₦airaland Forum

They killed her because they are extremists and not because they are Muslims. Unfortunately, there are more Muslim extremists and it will take a lifetime to reorientate and groom them into becoming humans.

I thought he was going to reject the appointment. If sychophancy was a name, it would be best suited for Reno only. Some people are indeed shameless!

Ashawoman82:
urs is coming soon, in your mind u think nairaland is a faceless forum... Dont worry..

Ogbeni, I dey wait oh.

22o62021:
And wheelbarrow pushers are married with 4 children, feeding well.

Many of you want to show off, if your kids don't attend private schools, you will see it as a failure

My salary per month is unstable.

Some months I may see 100k
Others 300k

Not a salary earner sha

Some wheel barrow pushers may even earn more than 100K monthly. But that assertion that they feed their children well is pure lies. What is your definition of feeding well? Is it by eating carbohydrates all day?

There is this family man I know that earns over 100K. He has 4 kids and his wife is a private school teacher that earns about 10K. The man uses his bike to do okada as side hustle but things are glaringly hard for him.

The kids are not eating right, and you can tell by their stunted growth. I'm sure just because the man can afford to feed his kids with 3 square meals, enrol them in a private school and provide clothings for them, he thinks he made the right decision to marry on a meagre salary.

But the honest truth is, if he had stopped after giving birth to his first son, things would have been better. Unfortunately, in Nigeria, people see multiple kids as a blessing and feel pity for those who were unable to have more than one kid.

SpencerForbes:
— Even if 40k is small, let’s consider ₦100k, doesn't that base salary give a smart person enough leverage or stability to develop other reliable sources of income?

— Considering spousal collaboration, if his wife is contributing another ₦40k, couldn't they pool their resources to successfully start a small POS business or provision store?

— Let's be realistic: Do having expensive cars and a big house truly guarantee a stable and happy family life?

— Are all the children raised in absolute luxury automatically better or more successful than those who grew up living average, yet structured, lives?

You don't have to live in a big house, but a decent accommodation is very important for one's mental health.

I see men getting married while living in one room apartment and I wonder how they cope. The truth is, there is always a difference between kids brought up in a refined neighborhood, and those brought up in a 'face me, I face you apartment.

SpencerForbes:
— Is it compulsory to give birth the first 3 years?

— Is marriage sponsorship or partnership?

— How many years are you going to buy pampers and baby food?

— What is the country’s minimum wage?

— How do you expect people in rural areas to procreate, or procreation should only be limited to the rich?

— What happened to starting a side hustle?

— How many men above 40k have more than 2 million in their account?

More questions loading………..

Yes, it is in Nigeria because that is the only reason why Nigerians get married.

uuzba:
Hmm.
If lady is industrious and earning same N100k, she will lose respect for the man.
Afterall, she's earning same as him.
She can even put leg inside same trousers as him.
Respect is lost.

It's your type that will go into unhealthy competition with your wife because of your bloated ego. So, if a woman earns more than a man, she she will start disrespecting him?

The reason a man earning 100K may want to gamble his way into marriage is because Africans, (especially Nigerians) see marriage as an achievement, a blessing and compulsory. Otherwise, majority of men will never consider marriage with such a meagre income.

Regardless, some people are terrific planners and will know how to manage 100K monthly. But it can get brutal if the wife isn't contributing to anything, and she goes ahead to give birth.

PepeXKermit:
You sound like a moumou with your ifism. Today, in this dimension and reality, he is doing what he is doing because of his capacity..

You just made me recall what a mad man told my very refined neighbour years ago. He said: "Look this mumu". I guess you are smart enough to catch my drift.

Bandits or terrorists? It appears the kidnappers we have now have outnumbered Nigerians and even security operatives. At this rate, we should designate them as chief security operators.

He was talented but not charismatic enough to charm movie viewers. As an actor, talent and good looks are not enough. You need charisma to become a successful actor.

Abegi! Would he have done the same if he were a nobody who can't afford two square meals? People hurl insults at each other everyday, and call themselves names, but the world has not ended.

It becomes a different ball game if you use your status to punish someone just because you have the means. He should take a back seat because he is not entirely innocent. I guess he will come and arrest me too.

My question is, why do most people keep washing machine inside the kitchen? Is it because there is not enough space in their bathrooms?

This man though, he should leave politics and tell us why he keeps exploiting the medics students enrolled in his school.

If you don't spend on your family, who else is there to spend on? However, there are certain family members that I don't like spending extravagantly on because of their selfish nature.

Sonnobax15:

Na WA..


Na Dem lost

So the day these two native hens were born, neighbors from both far and near came together to celebrate their births too?

Don't be surprised that your girlfriend has her own girlfriend too. The brutal truth is, most girls who are sexually active are also bi sexuals.

You guys stress yourself this much only to end up graduating as half baked doctors.

These bandits have guts and a strong support system. Imagine leaving their vicinity to go terrorise Easterners.

AfDapone:
That is what the thread is all about. Non family oriented men and women are M O S T L Y the ones that birthed criminals in the society.

What makes you think that a lady that wears leg chain is not family oriented? You or the OP could even be a cultist, but losing sleep over a lady's physical appearance.

Plus, no one births a criminal. People grow up and choose to become criminals.

RevenuesBoost:
Having you in our lives is the greatest gift that we ever received from Nature.

Happy Birthday Once again Our Little Angel and Many More 🎂🎉

https://youtube.com/shorts/6G7_zqzkMxY?si=ODa_VIXT-inpwald

Say hi to my cute angel. She is starting to look like you.

ibechris:
Pls,stop posting ur baby all over the Internet.

The world is cruel...this child also deserves the right to her own privacy.

Baby light every where...be careful madam.

Your concerns are valid, but try to understand that the OP is more of a content creator and using baby Light in her post is part of her marketing strategies.

Plus, the real people we should be hiding from are 'village people'. But can we really hide from them?

He looks great for his age, but I think Soyinka is older and looks better than him.

Stale! Don't you men have better things to do with your time than to always criticise women? What bearing does leg chains have on one's character?

Bandits are killing people, young boys have become cultists, ritual killings is on the rise, but it is a woman's physical appearance that is giving you high BP. Smh!

Hmmn... For him to still maintain his innocence could mean two things: either he is a psycho or he is truly innocent. 76 stab wounds is a lot, and it is only a psycho that will pull off something like that and still act cool.

However, it is very easy to determine whether he stabbed his wife or not. Was his finger prints on the knife? The neighbour who claimed they were fighting on that day should tell us how long the woman's screams lasted and whether it sounded like she was in pains.

Saying she stabbed herself because she was possessed sounds plausible because I have witnessed something like that before. But 76 stab wounds sounds like a scene from Hollywood. Regardless, I think the case should be revisited because the evidence against him sounds very weak and the judge sentenced him based on emotions.

Men who deny their kids at birth, shouldn't be allowed to come close to them when they grow up. Women should stop according such privileges to irresponsible men because they don't deserve it.

nams77:
Warri, Asaba, Ughelli, sapele , kwale, which market?

I like how you micro-manage funds and your ability to whip out something nice from every small money that other women will say e no reach.
Also keep giving your man respect. It's is the secret to marital bliss. What every man desires is respect first before love.
You will go far my daughter.

Respect is reciprocal. You cannot respect who doesn't deserve it.

Most broke people have a feeling of entitlement, and are always expecting hand outs from others. Even the people criticising the brother on this forum will do the same if they were in his shoes.

The bottom line is to hustle harder and make your money so you won't spend each day expecting people to give you peanuts.

Witches only use their powers to kill and destroy. They are senseless!

Omoawoke:
A girl with a high body count is a real red flag

It shows lack of conviction, direction and focus

It means she lacks discipline and home training…. She doesn’t value herself as a woman

So as a responsible man, I make sure I chop enough of these girls and when it comes to marriage, I will find a responsible girl with very low body count , the one that values her body.

Some girls body count came from their failed relationships they thought was going to work and they were truly in love … I can’t fault them for that, even at that it should be within 2 to 3 or 4 at most.

But a girl that have slept with multiple men, cheaply, sleeping with every crush and every guy that manages to sweet talk her… is a no no no!!!
They will say past don’t matter… it matters!!
And when I catch you, I will nak you too and leave you !! Walahi Talahi

Lol...You are still a learner. There is no way to tell whether a girl has more or less body count. Plus, the girls you think are responsible may be wilder that you think.

Lol....this is the problem with people who are financially comfortable. They think their children are the 8th wonders of the world. Just tell your guests what you don't like, and everything will be fine.

Okay. Let's put it more clearly, jihadists are terrorists!