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yusfatedeeprof:
Do we thank God or Science?

God of course

Depression is real no doubt, but attempting/considering SUICIDE isn't an option

You're not left alone in this mess bro, most average Nigerians are faced with different challenges/difficulties coupled with the present situation of the country

Permit me to say this, why is that this present day youths are full of Coward? they can't withstand trials, they wander easily

Some of our parents do experienced similar situations, if not more. But they weren't killing themselves unlike ours

Some even kill themselves over a boy/girl friend

They resort to suicide over any little things, some even kill themselves over boy/girl friend

Like i said earlier, you're not left alone in this mess

I myself I'm also from a poor background with aged mother and siblings, no father (dead)

I engaged in all sorts of odd jobs just to put food on the table, i sat myself down one particular day and thought of how to better myself and family

Since i already know i can't cut curners just to make it, i had no option than to be delligent in whatsoever i chose

I concluded to enroll into the Nigeria defense academy (NDA) a tuition free institution with monthly stipend for her cadet

I didn't have much flair for military profession per say, but i see it as a means to improve our well-being

Having done with jamb and NDA screening exam, i got shortlisted for the final screening at kaduna. sadly, i couldn't make it because of finances

I let go and forge ahead with my struggle, i worked for some years, saved up and got into a conventional institution

I toiled all through my studentship, no food, no good clothes, no accommodation (squatted) just mention it

Today i graduated top of my class, i didn't let my challenges get over me or define who i am

Although, i haven't gone for service yet because I haven't gotten my certificate and other necessities.
Nonetheless, i strongly believe in God who has seen me thus far wouldn't keep me at bay this time around

Mind you, majority of my mates have all gone for service but that doesn't makes me entertained depression

I was able to push thus far because I'm hopeful of a better tomorrow, I believe things will definitely change for good and hopefully make my family proud

@OP if you have truly envisioned yourself making exploit, going places, doing great things et al... you wouldn't even imagine yourself thinking of SUICIDE Talkmore of coming to public forum threatening suicidal

Trust me your tomorrow is pregnant, it could birth breakthrough for you

No matter the condition you're presently, please don't take your life

You also need a friend, someone you can always share your view with

I'm also an introverted person, but i had few friends that i talked to whenever I'm down

Trust me things will get better, it's just a matter of time and season.

Kellibae:
Ntoooooor
Smelly afonja.
U think google translate will save ur ass.
Ewu!!

learn to canvas objectively, be civil. you don't necessarily have to be throwing tantrum here and there


Ntor, ewu and what have you doesn't hold water, no one is kid here, it doesn't get to them

Stop building a castle on the air woman!

shortgun:
The reason if you must know is that most of them are innocent...the police in the East are different from the police in every other part of the country.
They are monsters in police uniform in the East.
My happiness is that now before any police man pays bribe to be posted to the "lucrative" south east he will think twice.
Nonsense

Well done, Atorney General of IPOB

seriously una be comedian!!

Olatomiwami:
Are u serious or daft? Releasing criminals to your society is your idea of fighting your oppressors?

the guy na obonte, abeg leave am

lastmessenger:
this is nothing like BH. This is fighting against those who oppress Igbo people

Are you for real? Prison break is a way of fighting back?
A federal government owned correctional center?

Even if at all you want to fight back, do you ever imagine you can defeat the FG?

Seriously we need to start reasoning objectively

LauraClasikVibe:
drop your email

ibrahimakinwumi12@gmail.com

Hemmataiwo10:
ever since I graduated from uni in 2017, went for my Nysc in 2017/2018,av been a private secondary school teacher since then earning #12000 at a start and now #13000,as a matter of fact, a lot of thoughts overrun my mind every single time I remember a lot of money spent on my education(been a private university),the pains is that,even secondary school leavers are doing quite well,most of them are buying cars,building house and getting married.I dare not try these things.am just hoping shaa.

my brother i honestly feel your pain, seriously you have to be strong to avoid any sort of temptation

I can't imagine going to a private university and doing such kinda job, you are indeed a strong man

I went to a public university, ordinary because of my good result (top of the class) I'm always down sometimes

I'm from a poor background, i went to school with the hope of better tomorrow

It's not easy sincerely, ordinary to FEED takes an aquilian task for us

Nigeria wasn't like this before, things has really changed

You just have to be strong bro to avoid any temptation

May God help us all and show us the right way.

Gracias!!!

ibechris:
I earn less than that and I have three children.

But let me shock u,my side hustle has earned me close to 3.5million just this first quarter of the year.

The major thing is ur salary might be small but pls,ensure ur side hustle is bigger and regular to keep ur family going. No amount is too small,it is the small salary that built the side hustle for the past 9years.

please bro help a young aspiring lad on how to make money through your channel. Thanks

LauraClasikVibe:
If you have been duped or your money stolen by an "investment" "Ponzi" scheme

Reply here.

Name the Instution.

in response to your comments on the thread about those that earn 30k monthly, you promised to teach and guide us through on cryptocurrency trading

I'm keenly interested, but i can't get through the link you sent, I'll so much appreciate if you can message me directly on my whatsapp contact

08097040690
Thanks in anticipation!!!

Kingproy:
Huge outie navel is a sickness, that's why when you sleep the navel also sleeps

I don't think so

Syntaxbyte:
Please advice me on this.

There is a girl we have been dating for 3 years now, and we seem to be in a good term wrh each other, so I introduced her to my Mum which she welcomed her nicely. And I have got to know her Mum too (not her Dad yet).
She has been visiting my Mum for a greet even without both of use go together. I will just be notified by her that she went there.

So, both of us went there yesterday (Sunday) for a greet. I saw my Mum attitude against her, not so nicely like before. I then begin to observe tightly but noting to hold up on.

That night, my Mum called me that she needs to speak with me (I realized that she's about to talk based the girl).

Mum: Good evening son, I so much love you but that's why I will not kept quiet.

Mum: Your fiancee disrespect me so much. The last time she came, we were washing clothes. She sat down a bit and stood up later to wash, but she didn't even eash it well.

Me: Ah,

Mum: Likewise today (Sunday), she saw me washing clothes and can't even collect it, what if there is a visitor in between?

Mum: Just Incase you see me not so nicely with her next time. You should know that that's the cause. She disrespect me a lot!

Me: Mum, am s sorry, I will talk with her

Mum: No, don't say anything to her concerning this. I will change against her whenever she comes, till she ask that "Why" and I will tell her.

PLEASE, advice me, I so much love my Mum. But I want this girl to be a wife she proves to be.

Please what can I do?

if i know the girl, i will advise her not to marry you.

Cleanworld:
And you think that the mother is a fool ? ofcourse there are plenty ways to catch a fish

No any plenty ways, that girl should not marry that guy period.

You have younger kids and you expect your son fiance to do your laundry for you, who does that?

Emmydarsy:
my brother....In all honesty, it's difficult for someone like me or colleagues to help. We were just fortunate to even get employed back then as a contract staff, not to talk of the real staff. It's hard... recruitment are being done from Abuja.

I understand, thanks for the response

It is well

AlhajiBitcoin:

With all my crazy investments, I have never placed N1 on Ponzi.
N26m

can you show me the way Alhaji?

Emmydarsy:
Hmmmn....I smiled bitterly reading different pathetic comments! It's just so unfortunate finding oneself in this kind of situation(30 to 50k monthly). It's just more or less like roaming and swimming in poverty for as long as one is earning such peanut, especially in this current situation of the country.
I have been working with a particular govt parastal for 6yrs as a contract staff, on a consolidated salary of 35k...am married with a kid o, though my wife got a police job afterward, earning 50k, in a different state, while am here doing mine in Lagos. Even at that, it wasn't that easy coping with life, considering the basic needs expected to meet...before u know it, u begin to see yourself as being stingy to friends and families...that is if you must meet up with your full responsibility as a man...no hanging out to enjoy yourself, let alone having a side chick...for where?? Its just so frustrating! Seriously....buh earlier this year, our salary was increased massively to 135k. So, my dear folks, PATIENCE, PRAYER AND CONTENTMENT is very key!!! It's not easy but let's learn to adapt to whatever situation we find ourselves in...I pray those still struggling with life shall smiles at the end....I feel for us o....cos I experienced it and know how it feels...

Yes patience and perseverance is key

You're indeed lucky, the fruits of your labor didn't go in vain

You can help a brother if there's vacant

Thanks!

Metrics4tea:
I earned 300k a month and I consider it very small for me, my wife and two kids. Rent, DSTV, gas, sanitation, security, feeding, water, electricity, internet and other miscellaneous is 150k to 170k a month. The country is deem expensive

try to get a land and build on it, you can't continue living in rented apartment. There are lots of land you will get with less than 1m and start building gradually

Aderr:
Haha! Weaponised poverty.
Nigerians and their hilariousness. Weaponise as in weaponising uranium?

Lol, you sound funny

Don't you know Nigeria weaponised poverty against her masses?

The political class, the elite and the likes absolutely without any iota of doubt WEAPONISED POVERTY to get through the masses

Don't you see those our fellow Nigerians who queue behind politicians to get a cup of rice, grains, oil and possibly 1k

Do you think they're happy doing that? No one in his/her right senses is proud of such situation

They have no other choice because of HUNGER wish was as a result of POVERTY which the political class/elite used as a weapon to get the masses cheaply

Naughtysex:
That's why i always say this "crime will continue to increase in Nigeria because you can't expect people you pay a slavery wages to live normal life like human being"

I beg to disagree on that

Your level of income (big or small) isn't a yardstick to crime

Let me use myself as a case study;

I'm a fresh graduate who came out top of his class. but here i am, still job hunting

I'm from the least social strata in the society (poor background)

I wasn't opportuned to have access to smart phones (android specifically) throughout my days in college, luckily a friend gave me her used Huawei phone when i was about saying goodbye to college

Moreso, i couldn't enroll for NYSC due to my inability to get my certificate and other necessities (mandatory)

Nonetheless, is that an excuse for me to get involved in cyber crime? Is that an excuse to go into any shady act? Absolutely no

Mind you, i have some of these guys who are into varieties of social vices/cyber crime back then in college as course mate, i have them at the tips of my finger

My OBSERVATION about Nigeria youths is that they are GREEDY, their thirst for wealth is pretty much higher which makes them succumb easily to societal affluence/pressure. They want to have access to all the goodies of life, the latest car, phone, outfit and what have you

These set of people go on social media to shame us and prove to us how education had been a complete scam, expecially in Nigeria

In summative, i can't get myself involved in crime firstly due to the nature of family i came from, i wasn't brought up to get oppressed by anyone

I can't be involved because I'm educated and i strongly believe tomorrow is pregnant, which definitely will give birth to success for me

NB: Government should endeavor to give education a priority, this is very vital. Expecially the northerners, they need quality education

Our syllabus/curriculum is outdated, they should try as a matter of urgency to update it

This will help reduce crime in Nigeria.

drpossibilities:
The truth is whichever level you find yourself you will survive one way or the other. When I was earning N30,000 not too long ago I was surviving. I was a single parent with one daughter but we were managing somehow. I had neighbors who had wives and up to three kids earning the same salary and they were coping too. With that salary your desires are instinctively put in check. I didn't have a television, DVD player, home theater and so many furniture and I didn't bother. It didn't even cross my mind that I needed them because the money no even dey to buy them even if I wanted. I didn't have deep freezer or fridge or even gas burners. I just made do with basic cooking utensils and kept my mattress on the floor.

It was when my salary began to increase that I began to buy other items. Just take life jeje and everything will fall in place.

you are very much on point, no matter the little amount one earn, you will definitely have a way to cope with it pending till when something better comes up.

Earning peanut is not good no doubt. but nonetheless, it's not a yardstick to steal or commit crimes.

No matter how good or rossy our economy is, social stratification is bound to exist.

Accepting whichever situation one found his/herself, living within your means and be hopeful for a better tomorrow.


May God help us all.

mariahAngel:
So, what you're saying is faithfulness equals blood shed? 'Cause I am not understanding...

she's pretty faithful and the hubby don't trust her, she can't compel him to earn her trust


I think the man needs a therapist

acevic:
Okay. What would you like to know? Send email

sorry i can't send a mail. Can i PM you via the number on your signature?

dederocs:
Only poor and struggling people in Nigeria, travel as illegal immigrants...nothing fancy about doing menial jobs etc...richest Nigerians live in Nigeria.

I can't agree less

hadjipapiey:
Please where in Lagos can I get fancy executive wall/table clocks, and perhaps wrist watches in wholesales/bucks? Useful informations will be highly appreciated. Thanks

under bridge along mile 2 or balogun market

JidennaJason:
Dude quickly edited that part where he said "Hearing my children crying is not something I can manage"


So don't be too quick like him.

oh!! i didn't see that part


So sorry for my outburst

JidennaJason:
Calm down bro and see the phone number of a man who lost his hearing....

Absolutely i know he's likely to be fake I'm not disputing that, just trying to correct the impression of a deaf man can't observe his kids crying

MrToothBrush:
With This English. Who were you teaching

probably an Arabic school you know? Or perhaps a creche class.

JidennaJason:




You lost your hearing but you can hear your children crying? What a marvelous God we serve.


By the way, you call yourself a teacher but cannot type in simple and correct English.... Wetin you come they teach those children?


My friend, go and learn, and stop threatening us with this your failed scamming attempt.

you must be kidding, he could be deaf not blind.

Halcyon123:
Good evening, please I have a suregift card worth a 1000 naira and to be used on Jumia. Please, serious buyers. Am broke and I need the 1k to solve and urgent need. Thank you

do you still have gift cards for sale?

acevic:
That's a lie.

You can start with $100 even $50.

Your capital will determine your profit margin.

You need to read up about cryptocurrencies before investing.

Don't just throw your money on shit coins.

Decide if you want to be a short term trader or an hodler. .

Equip yourself with info.

You can pm me for more info

Good day bro, please I'm interested in crypto currencies trading and investing. please can you help put me through? Thanks

Latvin:
I thought this thread had lost steam until I checked it out this morning. I like your tenacity but unless you have time on your hands, I don't quite see what the back and forth will achieve.

the back and forth will achieve Absolutely nothing.

Infoparlour:
Spot still available

what's the nature of the job?
what other discipline would you consider?