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Firstly, I find it disturbing that some people think it is within their rights to beat up an adult when they err. Secondly, I have a question for men who beat up their partners because they are foul mouthed....would you do the same if she were a man heavily built like Anthony Joshua? Of course not! So, the plain truth is, men beat up their wives not because they are foul mouthed, but because they are mysogynists suffering from a stinking type of superiority complex.

Back to the topic, something like this happened in my neighborhood back then. In that case, the woman was a community palliative who used to cheat on her husband. There was murmurs that she used to be a prostitute. So, one day, the man confronted her about her philandering habits and when the argument escalated, her brothers came to teach the man a lesson...Unfortunately for them the man was a nice man and when guys in the neighborhood got wind of what was happening, they mobilized themselves, invaded the apartment and gave the woman's brothers the beating of their lives. The man was so grateful for what the neighborhood boys did for him, but at the end of the day, the marriage ended.

luminouz:
Oh really?

Tell me more

Why do you need to know? Are you dating or married to a deeper life member?

You should have stopped after cashing out. You were just being greedy.

I can see how important sex is to the average man.

So, a woman can't build her own life without a man? The society is really messed up. This is why even mbeke dirty looking men think they can do women shakara because their deluded self feel marriage is the most important treasure a woman needs to exist.

Some men like girls young enough to be their daughters so they can be controlling them.

luminouz:
Calm down....

Love, why?

dominique:
So many mad men out there but they said it's women we should be fearing. If it was a crime involving a female, we would have been on our 3rd page of fear women posts by now. And let's not be fooled. Majority of these male comments screaming blue murder, can, have and will do same to a defenseless young girl if they have the opportunity. They will now come online to form Saint, hypocrite animals!

FEAR MEN!
FEAR MEN!!
FEAR MEN!!!

Lol...This made me laugh.

Fekumzi123:
You people will just be exaggerating things. Na today wey things don hard.
You have a phone, you buy data, is it more expensive than meat. You can easily buy fried meat N200 and throw inside your mouth oga.

Jonathan came complain, you people called him ineffective Buffon.
Buhari came complain, you people called him dullard.
Now this. If you think it's easy to lead a country, go and lead your street first.

Are we talking about me or those who can't afford to buy meat? Let me ask you a question: As a hungry man with just 200 naira in your pocket, will you use it to buy meat or garri? Use your brain.

Socratiz:
Your sister who is the breadwinner does not owe you anything.

Each one if you must chart his or her own course in life.

Thank God your sibling relocated to the UK
Didn't she have a plan to survive without becoming dependent on her step sister?

Take it as a favour if any support is given otherwise, fight your own battles.

Stop this entitlement mentality.

You as a guy should be more informed as not to depend on anyone for your success in life.

Fight your battles. Struggle for yourself.
Heaven smiles on those who fight, not those who wait for their sister to lift them up

Stale. If you cannot depend on your family in times of need, who else should you depend on? If that same sister needs a kidney and one of her half siblings who is a match denies her, will she be happy? Family love is the most important thing, and it shouldn't always be about money. Let me also state that it is people like you who will still ask him to go to his family members if he makes a financial request online.

Siblings who share the same mother are usually closer than those with the same fathers. Did you guys grow up together? If you didn't, then I think the fault is from your mom for not fostering a family that preaches love. It's even disheartening that she is enjoying the largesse of your sibling and turns a blind eye to the suffering of her other kids. As for your other sister in the UK, encourage her to push harder, and she will be fine.

Such privileges should only be given to those you can trust irrespective of who they are to you. It could be your legal partner, daughter, son, mother or even a friend.

There is something off about this Asa guy. I don't like his mien.

Zonefree:
Darling, hold on to God, He'll heal you.

Hun, I don't think so because I am a lost case.

thesicilian:
Is the economy really that bad that people can't really afford to eat meat when they want to?

Your question is very ridiculous. Are you living in a hole or just pretending not to know that there are people who can't afford to buy meat?

Fear deeper life church members. I pity those who get married to people they percieve as christians. They are always in for a rude shock.

Her captions are very dry. Her horseband appears irresponsible with his Jerry curls hairstyle.

He probably inherited his father's dull brain. If that is the case...otilor. Just identify his strengths and encourage him. He still has a long way to go and it's too late to give up on him.

Coolsat:
Women are now taking the lead in this cheating contest and they are becoming so bold and brutal about it.

They learned from the best...from men.

Serves him right. In his next world, he will avoid keeping lions as pet.

JovialJune:
Lol what a fictional tales by moonlight, the christian and not rich part cancelled your fable as 100% lies.

I have been a witness to such stories before, so it could be real. She says he isn't rich, but he could be comfortable and can afford to give her the basic things. Nowadays, anyone who goes to church is a Christian, if you know what I mean.

Lol...A christian has no business marrying a second wife. In addition, an educated 38 years old man wanting to take a second wife is a red flag. The question is, why does he want another wife since his legal wife is not troubling him? Girl, run for your life because I smell a rat. All that niceness from the first wife isn't real, she is just acting a script. That man has a plan and wants to use you to perfect that plan. Be wise!

It is easy to track his number. But even if you are able to ascertain his identity, someone still needs to travel to Ghana to file a case against him. Are you willing to do that?

An unrepentant leopard that will never change its spot.

Mango stew bayi? Will it be eaten with rice?

Fred2020:
If you mean traditionally, no.

I am christain. I drew closer to God in prayers and sometimes fasting. Also, I learned to forgive my mum and not harbour any grudge.

Also, I had this encounter with a man who proayed for me. During the difficult times, I became an uber driver to make ends meet. I picked up this man during a trip. Something within me told me to tell him the challenge I faced and I did.

At the end of the trip, the man advised and prayed for me and I felt something I cant really explain. If I recall correctly, I got a decent job offer that week and were so excited to have me onboard. Things turned around in my life from then and I have made very rapid progress since then and found grace & favour in everything I have done.

Probably someday I will write a story about my experience.

Good to hear there was a turnaround in your life. Your spirit of determination and resilience is admirable, and I like the fact that you did not abandon the post. All the best!

JobAndVacancies:
I'm not obsessed with you, rather you're the one obsessed with me Ahnie.
How are you doing by the way?
My regards to your husband and the kids

Are you bisexual? Why are you asking after her husband?

JobAndVacancies:
this one that has been so obsessed about me will ever think of blocking me?
Keep deceiving yourself by quoting and responding to yourself with your two different monikers

Lol... This kid again. Why the obsession with a married woman?

Shattuck:
it is well, life happens, stay strong.

Thanks dear.

Seunmuham:
Did she do anything wrong aside someone else having the sex tape?

What a ridiculous question! You stand on the pulpit to preach morality, abstinence and purity, then turn around to fornicate. That is hypocrisy at its peak. Sex tape or not, she goofed big time. If you see nothing wrong with that, then that is your headache.