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FamilyRe: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Webar2018: 9:26pm On Mar 16, 2019
ejimatic:
. Many factors must be considered.. In America at 16 you are an adult. in Nigeria at 18 you are an adult. However that does not mean you can be living alone then though you can decide what you want in those ages.A child in Nigeria must be guided well by his parents before living home... No rushing about it..Many people are outside now smoking cocaine Indian hemp and tramadol because they lack good parenting technique and guidance.The number is increasing daily.Children should leave home when it good for them to do so with support of their parents and their guidance.If safety and livehood are not guaranteed any child that leaves home even at 23 is a criminal in the making.
I know people who take Indian hemp but still doing better than you ...abuse or misuse of substance have nothing to do with leaving home ... Many people are abusers under their parents roof
FamilyRe: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Webar2018: 9:20pm On Mar 16, 2019
latexxbro:
At most Upon Graduation from Uni you sayhuh because you go thief for Uni abi na business be your primary aim for Uni?? People and their mentality self..You didn't even say NYSC,So let's assume you graduated at 20yrs,You should Leave abi??

your type might still be with his parents at 30-35..
Mumu I left my home the day I entered school and never went back home ... At the age of 23 , I had my own home already
.. since 22 I've not been comfortable under my folks roof for over 24 hours
PoliticsRe: Babajide Sanwo-olu Celebrates His Victory As Next Lagos Governor! by Webar2018: 5:32am On Mar 11, 2019
paullo240:
What is this guy saying? �... So Your God is involve in this Sham election? Smh
I think "god" in his context refers to the almighty Jagaban
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Adewale Giwa Warns Buhari, Osinbajo: "Vacate Presidency Now" by Webar2018: 6:04am On Mar 09, 2019
indigene:
False religion are classified in the Bible as , Adultresses,Harlots James 4:4. False religion has always been a dark brew in politics and politicians use them mean.
All so called proffessed Christan pastors are no longer receiving Brown and white envelopes from Aso Rock which they enjoy under OBJ and GEJ regime.Pastor Adeboye used to have breakfast with Jesus at Aso Rock with OBJ, Ayo Oritsejofor sucked GEJ meaner than a junk yard dog. but now under crushing hunger and non recognition, they are howling like virgins strip naked in the village square. Now is the turn of Imams and mullahs, and when they Imams and Mullahs are receiving crumbs under OBJ and GEJ they don't complain.
100% correct ...cant stop laughing ,life Na turn by turn
CelebritiesRe: I Spend $100k A Week - Davido Boast As He Craves For More Cash by Webar2018: 11:48am On Mar 08, 2019
rentAcock:
If he spends $100,000 every week, it means he spends $5.5 million or 2 billion naira every year. I mean if you believe this, I can sell you the 3rd mainland bridge. I've always known Davido to be a self hyping pathological liar anyway so I'm not too surprised. In the 22nd minute at Cotton Bowl stadium Dallas 1994, Rashidi Yekini scored a beautiful goal against Bulgaria being the first Nigerian to ever score in the Worldcup, we should hear more about these historic moments and not Davido's made up life.
Bro it's very possible to spend $100k when you're always buying drugs , loud , flying PJs and buying expensive wears ,gadget, jewelries and whips as soon as they come out ... It's very possible ... I repeat very possible ... How much do you think it's a Gucci belt ? Gucci shoes ? Na your annual salary people take buy scent spray for body ... Na life

PS : I forgot feeding teams of smokers and spoiling your gf and oh he has three kids who are doing very well ...only child support alone ...may God cure you from poverty mentality
PoliticsRe: Atiku, Saraki, Bruce, Fayose, Dogara React As Osinbajo Survives Helicopter Crash by Webar2018: 5:58pm On Feb 02, 2019
Call it self defense tweet ! Lol I love PDP Sha ..them get pattern and more interesting than APC ... APC made the country a living hell ...before we had a comedian first lady ... We had reasons to watch the news
PoliticsRe: How PDP Ruined Nigeria – Buhari Campaign DG, Amaechi by Webar2018: 6:23am On Jan 05, 2019
After 4 years huh? Buhari is still saying exactly what he said 4 years ago! what hurt me most is that even people like Ameachi way be ex PDP snitch would join in the talk ! anyone who supports Buhari should be mentally checked ... so it's PDP that caused the ASUU strike ? it's PDP that increased the rate of suffering and suicide in the country in the last 4 years ? you see what illetracy can cause huh infact Buhari and his cohorts should be mentally checked
PoliticsRe: NANS President Promise President Buhari 20 Million Votes, Nigerians React by Webar2018: 6:11am On Jan 05, 2019
post=74463405:
Seun, Mynd44, OAM4J .
Take care of youe member.
You see ? you have confirmed your madness ! ... how can you advise to vote back a govt which value their political stand over the education of the Nigerian youth ? how can you advise to vote back a govt that can not pay a minimum of 30k minimum wage ? do you know thats less than $100 ? not to talk about the level of suicide and insecurity in the country ... bro you only living in your head ... take my advise and go for a psyche evaluation please ... I beg you
PoliticsRe: NANS President Promise President Buhari 20 Million Votes, Nigerians React by Webar2018: 6:06am On Jan 05, 2019
post=74461304:
No one is forcing you out of your house Mr man.
He wasn't talking about you.
He was taking about, sane, honest and hardworking Nigerians.
honestly when was the last time you went for a psych-evaluation ? that you can still read and type on your phone does not make you sane ... I advise you visit a psychaitrist today ... it's an advice , don't be offended ... if you don't understand me , ask why or check yourself and I dare you to post the result online ... MAD MAN like you ...
CelebritiesRe: Singer Diamond Platinumz Banned From Performing In Tanzania And Abroad by Webar2018: 5:41pm On Dec 22, 2018
SassyVixen:
I am seriously hahahing at this. Your sarcasm is commendable. So the price of one's commitment is directly tied to how expensive a ring is?? undecided. You got jokes my friend
No fam, commitment is in the heart but the totem of it should be commendable ... if you value something you have to value the representation of it in any form ... if your wedding band is a 5.03 Carat Emerald Loose Diamond, I don't think you would want to remove it everytime and easily ...
CelebritiesRe: Singer Diamond Platinumz Banned From Performing In Tanzania And Abroad by Webar2018: 1:23pm On Dec 21, 2018
SassyVixen:
I won't but as long as it shines I am fine cheesy. Why kill the excitement by checking out the luster and cut or weight of a ring given as a sign of commitment?
you can't give someone a ring that shines only for 2 years and expect them to be with you forever ! understand commitment has a price
CelebritiesRe: Singer Diamond Platinumz Banned From Performing In Tanzania And Abroad by Webar2018: 7:07am On Dec 20, 2018
SassyVixen:
With the way 'diamond' is synonymous to doom lately I hope it won't affect that rock we expect to be slipped on our middle finger? I have been practicing the new innovations of crying and flailing of hands in shock when he finally does the needful cheesy
would recognize a true rock when you see it ?
CelebritiesRe: Singer Diamond Platinumz Banned From Performing In Tanzania And Abroad by Webar2018: 7:06am On Dec 20, 2018
BlaqCoffee109:
Like how the government here need to ban some yeyebrities and their show off on social media... like the FIRS need to start going after them too, as they invariably lead to the alarming rate of ritualist and suicidal folks as in the case of folks like that Shyngle gal...some of these so called celebrities are indeed bad rap in the society... poor choices for mentorship for our young boys and girls... imagine 15year olds into money rituals because of the flauntings they see on the gram.
you don't have that right to decide whats right or wrong.. whats bad or not .. we already have something called Conscience and a law enforcement agent called Karma ... why didn't they immitate others ... they didn't force you to make them role models, I think the society is bleeped up because parents and government ain't playing their role...you can't blame a young man trying to shine because some stoopid kid somewhere who lack home training wants to copy them ... I think the problem is parents should teach their kid not to emulate anyone wether on social media or not ...thats how it start we call him davido at home because his name is David ... teach your kids to be original , at least when they are known for evil ,,, they"d be original evil ..,. I mean like BUHARI
Car TalkRe: Peugeot 504: The Ultimate Car For Nigerian Roads by Webar2018: 2:59pm On Dec 16, 2018
mmadu5:
Nigerians self . These cars are so outdated .yet people still talk about it . It has no safely features , most of them no power steering . No output for scanning ,nothing we are in 2018 we should think big instead ,
the Game and over 20 million americans still brag about their 60s imapala , 6-4 , American muscle, 70s mustang etc
CelebritiesRe: I Don’t Live Fake Life, I Can Afford Whatever I Want – Angela Okorie by Webar2018: 2:50pm On Dec 16, 2018
see this olosho dey brag ... you can afford anything you want ? which designer company know you ? do you hate lamborgini urus ? oh you can't afford that ? maybe this one get 2010 camaro and 10 million for account , e dey yarn dust ? shebi you hate diamond .. if nicki and cardi b dey talk this poor woman dey talk ? who she don give scholarship ... I always tell girls runs and fake life can never be separated ...a runs girl is 100% fake lifer ... I have met female entreprenuers and none of them would dare talk this way ... olosho be overestimating the power of puna since 2016
PoliticsRe: 2019: Why Obasanjo Turned Against Buhari - Ex Gov. Oyinlola by Webar2018: 2:35pm On Dec 16, 2018
Shookonekilla:
Buhari is an incompetent dolt
Nigeria deserves a better class of dictator

Buhari is so dumb he isn't smart enough to be a good tyrant even
APC are just a joke of a party. If they where serious they should have fielded Osibanjo as their presidential candidate and I would be rooting and campaigning for them

But to insult us by trying to re-package a failure of a president as an achiever is totally unacceptable.

Someone who couldn't achieve a single thing in his first 4 years wants to suddenly come back and do what?

What was he waiting for all this while? Okay all of a sudden he wants to return and start work he didn't do for the last 4 years ?


God bless you and may credit alert full hit your phone

Any other candidate can win but not buhari
CelebritiesRe: Ebuka Uchendu Reacts To News Of Kevin Hart Stepping Down As Oscars Host by Webar2018: 8:01am On Dec 08, 2018
selfmadeboss:
the one i know , we discuss how to nuke oyedepo and other religious scammers. you wanna join?
add me too
I need something to take my mind off.....
CelebritiesRe: Ebuka Uchendu Reacts To News Of Kevin Hart Stepping Down As Oscars Host by Webar2018: 7:56am On Dec 08, 2018
alBHAGDADI:
We are gradually getting to the stage when you won't be able to say anything against filthy homosexuals for fear of losing your job. Some fools don't know the evil agenda these filthy animals have for mankind, that's why they keep saying trash like "leave them alone as long as it's not your anus". Did they leave Lot and the two angels who visited him alone? No, they wanted to have anal sex with the angels, imagine!

These animals are the reason why we have HIV/AIDS today. It was first discovered in their LGBTQ community and was called Gay Related Immune Deficiency (GRID). It was later the name got changed to this politically correct HIV/AIDS we now know it to be.

Ebuka, keep trying to impress mankind by being overly conscious of your dress sense. You are just an inch away from crossing into being a gay, that's if you are not already one. Fashion conscious men are often effeminate. I wonder why a man would be so concerned about his looks that he will be dragging mirror with women.

Men are supposed to be rough because we were designed to do rough work But these days all we see are men killing themselves over big name brands like Gucci and Fendi. I even find it funny how they pay up to 200k for a Gucci shirt which has the brand name written boldly on front of it. They don't know that it makes them look like a walking signboard. Imagine advertising for the company for free even after paying that much.
You started out making sense ...then somewhere in that lengthy gabbage you lost it ! SMH I'm not a fashionista and I'm no stylist but saying everyman who loves to look nice or have a good dress sense is gay connotes mental instability...I don't mean to ask you this but .... DO YOU FEEL NORMAL AT ALL ?!
CelebritiesRe: Ebuka Uchendu Reacts To News Of Kevin Hart Stepping Down As Oscars Host by Webar2018: 7:52am On Dec 08, 2018
OladimejiRufai:
I dont have anything to say

Meanwhile:

Who knows of or runs any Whatsapp group where they discuss serious issues like politics, religion, etc

Kindly post link or refer me
So this one dey find where to go dey argue huh
CrimeRe: Sex Workers Rain Curses On Anambra Govt Over Demolished Shanties by Webar2018: 6:46am On Dec 01, 2018
axeman2:
Shameless Daughters Of Jezeebel
Shameless cultist make it sound like you're better ...who made you a judge ? We are all product of vices in our environment
CrimeRe: Sex Workers Rain Curses On Anambra Govt Over Demolished Shanties by Webar2018: 6:44am On Dec 01, 2018
Richdad50:
Why do some women sell thier body for money? It is the greatest self-hate on one's body. I doubt if there is any prostitute who enjoys sex.
To all young women who have lost hope and are at the moment of thinking this trade, do know that everyone has an Angel. A Guardian who watches over us. We can't know what form they'll take. One day, old man. Next day, little girl. But don't let appearances fool you, their voices can also be as fierce as any dragon. Yet they're not here to fight our battles, but to whisper from our heart. Reminding that it's us. Its everyone of us who holds the power over the world we create.


If they don't fight and all they can do is whisper then are not guardian angels like you claim but whisperers or what English calls conscience !!!!!

# Richdad
RomanceRe: DEPRESSED !!!!! How Should I Continue by Webar2018(op): 7:59am On Nov 20, 2018
kullozone:
You need to stick with her no matter she does... even if she stabs you to death, you just have to forgive her.

Yeye human being!

That girl has a job to do and she must complete it by all means; that's making sure you don't die a natural death. That job is very important, because the world wouldn't have to wait for one foolish human to die naturallysmiley
Thank you
RomanceRe: DEPRESSED !!!!! How Should I Continue by Webar2018(op): 7:47am On Nov 20, 2018
hemartins:
A lady is making you depressed?
And you call yourself a Man?
I'm more depressed because I lose a lot of things when she leaves either I'm dependent or I'm being controlled ...I'm thinking hard
RomanceRe: DEPRESSED !!!!! How Should I Continue by Webar2018(op): 7:46am On Nov 20, 2018
gaby:
No be lie na...

If he's defrauding the innocent to fund his lifestyle, he should understand how many of his innocent victims his actions has sent into depression and sometimes death.

How he'd even complain about the intro the real deal he is just experiencing beats me.

I won't prejudge or pre-empt. Will allow him respond truthfully first.

We should learn to live right and quit disturbing bad Karma.
I'm almost offended by your comment ... Why do y'all feel any young man who is making it young is either fraud or assasin ...ask Dangote how old he was when he started seeing millions ??! Ask others ...it's about chance and opportunities ...I face this fraud querries a lot ...aside the fact that I promote music I'm a legitimate hustler .. buy and sell cars too ... Some of you would not believe the little rackets I have to do to get alert ... I walk anywhere and security wants a tip , why because " I resemble Yahoo Yahoo boy " I don't have anything against this people I have done countless business with them and even the same white people bleeding Africa dry ... You don't decide what's right or wrong ..you're not God or karma ...David stole a Man's wife and had him murdered God still call him " a man after my own heart " ... most of the clergies y'all worship are worst than fraudster , 90% of them are money launderers for firms and politicians ...
RomanceRe: DEPRESSED !!!!! How Should I Continue by Webar2018(op): 7:34am On Nov 20, 2018
BlacSmit:
Smoke some good sticks Bro. Life goes on.
I've been smoking good sticks for life but can't find any around here
RomanceRe: DEPRESSED !!!!! How Should I Continue by Webar2018(op): 7:33am On Nov 20, 2018
gaby:
What do you do for a living and how do you come about your cash?

That would help me advise you appropriately.
I'm into cryptocurrencies and market analysis from this you can understand how I lost money ...it's a very risky business
RomanceDEPRESSED !!!!! How Should I Continue by Webar2018(op): 7:08am On Nov 20, 2018
I'm writing this with the heaviest heart . Mods please help me make people see this ... I need advices . I can't think anymore

Before you call me an idiot please listen to my story and put yourself in my shoes . Mods help me get this to many people I think I need help before I totally lose it and do something crazy

I'm VERY SORRY FOR THE LONG EPISTLE

MY STORY :

I met this girl Jennifer ( I had to change the name ) on a lovely evening around May 2017 . Then I was in my finals and was living very fine . I had landed property , my first clean car and the rest . I was with my friends who have come to stay with me .. I met her in a popular hotel when she was celebrating her birthday with her few friends , I got to know she was also in my department but my junior colleague. So I collected her number ... I called her a few times went to her house because I was in her street .. it was that day she got to know I had a car or so she claimed .. she told me she'd love to be my PA in turn she would help me settle my results ( she was acquinted with a lecturer in my dpt then ) I agreed , I told her if she can I will buy her a phone because according to her then they just stole her phone .

Anyway she knew I had a gf but was no big deal ... because of her being my side chick ... no problem I continued with her , she followed me everywhere ..I don't know if I fell in love with her goodness or respect ..she respected my opinion and supported me in all ... I wanted her around more .. she became my confidant my best friend and someone that makes me happy . On my birthday in 2017 I invited her instead of my girl and she was very nice to me and cared for me when I was seriously sick .. when they stole my ATM card after clubbing( then I used to club ..not anymore ) she helped settle things and even sponsored our transport back home .. I loved her for that ...she was always in my apartment trying to make things better when there's nothing .. because of how close my sidechick who follows me everywhere is ,. I lost my main Chick one that suffered with me ... Anyway she was a pack of trouble and always wanting a fight but Jennifer was so calm and peaceful

As time went on I began to lose many friends because they started feeling threatened by her position ... Many started warning me but the girl was so good and I'm not perfect at all m likewise in finances I started going down ..I withdrew some money about 2million then from my savings and got a bigger house so she could live with me ...I bought very good funitures .
Something happened while she travelled , my so called friends had wicked plans for me and had to leave due many issues because I didn't want to lose her ..I stayed in hotel with my boys paying bills from November2017 until May 2018 .. then I got a house ..some of friends kept telling me she's not good , and she's not who I think she is .. I dismiss that because I always see through their fear of replacement

No relationship is perfect and we always have our own issues until 1st of January ... She refused to follow me to church and insulted me saying I wanted my ex girl that's why I'm still chatting with her .she claimed my ex screenshotted her pic and she's using it against her and I'm still talking to her ... I sensed her fear because my ex wanted me back ..nothing more then fear ...that day she insulted me that I had to hit her ... First time to hit a woman and the beginning of my mistakes

Still struggling financially I managed to buy another car and got a bigger and better home ..a lot started happening from calm and respectful she started challenging me and this led to more fights Everytime ..everyone knows I love this girl including my family infact I'm wishing she has a child for me, I want to marry her but I'm scared ... But to things are getting worst and I have nobody else I can trust .. I've lost all my friends ..she's now a drama queen and would never calm down ...she once took a knife to stab me ...and I once almost choked her to death in her sleep out of anger .. because of that I planned never to hit her again just words ... I've lost so much lately and properties worth millions because of her and since she came into my life . Even all my jewelries . she always packs her to things to leave whenever we have issues ...she promised not to do this again but she always does ..every little provocation she start packing her things to leave and this scares me .. she's the reason I'm in this country my family want me out but I don't want to leave her

Fast forward to yesterday ,we had little argument she packed even after hours of my friend holding her back and left I later found out she took my iPhone and macbook ...I called her she said she will sell them to take herself back home because we in Lagos ... And just since hours she left I've lost close to 150,000 !!!
I don't know if what people say is true about her ... I need answers ..I'm depressed I can't continue alone and I can't deal with this continuously it's draining me ..I've lost many things just my life left !!!she doesn't seem remorseful at all and switched off her phone ...my friend called her she said she's selling my iPhone and macbook ..what do I do please

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