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LewsTherin:
Seeing as this thread has been well derailed by those bashing men and those bashing those bashing men, I'll modify my post.


Your husband has just lost the most important thing to any man - self worth. He is depressed, he is frustrated, he is lost. He may come out of it tomorrow, he may never recover. You can take the easy way out like many so-called feminists will say and kick his behind to the curb...

...or you can honour your vows of "for better or worse till death do us part" (I am assuming you said those words).

If you choose this route, my advice (which may not work by the way) is
1. Pray for him. Constantly. That he find his way back.
2. Keep the house going to the best of your ability. It is difficult, I know. But it is possible.
3.Talk to him like there is nothing different. Ask his opinion on anything and everything. Leas him into discussions that will make him say "if it was me, I will do such and such" or "the best option would have been to do this and that". Something that will help him begin to think again, to plan again. It may help him out of his hole.
4. Keep trying to get his mother/father, closest friend, pastor he trusts to talk to him. But do not under any circumstances involve any other people that it can be said "you went to spread my news round the world". And very definitely no one from your family.

I actually have first hand experience of this so I have an idea how he feels. God help you.

ernie4life:
So I was doing a quarterly review of my portfolio and my numerous fund managers, I decided to track all fund performance for the last working day of September which is the end of last quarter, so below is a rank of how our fund managers performed that day.

For this quarter, treasury bills rate is dropping gradually and I don't see any reason for rates to increase anytime soon. I told a friend some weeks back that judging from the way that longer tenors in treasury bills was been over subscribed, that means the market anticipates drop in rates, if that is true that means rates for this quarter will be lower than last quarter

jayson87:
the guy said he designed payoneer... LWKMD

alonzoiv:
So, what now happened? Because you sang/featured in Totori, you are now a star?

MrCounselor:
Who else thought it was Chris Rock in Kogi?

i was like wahhh

oz4real83:
We have a lot of them on nairaland. when u ask them what the thread they just commented on was all about, they will be starring at u like the pics on nigerian currencies.

Margy:
Fulanis never forgives! Even if it takes 10years

faaz24:
El-Rufai wrote on his facebook page :

KADUNA UPDATE: (1) KDSG congratulates Senators Suleiman Abdu Kwari and Uba Sani and wish the former senators Suleiman Hunkuyi and Shehu Sani a well-deserved retirement. (2) LESSON: Unless betrayed, our loyalty and fidelity to friends are permanent and pensionable. Unless reconciled, our opposition and enmity to traitors are also permanent and pensionable. (3) A new chapter for all of them begins today. ~ Nasir @elrufai

TheGiftedOne:
Snakes we saw, dog we haven't. Is the dog a spirit? ??

Yem0350:
https://fbnquest.com/asset-management/historical-funds/#ffif