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As it is, ladies should start doing their own shakara, biko. If you are older and want healthy babies, say no to 'after seven men'. Go for men in their 20s, pay them to donate a healthy sperm for you. As e be so, e dey hot! Luminouz love, where are you when I need you the most?

dauntless15:
And punctuating with all seriousness on an anonymous online forum translates to intelligence, lmao, you're even slower than the other one , this would be my last response to you sha.

At the emboldened...So, if that's what you think, why did you call someone unintelligent since it is an anonymous forum and the person might just be trolling or fooling around with all level of unseriousness? Since it was on this same anonymous forum that you claimed to be intelligent, the little you could have done was to prove it with your intelligent writing that encompasses perfect grammar, rich vocabulary, and well used punctuations. Now, you are making excuses for your inadequacies and masking it with obnoxious remarks. I guess, I am supposed to feel bad about that.

dauntless15:
Same thing I said, it's easy to discern what's worth your time and not, and you can tell if someone's intelligence matches yours or if it even close, like I just discerned yours right now, and I decide if it's worth my time or not after I discern how intelligent you are, it's not rocket science nor did I insinuate anything, just pointing out There's a level of intelligence you need to have before I agree to interact with you and if it's not it, it's not it, what's hard to understand there bro.

Lol..For someone who can't even use punctuations correctly, you must be suffering from delusional superiority to think you are more intelligent.

dauntless15:
whatever man, there's a level of intelligence I interact with, just know this so you won't expect more replies.

The butterfly thinks himself a bird! What makes you think you are more intelligent that the person you quoted? Because you said so? Anyways, talk is cheap and you just proved it.

You can't blame her for not liking Nigerians because most of them have bad energy and will not hesitate to plot evil against you. Their spiritual powers is only for destruction and they can never use it to better their lives.

Some ladies should strive to have a bit of dignity and not place monetary values on themselves. Why on earth would a gorgeous looking lady in the pic above settle for an mgbeke looking Ned because of money? Come to think of it, he could even be using jazz to remote these women because I know someone who was doing that where I once lived.

Watching the drama unfold between Ned and his beauty queen wife, Regina is interesting. Majority of Nigerian men have very poor and low esteem like Ned, and think with money, they can buy a queen. I have often wondered how they feel knowing that a woman is only with them for their money. I am certain the thought breaks Ned everyday, but he still keeps buying these women just to console himself that he can get any woman he wants. Strip him of all that money, and no woman will find him worthy as a partner. That must be very depressing!

1nigeriamyfoot:
A young girl of her age can never love an ancestor like Ned

Theres no way a young girl of such age to use clear eye knack Ned Nwoko

Go and have a look at the picture taken where the both of them rub black charcoal on their idg and ask yourself if you can allow your sister or daughter of such age to marry a man who looks like Ned

If it's about looks, how many Nigerian men have great bodies? The average Nigeria man is fat, has pot belly, and are mostly short. So, in terms of looks, Nigerian men ain't all that. But you guys console yourself that with money, an unattractive man can marry any beauty queen in Nigeria. Is Cubana chief priest not young, but is he attractive with his pot belly and height? The truth is, Ned is even better looking than Cubana chief priest who is young enough to be his son.

I am not saying Ned is attractive though..hell no... but his looks has nothing to do with his age. I have seen suave older men who are better looking because they take good care of themselves. A younger Ned will still look unattractive, so the issue of Regina Daniels misbehaving because Ned looks like an ancestor doesn't hold water. And that picture you mentioned...seeing it makes me wanna puke

Sammy101111:
Yellow girls they get luck men they always rush them

Rush them to become 5th, 6th, wives? Haba, if they were that lucky, they should be getting married as wife number one and not settling for second hand men.

luminouz:
Damn....you are good at this.

I hope I never have to eat your food!

Now, you are going to make me cry.

ledaman:
You don't have to believe him.
Moreover, he doesn't need your approval.
Why can't his other wives debunked his claims.

You already know why. Because they are still married to him, enjoying his money, and speaking out is not an option for them because they would rather cry in a lambo than in a keke. The truth is, majority of married women in Nigeria don't open up about domestic violence in their marriages as long as the man provides all their needs.

I don't believe him because narcissists are known to be pathological liars and gaslighters. If she is doing drugs, then maybe it is to escape his abuse and torments.

MarketDispatch:
They are separated if she packs out

Did I say otherwise?

luminouz:
Now you know why I keep rejecting your advances!!!

Lol...you want to put words in my mouth.

Why do most female athletics often look masculine?

Telltruth123:
Please Nairaland members, please which side hustle can I do that can sustain my family. I am a graduate that works from Monday to Saturday but the salary is not sustainable, reality Dawn on me when my daughter gained admission to university last month, I borrowed money to pay acceptance fee and the school fees is yet to be paid.
I have realized that my salary cannot sustain the family and I don't want to live a life of begging people for help, I want to work and be able to provide for my family. We cannot afford fish or meat , I collected salary last month end, and I used it to pay for debt for acceptance fees
We moved to our uncompleted building where we are managing one room, for the past two months now when there is no light, we beg people to fetch water because we don't have borehole, some people will not give us due to the present situation of the country, we go far away to fetch water and you can't go there until after 3 days, it's like to be a life human being is war.

My husband do commercial bus driver, after paying the owner of the bus daily, he gives us N1,000 or N1,200 which cannot sustain us, he said he also take N1,000 for food. Nairaland members have helped me but I want my own work to be able to sustain me, since yesterday, I have been worried because my daughter that gained admission will start asking for money.
Please anybody that can help me with side hustle I can do, am ready to learn, I don't want to beg, I want my work to be able to sustain the family, I manage the little resource I have but it cannot sustain us.
Thank you

OP, I am curious about the emboldened. If you are graduate, then what is your husband's qualification? What sort of job do you do and how much do you earn monthly? The 1K your husband gives you daily is supposed to provide for how many family members? After using 1K to eat his own food, will he also join you guys to eat at home? Why can't he give you more, so you can cook and package some for him to eat later?

Additionally, why are you the one carrying the family's financial burdens? Why can't your husband do more to sustain the family? You are getting yourself worked up, and I find it interesting that you guys started a building project. The truth is, you should never have embarked on that project; considering your financial constraints. It is good to own a house, but not at the expense of your immediate needs. My advice is for you to put the house up for sale,, use the proceeds and do one of those bank investments that guarantees at least 5% monthly interest. That should ease off some of your financial burdens. With time, you will be able to own another land and start another building project. You can't have over ten million naira asset at your disposal and still be crying for money.

Online fables just to trend! That she left the house doesn't mean she has called it quits permanently. They are still traditionally married because no bride's family will return a bride price in two weeks; unless it is a life or death situation. There is still room for reconciliation, so the man should go and beg her because she is a good woman worthy of marriage.

Hassanmaye:
They're just lucky

Trust me, they are not. Don't believe anything you read online. Regina Daniels said more, but here we are today.

Regina Daniels shared many love stories and made us believe she had a good marriage, but karsala has bursted. The truth is, people's perception of a good marriage is relative. A woman married to a rich man that provides all her needs may think she has a good marriage even though she is suffering from domestic violence and walking on egg shells around the husband. Another woman may be married to a broke, unambitious, irresponsible, but peaceful man, and may also think she has a good marriage because he doesn't hit her.

The truth is, in Nigeria, there is no good marriage per se, but people are just enduring, and pretending that all is well. A man may look responsible, provides all your needs, doesn't hit you, but he may still have a dark secret that he is keeping from you. Would you consider that as having a good marriage? Same goes for some women too! It's not me trying to demonize the marriage institution, but it is what it is! I, for instance don't care whether a marriage is good or bad because I don't intend to stay long in a marriage anyways. Regardless, I still encourage people to get married because it is considered an achievement in Nigeria.

Saturnalia:
This sounded like a Nollywood Script. I would take it with a pinch of salt.

I stopped reading after the first few lines. Writing on a forum should sound real, and people should be able to relate with it. If I want to read a fictional novel, I know where to go.

Omoawoke:
Which kind wife be this one?

May our wife not cut our joy short

And may our wife and concubines never meet - this one is very important

And you are proud of yourself fpr spewing such trash. Most married women are really trying for staying married to second hand men that don't value or respect them.

wirinet:
Mean cheat because the can, and that been the way it had been since the dawn of history. Mean have multiple wives, concubines or girlfriends if they have the money, power or drive to maintain them. It's in modern times that it's called cheating, before it was tradition.

Tradition kee you there! You lots just like to endorse nonsense behaviors and call it tradition because it suits you. If it is traditional to have multiple women, is it not also traditional that the man should be the family's sole provider since he is the head of the family? Why then do you people complain if the wife is not contributing financially? If you want to talk history, maybe you should start by telling us why you are not married to one of your half sisters or cousins since men used to do so in the past. Additionally, if you want to lecture me about tradition and men having multiple wives, don't you know women(especially those in rural locations) also like to change men like wrappers?

Even to this day, there are women who don't tolerate nonsense from men and I know many rural women who were married to at least three men at the same time during their lifetime. If one man annoys them, they will pack their things and relocate to the other man's house. Will you also call that tradition, and even if it is, does that make their behaviors right? The truth is, we still have sensible men who know that polygamy or cheating as a married man is wrong, and since you clearly are not one of those men, just keep shut.

Ewedegubbler:
The wife cannot play the role of the side Chick.
There are women men date and have fun wit whilst there are women that men marry. 💃

Know that and receive sense.

How someone can audaciously justify men that cheat as if it were something to be proud of should be studied in Harvard. My joy is that women have become sensible and are giving men a run for their money in the cheating game.

Was her ex husband not married when she started dating him?

Why should she mourn the traitor? If the tables were turned, wiuld he mourn her?

Married to a pretty lady but still imports women for party. Some men are just insatiable.

Rewarding bad behavior should be declared a crime.

Tareq1105:
In other words, the old man doesn't have sense abi? Is that your take? You lack wisdom and that's what the old man just taught you.

At his age, you want him to be taking care of his grandchildren and be doing schoolrun so that his murdered son can come back alive abi?

And at 80+ and he die tomorrow, the children should be brought to your house to look after them abi or he should take them to motherless home?

Think about it again. The old man is not a foolish person, he puts the lives and future of the 2 children above his pains and that's why he wrote for govt to pardon her.

Imagine Atiku said Tinubu put politics above humanity. He goofed seriously.

Since you have the emboldened, why didn't you think that it could be dangerous to entrust the lives of two kids into the hands of a murderer? So many kids in Nigeria grew up without their parents. Did they die? What values does a murderer have that she can possibly instil in her kids? Are we talking about the same kids she denied before or did she give birth to more kids while in jail?

Please spare me the sermon! A woman that has killed before in cold blood won't hesitate to kill again when provoked. I am even afraid for her kids because she is a danger to them. Your point that the father-in-law cannot raise the kids is ridiculous. Must he be the one to train them? Since she has family members that supported her heinous crime, then why can't they be compassionate enough to train her kids?

Let me ask you a simple question: 'would you embrace your mom or look her in the eye if you ever find out that she killed your dad in cold blood'? We all know the answer to that and the kids should not be made to go through the emotional torture of having to live with a mother who is a murderer. It's a pity her family members don't even care about the trauma the kids will struggle with if their mother reunites with them. You are lucky that the bots are on a banning spree or I could have unleashed my venomous tongue for supporting what is clearly not right.

Blankstare:
Nija delta did for resource control, what do this ones agitating for?

So, agitating for a cause gives you the right to hold the country to ransom, kidnap and murder innocent citizens? The Niger Delta militants are no different from the bandits, so don't try to justify their actions.

I cannot fathom how people support their relatives who are murderers. That her family even lobbied for her release shows the kind of low life family she is from. The moment anyone in my family choose to take a life, that person will be treated like a criminal and I will personally advocate for justice to to be administered on him or her. I don't tolerate nonsense!