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Waking up everyday to the sight of Ned starring into her eyes must be traumatic for her. She needs to be active on social media in order to decieve gullible Nigerians that she is a happily married woman.

Harddiskng:
Lol now i get it.

Sorry for your pain ma lol

Pain kini? You are the one who needs sympathy for taking panadol for another woman's headache.

Harddiskng:
You are now confusing yourself.

I was talking to your comment (screenshot below).

If the people that want it cannot afford it (nobody - means none of the people thats show interest can afford it). What use is it?

Again what use is a product that i can afford but doesn’t interest me in a way?

It is useless, completely useless.

I am not confusing myself at all. You are the one not getting the point here. The first statement I made was out of sarcasm. You likened an older single woman to a product nobody wants, and I responded accordingly.

If a product is of no use to the people that want it but cannot afford it, more people will continue to show interest until that person who can afford it will eventually buy it. Peradventure you can afford it, but it doesn't interest you, then just walk away and allow others who want it to work hard for it.

I love Ayra Starr. She is very young and still has so much to achieve.

Harddiskng:
Yes “Common man” but there are people that can afford it. Their patronage keeps the manufacturer afloat.

When nobody can afford it, what use is it?

How is it even possible that nobody can afford a good? If you cannot afford a good, there is someone out there who can. So, what you should do is to work hard, brush up, and level up so you can afford it.

Harddiskng:
What good is a product, if nobody can afford it?

As good as those luxury products that is above the reach of the common man.

This is not necessary. Let her move on with grace.

Harddiskng:
There is something i learn and come to believe.

When you see a good/product stay in the market for a very time.

There could many reasons for this, but it boils down to one fact: Nobody has seen any value in it to own, nobody wants it!

Or maybe the people that want it cannot afford it.

EponObi:
Wonderment!

So in all your 52 years on earth, you didn't find any man with purpose, that aligned with your values and lifestyle? Given the status of your early life in the movie industry, I bet hundreds of men of different caliber and societal status and career achievements, of different age desired and sought after you. Politicians, business gurus from wide range of industries, movie industry titans, foreign odogwus etc.

After 52 years, you still dey wait?

At your present age, the only people who fit this your criteria are in their 60s, 70s, and they are married with side chicks, children and grandchildren. They are rich, run businesses, and board members of companies. Where do you fit in that setting and in their own lives except being a side piece?

Given your experience and exposure and achievements, I doubt any under 40/50 man has anything special to offer you again. Not even sexually, because you've probably explored all that explorable in that arena. Issue of mothering a child is there ooooo, we never even touch that one.

It's well sha.

I am trying so hard to understand the jargons you have written. What is wrong if she is still waiting at 52, and who told you she is looking for a 40 year old to get married to? Have you ever heard of the word 'companionship'? She can get married at 60 for companionship and you wouldn't even hear about it because you don't need to know.

Recently, I heard that one Rev. Father in kaduna impregnated a young lady and after she gave birth, it was alleged that he strangled the baby to death just to cover up his atrocities. In his case, people have written many petitions against him, but the bishop is turning a blind eye. Like I have always said, if you know you are the wordly type, then you have no business in being a Rev. Father. Please, stop the deceit and let there be sanity in the church!

On what grounds what she dismissed? For exposing what we already know or for crying out on social media? Rev. Fathers are the worst kind because they hide behind the cover of the church to commit atrocities. They are supposed to live a pious lifestyle, but majority of them have sex partners who even birth children for them.

Recently, I heard that one Rev. Father in kaduna impregnated a young lady and after she gave birth, it was alleged that he strangled the baby to death just to cover up his atrocities. In his case, people have written many petitions against him, but the bishop is turning a blind eye. Like I have always said, if you know you are the wordly type, then you have no business in being a Rev. Father. Please, stop the deceit and let there be sanity in the church!

creolehunt:
Aren't you contradicting yourself?

Do you even know the meaning of beholder?

No. Same way you don't know the meaning of 'contradicting'. Have you ever seen Chioma in person or using her pictures to judge her looks?

The egusi and ogbono combo that I am used to, is the type that has more of ogbono, while the egusi is moulded into balls.

creolehunt:
Davido be spoiling his woman dirty. The kind of thing I like to see.

Chioma has got to be the most average looking celebrity wife though

Average to you, stunning to the beholder. Your opinion is irrevelant!

Chioma is living a good life, but I hope she doesn't end up like Davido's mom.

dominique:
Caucasian men are the biggest perverts in the world. In fact, the first sets of mulattoes resulted from the rape of little slave girls by white men, girls as young as 12. When it comes to child abuse, child molest, child pörn, Na them get am. Stats show that over 75% of men convicted for child sexual abuse are them but you won't see the likes of Charlie Kirk saying anything about this.

They are also into bestiality but will be the first to rant about 'animal rights and protection' when an animal is hurt. Such hypocrisy!

Eyes convene lots of emotions and most times the truth is hidden in the eyes. I can tell just by looking at his eyes that he is sick and guilty.

ChybuzzDD:
This notorious woman wrapper!
Are you aware that the women receives 130k monthly?
Did you care to ask why she hasn't been contributing to the family's upkeep but is only focusing on the husband

Why are you bitter that he is a woman wrapper? Every man cannot be a chauvinist like you lot who derive pleausure in treating women as inferior. Anyone reading his comments can tell that he is a responsible married man that respects his marriage. I wonder why you are pained about it.

Kobojunkie:
A man literally tells his wife to leave, yet you think she should remain?
Because he makes more money, she should simply cling to him even after what he said? In relationships, women should have boundaries that they should never allow anyone to violate; women should have standards that they should never lower.

Nah...there is a difference between: "you can leave if you want to". and "pack your bags and get out of my house." The former is the case in the post and anyone can deduce that it isn't that serious. Besides, you can't build with a man, and he wakes up one day and asks you to leave, then you just obey just like that. Are you his slave or his partner?

Staying doesn't mean she is desperate to remain married. It means, no man should order you around or treat you like a door mat. If you leave, it should be because you want to and not because he wants to. I have seen former couples living as co-tenants because they built the home together, and the men had no right to chase them out.

I am still trying to understand what the fuss is about, but, I am at a loss for words. Some women don't value their responsible partners until another smart woman snatches him from them. Your husband is not a dead beat, has an impressive savings culture, but you are still not contented with what God has blessed you with.

One thing I have come to realise is that, most Nigerian men have no class at all and will sleep with anything. Imagine disrespecting your wife by getting down with her domestic staff. How do you expect them to respect her when you treat her with such disregard? As for the woman, keep asking what you will do. And to those doubting the story, is that not how you guys always take advantage of vulnerable women? So, why the pretence?

Beerbeer:
Please know what you're saying. I have always been grateful to her for everything she has done. This is the first time I have ever messed up.

Firstly, what is the age difference between you and your elder sister?
Secondly, why didn't you tell her about the contract? She must have felt betrayed.
Thirdly, Did your twin brother tell her in good faith or was he trying to paint you black?
Finally, hustle for another contract, and buy her a nice gift as a show of appreciation.

On a second thought, I think your elder sister is oveareacting. Perharps, something else is bothering her, and she is just using the unfortunate situation to get away from y'all. Kudos to all sisters who always assume the role of a mother to their younger siblings. I used to know one, but in her case, the mom was still alive but not in the country. She accomodated and supported 7 of her siblings in her apartment. Guess what? They all got married and left the house.

She was too busy taking care of them that she forgot she was suppposed to start her own family. At the end, she eventually found someone, but sadly, she passed away shortly after. Moral of the story, you may pause your life so others can get ahead, but they may not do the same for you.

Ever8090:
Some people no just get joy shaa ...but this is commendable....if all men should decide to go this way lawyers no go hungry for this country and our judges won't even have time for other cases because almost all Nigerian girls are into this....

One collect my 5k as soon as she receive alert she no pick my call again till today.... ...but I been plan to dash her transport back to her base and extra 15k but the craze never knew and settled for 5k ..

She is smart. She didn't want you to infect her with STD or turn her into a miserable baby mama.

And? Why is he trying so hard to drum it into our ears that he started handling millions as a teenager? We don't want to know, biko.

koladata:
A social media platform has to serve everyone, both young and old. I’m not upset or bitter, you are not just getting the point. You’re not more experienced than the people running this platform. I know many young people, some as young as 16 or 18, who use it every day, and their interests are very different from yours, you should just click on what interest you rather than castigating the plateform. This someone else's business.

There’s plenty of content that might interest you, for example, today El-Rufai is talking about Tinubu. At the same time, there are young users who want to stay updated on what’s happening in their country. You don’t have to click on everything you see.

The owners of this platform have certainly done their research, and they clearly know what they’re doing. If you know better than them then you would have built a platform like this by yourself and since you couldn't, it’s safe to say they understand this space better than you so learn to mind your business

Well said. Some people here think that the platform was built for them alone. Why click on a post that doesn't interest you, only to start ranting about it? Sick!!!

Ishilove:
There's nothing anybody will tell me to convince me otherwise that this body disproportionate buttocks I am seeing is not the product of BBL. NOTHING

It is, actually. No one can dispute that.

He is not a looker, so I guess he must be loaded.

MadHeadLeft2:
Or he could have coordinated with middlemen money washers, send the pp funds, they move it around, take a cut and send the rest, or buy gift cards with the pp, redeem with Chinese vendors, convert to cash. Lol

You will soon be next.

ByBitVictim:
Story for the gods. The guy is so rude and always insulting me. What do you have to say about him lieing he has exceeded his Opay daily transfer limit that was why he couldn’t refund my 900k.

Or him lieing ByBit froze the Solana I paid for and Opay also froze his account

I attached screenshots proof for you to see. Up till now I have not received my Solana or my 900k have not been refunded to my Opay account

If you claim you have been doing P2P, then you should know that his Solana was locked by bybit which acts as escrow in P2P transactions. Though the guy is rude and troublesome, it is possible he truly has some trouble with Opay, provided the proof to bybit, and that could be reason for the delay.

On Gate exchange, they give a seller not more than 30 minutes to provide proof that you haven't received the funds. After which the coins are released to the buyer. Bybit clearly have their own rules, regardless, there is no cause for alarm because your funds are safe