₦airaland Forum

Darkrebel666:
don't mind them. they are all fakers trying so hard to be western-esque by all means.

the rate of gender discrimination in this country is infinitesimal, thus,their activism defeats the purpose.
that's like Obama taking a bullet for the secret-service or a freeman vying for emancipation.
what's the point of feminism in Nigeria when there is minimal rate of gender discrimination?. if for anything, the womenfolks are even treated preferentially & sommwhat over-pampered.

even on social media a woman racks up to kabilion likes for her photos & well,you know the story ain't the same for the male .
is that not gender discrimination against males in the visual world?


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It sounds funny how you give example of gender discrimination with liking of photos on social media,(lemme believe that's you kidding).
Gender discrimination has always been men's game right from time especially in a typical African setting,women are not allowed to participate in decision making among others. It is alright these days as women have been given equal opportunity to do what men are doing,it is now left for her to utilize it properly without being rude or forcing her ways on others.

She should have killed the man instead if she knew it really pained her,mtchew katikati.

RIP to her.

Lol,funny I never knew the word "feminism" existed until I started staying more on Nairaland.

In real life,I have always known a man and a woman should be of help to each other in marriage.
A man can cook likewise a woman,both can do the housechores,either of them can pay houserents and other utilities.
Both should have listening ears and consider each others feelings. A man shouldn't discard his wife's opinions likewise a woman should respect her man's opinion.
These and many other things like mutual understanding,respect,submisveness,humility,love,patience and care are what make coexistence peaceful between couples.

If some men term the above feminism then there is a problem but if there is another meaning to feminism outside the above then feminists are on their own.

All the same,everyone should learn to respect each others opinion and perspectives,we were not brought up this same way plus we do not live in the same environment.

I vote
Flow1759
Ademoladeji
Agarawu23
Scentmarlc
Jarizod
Iamkingzlee
Cc NLjega

Nice post,funny start though.

Marriage is simply the way you want it to be.
Your decision to stay happy or not lays with you.

Better please..
Make the meeting count and out an end to this hunger strike .

I wish Karen safe delivery and all other expecting women out there.

Most of the girls that dissed her earlier are yet to sort their lives with series of guys they have at hand.

At last Pokello hooked this man,his gold digging business did not work well this time around.
HML to them

At last Pokello hooked this man,his gold digging business didn't not work well this time around.
HML to them

OK,using my church mind base on what I like,I do not know anyone of them personally.
I vote
Flow1759
Ademoladeji
Scentmarlc
Jarizod
Agarawu23
Lamispaco
Iamkingzlee
Kizmarty
Rollyberry
Cc.NLjega

@brownie
So sorry to read about this,I have not been in such situation before so I really wouldn't know how it feels like.
Remain as calm as you have been,you can take a decision to walk out of the marriage or remain in it and forgive him so you could be at peace with your soul.
All the best.

He must really be an addict. Anyways,he will still smoke when he breaks his fast.

The boy is the true son of his father,plumb and dark.

There are three people,a woman,two men.
There are two houses,the woman has a peach hat on which is also the first man's ear then a book.

nedu2000:
Open a laundry mart 3months ago with just 2 staff members. Despite our owning a big washing machine the laundry man's function is ironing,removing tough stains and operating the machine. The 2nd employee's task is to go deliver those clothes to clients,compliment the laundry man's job of manual removal of tough stains and reception work.
On tuesday evening,on my return for work took a detour to my shop only to see lots of clothes piled up unwashed!!the laundry man was trying frantically to remove the tough stains manually meanwhile the lady just sat down by the reception desk doing nothing!!

When I asked her why she was working or even gone to deliver clothes to clients her reply was...."i'm fasting"
In fury, I simply got my hands dirty and started doing the cleaning and delivery before I headed back home.

Pls NLders how do i deal with this? I feel i'm being "religiously backmailed" How should employers handle muslim employees who are fasting?

Well,now we know this is your dream business,at least get out of your slumber and set your feet at work so you could own a laundry shop in reality.
Ramadan Fast commenced on thursday and not Tuesday so how come you got to the shop on Tuesday and met her fasting?
You only made up this LIE up to seek sentimental comments and cause religious argument.
Go and see how much Muslims work during fast, how many Islamic states have shut down due to Ramadan?

The silly lady is not even making sense what da hell is she ranting about?

Very ridiculous!
9billion naira for the whole house or per head,why can't such money be channeled to better things?
Many state are yet to pay salaries to their workers,even though they earn mere chicken feeds as monthly take home.

cococandy:
I actually like Aisha. At least more than patience Jonathan.
You should stop being a silly dolt.

Tskk.
Can't someone express opinion again without it being hate?

I guess the way you expressed your own opinion about my post makes you a hater huh?
Or you're fine expressing your opinion and when I do it is hate?
Dumbo. Get a brain.

Awww,someone is pained, Even as much as you try to hide the hate,it still shows on your post clearly. You dislike her hubby and transfered the aggression,as simple as that.

Note: only a dumb hag would question a woman for supporting her hubby on good course.
Guess you were high on cow dungs when you asked why she supported her man.
I got a brain,where's yours?

It serves her right,why does she have bodyodour?

Example of a man that has nothing to offer but his dike .

cococandy:
I don't fancy eye service sha.
If she didn't want to be First Lady, why was she campaigning with her husband to win the presidency?

Pfft

When you hate someone,esp a fellow woman,you always look for dumb reasons to hate.
If she didn't campaign for her husband,I guess she should have done so for your own husband.

I don't know what Burna boy looks like.

Kikiki,I k new this day would come, Marylyn Ogar the PDPspokeswoman ended up soiling the integrity of the once respected DSS,now others will try hard to earn Nigerian's trust,not President Buhari's alone.

Very silly bloggers,always looking for cheap ways to generate traffic.
Jay-Z was in Nigeria,Ilorin as far back as 2006 when Bukky was still the governor of kwara State,they were never friends as Jay was on tour to Africa on a water project or so..
Yes he was turbaned and a street was named after him.
That was a long time ago not this era .

Nigerians and razor mouth,I just love social media

Yimun.com
Many first class and second class upper Graduates are roaming about town with no job,some with jobs get paid peanuts even as low as 20,000 naira. If the situation is like this,why then should we discriminate.
A pass graduate will even get job before a 2.1 graduate. Aimoye first class graduates that register Sims for mobile networks.
The job in Nigeria is not enough to go round,if you decide to go outside the country to seek job,you face worse challenges,so the question is,why discriminate?

Dating for six years?
The lord is your strength.

Maamin:
You like them flat or potbellied with less muscles and abs?

Flat with less muscle,lemme use the word "slender" like fish..*wink*

Maamin:
In your own case it cant..hope am correct ?coz you were totally against the guys physique.

I'am not against his physique o,I don't just like my man with such abs and all. It is my own choice and my choice does not define sexy for others.

Maamin:
Nooooooo why should I have a problem with that when my account is not being neither credited or debited.

You never can tell,your physique could fetch you money sometimes,ask Kim K

Maamin:
N lie jor!



I understand your situation..simply despising what is out of your reach ok O!



Na lie jor!

rogerdat:

You boys seem jealous of my preference, you got a problem with that?