₦airaland Forum

babasolo:
when you blow whistle and they dont find anytin

What kinda person are u? U wan make laff choke me until did matter

iamadonis2:
If there's anything I know about relationships, it's this: When a girl respects you (testament to her deep affection for you), she'll make you feel no man exists in this world except you.

But your GF is doing the opposite; there's no respect (nor love) here, OP.

Word bro.

I have

I have this girl I am currently dating. We are about 3months into the relationship and she comes up to me yesterday telling me she wants to go out with her friend that I don't know(guy) to a party that wld end by midnight.
She just mentioned it like it wasn't a big deal and her only problem was getting her parents consent. Like I was cool with it.
She got consent party time and she left. Called once, and sent a couple of messages
I feel very funny about everything and I want to talk to her about how that cannot continue but I also don't want to come across as someone who is intolerant,jealous and whatever name you might call it.
Am also worried cos i don't know what next to do,
Pls EPP me

Ali after u want to seize our car abi? Go and sitdown jare

yamunla:
One day , My comment will come on top. I will show
it to My college teacher Miss sedrati , who said that I
can't achieve anything in my life !

Lmao. Crazy funny

So after confessing to that much crime all u get is 11years. It is well

How will Efe be able to return to Warrior with 27m, nah from did night den go start to dey kidnap him family members

Male or female?

Police tear race. Who wan die? Shior.

pretty050:
individual differences (home training) , @op there nothing wrong with saying thank u ma
growing up we were not taught to say thank you after a meal.
But I noticed our family friends especially those from the eastern part of Nigeria say 'thank you mummy 'thank u daddy ' after eating, so as visitors I thank my host,
we still don't practice that in our family .

I rmb visiting frnds when I was younger and see them say thank you after meals, I got home and tried it the first time and my parents wia looking at me like what is wrong with dis one. Eventually one day my dad told me to stop he cldnt understand why I would thank him after every meal. He said something like will I come and thank him in the office if I ate and he was not around.

adorablepepple:

I never knew people were this dumb on nairaland, apostle papa ajasco Suleiman is busy doing damage control,and you the gullible fool like the wife called you,think stephenie was lying.
1. Have you wondered why he arrested her just after he said those things about the fulani herdsmen, and he even told his church people that he will face lot of persecution, knowing fully well that a great scandal was about to happen
2. This same apostle first said he never met her,the next thing he said he was just trying to help her.
3. Screenshot surfaced, Apostle saw booby and the expression on his face said it all and you all still said it's Photoshop...... I laugh at your stupidity
4. He is out now taking pre wedding shoot just to prove that he is suddenly in love with his wife. E kwa
5. Apostle and his gullible followers please show us your passport and your bank statement now....
6. Despite all the persecution Jesus faced he said father forgive them but our bald Apostle only knows how to curse.
7. If I can recall vividly Apostle said El Rufai will die and he won't be Governor........ is that what is happening now
8. Am a Christian, a staunch one at that and no self acclaimed man of God will deceive me. Man will always be man....
9. Apostle Apostle the great planner, papa ajasco of our time, anger master, curser of the universe

God bless you. Bar man pls give that lady a bottle of whatever she drinks

Will I still have to use d pedal. Buggati fear God after 12m someone will still be pressing pedal

Pinshure of d joystick?

jnrremedy:
u still don't understand
the suicide thought is not a function of the individual but rather a product of the depression
some of the advance symptoms or clinical manifestations of depression is suicidal thoughts it has nothing to do with the person rather its the clinical manifestation of the disease combined with other factors
Google the drug tegretol (carbamazepine) one of the side effects of that drug is suicidal thoughts. so u urself that is condemning can develop suicidal thoughts if u are on this drug ( likely not certain) and mind u the drug is a therapeutic drug.
though its not all suicidal thoughts are clinical some are social but don't be quick to condemmn

Maybe I don't get it. People should seek medical help. Nobody knows you as much as you. This things don't just bump over night. I feel if more people open up to medical help suicide rate wld reduce.

wandyvirus:
Please stop already. How ignorant can you be! It is not Malaria! The person does NOT think they have a problem! You must begin to identify and correctly read signs in your loved ones. The burden is on you not them. Who gave birth to this illogical illiterate?

It beats me when some who can't see farther than their nose calls someone else an illetrate. Now let me educate u a little as I might just save u from jumping off a bridge. When u starting depressing thoughts u need yo talk to someone, when u start having weird thoughts about life talk to someone. That's how its starts. You always know u have a problem. How you handle it is different. So before u jump off that bridge have a rethink

blogbloke:
Dude, we're talking about clinical depression whereby there's a chemical imbalance in your brain. It's not something you have total control over. Just manning up doesn't take it away. You need to seek medical help cos it's a medical condition.

What are you talking about. Seeking medical help is Manning up. Do u know how man people have health conditions and cannot go to the Hosp cos they can man up to face their challenge. When u see man up it doesn't necessarily mean show of force. Jesus u people sha

wandyvirus:
You speak like every other ignorant Nigerian. How sad. You may have spent four years in school and still do not know how make a simple research on this deadly mental state of health? You judge the Doctor..a doctor! by others responding to treatment? If he were your brother with this ignorant mindset this is exactly what will happen to him; he will die. the ones you see at the hospital "responding to treatment", their families manned up and faced the reality that the person they love is very sick. The ones that jump and die have people like you as relatives. You are actually the coward and self centered. You don't spare a thought to understanding the sickness. See it will knock close to your door soon.When it does tell the person he is a coward and ask him to "man up". We will be unwilling to read his story but we will be forced to on Nairaland.

Sorry u are the ignorant one. Why don't u start drumming up support for more people to take their own lives. The act has to be condemn. It is not the way to go. It is totally wrong and there is no justification. Yes people have to get medical help. Is that not what I stated. Even though u wish me and my family I'll health, I pray non comes close to you and yours. Suicide is a cowardly act. It should not be condoned. People receive treatment for mental health. What if every mental health patient jump into the lagoon. Receive sense

wandyvirus:
I understand where you are coming from. A typical Nigerian is in denial of mental health issues and we think that "problems" is the reason the person chooses to commit Suicide. No my dear. Depression IS a disease. As bad as Herpes, HIV and cancer. The person's mental state is completely taken over by maniac thoughts and desires. To understand how serious a problem depression, bipolar and Schizophrenia is please watch the movie "A Beautiful Mind". The jumping in to the lagoon is a climax of his state of depression. No he is not selfish. No he is not heartless. He was simply sick. We all failed him. Yes me and you and every Nigerian ignorant of this killer called depression. Please read Jehovah's Witness Awake on teen depression. I think you can find it on www.jw.org. Read up please, find out more about depression go online, get informed. That's another crime we commit. We don't read. We can spend hours watching reality shows but we won't read fr just 20 minutes each day.

True. Admitting you have a problem and discussing it with family is the first step. I still can't understand how people bottle up such things inside of them. But its totally heartless whatever it is. I know someone who went from overdosing to getting her life back in full. Busy enjoying life now, globe trotting to see kids and grand kids all over the world. It must have still taken some strong inner will and strength. We all need to be strong enough. For me the thought of my family wld kill any suicidal thoughts

blogbloke:
E be like say you no know wetin depression be. Don't pray it happens to anyone you know

Sadly you won't be the one to lecture me about depression. Go to any hospital and see how many people are on admission treating one form of depression or the other. And yes it has everything to do with personal will, same medicine administered to Mr A is given to Mr B but different result. The first step to healing is the strength and believe in you. When life gets tough u need to be tougher. Believe and hope brother works wonders

seankay:
I pray you never experience depression. It is the worst thing that can happen to a man

Depression over wetin. We are all wired differently. Suicide is not an option so many people have battled depression, it is a medical condition, only the cowards end up killing themselves. Go to the hospital and see how many people are battling depression and are responding to treatment. Taking your own life is not the cure rather its a cowardly act that is also very self centered. Crazy self centered people. Anybody that commits suicide does not deserve to rest in peace because you haven't let the living live in peace

Ruq:
Yeah, keep on to that belief. keep true to it.
There's no worse sucker punch than reality, and it packs a lot of mire with it when it hits hard. Remember you said this. you'll be surprised when matters you seem to view crucial get trivialized then you'll understand we interpret pain differently, and no one out weighs the other in the mind of the victim.

No matter what happens in life, no matter how hard reality punches u in the face suicide is no way to go and it should not be justified. People who commit suicide are the most wicked , selfish and self centered set of people to ever exist. Everything has to work right for them. The thought of pain you put your loved ones through alone shld be a deterrent. Do u know what kinda mess his mother is in right now. That is no way to pay them back for whatever its worth. I wish I can just catch someone trying to commit suicide someday

People who commit suicide are the most wicked and heartless set of human begins. No thought of pain and suffering u make your loved ones pass through. So self centered. The thought of what your mother wld be reduced to after your demise alone wld never let me think about it no matter what I am going through. People have bin through a lot more worse

So all the Vaseline gang just dey waste money since. Wey una for don buy house by now

Jesu oooo, Apostle must hear this.

Let me see how u would sleep at night. How can u stuff the cat in a bag. That's outright wickedness.

Op come here ooo, what do you mean by sexy. I dey fear ooo

OK, sir

Do you have 45m tower

You nor gree go school, u wan come turn Charge and bail abi. Wait for me