₦airaland Forum

MikeofKd:
I've said it in my previous threads , it's men with low self esteem that are causing all these nonsense billing epidemic, all those baby send me Ur account let me appreciate Ur beauty type of men.
If you can't toast a woman without flashing Ur wallet or trying to impress her with Ur money , then u have serious low self esteem. Argue with Ur fore fathers.

We already know this. But are you sure you are not one of those men that use money to impress a lady, then come online to form alpha male?

TechCapon:
I saw the video this morning on youtube. Multiple witnesses said the girls were busy eating and drinking anyhow they like. In their mind they don catch mugu but after they've racked up huge bill on the man's head, he paid and asked them to follow him home but instead they started laughing and walked out on him. ZERO REMORSE. Feeling used and scorned the man followed the greedy girls outside and shot them dead.
They will eat and drink what their father cannot afford just because they think the man is father christmas. It's a brutal lesson to those girls who think they're too smart and carry their hungry nature everywhere

THEY LEARNED THE HARD WAY

I don't know who is more sen...se....less between you and the people that liked your post. So, because he bought them drinks and they refused to follow him home, you are now justifying his actions. Shame on you!

KayaMaghan:
I will love to understand what makes Nigerians worse even among blacks.

Because compared to other black men, their archaic mentality sucks.

McBishop2020:
Your explanation is apt. Whosoever is ashamed of their identity is a person of inferiority complex who must surely suffer from identity crisis , and can easily deny you any day, anytime to survive.

Everything is not about inferiority complex. I hate my English name, but I am stuck with it. Do you think I have inferiority complex too? Someone can be ashamed of their identity if it is dented with a bad reputation. For instance, would you be proud to expose your identity if you come from a family of criminals?

As an adult, you should know by now that there is something we call 'preference', and I believe we are all entitled to our preferences. Same way you may prefer ladies with fat or slim ass, light or dark skin, is the same way she prefers to speak English over Igbo. So, live and let live!

That lady dodged a missile. Something as insignificant as that is what you came to Nairaland to write a novel about. It shows you are very petty and your partner will have to walk on eggshells when stuck around you.

A very close relative also sexually abused his two daughters. I wanted to take up the matter but the wife wasn't helping matters so I had to back off. By the way, it is very easy to spot men who are sexually depraved, because the signs are always there. Instead of women to look out for such signs, they wait until the deed is done.

Kingosytex:
See as singles dey press phone. Nothing beats being someone's spouse, there is so much honour and respect it brings.
Only people who detest taking accountability would think that being married is to be in bondage.

Yeah, you are right! Being someone's spouse brings so much respect, and that is why I am yet to see a married man who is unemployed because employers respect them so much and are always eager to give them a job. Infact, married people get all the contracts and business deals in Nigeria.

Kobicove:
I don't even understand why we like mocking singles every chance we get in this country?

It is because Nigerians are still backward with archaic mentality.

Oh! So, it happened in Oju? why were you too embarassed to share the name of your LG though?

In the other video, she made it clear she was never married to Ned. The statement: "in my house, I am a queen, and in Ned's house, I am nobody" proves she never really accepted her status as a married woman. She was just on vacation in Ned's house and balling with his money.

Dating comes before marriage, so he might as well not date any girl whose parents are still alive. He has clearly not healed from the loss of both his parents and needs therapy. Nonetheless, I think it was an insensitive statement to make. While digressing a little, I think it is mostly in Nigeria that we death shame people and even rejoice when a family loses a loved one. My family was bereaved twice, and some people were very happy and even mocked my mom because they believed the deceased were the family's pillar.

Now back to the main discussion, a man once called off his marriage two weeks to the D-day after he stumbled on a written prayer request from his fiancee wishing for the mother-in-law to die. Their pastor had asked them to write the request for a special prayer session. The man was devastated because according to him, his mother was too nice to his fiancee, and was even the one that encouraged him to propose marriage to her.

Kobojunkie:
The equation go simple. Women should absolutely stay away from him until after his parents are dead.🥱🥱

They already are; reason he said he doesn't want to go through another emotional turmoil of comforting a partner that loses her parents. Lame excuse though!

The only thing Africans are good at is how to plan evil against people. This is why I want my offspring to have a Caucasian gene so she doesn't end up as a target for evil village people. It is not inferiority complex, but plain reality!

What OP and his friend did wasn't different from what a banny (in OP's language) would do. So, if a girl bills you for transport and doesn't show up, just assume she is catching fun and don't take things too seriously.

I was expecting to see someone with swag, but I was disappointed. Back to the main issue: why did many people react to Tiwa's comment about being opened to being a second wife? When she started dating TeeBillz, he was married, and from what I heard, he never divorced his wife before walking her down the aisle. So, I wonder what the fuss is about since she was once a second wife.

I'm trying hard to understand the story. A man cheats, the woman leaves, but some dimwits heap all the blame on her, whilst applauding the husband. So, because it is difficult for a single woman to find a partner, she is supposed to endure whatever rubbish she gets from a man? Before antiretroviral drugs became popular, I knew up to 5 women who died from AIDS after their spouses infected them. I am sure if they had left after finding out that their horsebands cheated, they would have still been blamed by the ignoramuses we have littered on this forum.

Honestly, the comments would have been okay if they were coming from archaic men that lived in the last century. I find it disturbing that it is contemporary men in their 20s..30s..and 40s that are making such senseless comments and encouraging what is clearly not right. Is this an African thing or men generally are taking chauvinism to a whole different level? Seriously, things are getting worse that sometimes I wonder what the future has for the next generation of women.

mecuries:
Cooking with firewood gives foods a distinctive taste. The whites also make use of wood to cook for taste but the difference is they don't use anyhow wood. Different woods give different flavors (e.g. Oak, Apple) . They pay attention to these little details while over here we don't

I am pretty sure it doesn't blacken their pots, and they don't go through the stress of breaking the firewood with axe.

Did you also cook the yoghurt? On a serious note, why would I leave the comfort of my kitchen and go through the stress of cooking with firewood?

That is an exceptional case. Was it not on the same forum where I read how some girls built a house for their step dad after he trained them? By the way, I grew up hearing my mom say this: "if you are training a child, remember you are training them for their parents". I think it is the bitter truth.

The honest truth is, some jobs are very messy and since I am someone that can't stand mess, there are certain jobs that isn't for me. And to even worsen things, some cleaners don't practice good hygiene; reason some people find their jobs degrading. As for the lady that graduated with a first class degree, the department no get name? I hope it is not B.A. in Yoruba she earned?

Sex...Even our maker may be regretting that he created it.

advanceDNA:
exactly....most have have stopped menstruating and know its likely a broken arrow trying to get pregnant.... besides....I'm sorry to say this: there's practically no one is interested in fvcking a 60 year old ...so the jokes on you again..

The women in these pictures were 60 year olds and above when the picture was taken. Natural bodies and zero surgery! I am effin sure you have never dated a woman with such a great body. And just as a 60 year old man would use money to lure little girls into his bed, is the same way these women will use their great bodies to lure your type into bed. Infact, you will even pay them as a show of gratitude.

Pepperdemisback:
The mother took her away with her out of her father's house how is he to be blamed for her upbringing? Now, they said the father was out of her life.

The brothers grew up with their father but after Ned gifted her N100m house, car and money, she lured the children to come and enjoy luxury which almost everyone will fall for. The father is still to be blamed for not being in their lives. See what the children have turned into now, drug user and supplier. Is the father still to be blamed?


If Regina was with her father, that marriage shouldn't have taken place at all.

At the emboldened: Would you allow a female relative of yours to stay with a man who refused to pay her bride price as required by tradition? For someone who never made any attempt to solemnize his union with his partner, of course he is partly to be blamed for how his children turns out. It proves he isn't the responsible type. Perhaps, if he had paid Rita's bride price, Regina would have been with him afterall.

How do you edit your pictures to the extent that you look like someone else? That 3rd and 4th pictures have no Tonto Dike in them. Btw, Tonto is looking for her next victim to rope into another relationship. I almost believed her, but don't be like me.

advanceDNA:
See ehn.....the article is one thing, comments here is another......every comment in a thread is not always in response to the main topic article as the page advances .....some are jabs, some are cruise, some are sarcasm, some are in response to another comment...

But hey! Baba your free to add off context commentary at any point as u see fit.....but if u were half as smart as u are trying to present, ..you would have noticed my comment isn't in response to the main article but in response to another comment catching cruise....

Btw...what's the essence of the straws of [b]quality you are clinging to[/b] when u can't even produce it at all some point.?? .....at the end of the day quality will decline for both gender as age advances..
...all things being equal, both genders are at their best at much younger age, still men having some advantage than women

The comment you were responding to doesn't matter because it was triggered by the main article which is the focal point here. As a mater of fact, the context of your post was defensive and intended to invalidate the entire article. So, I quoted you based on what you wrote to correct that notion.

To address the second emboldened statement, you should know that at some point, it may not even be needed. How many 60 year old women have attempted to concieve babies? But when you look around, there are so many grandpas littering our surroundings with unhealthy babies. So, let me re-emphasize that it is quality over quantity!

Housing:
You and Cococandy being in that squad is giving us headache. Feminist gang shouldn't be celebral woman like you.

Cerebral.

advanceDNA:
Reality has evidence all around them with numerous examples of old men giving birth to kids....and virtually zero women doing same which is often referred to as a miracle when it does happen...

Even their very young ones that don't give birth early start developing fibroids, which contributes to more infertility issues,

But hey!! it's fine ....Let them ignore their obvious issues and keep clinging to straws by looking for weak azz points to level the playing fields nature has clearly rigged against them...

...at the end of the day, .everybody will be fine ....weda u born or u nor born, u marry or u nor marry...... Las las ...We are all food for worm and termites .

Did you understand the article at all? The article says, women's fertility may decline with age, but age does not affect the quality of their eggs. On the other hand, age may not affect men's ability to fertilize an egg, but the quality of their sperm reduces with age. While men have enough quantity of sperm to distribute, it is laden with poor quality. Women on the other hand don't have enough eggs, but theirs is laden with quality. Quality over quantity anytime! What is there not to understand?

As it is, ladies should start doing their own shakara, biko. If you are older and want healthy babies, say no to 'after seven men'. Go for men in their 20s, pay them to donate a healthy sperm for you. As e be so, e dey hot! Luminouz love, where are you when I need you the most?