks in anticipation!

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