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It is only in Africa, (especially Nigeria) that a man marries a wife for the sole purpose of turning her into his personal cook.

If you tell all these kids to calm down, they will never listen to you. The people condeming this callous act could even be one of the killers, and now everyone is pretending to be a saint. Sometimes I wonder the homes these boys come from,and question their mental wellness. The truth is, these crimes will continue to happen because the families of the criminals are covering up for them.

Imagine having a son as a cultist/murderer, and you will still think to protect and cover up for him when he commits a crime. Isn't that absurd? As it is, having a male child should be declared the 1st dangerous thing in the world, because they are threatening the existence of mankind and making earth unihabitable for people.

Caaz:
Honestly.....keeping tabs on a lost gbola..person wey nor rate you,this woman really has lots of spared time to waste....make she channel those energy take plant Cassava,she go yield results.

You need to keep tabs on your enemy na. It is easy to ask her to move on because you are not in her place.

Nigerians are too gullible, lazy and idle. If not, why encourage a nonentity by watching his wack video contents only for him to amass a collection of posh cars just to pepper you?

Nigerians drink fake drinks everday, from zobo to kunu aya and the likes. If Nafdac truly have the welfare of Nigerians at heart, they should invade local markets and call those dirty market sellers to order. Can you imagine an ugu seller wrapping her ugu leaves with her dirty wrapper? It's pathetic!

budaatum:
I'll tell you what's amazing.

In the very recent ancient days of the Orolu Kingdom of Ifon Osun, men owned farmland, and married lots of women so they can produce the labour to farm it. Selling the produce was however the women's job.

The men will come home from the farm and go drink palmwine, while their wives who often went to farm with them returned home to process the farm produce - turn palm kennels to oil, take the kolanut and cocoa out of the pod, turn the cassava into more profitable garri and fufu, and so on, and sell it. The money, they of course had to give to their husband, but being so industrious, they always had ways of earning more, which most invested in educating their children. Those children they educated, often against the wish of their father's who needed them to labour on their farms, are the ones today taking care of those now old fathers, and building houses in the town.

If it were not for those wonderful mothers, the fathers would be long dead and forgotten.

Well said!

I am not holding brief for Tu Face because he is not a disciplined man. But, he also accepted so many nasty things from you, so both of you deserved each other and crying foul now is pointless. You knew you were a mother, but you were getting hooked on drugs. What sort of responsible mother does that? By the way, are the girls in the picture her daughters? The one standing on the left look like her younger daughter, but I can barely recognize the girl standing on the right. Why lay emphasis on the singular word 'daughter', when you have two daughters, or the second one is not that important as the first?

Jman06:
Whites can only marry blacks for two reasons:

1. Domination and Control
Blacks generally have this inferiority complex when they're with a white man or lady as the case maybe. This makes it easier for the white partner to establish total domination and control of his/her black partner. Of course, they can't get such level of subservience from their own race, so the control freaks among them look for black men or women to marry. So as a black guy or lady dreaming of marrying whites, just know what you're signing up for and be ready to know your place and submit.

2. Fame or wealth

A white man or lady may also consider marrying blacks who have achieved fame or wealth and who stands out among fellow blacks eg, football stars, musicians, business moguls, politicians etc.

It is rare to find a white man or lady who is genuinely in love with his or her black partner. They'll rather stick to their race when love is the yardstick for marriage ie for those of them who are not homosexuals

Lol...Isn't that what African marriages is all about. When y'all talk about submissive women, is the sole aim not to control or dominate her? The truth is, white men can be psychos, I agree, but in marriages, they are more flexible and accord a woman more freedom and respect. All these talk about white men doing this and that, won't stop African women from getting attracted to them because they make the best husbands if you find a genuine man.

Over flogged topic! Have you ever heard of the word 'responsibility'? I believe in every home, every one is responsible for something. A man shouldering the financial responsibilities doesn't make him better than the woman who is shouldering her own responsibilities by taking care of the home front and risking her life to birth babies that will inherit his name and give him a bragging right. If women bring nothing to the table, then why don't you just continue to live a solitary lifesyle and leave women alone? Life is not that hard!

Didn't Dangote, Otedola and Davido's logistics manager attend Davido's wedding in the US? This proves that Davido accomodates all and sundry and doesn't discriminate. As for the Otedola's, if they chose to invite only high profile guests, then that is their problem and typical of most wealthy people all over the globe. This is something that should never be celebrated, and coming from Patrick Doyle who is supposely a pastor, it is quite nauseating.

Mamaafrik1:
Sincerely,the father has made orthom look like a better achiever.



He need to leave party dictated and act boldly,he needs to setup great colony of seasoned technocrats and he needs to replace his state security design ,orientation and appartus.
He is seriously underperforming like my eleleyi trophy beer governor in ogun state.

Ortom that couldn't pay workers salaries and never paid pensions in bulk,a better achiever? Some of you are so daft.

I assume you are a Nigerian looking for a native English speaker on a Nigerian forum. Dude, go to Reddit, Quora and the likes, and you will find millions of native English speakers to write for you.

luminouz:
Urghhhh....stop all the mushy mushy bro...

You are embarrassing me here!!!

I don't see you blushing, love.

Humans have become endangered species. Why can't some people just try to live in peace?

luminouz:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

You are something I'd give you that. I miss the time we yabbed each other. What the hell happened to you? Got yourself religion or something?

Now, you are being honest. Sometimes, I get so busy that I forget to log into Nairaland. But that doesn't change the fact that I am always thinking about you, darling.

What does a man who can't keep a woman know about marriage?

luminouz:
Don't sweetheart me....

Lol...now you rely on time? Thought you were so sure!!!

Time is what dictates our existence, sweetheart. You can be sure of something happening, but won't really know the exact time of its occurence. So, how are you? Did you miss me?

Most Nigerian men that prioritize their side chicks over their families need psychiatric evaluation.

luminouz:
I am...stop trying to matronise me!!?

Sweetheart, you are not tough. Time will tell!

Boss ke? As if he will keep quiet if Eazi treats his daughter like an employee. One thing I have observed about Nigerian marriages is that, men will treat you according to your status. There is no way in hell will Eazi boss over Temi knowing full well what awaits him. All that advice from Otedola is just a misyarn, and for social media validation.

luminouz:
What? Go away!!

Stop pretending to be a tough guy, cos you are not.

This disease ravaged some African countries the last time it struck. We don't need another medical disaster, biko.