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Corps1000:
Translation? lol

As I said, we only been dating for 2 months. To do a big trip overseas with a man I started dating is a big deal to me. If I knew him longer, like at least 6 months, that would be different. I would be in his Territory with his family. Is that not a big deal to some of you?

Also, it's short notice. I guess I should have told share that concern with him but I didn't want him wrongly assuming I am not trying to take him or us dating seriously. Also, if he was that bummed out I didn't wanna go, he should have communicated.

So, seems like there is a lack of communication on both of our parts?

I actually caved and texted him Merry Christmas and no response. But i will give him a day or 2 to respond as we are in different time zones.

Besides that, not much more I can do.

All I can see from your write ups is simple , you miss him , you miss sex , but you’re more interested if he feels thesame..


Don’t worry, he’ll be back to give you that after the holidays and you’ll be both fine

ezewealth:
Am I the only one that notice that bank didn't sent us season greetings. I hope all our money is intact

Na true o

Gentle034:
I know our present society is riddled with slay Queen/hoe, i've also had my own share from this Fugly cake, but then that doesn't mean we should just jump into conclusions and start avoiding dem! If u will always remember that no one is perfect, we all are just striving hard to get perfect, then u would understand that a second chance myt be much sweeter than the first experince.

Tired of taking chances cos it’s costing me a lot.. so lemme just live my life in peace

ASAMPETE1:
She should go ahead after all, she's no longer a virgin. She may even be sleeping around.

Fool

Wazza92:
I don't know how to say this but what difference does it make, u giving it to some bleep boys who are even jobless

At least this is a pure case of trading what you have to get what you need.

Provided he is not raping her, pls tell her to consent ooo

To get job dey hard dis day except if you have a skill at hand/ Receive Sense IJN

Compound fool. Poverty is speaking through you

Nwaze28:
Lets look on a bright side here, the question is if she is a virgin or not and she does not feel like loosing it on this platform but if she isn't a virgin then I suggest she should do it cos this thing called sex is jst a thing of the mind cos we do it for different reasons sometimes that isn't even worth it, but it in this case it's worth it cos she stands a chance of gaining grounds in the company but people will ask me if it's your wife or girlfriend will you give her this advice or allow it? But the truth is "Yes" i will cos if i was not able to get her a Job or be in a position to help her and i couldn't because of one reason or the other and another man is taking advantage of that then you call a truce that will be worth the sacrifice. This is my humble opinion.

These are the problems of Nigeria, such fools

gratieao:
Op i know it's you, my advice is there is nothing wrong in fvcking with ur boss

Such a fool

Mhissgaga:
Lol
Will do that soon

Do Let me know

This moderator doesn’t know people need to sleep right ?

Mhissgaga:
No...Lag but visit

Alright dear... hopefully you’ll get a picture up someday right ?

Jupxter:
I get your file for hand..You want make i open am here?

Carry am go private Ogaga

You ain’t got nothing on me bro,, just an innocent convo

Mhissgaga:
Okay??
Are you from Delta too?

Yes I am, based there ?

Jupxter:
Finally, you don find wetin you dey find. Carry am go offline. No loud am

Lol, see wahala o, someone cannot ask a sister question again?

Mhissgaga:
Yes
How come u knw i'm from Delta

Your name.. Ogaga

Mhissgaga:
I tell you most men can't stand independent ladies especially single ladies that are buoyant financially

In their mind they'll be saying"This one go old for him papa house"

Do you think it's easy for a woman to go to work morning till night,keep the house clean,cook for a man and have sex with him?She's not some machine...The moment the woman stops doing some basic things they tag as 'feminine duties' or whenever she talks intelligently they quickly say she has bad characters. To crown it all Most men aren't helpful

Nigerian men if not all can't stand women that are more experienced than them and that's the truth...They need the 'Yes-Yes' kinda woman...The one that will not argue with them..The one that will agree completely to whatever they say whether right or wrong...Those ones that will be nodding their heads to all of their conversation

They keep saying Nigerian ladies are shallow minded...They beg for favours and all that, one moment she's quickly tagged a gold digger...Give them a smart woman the talk will change...They will say she has bad characters...She's proud...Isn't that hypocrisy

It’s like you are from delta

Gentle034:
Hehehehe!! But body no be fire wood nau! And this shouldn't be criteria to force one into marriage, if not married men for leave our young girls alone for us.
But then do u like the idea called marrige if it's not forced down on you? Do u plan to settle down in marriage someday?

Honestly speaking, I wish I have a baby mama and live life freely until I’m sure of a soulmate (if she exist)
Made mistakes in the past which I still regret till this moment

lefulefu:
just take ur time and only get involved with the lady u feel a sort of connection with.if u rush into marriage cos of the pressure u getting from ur parents u might end up with a slayqueen or karashika as a wife.shine ur eye oo.

Like I almost did earlier this year. Thx bro

Not every guy can fall on a friendzone.. trust me on that

jamariwolf2:
lol. Don't continue.

The things girls do are amazing plus they ain’t loyal

Gentle034:
I still think you shld not rush urself into this. Have u ever asked your dad why he really wants you to settle down sharp-sharp?

You know that question is very hard. I’m sure he will start with fornication to cover his tracks .. normal thing very religious father will do cos i remember him saying Something hold your body very well on that call earlier

lefulefu:
Either way wahala dey.u no marry dem go hassle u why u no marry... U marry and ur wife will be nagging u to death over unnecessary stuff,fighting u and all.a number of married men kick the bucket before they turn 50 all thanks to their trouble some nagging wife.get married when u know u are psychologically and financially ready cos if u follow ur parents mouth oyo will be ur case. With the strong racket wey many babes dey pull these days u got to be careful when choosing a wife.marriage no be beans.

The things we see ladies do these days
I rather stay at peace with my mind

marooh:
So,Na only pressure on marriage u fine come here?
Eeh
Why not try bobrisky as u no wan marry wife

God forbid...
Respect yourself ooo.. you well so ?

correctguy101:
It's not a small thing bro. Plus I already gave her a grand daughter the old woman never stops to remind me of my marital status.

She'll be like "My boy, you'll not find a girl to settle down with abi? I heard mature ladies visit you in this house. You think as you are living people are not seeing you? I know all your secrets. Find a good girl and make me happy"

Me will just be silent and say thank you ma, I'll try and deny the ones I could.

If I had a child like you, I would care less.. seriously

jamariwolf2:
lol. But why? With all the money nii

Let me use you as an example. See how you bolded the above and asked me to send you a pm, not that you’ve seen me or know me, neither how I look like.

Most ladies flock around me for such reasons and at the end of the day, they make it seem that is the reason they are around me.

Do you need me to continue ?

jamariwolf2:
Hmmm send me a pm then. You just found yourself a wife.

Its like you are not reading it well, I have many girls around me but I am not looking for a wife

marooh:
Just tell ur dad that ur missing rib is not yet found...

Marriage is beautiful if u find someone that love what u do...

Woman like material things so....so don't marry a girl that love u but the girl dat love what you do!

But why are you answering my name going by your ID ? ?

jamariwolf2:
Answer these questions and I'll know how to help you.

1. How financially stable are you? If you don't have up to 10milla net worth, tell your old man to free you oooooo. Them no born woman come suffer with her husband.
2. Are you gay? No, really. You are 27 and you're already 'done with girls'. Please you don't need to reply but be honest to yourself. Just saying oo
3. What happiness do you derive being single? Oga are you sure you don't like men. Let me come and be going sef

God forbid I can be gay. As a matter of fact I despise gays

I am just sick and tired of the bullshits I get from Nigerian ladies with the very poor orientation they got from the society

SULTANALAUDDIN:
[color=#7000BC] You're 27?? I'm just 24 and my mum is always pressuring over not having a fiancée. I don't know how to tell her in my native language that we are in the era of HOES it is difficult to find a good girl. [/color]

I swear bro,, not easy at all

correctguy101:
Ha, I'm an only son too. Only got a mother and she doesn't let me rest too.

I know how you feel. Just listen and say yes sir.

My being unmarried and irreligious are the two things my mom always remind me anytime I run my mouth...

lol at least somebody can relate

Gentle034:
Nah it' not, ur old man expects an offspring from u which is normal, but then my advice is not to give in to d pressure if u ain't ready so u don't end up regretting. #my 1kobo piece of advice

I almost did earlier this year but I can’t begin with stories aftermath.

was thinking it was just an offspring issue until my elder sister gave birth finally around September making him a grandfather..

Just this night we had a long call conversation with mentions and advices like I should force myself to pick a wife

beardlessdude:
Lol. who marriage help?

Brother, I don’t know o..

My dad is at it again,
How do people cope with these pressures from people around them including family,

I’m just about 27 but my dad keeps worrying me over marriage I am not planning for anytime soon because he thinks i am living very comfortable of which I’m done with the troubles I go through from girls.

Infact I have been happy and having peace of mind lately being out of relationships

Is it a crime to be the only son of a home ?