₦airaland Forum

Evolutionlove:
Sharaap there......

is that how you shut your wife/girlfriend up?

Oh you mean today wives are bad while today men are good?
I know your type anyway!
Continue...

AGNESikpuNNU:
But everyone knows it's the norm. Almost all Nigerians are criminals, except toddlers.

not all toddlers, some toddlers exhibit the trait of their parents/guardian

CyynthiaKiss:
Are you a Muslim Yoruba ?

Nwanne election will hold in Nigeria come 2023
Know this and know peace!

chatinent:
You've not meant many women.

nothing whatsoever

Society frawn against domestic violence,

To me personally the worst a woman can do is to bring in a man to your matrimonial bed

That doesn't still warrant me hitting her, what happens to divorce or separation?

Nothing to justify domestic violence!

It is not good!

oluDharay:
Please house, how do I rectify issues of jamb number has already been used

it can be done in jamb office and your school students affair division

ayenale1:
Im staying in sagamu, no company in sagamu will pay u 200k maybe in the dream highest they can pay for a start is 50k maybe with overtime it can increase to 65k but after 3 yrs after luck can shine on u to to paid 90k plus overtime...and DEM GO USE U and UR TIME EHN...

I recently stop working in a company producing blackwood...they offer to pay 40k as Bsc work from 8-6, i ran back to my teaching where i earn 60k plus extra lessons per month...don't allow anyone deceive u o some companies in sagamu like ceplas pay 800/day if u re absent they deduct 2days from your pay is that one work...

you mean even Nestlé too?

chatinent:
What happened?


Some women push men to the wall.

I'm not justifying it, but what happened!

Absolutely nothing warrant a man to hit a woman

No excuse whatsoever for that

Any man who hit a woman should be put behind bar for life

armyofone:
VTJN and others here,

Please can anyone answer some nysc related questions?

For a student preparing to go for nysc -
How much is Attestation fee ?
How much is mobilization fee ?
Do they pay money to collect results ? If so how much ?
What is PPN ?

Attestation fee is somewhat cheap provided you have the necessary requirements and the documents/certificate you intend to attest

You can get it done for 5k maximum

Mobilization is free, you just have to be cleared before you can be mobilized

Yes you have to pay to collect your certificate, the price varies according to individual schools. My school is 28k, some schools pay more than that while some could be less than

Enudapan:
Nah Eh! No qualms This is so sophisticated
Congratulations Make sure you bang her well this night No jokes

bang her with what?

hollah123:
that we all have pasts doesn't mean we should b stupid,if all of us decide to act based on our pasts,do u think there will be peace?
get d fact n understand that when shits happens u pick yourself up n move on n don't blame anyone for your predicament.

Talking down on people n hating them doesn't heal u,it damages u more.

instead of coming here to b socially correct go n tell that girl to change her ways n apply sense in whatever she does, everyone has faced a lot n still facing a lot so don't think u can transfer your aggression to anyone

Lol, yes you are absolutely right, if we all act according to our past and present situation then planet earth won't be habitable for life, expecially human

Nonetheless, glad you know we all can't get involved in shady act or cut curners just because of our ups and down.

Because i can't commit murder, steal, rape et al that doesn't mean i should condemn people who found themselves in such act completely

Some even went as far as telling her how her life will end, haba!! this is pretty much

Lastly, there are things you don't necessarily have to say, she's not blind nor dumb, she saw the bad and ugly comments from different people which indicate that what she had been doing is bad

It's more than enough sermon for her to make amend and change her ways!

EbenezerTriumph:
oga Shut the hell up.
stop talking rubbish.
Grow up and get sense

you are still a toddler, let's see the virgin you will get married to first

Until then, do have a nice day!

hollah123:
don't b stupid,u are trying to b socially correct not knowing d kinda fool u are defending.u can see people dragging that girl,she has done far worse than that n she's far from a good girl,she was just caught in her web today

you're so myopic no doubt, i can' see people dragging her, so you expect me to join?

I never said she's a good girl for living such kinda lifestyle, condemning her up to that extent is what i found morally wrong

If none of you met your wife as a virgin, then you have no right whatsoever to crucify her that much

To the single ones let them take a chill pill first, let's see those that will marry a virgin

We all have our past, there're so many men out there with Sumptuous horrible trait/behavior

We all are sinners, either small or big

Deathisfree:
Hi Nairalanders
This is really disturbing me right now,I just wedded about 2 months ago
My mother in-law first visit was 2 weeks ago, I purposely left the house before she came because I was not really bucks up
Suddenly she came this morning around 7:30 am without a pre notice. She didn’t tell my wife nor call any of us to let us know she’s coming.

She stays about 35 mins drive to my house,my parents stays about 5mins drive to my house and they can not try such and perhaps. They are too busy for all that nonsense

I’m in my room right now alone here on Nairaland seeking for advice on what to do before I do wrong. I am planning to tell my wife when her mother is gone and warm her never to let such happen again.

the solution is to change your location, how do you feel comfortable getting accommodation within your parents and mother inlaw's environ?


They can't give you prior notice, it's not possible

The solution is to change location entirely, save yourself the stress of quarreling with your wife.

heartbraker:
Ok ooo lover boy d chief advicer i knw ur brain dey hibernating mode but just read d piece of shit dat tin wrote, so because u want to make hair of 1500 naira and buy cream u av to useless ur life and sleep with different men and even had alot of abortion even as early as 16years? No be girls dey sell snacks to survive or sales girls even housemaid? So because i want to buy ferrari now and my income never reach make i go cut person head do ritual? Life is a bitch my brother but dere are certain tins dat is totally wrong and stupid, we are in nigeria bro and ur past really matters, we no dey america, anyway na simp like u she go still corner and u go tink say u don get d best tin after slice bread.

hmmm.. You made me speechless!

Your moniker, why that?

heartbraker:
yes! My courtesy is so expensive i dont give out to someone with IQ below average.

Mr. Holy man viz a viz Mr intellect, stop being judgemental

Change your ways and wack mentality!

We're all sinners, we live by nothing but grace

heartbraker:
lol, see dis mr simpson, who are u to tell me wat to say or do with My mobile and data? Is like ur head dey pain u . Even with dis hero wannabe attitude of urs dat girl wont still reply ur PM.
IDIOT!!!

Mr. Holy man you sound very rude, no courtesy whatsoever!

I can't commit murder
I can't commit murder


I'm not certain of the rest!

heartbraker:
aye e ti e ta koja ala, no wonder u are shouting feminist up and down guys don do u shege for dis life, and later one guy go carry u put for house not knwing u an empty barrel, u had an abortion u are not even ashamed of urself gosh! U irrititate me never will any of my household and siblings become a simp i will train them dis u tins like my life my life depends on it.

Mr. Holy man, let he without sin caste the stone!

Who are you to talk down on someone?
You don't deserve that mobile phone you used to type this nonsense

You're a typical reason why federal government needs to regulate social media, you abuse it alot

Uncharted56:
Forget love and hustle una no go hear, She's probably in her hoeing age cos girls in thier early 20s hoe around alot na the younger brother turn to swim be that



you already know what's on everyone's mind, sha girls can do this purposely especially if thier boyfriend is a broke ass student they will want to mess around and Japa

hmmm.. See as you dey talk on our behalf

Everyone's mind!

Nwaada:
Continued with the job. Currently pursuing my masters in the US.

please sir can you help with schools accepting students for MSc?

I had a 2.1 with 4.3CGPA

I'm out of job and hope to find something doing

Thanks in anticipation!

lmuhopeful:
Bro/Sis, I beg you in the name of whatever you worship, do not take the lecturing job. On the financial side, you will never get paid enough. You will earn something that is likely 5 times less than your current salary. There are no extra perks to compensate the low salary. Your salary will sometimes be delayed. You are used to a particular lifestyle right now and all that will have to end when you take the lecturing job.

On an intellectual note, you seem like a smart person considering you managed to get a first class. If you are so passionate abbout lecturing, I suggest you apply for an MSc/Phd in USA, Canada, Australia or somewhere in Europe. During your Phd you will teach undergraduate and MSc classes like I currently do. After the PhD, if you have published good work, you will be able to search for tenure-track positions at universities worldwide. Universities where you will be paid healthily. Universities where you will have access to numerous government research grants. You will recruit your own PhD students and you will mentor and lecture undergraduates and graduates alike. All these you can never do in Nigeria.

At the end of it all, if you end up as a lecturer in Nigria, you will have to kiss the asses of your superiors just to get anything done, you will have no access to funding, you will likely never publish any useful research work and you won't earn enough money. Money is important.

Please stay at your job and move abroad to obtain a PhD if you are so passionate about lecturing. If for any reason you lecture in Nigeria, it should be at those specialized postgraduate institutes like the AUST in Abuja or somewhere like that. Not any fucking federal university. Good luck

please sir can you help with institution accepting MSc students?

Though didn't graduate with first class, a 2.1 with 4.3CGPA

Thanks in anticipation!

OcholaKings:
For me oo, i so much like UN, buh dont really know about their employment criteria.

same here, I love UN

I wish God can just pick up my call seriously!

proclinician:
U see that bolded part, there is entirely nothing wrong with it. This kind of man understands that anything is very very possible. U can make that investment and in one sweep everything is gone. U can lose ur job and not be able to get another. A particular disease condition can sstrike the family and all the savings will be consumed.

When this happens what do u do, how do u pay rent? Do u move to the village because it's a taboo to ask ur wife? How is it a red flag for a man to ask his wife to support for house rent where she resides?

Somebody that buys a car is required to start up an insurance plan for the car immediately. Does it mean the person is praying for or hoping that fire will burn the car or that it will crash in an accident?

Most of the young ppl today are so immature when it comes to marriage such that marriages today crash within months.

you are right with all those unforeseen circumstances that may befall the man while in marriage, but i don't know maybe i was being selfish with it because as for me i will know if she will be a supportive woman or not along the lines before marriage

I'm not also in support of a woman not being supportive, but what i felt is that it will be a sign of not being a responsible man who is looking for a freebie woman

If you see nothing wrong if a man asked his wife to be to support him in accommodation fee,

Definitely you won't see anything bad if a man asked a woman to contribute to the money required to pay her pride price, isn't it?

proclinician:
You just type huge huge nonsense here. My aunty married a Canadian man, over there in Canada both of them contributed money to clear off the mortgage and own the house

You as a "responsible man", what if you lose your job, business crumble, everything gone, you can't pay rent then u carry ur family to go stay under bridge or in the village because it is a taboo to ask the sac of potatoes u married to pay rent where she lives.

I tire for una

did you go through my writeup? I doubt you did

I never said a woman shouldn't support her hubby, but it's quite wrong for a man to feel entitled asking the woman wholeheartedly to be contributing to accommodation fee and other necessities

While dating/courting, you as a man will definitely know if the woman you intend to get married to will be supportive or not, except you aren't paying attention to it

For a grown man to demand from his wife to be to support for accommodation is a red flag to me, such kinda man will obviously dump the lady for another woman that is ready to buy to his ascertion without looking back

AK143:
I got the same problem this year 2021 , , and what they asked me was to apply for the drop of my biometric, , and i did, , but no respond yet, , ,

Will it be possible for me to join next stream( Batch A Stream II)

Thank you so much

Yes it's possible

by the way what is even causing this biometric failure of a thing,i believed it's not possible without doing biometric after NYSC registration

so why the biometric failure here and there?

dboY1123:
I am Unilorin student waiting for nysc mobilization since last year March, But results and other issues like ASUU strike which Unilorin is now among, and also the pandemic, blocked the way for us to be mobilized last year.
Please, Any Unilorin student also in my shoes yet to be mobilized or first semester students here? Is it certain that we are going to be mobilized this same batch?

Thanks

has your school sent your name to NYSC? have you seen your name on nysc portal? if no, the portal will be reopen as from tomorrow for schools to upload her graduants names (Senate list)

FKMagazine:
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everything na chat you privately, What stops you from saying whatever you have to say here?

skywalker240:
Oga Na mosdi tok am oo.

no p.

johnkey:
ponmo too sweet my brother

lol, you are mouthed

johnkey:
alpha male slowly metamorphosing into MGTOW but i'm fighting it hard cos i too love P.

Hmmm...y you too love P

skywalker240:
Once a simp

Became an alpha male,

Now a full blown misogynist

Nigerian girls are useless, all of them.

Hmmm.... you mean all female gender (Nigerians) are useless to you?

mespusinglez:
somewhat cheap, until you enter the exam hall

lol, nothing dey there

it's not technical