₦airaland Forum

That serves him right! Though the judge was lenient with the judgement, and he will be out of jail in less than 3 years. I hope he becomes a better person by then.

Omoawoke:
It’s just a natural order , male chase female across the animal kingdom

And men aren’t superior to women

It’s not a competition… no one is weaker..
Both have their differences, including strengths and weaknesses

There are some things women are better at doing than men and vice versa
So best is to find a spouse that is compatible and work together, not compete against each other (modern feminist devilish ideology )
And a woman ought to be submissive to her man! (A good man though)

And many men may chase a woman, but when it comes to marriage and giving a woman a family name, the man makes the decision! And the girl that gets the ring is like winning the World Cup… like she literally won!!
That’s why girls scream and celebrate when they finally get the ring… (out of many girls competing for that ring, he chose you!)

Choosing someone doesn't mean you like them. I have seen men get married to women for ulterior motives. So, why should a woman be overjoyed simply because a man chose her? Osinachi's husband chose her, remember?

cr7lomo:
U are the one justifying nonsense..... u always wanna blame men for women's bad behaviour.... why only reprimand the person that reacted.. why not the person that started it.. a man would not act the way Sultana did cos men are more respectful than women.. women always feel entitled an very unapologetic...

There was a task given to them by Big brother.... Sultana decided to abandon the task to play snooker ... she dint contribute to gevtSk despite faith asking her to leave what she was doing. .. after faith the others had gone far with the task , she appeared and took the bucket that was used for te task and wanted to now lead and take control .. faith dint agree to it and asked her to return the bucket, she refused and instead started walking away with the bucket. ... and u wanna justify that??

A bucket that was used for a task and didn't belong to him. Was he the only one in that group, and why didn't the rest react like he did? He wanted to prove that he was a macho man and paid dearly for it. I like that he was booted out of the house. It will serve as a lesson to aggresive men like him who can't control their emotions.

OBTMOS:
This must be so hard on her!
I pray she finds a man that will at least put a smile on her face and make her feel less lonely!
And may God direct her path bcus this situation can lead her to anything.
Sad indeed.

How many men treat their women well, talk less of an orphan who has nobody to fight for her?

But, how is it wrong for a lady to sleep with her ex before her wedding? I thought you guys said any girl who is advanced in age but not married has a bad character? So, if you decide to marry a girl with good character, why are you complaining that she slept with her ex or still sleeping with her ex? She is only displaying her good character which you should be proud of.

Omoawoke:
Men are the prize actually

A mantra crafted by men just to make them feel good and superior to women. If men are the prize, then why do they do the chasing 99% of the time?

APOPTOSIS:
For those who respect, listen, desire and willing to come under the tutelage of men, may it be granted unto them their heart desires. But for those who want to do so for neighbor sake or for publicity, most especially those who detest men with innate hatred, labeling them dogs, may they never have anything to do with men.

For those who have nothing else to offer besides making babies, not even a wise counsel, may they keep searching. However, for those who are ready and have got a lot to offer, may their desires be granted unequivocally.
Singlehood is not a crime, rather also a means to a peaceful existence too.

How can they come under the tutelage of men when most men have nothing to offer? :-

Omoawoke:
I am not shaming single women, only saying the reality

A woman prefers to have a man in her life… married or dating than being single.
It’s the sad reality.
So unfortunate there are some women having terrible time ma in marriages, same goes for men too.. there are men who have become shadows of themselves after getting married to the wrong women.


But the fact remains, women will rather prefer to have a man in their lives than being single.. it’s one singular achievement that they aim for.
Every woman wants a good man! I repeat- They want a good man in their lives…. No doubt about this…

So does everyman. Infact, almost everyone wants a good friend, sibling or kid in their lives. My question is, why do you people make a fuss if a woman wants a good man in her life and act like men are the prize?

Omoawoke:
Are you a woman?
Do you have a man in your life?

See, I’m speaking based on first hand experience with ladies that are doing very well for themselves and are single

When I mean doing very well, they are very successful in their careers, independent and classy… forget all the show to the public, there’s no single of of them that their only accomplishment left is finding a husband. And some times they ask the rhetorical question “is success the sacrifice to having a man?”
This is no capping, all women want someone to call a man!

Do you know how sad it gets when they have to buy themselves flowers or gifts to celebrate Valentine or birthdays.
Or when they travel solo or do girls trips…. When one of them finally gets a husband, that one leaves their group of girls like she has found gold.
And they begin to envy her and pray for their own husbands

Funny how you use the women you know (who are less than 1% in population) to form your opinion. Funnier how you think that getting gifts from men is exclusive only to married women. How many Nigerian men remember their wives birthdays or even buy them gifts? How many of them are romantic enough to buy them flowers on Valentine?

There are women who are married but single! They prefer solo trips, and would rather do things alone because they married a jerk. If a woman you know feels unfulfilled without a man, then that is her problem. There are thousands of other women living their lives without a man and they are happy. How many women in Nigeria have a good marriage? Just a handful! How many of them want to get out of their marriages? Many, but they can't because they are scared of being judged.

You people use marriage to shame single women to the extent that I overhead a mad man the other day ranting that he never wants anything to do with a Nigerian woman. If your so called 'successful female friends' are desperate for marriage, why can't they use their money and influence to find themselves a partner? What are they waiting for? I will tell you why they are single. It is because the men who come their way are nothing to write home about.

For what it is worth, as a woman, there is nothing wrong in wanting the right man to spend your life with. But it becomes a big deal when single women are shamed for it and made to feel like men are the prize. A prize that brings nothing but sorrow to a woman may not be worth it afterall. On a final note, if a man feels unfulfilled without a job, then why make it a fuss when a woman feels unfulfilled without a man?

cr7lomo:
Sultana should also be disqualified cos she triggered it... go and find out what really happened... she tried to bully the guy and then when the guy reacted, she formed victim like most women do

The guy's reaction is the issue here. We get triggered on a daily basis, but we learn to control our emotions. If it was a guy that triggered him, would he have reacted that way? Stop justifying nonsense!

Omoawoke:
A Woman is not fulfilled until she has a husband

Charlie Kirk was right on this one… say no to feminism, women be supportive and submissive to your husband and the ultimate goal of every young lady should be to find a Husband

Welldone Lisa for doing the right thing

Marrylisa.com

Stale...Come up with something new and I will take you seriously.

PepeXKermit:
Do not approach, there is a reason she is single at 42..

You are right. The reason is because she keeps meeting men like you.

Guys who are always bashing single women for not getting married, did you read what she wrote up there? She may be in her 40s but is not desperate enough to settle for any Tom, Dick and Harry that comes her way. This justifies what I have always stressed about: 'Not every woman will settle for any man just to please society'. It is very easy to get married, but the problem is, most men available for marriage are 'second hand' materials.

I saw the video of the confrontation he had with Sultana and all I could see was a very aggressive man capable of beating his partner to stupor. I feel so excited that he was disqualified because it feels like a lesson to men his type.

The 50 Cent I used to know was facially unattractive. I noticed he started to look appealing since he gained weight. Dude acts like a jerk and talks too much.

Any man that leaves all the responsibility of taking care of a baby for the mother alone is not ready to be a dad. Those chores you mentioned are normal things that every dad should do. Unfortunately, most Nigerian men shy away from doing them because of the shallow mentality exhibited by Africans which put men on a pedestal whilst women are made to endure suffering. So, if your husband is taking care of the baby both of you are parenting, he is not doing you any favor, but doing what he is supposed to do as a dad.

tnerro1:
No be she dey do 3some with SDM for Abuja wey nedu catch them, joe boy can do better than that. Any woman wey fit open leg make one man dey enter them together is the worse form of immorality a woman can scope to. Imagine him using the same rod to service both of you together , shame on any woman doing that

Well said. Some women have no morals, same with some men who think having a party makes them a real man.

buygala:
So Michael and Gabriel are gender-neutral names?


When last did you drink water?

Females bear Michael and Gabriel too. Go and eat first, then come back for more lectures.

buygala:
Is women leading a church even Biblical?

All the Biblical Kings of Israel..all male

All the Biblical prophets ....male

All the Biblical disciples ...Male

All the angels mentioned in the Bible...Male...Name one female Angel mentioned in the Bible and I go dop 50k for ya aza

God himself is always referred to as "He" in the Bible


Whatever rocks their boat anyway....

I am sure you haven't even eaten today. Angels don't have any gender.

The funny things is, among us the black race we call ourselves demeaning names such as 'monkey', 'ugly' and 'blacky', but will be quick to condemn white people when they do the same.

Lol...I can count up to three women with at least a kid that belongs to another man whilst married to their husbands. Do I blame them? No..The truth is, the reason men are complaining is because they can't get pregnant. Women cheat with their ex partners, but men cheat more with every Janet, Monica and Ngozi. So, since both men are women can't be loyal to each other, let the best gamer win.

galantjoe:
It happened in UK where she has a house

Really? I always thought it happened in Nigeria. Now I understand why some people said she died for nothing.

TRUTHaDDICTED:
stop looking at her makeup and concentrate on her skin.

Heck! Are you a kid or trying to play dumb? Ini, Genevieve, Omotola and co are in their 40s and look it. It means, those in their 40s are still young people. I was trying to let you know that this woman is way above 40 (probably in her 60s) and you are here spewing trash.

madridguy:
The Ibos were slaves to the Igalas for over two centuries.

Interesting! But how come the Igalas became the minority if they ruled over the Ibos years ago?

Guyman02:
Many people don't know that Igala is a tribe in Anambra, although most of them speak Igbo language but they are still acknowledged and have a good number working in the state Civil service sector and security agencies.
Same is applicable to Enugu state which have Idoma/Igala communities in Nsukka zone of the state.
Anambra Govt radio stations and TV have Igala language program times, Igbos don't suppress people but always ready to tap from your areas of strength to improve themselves.
Some of the popular masquerades in Igbo land were copied from Igala and Efik cultures

Really? I am just hearing this for the first time. Hmnn...

A woman adopting her father's name after marriage was a tradition crafted by men to control women. A married woman can choose to bear whatever name she feels like and no man has the right to challenge that.

Mr Eazi wouldn't have been your only 'best friend' if you had experimented with other men. The truth is, I don't like him for her.

TRUTHaDDICTED:
If at all this lady is up to 45yrs then she's not more than 45yrs. So na una sabi wetin una mean by younger and older there of'.

Does she look like a woman in her 40s to you? Perharps, you are blind.

YoungBTCxchange:
because when they were young most of them was claiming feminist and I can't settle for less gang, but old age has caught up with them, and no oyibo man will want to settle down with old cargo.
Nigeria boys dey do am because of money

White men don't have shallow mentality like all of you black men. They don't discriminate against women based on their looks or age. As long as the emotional connection is there, they stick with you.

Abaman001:
What if the man don't owned a car at all, won't the medical emergency be taking care of through other means? So those who don't own cars has all lost their lives bah?

What if? Since the post says he owns a car, I commented based on the information that was posted. Regardless, people have lost their lives because there was no vehicle to convey them to the hospital. It cannot be everyone, but it has happened, and it is still happening to the unfortunate ones. So, don't use your weak point to defend a selfish man and his silly ways.

galantjoe:
She was fearing what happened to Nigerian newscaster Tukumbo Ayayi in uk in 2000 not to happen to her . that was why she came to Nigeria, eventually same fate befell on her.

I thought the rape incident with Tokunbo happened in Nigeria.

The man is selfish for allowing his kids to hop on a bike when he has a car. What stops him from teaching the woman how to drive or even getting a driver to do the job in his absence?

The woman is stupid for posting about it to her followers and then make a u-turn to defend the man. What if there is a medical emergency that requires one of the kids to be taken to the hospital at midnight?