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As a judge, I will dismiss the case because people don't die twice. With a good attorney, she won't have to spend a night in jail.

Elzazzi:
That’s how I lost 2.8 million naira last year because I was trying to help someone I thought had lost his way by giving him the right direction. What happened next is still a mystery. Since that crazy experience I always mind my business… I even created a thread on it. This is a link below!

https://www.nairaland.com/8358586/how-lost-2.8-million-naira

I have read through the story, and they didn't dupe you because you were trying to help. You must have been living under a rock not to figure out the tactics that 419ners have been using since time immemorial to dupe people.

Lexzeey:
Goto court and tell them this is Africa, abuse someone unjustly like the drunkard did to me and goto court to plead your case because we're in Africa and see if you won't be in chains before you know it, he assaulted me, and I defended myself, it has nothing to do with this is Africa bla bla bla, na why Una leaders dey use una like rag una dey okay with am, Nigeria is so backwards.

They say if the gods want to destroy a man, he makes him mad. I like your pride. But be sure to use it efficiently when it backfires.

martinskelly:
I'm not justifying wrongdoings, but the fact still remains that everyone on this forum is justifying your actions base on you being the first "narrator".

You clearly don't know the meaning of justify. Go through the post again, and tell me the number of people that supported his actions against those that did not.

I am more concerned about her Deeper Life wedding gown. It looks so ancient.

Richtaiwo:
That clown’s claim that he transferred N100k and only N63k was credited to his other account is a barefaced lie. Where is the evidence, where is the proof to back up such a ridiculous story?

Don't mind that guy. I am sure he was indebted to a loan app, and they decided to hijack his funds.

Back to the story, why would anyone cry over 100 naira charge on a 25,000 naira transfer? Nigerians and clout chasing!

No indigenous NGO is transparent in Nigeria. If you dig further, you will discover that all the funds expended on 'executed projects' were actually credited to the accounts of his family and friends.

Trump is fast becoming a dangerous kidnapper. I thought invading countries was becoming a thing of the past. It's the audacity for me! Regardless, I like him because he is a 'talk and do' president.

Newgirl206:
here—know that I have self-respect. I am with you because I love you. I am enduring this because I came from a broken home and I don’t want my children to come from one, too.

The emboldened is a trap that many women have fallen into. They tolerate rubbish from men because they are from a broken home, and don't want to end up like their mothers.

Unfortunately, you are in a worse situation than your mom by clinging unto a dead marriage. The society you are trying to please don't care, and won't even remember you if something bad happens to you. Your self esteem is damaged, and will need years of therapy to repair it.

HelenaWills:
Una dey marry sha.
Jesus.

Many women are in her shoes, but just pretending and can't speak out.

Soon, Nigerians will start migrating to Antarctica. Most of them living in these snowy, continental and humid countries are depressed asf, and are just enduring.

But they will log into social media and post pictures of snow just to pepper others. I can only holiday in some of these countries, but will never migrate to any of them.

Kobojunkie:
1. He was able to reasonably defend himself from his assaulter... that is what stopped him, and according to the law, that is also the best thing to do when one can.

2. Oh, I see! So, if the man had slapped you on the butt, for instance, that would also have been a "common excusable assault" and not sexual assault? WOW...

Slapping on the butt is sexual battery. So, you don't expect someone that gets slapped on the butt and another that gets slapped on the back to react the same way.

Anyways, back to the issue! So, though you admit that his uncle committed what you refer to as a misdemeanor against the OP, somehow you insist that OP had no reason to defend or return the favor? 🥱🥱

Come on! OP had no reason to defend himself since he wasn't in danger of any kind. According to the law, self defense is used to protect oneself or loved one from imminent attack or harm. So, what was OP trying to defend since the man didn't hit him twice or wield an object against him?

3. Your response to a misdemeanor committed by him against you is an overreaction, but his misdemeanor is not?

In law, even a judge can dismiss a misdemeanor charge. So, I still insist that the OP overreacted.🥱🥱

OP brought guns to a stick fight.

Lexzeey:
if dangote stoop so low to slap me for no apparent reason of course I'll retaliate, na me suppose teach am sense? If you're too stupid to wise up let's both be stupid together, it takes two to tango and two can very well play the game, of course I'd retaliate with every fiber in my being.

You know you won't retaliate, so stop capping.

Newgirl206:
Then again am trying to focus on my self and be happy again, is not going to be easy but I know God will see me through.
God bless you'll 🙏🙏

Go to your first post and continue from there by 'replying' to the post. Creating another thread wasn't necessary.

Kobojunkie:
1. If a cultist, he may not seek direct assault but report him to the police. Still, the law would be on his side even then.

So, what stopped him from reporting his uncle to the police instead of going physical? That would have been the best thing to do since he claims they have no relationship.

2. Wait a second... are you insinuating that if this uncle had maybe sexually assaulted you while drunk, you would do nothing about it? 🥱🥱

You just answered the question yourself. Slapping someone is a common assault and regarded as a misdemeanor. Sexual assault on the other hand is a felony that can attract a long jail term or even a death sentence. So, why should one react the same way to both actions?

3. You would apologize to someone who assaulted you because he was drunk and didn't know better, or because he is older than you and didn't know better? 🥱🥱

I would apologise to him because I over reacted, and not everything should be taken seriously; especially if the other party is much older. The uncle meant no harm at all, but the OP overreacted because he was holding a grudge.

I hope you get it?

According to some 'wiseacres' monikers above me, every story on Nairaland is fake. They are quick to debunk a story in order to create an impression that they are very smart and knowledgeable.

I don't know where the OP is going, but the story sounds so familiar....FB dating, marriage, domestic abuse, then separation within one month. If the story is fake, then I guess the people experiencing such abuse in real life must be robots.

kodix:
Hmmmm,datz very bad of you
If your uncle is dangote(a very big man) will you slap him!

@Lexzeey..can you honestly answer the question above? Let me ask another question: if it was a renowned cultist or bandit that slapped you, would you retaliate?

You clearly admitted that he was intoxicated, so your reaction was very wrong.

Put yourself in his shoes, and imagine been hit by someone young enough to be your son, regardless of the circumstances.

I think you were triggered by his criticisms due to guilty conscience. I should encourage you to go apologise, but of what use is that? He may never forgive you, and I am down with him on that.

Next time, you will learn how to control your temper and not flex muscles with someone physically weaker just because you bear a grudge against him.

Imagine committing such an abominable act in a country like America, and not facing the law until now.

The moronic wife who was afraid to speak out should be sentenced for being an accomplice.

Iyabo Ojo is the definition of keep trying by 'hook or crook', and one day you will make it. She transformed from an mgbeke actress to a formidable Nollywood celebrity. I admire her tenacity and her 'never give up' spirit.

This pastor Enenche has so many half siblings who are not doing well financially. I wonder why he doesn't assist them, but will rather contribute millions to purchase a private jet for someone that doesn't need it.

She was 23 when she got married, but has been unable to give birth after 15 years of marriage. This is strange given that women in their early twenties are very fertile.😏😏😏

Your wife only left the house and you are already crying. What will you do if she decides to leave you forever?

When I keep preaching to people not to give birth to a football or basketball team, they won't listen.

Imagine if you had just a kid, or at most two....you won't even bother if your partner leaves you because one or two kid can easily be taken care of.

ChybuzzDD:
Something is definitely wrong with you if you can't see the wickedness that woman exhibited there!

Something is definitely wrong with you if you can't differentiate between the two words 'strange' and 'bad'.

I keep saying that if you want to rid the society of crime, police should start by arresting babalawos. But can they dare to do that? Of course not because they also patronise them.

House rents are outrageous because someone is paying for it. If you boycott these landlords, their brain will reset.

Your husband is not an eye candy. The few women interested in him are only after his money. So, park well and allow them to have a taste since there is love in sharing.

Many paedophiles are on this thread. Imagine saying a primary five girl is no longer a virgin. If you know that much, it's because you are sampling such little girls and should be arrested asap.

Lol...All these mgbeke boys forming Chris Brown. Girls have nothing to offer bla...bla..bla.. As if they can offer anything better.😏😏😏

TechBaron:
They say “evolve or die.”
I try to keep l

I respect the effort these guys put in, and the financial rewards. No hate at all. But till today, I honestly can’t wrap my head around what viewers find so entertaining.

Bandwagon effect.

CC... Jobandvacancies... Come and claim this job asap, and quit your 30K monthly salary. I prophesy that this year shall be your year of breakthrough in chisus name. 🥺🥺🥺

A female child living with her biological father is bad enough, talk more of living with a man who isn't related to her by blood.

It is either he is already sexually molesting her or making passes at her. It is unfortunate that her evil mom supports the man. Just take a look at her facial expression in the picture.