₦airaland Forum

Ishilove:
There's nothing anybody will tell me to convince me otherwise that this body disproportionate buttocks I am seeing is not the product of BBL. NOTHING

It is, actually. No one can dispute that.

He is not a looker, so I guess he must be loaded.

MadHeadLeft2:
Or he could have coordinated with middlemen money washers, send the pp funds, they move it around, take a cut and send the rest, or buy gift cards with the pp, redeem with Chinese vendors, convert to cash. Lol

You will soon be next.

ByBitVictim:
Story for the gods. The guy is so rude and always insulting me. What do you have to say about him lieing he has exceeded his Opay daily transfer limit that was why he couldn’t refund my 900k.

Or him lieing ByBit froze the Solana I paid for and Opay also froze his account

I attached screenshots proof for you to see. Up till now I have not received my Solana or my 900k have not been refunded to my Opay account

If you claim you have been doing P2P, then you should know that his Solana was locked by bybit which acts as escrow in P2P transactions. Though the guy is rude and troublesome, it is possible he truly has some trouble with Opay, provided the proof to bybit, and that could be reason for the delay.

On Gate exchange, they give a seller not more than 30 minutes to provide proof that you haven't received the funds. After which the coins are released to the buyer. Bybit clearly have their own rules, regardless, there is no cause for alarm because your funds are safe

A mother eulogising her daughter's second hand husband as the perfect in-law is ridiculous, and doesn't speak well of her. Of all the single men in the world, her 30 year old daughter had to choose a 50 year old father of seven. God abeg oh!

Jozilinn:
I don't comment but I had to because this one sweet me,I don't watch bbnaija but the girl too do 😅😅

You don't watch BBN, but you know her. If you admit that you watch the show, will you die?

Xlyad:
Those are not his words but rather a quotation from the Bible

The people who authored the bible were misogynists.

Ebenezer2021:
up till now you refused replying my mail

Lol...because I am not Ah..nie...

The way wild animals prey on weaker animals, is the same way we have wild humans who attack weaker people. These wild humans should be confined to a zoo, and not a prison yard because they have no human feelings and shouldn't be living among humans.

Didijiji:
I watch the video

The guy mend the woman well

It is scary why a married woman would knack another man

I hear them talk about DNA and the results and I wonder what a married woman thinks opening nyash for another man, allowing him knack her without protection, allowing him cum inside of her and then carrying the baby and finally hanging the baby on the neck of the muumu husband

Men taught women how to cheat, so they have no right to complain when women show them shege pro max in the game.

Most men don't respect their wives at all. If you beat an adult like this, then how will you treat your children when they misbehave?

Xking:
What stigma are you talking about or you're going out telling people that you are positive?! Well I've been living with it for 5 years now and only my family, my ex( she is negative and was negative and she knew and we did it without protection) and my two of my distance friends. I'm on my drugs and I can't infect anyone because I'm undetectable.

She knew you were negative, she was negative and slept with you without protection. Continue...

How can someone be nuts and shameless at the same time? Double wahala!

Lol...650K monthly for a 2 hours job. What sort of low class lie is this? The funny part is, it is people based abroad that exploit their fellow Nigerians the most knowing full well that labor is very cheap and under priced over here.

bestman09:

Hope she has a good character. Being single at 40 is not a good thing for me.


Her mother must be regretting leaving her husband!

Who cares about your opinion?

charlsecy:
Meaning if the husband is the sole provider, he should never participate in the chores?

How many men are sole providers in Nigeria?

pansophist:
The thing about spec is that its all built on fantasy. `What lots of women fail to realise is that they might not be the spec of the men that asked for their hand in marriage.

The difference between men and women is that men live in reality despite their desire/delusion, but women live in their delusion despite reality.

This spec of a thing are not qualities for a long-lasting marriage. Spec mostly satisfies a person's vanity. Spec should never be a basis for choosing a partner.

When women choose men themselves, they usually go for spec and ignore the most important thing. When the challenges of life comes knocking, I hope such spec can be there to wither the storm.

What lots of women fail to realise is that they might not be the spec of the men that asked for their hand in marriage.

Exactly! That is because they couldn't get the type of women they desired, and had to compromise on their stand. Some women will never do the same and no one has the right to judge or condemn them.

The difference between men and women is that men live in reality despite their desire/delusion, but women live in their delusion despite reality.

Only broke men live in reality, and this is why the average Nigerian man believes that with your money, you can get any beautiful woman to marry you. Infact, most men ditch the women they dated when the were broke for wild pretty girls as soon as they hit the jack pot. So, what reality are you talking about?

This spec of a thing are not qualities for a long-lasting marriage. Spec mostly satisfies a person's vanity. Spec should never be a basis for choosing a partner.

When women choose men themselves, they usually go for spec and ignore the most important thing. When the challenges of life comes knocking, I hope such spec can be there to wither the storm.

I agree that spec mostly satisfies a person's vanity, but would you rather have a woman settle for 'Mr available' only to cheat on him with her spec? Like some people have rightly said: 'we live once', and since marriage is supposed to be an everlasting thing, there is nothing wrong in wanting a spec for marriage.

As for your last statement, challenges of life will always come knocking in marriages, and not every man (whether spec or not) will be capable of withering the storm. I know women who settled for 'Mr available' and did not have it good in their marriages. So, at the end of the day, nothing is guaranteed!

RevenuesBoost:
Read my write-up with comprehension.

Most women that married right, set a standard for themselves.
Setting a standard is different from having a bad character.

What you wrote up there was well understood. You said: "ANY PRETTY WOMAN IN HER 30's, or older, of course, who isn't married is because she has a bad character. You didn't make any exceptions and your post suggests that as long as you are in your 30's or older, pretty, but not married, then you must have a bad character. In other words, only women with good characters get married, while the pretty ones with bad character remain single.

So, I asked you a question: "if that were the case, why are runs girls and rude girls getting married, while so many pretty good girls that abound across Nigeria are still single? You cleverly evaded that question and you are now contradicting yourself by saying that most women that married right, set a standard for themselves.

If that is the case, then why ridicule or chastise older single women who are yet unmarried? Don't you think some of them are still single because they want to marry right by setting standards for themselves? Why should you conclude it's because they have bad character, and not because of the standards they have set for themselves?

Let me blunt with you. Not every woman can settle for any man. On a general note, a man may be a woman's super hero, but some women will rather remain single than settle for him. Why? Because they have a 'type', and will never compromise their stand. What you people fail to understand is, getting married is the easiest thing for any woman if she is the type that is ready to stick to any man. Most women who get married every weekends, are not happy because they had to end up with the the most available guy, and not with men their type. Know this and have peace!

Nnamdipapa:
Marriage is never an achievement. Its only poor africans who consider marriage an achievement. You can be fulfilled and happy as a single individual. You may also choose to raise kids as a single person and still be fulfilled.

Lol... I was trying to be sarcastic though.

tanigororo:
Whoever lied to women that marriage is not an achievement is doing them wrong.

Yeah, marriage is an achievement and it feels exhilarating that this so called achievement has sniffed the life out of many women.

RevenuesBoost:
I remembered telling my husband that, "any pretty woman that is approaching her 40s with no husband has a bad character that she needs to fix"

He smiled, analyzed it, thought of the people around him that's aged but not married and concluded that it's true.

What is your definition of a bad character since all the runs girls, rude girls and gold diggers that I know are married? However, I know other good girls who are in their 30's and 40's and are unmarried because they have set standards for themselves. Would you advice them to marry any man that comes their way just because of societal pressure or the desperation to become a Mrs?

Lol...Nigerians and marriage matter. It's baffling how Nigerians percieve single women in Nigeria as unaccomplished and inferior. Look at this woman running her mouth like a tap water just to condemn her friend simply because she has set her standards for men. She is obviously envious of her friend because her type will even marry a lunatic just to have the Mrs title.

I know women who rushed to get married to 'second class men' because of societal pressure, and most of them are regretting now but are too ashamed to voice it out or walk out of the marriage due to stigmatization. I like the fact that her friend is not a desperado like her, who would settle for any available man just to be called 'Mrs'.

And for those saying that older single girls are unmarried because of their bad characters, well...you are entitled to your opinions. Though the last time I checked, all the runs girls are married. This implies that being a 'runs girl' is not bad since men are finding them worthy of marriage.

brain54:
That's what you think...


But even most rich families prefer to transfer their wealth to male heirs.

Don't rush to say poor people!

Lies... Rich people know the value of children and never discriminate against their daughters whether she is married or not.

brain54:
One reason why African tradition restricts female inheritance...

This tradition only applies to daughters of poor men and misogynists.

Dogalmighty17:
That prayer will never work. Let them remain single. A man marries them now and they enter his house to start giving him hell. The rubbish they do in their husbands houses, they can't try half that rubbish in their father's House.

Any time I see a single lady, I pray that her single days never end. They are all trouble.

Your mentality stinks! The rubbish men do to their wives, can they do the same to their side chicks? Some of the terrible things that women go through in their husband's house, did they experience that in their father's house? So, if a girl gets married, she should automatically become your slave?

Kobojunkie:
Your mom remained married even then? Almost 50% of married women in Nigeria live like this in marriage to this day. They are classified as single-married women.

Lol....Of course! I can recall asking her to leave, and her response was: "over my dead body". Unfortunately, most Nigerian women are like her, and will prefer to die than leave their deadbeats and abusive husbands. I wish them luck!

emirate9:
"Do nothing"... you mean the man not washing plate, sweeping the floor and washing the toilet rite !

Any responsible woman cant stand watching the Man she sees as crown/king do all that,... as a wife does it add value when your friends visit and they meet your husband sweeping the compound ... does it give you pride

You give your husband plastic to go n grind pepper ... is that not ridiculing your man before the world

I believe in " Support" ... where necessary But Taking up the Wife role is an abberation. i will take this confused feminist seriously the day they start protesting Men carry their pregnancy tew

Aside washing plates, are there no other chores a man can help with around the house? There are some men who will never lift a finger to help their wives no matter how fagged out she is. A woman cannot be representing a man when it's time sort out PHCN wahala, put on the generator, change the bulbs, or weed around the home, then you still expect her to be sharing bills with you, cooking and washing for you. Did you marry a wife or a slave?

luminouz:
Ok ok ok 👌 kkkkikkkkkkkkkikkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

The rule does not apply to you, my love.

Silentgroper:
Lol .


Like say husband no dey do chores before ..

Who dey carry heavy stuff for house

Who dey always switch on gen..


Who dey clear the weeds around the house..

Abeg oo ..

Some men have never carried out the aforementioned chores since they got married. Why are you guys trying so hard to debunk the truth?

emirate9:
. The whole idea of "balance" or " Equality" is completely a delusion ... cos nothing about Creation or Life suggest " Equality"
Twins born same day from one sperm aint equals mentally, physically if checked

There are roles Men play in the house, i dont see women dragging with men who should check the gen, wash the car, fix the bulb or carry appllances in and out of the house.

But it is always this so called Feminist that want men to come n wash plate, sweep the floor and help wash there pant n bra.

Tell this Mtyhead feminist to wash there hubby boxers she will scream i am his slave, tell a feminist to open the car door for her man n drive the man she will shout " slavery "

They gaslight Us all the time will "civilized bullshit" can i sit back as a man n watch folake4u change the car tyres ... but our so called feminist want men to back babies n go to market

You talk as if you have been to all the homes in Nigeria. I can confidently tell you that there are many men who do nothing of the aforementioned chores at home. The worst part is, they are deadbeats and their wives provide for the house hold.

ExudeLoveToAll:
There is no man that doesn't do chores name one. Did your father not do chores at home even when they were the ones providing a large chunk of the finances?

I laugh when women shout chores, if I men split bills it will be 50:50 as regards the total expense of the house but no man have done this, men only want you to support the family as much as you can, a woman can earn 50k and uses it to support the family and then the man brings 600k without complaining, is it what you call split bills? carry your 50k go take care of the bills yourself and see how life is

If truly men split bills , if the bill is 1m monthly then you will bring 500k and the man brings 500k and then you can share the chores as you do please . There is no man that doesn't do chores at home name one

My father was a deadbeat. My mom was the provider and still carried out all the house chores.

I support her with my full chest. Men have been doing women ojoro since time immemorial. If a man and a woman are splitting the bills, then they should also take turns to do the chores. It is called balanced equation!