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Regina is too young for this and Ned is too old for this. He will try to use all his connections to frustrate her, but she will fight back because she has a strong online presence. By the way, I didn't know Regina has an elder sister, how come she has never been in the news?

The average Nigerian is blood thirsty and it gets worse when religious fanatics are in the picture. Unfortunately, it is hard to find a muslim who is a non-fanatic. This makes me wonder what is in that quran that makes them tick.

goran3310:
Infatuation and passion always last for about three years, while love lasts a lifetime—or until a decision changes.
Love is a decision. A conscious decision. Such a decision requires a person of strong character.
For this reason, relationships realistically last around three years and then end in either a breakup or marriage.
Or marriages fall apart after three years for the same reasons. Passion and infatuation are not love.
There are clearly defined characteristics that distinguish a human from an animal.

True love doesn't exist in Nigeria. What we have is transactional relationships.

Online dating is for catching cruise na. Even if marriage eventually happens, just be prepared for break up because both of you are now in the real world. Sorry sis, but you have been scammed. Just move on.

Lol...next time, send her 1Million and let's see whether she will refund it.

The insecurity we are facing in Nigeria right now can be likened to what happens in the jungle where stronger wild animals prey on weaker ones. It is now survival of the strongest and it is time to arm ourselves because we are on the battle field fighting a war of survival.

These men can't do without women, but will always complain when a woman bills them. Didn't your momma teach y'all that a romantic relationship is transactional? You want her body, she wants your money, but all you do is whine.

It took forever for the police to nab him. Some people are just irredeemable; committing same crime over and over again, and just waiting to get apprehended.

2go is not where you go to when in need of online freelancers. So, tell us the exact services you wanted from the guy and let's start from there. My guess is that you were looking for a gay partner and he ended up scamming you.

Though I must admit that some Christians are being killed in some northern regions, ethnic war happening across the country have become unprecedented in recent times. The US should also look into that because things are getting out of hand.

I hate drinking pap. I was told even as a baby, I rejected it.

His careless talk will soon land him in jail.

I find it degrading that some women use pregnancies to trap men. Did both of you plan to have and raise a child together? You knew you weren't financially capable of raising a child, but didn't know how to prevent an unwanted pregnancy. I have always maintained that no woman will get pregnant if she doesn't want to, but when it eventually happens, please learn to bear the responsibilities and allow the dead beat father to rest. It is even annoying that she obviously wants his money and is unabashedly using the poor child to achieve her aim.

As for chief priest, you are a disgrace to humanity and if you keep denying the child, then don't turn up when he becomes an adult to claim responsibility because that is what most men are doing now. They deny their illegitimate kids when they are babies, and think they can lay claim to the child when he becomes an adult. You can't eat your cake and have it!

yemmit90:
Children of these days are something else, so you are greater than Sunny Ade, Ebenezer Obe, Shina Peter or even recent man Lagbaja?

How many sensible people in their 40's listen to Jargons of music you guys are singing nowadays. Can his song go beyond 5 years or become legacy song for incoming generations like those men I mentioned above. Has he ever sang a song that reflect the true state of country affairs like those men? Or he think those men too did not tour the world countless times during their days?

I think kolo has influenced his brain that he doesn't know what he is saying.

You are entitled to your opinion, same way he is entitled to his. Why are you pained over his opinion?

SmartPolician:
Women no really get taste oh. Just imagine the ug...ly man this beautiful lady married because of money

The man is not ugly and looks finer than most Nigerian men with pot belly. He even looks better than Ned Nwoko, your mentor.

Okay..okay...but we need to hear your mother's side of the story because it is easy to apportion blames when things turn around for the worst. I say this because at 17, you knew exactly what you were doing and didn't have to go be with a man even if your mother insisted. There is no justification for that, mami!

Efuaye:
There should be a law enacted to criminalize and punish anyone who engages in paternity fraûd.
Why should ladies be allowed to get away with this heart-rending daylight fraǔd?

Men cheat on women all the time and bear kids outside wedlock but you applaud them. Now, women are beating them in their games and you are crying foul. Stop being a hypocrite! What is good for the goose is good for the gander. [/antispam bot, just let me be]

They say it's a man's world! They say men are polygamous in nature and are entitled to side chics! Now, the tables have turned and they are crying foul. You can't cheat on a woman and expect her not to do the worst to you. Men, the world doesn't revolve around you, so stop whining.

Tenrack:
Hand go soon touch you. No worry.

Clown...

goran3310:
For me. Personally, for me—and likewise for any man who is QUALITY—money from a woman is not needed. I don’t need her status. I don’t need anything material. A person who is 40 years old and hasn’t been married must be extremely educated. For example, some kind of doctor + specialist in neurosurgery. At the very top of her field. Or some entrepreneur who has dedicated her life to business and now wants to fulfill herself on a family level.

I need proof that she is high-quality and worth it.
That she hasn’t gone from man to man, spending the best years of her life satisfying her selfish needs, and then, after turning 40+, decided to retire and settle down. To find a fool she can ride.

Also:
Divorced women are out of the question. They didn’t get divorced by accident. Especially divorced women with children. I will not raise someone else’s children—absolutely not.

All of the above does not apply to widows. In that case, the children are not a problem because those children have no living father, and she is not alone by choice.

Lol.. If you ever marry a woman in her 40s, you want a woman who is high quality. The question is, are you high quality enough for her to find you desirable? You don't need her money, but looking for someone at the peak of her career. In other words, you are looking for a woman who will stand as the perfect guarantor if you ever need a loan from a bank.

The honest truth is, no woman in her 40s who is at the peak of her career would want to settle for less. So, don't think so highly of yourself to think you are the prize. Go for your 20 year olds and widows with hundreds of body counts, and let single old cargos live in peace. If only you know what most widows do in the dark...

Tenrack:
Oga you're always spewing dung in your posts with your frail and flawed idealogies, forcing it down our throats. Is it by force to see things from your POV? To make your lame points you had to drag his Dad into it. Isn't that ignorance on your path? Dvmm fvxc

I guess you meant to type sophisticated ideologies, which explains why you always notice my post, but pained that I am not like you lot of ba..nd..wa..gons with ba...ck..wa..rd men..ta..lity. And to that [/antispam bot] always banning my post, just take your time.

Tenrack:
Lol so much ignorance in one post. Do they pay you for all these you do?

You clearly don't know the meaning of the bolded word.

From the last I heard, the main culprit was on the run. The fool abandoned school, left everything behind and took off. The father still maintains he didn't sexually violate the little girl, but him and his wife covered up for their son. That is what most Nigerian families would do; covering up for their criminal relatives. The bandists, kidnappers, cultists, ritualists, fraudsters and armed robbers we have belong to a family, some are married, have siblings, relatives. etc...who know about their crimes but choose to remain silent. These same people are the ones shouting: "Justice for Ochanya", just to trend. That kid needs justice, but her case shouldn't be turned into clout chasing.

Vikto17:
wrinkled face... my girl no worwor at all

The same wrinkled face that attracted you in the first place? Just manage her like that or take her for plastic surgery which you clearly cannot afford.

lilvicky68:
Marriage, the highest achievement for my sisters

Noted.

I don't see any reason why a lady should be celebrating her marriage as if it were one of life's achievement. It was clearly stated at the begining of time that marriage is for companionship, so it is only d..i..c..k heads that would mock a lady for getting married even at 60. If a 43 year old lady is too old for marriage, then tell your dads to dovorce your 60 year old moms because they are too old to stay married.

He might have given the relative some money, but definitely not tens of millions.

Gays should not be allowed to adopt kids. Why do they keep on indoctrinating these kids who may want to carve their own paths in life?

In saner climates, men don't discriminate against single mothers because being a single mom doesn't make one less of a human. But in Nigeria, all men do is condemn single moms, and still end up marrying a girl that did several abortions.

Why are you guys blaming ladies that bill guys? Your outburst should be directed at men who know that a lady is with them for the money, but they don't seem to mind because of their damaged self esteem. There are men who will starve their kids just to go satisfy a side chic. Between the man and the side chic, who is to be blamed?

But come to think of it, if women are always billing men, then why do we have so many broke boyfriends, and dead beat husbands scattered across the country? In a relationship, a man gives a woman money or gifts not because he is generous, but because he wants something. Do you expect the lady to give that thing for free? While men have misplaced priority, and clearly don't know what they want. One thing is sure, women are the smart ones and know exactly what they want.