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Romance / Re: What Men Should Learn From Women (an Eye Opener)... by WEEDSDOM: 7:17pm On Jan 20, 2019
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Romance / Re: Ladies, Why Do Men Feel "Proud" When They Say "Men Are Scarce"? by WEEDSDOM: 10:01pm On Jan 14, 2019
Real men who knows em worth and won't chase a woman like a Corq on heat, men who knows when to say yes or no to a woman, men who won't descend so low to be in a woman's friend zone: a woman who can't even wash clean her panties, a man who has self respect, men a woman would deny her family just for a kiss are scarce, if you find one pls don't let him go.

#emancipate yourself from emotional slavery..chasing women is worthless and pointless..

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Romance / See The Founder Of #metoo Movement, Who Even Tried To Sleep With Her by WEEDSDOM: 1:17pm On Jan 12, 2019
Lord have mercy some men lack self control, self worth, self respect, dignity and freedom from sexual slavery.

I don't see myself having anything to do with a woman like this not ever.

and the #metoo movement is now being used to bring men down. not just men, men of value, they cook up stories, frame people who they couldn't get benefits from rope them and try to bring their hard earned reputation and name to the mud.

in Nigeria (feminism just started here), women have started playing the victim card just to get back at you for denying them something either sex, or material stuff. they just want to make men suffer, very soon if you break up with your girlfriend she will accuse you of rape.

times are hard for the male child in regards to women and their paranoia, and dangerous entitlement mentality.

very soon just very soon we will start reading this western craze on Nigerian cyberspace.

The society taught us to always save the damsel in distress, lol.

before you have anything to do with that woman bro think twice.

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Romance / Re: Self Awareness by WEEDSDOM: 5:23pm On Jan 06, 2019
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Romance / Self Awareness by WEEDSDOM: 5:16pm On Jan 06, 2019
take a deep breath and calculate how much time you are wasting on your crush and how much effort you are putting in.

Why the hell are you wasting time on someone who will never be the part of your life?
She has friend zoned you, and now that’s enough. Move on.

There is plenty of fish in the sea. Calculate the amount of time, hope, and will that you put for your girl. Now imagine what you could have achieved if you saved all that time and put all that hope and will to work on yourself.


You know why most girls friendzone guys? they do it for emotional support. Whenever they have problems, they need help, they need inspiration, they need advice, they will call you.

And then you put all of your work aside invest all of your time in motivating her and reassuring her that she is okay.
And when she is okay, she goes to her boyfriend.

The moment she needs outing she goes to her boyfriend. The moment she needs sex she goes to her boyfriend. Her boyfriend will always come first no matter what happens.

But the moment when she is depressed had a fight with her boyfriend or need a help she thinks of you.
You are just wasting all of your positive energy in motivating someone else to become successful.
Why and for what reason you are doing this shit?
She is using you for your emotional support; she doesn’t even think about you when she doesn’t need you. I know some guys who are taking some extreme pain for a girl in the hope that one day she will fall in love with them. When her boyfriend is busy, she will text you for time pass. And half of our nation guy’s are willing to become a time pass for a girl.


They do this for pleasure that they are chatting with the girl and but what they get in the end. Nothing.
Guys, is this our beautiful life? Is this what we are narrowed to these days? We are wasting our entire youth days just to win the heart of a Girl. Why are you wasting your life chasing girls? Just concentrate on your life and your self-development.

In our teens, we are infatuated, and it’s not true love, so forget love if you are in your teenage, you better concentrate on your future.
Still thinking about the girl who dumped you a year ago? She moved on, accept it. Most girls can’t even stop scooty without putting their leg on the floor. Is that the girl that will decide your future? Surely not.


Most girls run for the money, trust me, true love doesn’t exist, its only money.
All the lovers out there you guys waste thousand of money on your girl taking her to dinner buying her gifts or even recharging her phone. When was the last time you took your mom to the dinner, bought her gift or even recharged phone? Silence huh.


Stop chasing girls, and Bro’s don’t you ever beg for that girl after reading this article; no more bullshit.


Girls are attracted to successful people, and that’s not a mystery.
So, become successful, put your time on self-development and make success your obsession.
Romance / Re: Why Are Igbo Girls Beautiful?? Pls Whats The Secret by WEEDSDOM: 11:42am On Jan 03, 2019
some come with extra beauty like moustache and beards..to even make her more beautiful the chest is hairy..I've seen many..

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Romance / Re: 20 Facts About Guys! by WEEDSDOM: 3:01pm On Dec 28, 2018
dey lick their nyash ass licker..

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Romance / Re: Some Girls Can't Stop Being Liability To Men. by WEEDSDOM: 1:10pm On Dec 07, 2018
Saffi:
Same old tired recycled topics.
so much painment..why so pained.
Business / Re: What Is Your Worst Business Investment And How Much Did You Lose? by WEEDSDOM: 2:40pm On Nov 20, 2018
Purplekush:
as a 28 yr old who was fresh out of service. I started online buisness with my blog and was raking in 250 to 300k plus per month. after like 3 months the income rose to 1mil plus and even 2.some in some months.

Then I started trying out new investments...

LONG STORY SHORT: lost 800k to MMM. By Feb when MMM was confirmed to have crashed, I went ahead to lose another 1 Million naira and 6 months trying to set up another online business.

The painful part was not the 6 months of no income but the bad timing.

because, I had already paid for some plots of land before then. Paid for my new apartment. Was about making down payment for a new Corolla 2015 model when MMM crashed... and the investment started acting funny.

I was TOTALLY SCREWED!

I come lose lappy wey I buy 250k then Acer V Nitro. I was so depressed the only thing that kept me from SUICIDE was MaryJane. I owe my life to her smiley

But then I was able to cash out around 300k plus on the 1mil investment and I am currently on another HOT NICHE and just 2 months in it i am glad to say I now make at least 9 to 15k a day.

By God's grace and if this one goes well, I should be hitting 7figures per month from next year. INSHA ALLAH! AMEN.

Nothing beats losing money to some yeye deal. It brings out the adrenaline in you.

WORD OF ADVICE TO ALL STARTERS: think Internet business. It's cheap to start and gives you room to make mistakes with less financial loses. Besides, the ROI is totally insane!

I used to have a set of video courses for pple who are always asking "show me the way" but then nobody wants to put in work. Most peeps just want free money.

Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by WEEDSDOM: 8:21pm On Oct 25, 2018
drnoel:


U would be surprised but I do agree with these Ur statements but with some refinement u could really be a star among Ur peers.
Then again u guys are children and have little idea about what makes a woman tick in general.
When u find that out u will know all this ranting is full of shit.
Cheers


if you reply this wusslord again..YOU ARE A FOOOL.

leave him to wallow in misery and wussdom.

mind you I've tested harddon 's drill and to God who made me she said I'm strange like jeez where are you from?

but I let her go.

I tried it on another girl and she proclaimed love and I won and left her.

I'm currently using the drills on another lady and she is laughing nonstop. and said she can't wait to kiss me.

note: I've tried different drills tricks and tips but I rate harddon 88/100 now that's hot.
I rate the game by Neil Strauss 40/100.
why cos I've tried the tips and tricks and had less results.
because those tricks don't go well with naija Ladies.

if you don't believe me go and download read and practice test both drills and tricks and see.

back to the clown I quoted..don't reply him anymore his 15mins of fame is over.

brothers use these drills well and see the results flowing in.

emancipate yourself from mental and emotional slavery.

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by WEEDSDOM: 8:55pm On Oct 14, 2018
frank4578:
I regret my first WhatsApp message to her. I lost my balls to her when I told her I love her. Even my friends warned about her but felt it was normal guys talk sha. I just pray I forget all about her and move on

oh my God!!

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Music/Radio / Re: Download by WEEDSDOM: 6:44pm On Oct 12, 2018
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Music/Radio / Re: Download by WEEDSDOM: 7:20pm On Oct 05, 2018
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Music/Radio / Download by WEEDSDOM: 7:53pm On Sep 28, 2018
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Religion / Re: David Oyedepo Celebrates His 64th Birthday Today by WEEDSDOM: 7:46am On Sep 27, 2018
happy birthday

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by WEEDSDOM: 3:53pm On Sep 20, 2018
boninho:
Boss Harddon,
Can't thank you enough for this thread....more wisdom to your brain
There's this girl in my department. We casually greet as classmates without any special conversation. My discussions with guys showed me there are many eyeing her. Of recent, she started talking more to me, always wanting to study with me and all that. Now, she always remind me about going to gym of which I usually do though not regularly, asking if I have a girlfriend, that there's someone she wants to give me. Sometimes when we chat, I don't know whether she's trying to paint a kinda image in my head....if I ask her to come and see me, she will be like...I'm not wearing any cloth....I'm about to enter the bathroom
I don't know if there's any conclusion I can draw from all these or at least how to deepen our conversation....please help a brother

trust me me when I say she's either testing you( to see if you got game) or she's entirely manipulating you, and torturing like harddon said.

its left for you to man the relationship and be the man don't hand her the power to control the ship.

read these drill digest and you will find light.

emancipate yourself from mental and emotional slavery

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Romance / Re: 3 People You Shouldn't Help Financially (Allow Them to Suffer) by WEEDSDOM: 7:19pm On Sep 13, 2018
the people you should not help are

gamblers
prostitutes

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Romance / Re: Becoming The Alpha Male You Are Meant To Be!!! by WEEDSDOM: 1:58pm On Sep 12, 2018
Romance / Re: Not Emotionally Ready : Can't Stop Thinking About Her. Help Me Out Plss by WEEDSDOM: 4:49pm On Sep 11, 2018
emotional slavery..

you are in love, and can't seem to get her off your mind, yeah it happens.

you feel she's the one because you've been hit by oneitis.

go out and meet other women you will find an intriguing one soon.

don't be a woman man women are spose to be the emotional ones not men.

I know that feeling I've been there.

sendless give her space for now go out and meet hot women man, don't thank me thank God.

emancipate yourself from mental and emotional slavery.

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Romance / Re: Social Advice For Guys by WEEDSDOM: 4:41pm On Sep 11, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Don't try to sleep with a girl that deemed it fit to visit your house for the first time. Respect her NO. Don't beg for it like a shameless addict. undecided
Romance / Re: Social Advice For Guys by WEEDSDOM: 4:29pm On Sep 11, 2018
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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by WEEDSDOM: 4:30pm On Sep 06, 2018
drnoel:


What an egocentric ignoramus. Lead d home,...in what context? Are u there to be the government, ruler, king or are u there to be the stronghold? Is she there to be ur slave, house girl or Ur support?
Ur comments screams of ignorance obviously cos u are unmarried. Let me tell u my son, marriage is no bed of roses but both have to work to make it work. Sometimes the man takes the initiative, sometimes the woman does. It's a 50:50 percent ratio and when one party gives more than that it makes the base shakey.

'The Pu77y a33 Sissy big baiby' I see here is u my child cos no matter how much u huff and puff if Ur marriage has no base it will crumble but ofcos u won't know that cos u are unmarried.

On the contrary to maintain peace one doesn't have to be battle ready, that's Trumps silly idea and I now understand how it is that u don't know anything since Trump is ur school of thought.

Let me re-educate u, to maintain peace one has to be prepared to do what it takes. Sometimes one gives ground, sometimes one may have to fight.

I repeat Hardon is a bad influence on small boys like u here. I repeat if u do the rubbish he sells here. Get ready to loose ur spouse. If it's just a relationship then it's irrelevant, u can do whatever u wish but once u put a ring on that finger, then best u look elsewhere for advice and not with this bitter celibate.



don't be a kid boy, unknowingly you hand your wife your balls without even knowing it. she starts by playfully calling you names.

from there she graduates into getting angry and you beg and beg, then she deprives you of basic womanities(wash,clean,cook,sex..et all).
then she starts getting out anyhow without telling you..with brazen impunity she holds her shoulder high when talking with you, before you know it you start running errands lol weakmantic wussylord.

she start cheating with dudes who know that hlthey are men and brings you their kids to care for all your miserable life.

when you quarrel she quickly put you to shape by playing the victim card and you fall in line again and the cycle continues. before you know it you are washing her panties lol weakmantic.

in marriage there's nothing like 50 50 that is for weak wussy men.

its either you are leading or she is leading.

emancipate yourself from mental slavery.

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Celebrities / Re: Oladips Acquires Pet Goat Just Like Wizkid (see Photos) by WEEDSDOM: 4:12pm On Sep 04, 2018
48 laws of power..that's what he is holding.. courting attention at all cost.

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Romance / Re: Why You MUST Stop Chasing Women and Chase Money Instead by WEEDSDOM: 8:10pm On Sep 02, 2018
nice write up. but if you don't learn the rudiments of dating. you will only attract fakes who will come just for the money.
don't chase women never..it never ends well.

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Politics / Re: Bobrisky Advised To Pick PDP Nomination As He Beats Saraki In Twitter Poll by WEEDSDOM: 2:19pm On Sep 02, 2018
agents of doom..

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Politics / Re: Exclusive Pictures Of Jos Dry Port, With Analysis By Dr Chinnan Mclean by WEEDSDOM: 2:17pm On Sep 02, 2018
good development..

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Romance / Re: How To Keep The Lady You Are Dating by WEEDSDOM: 6:36pm On Aug 27, 2018
mediocrity at its peak.
emancipate yourself from mental slavery.
do all these she will grow weary of you and finally dump your weak ass.
to keep your woman use the push pull method. too much of everything is bad son.
Romance / Re: Help : Anxiety Is Killing Me. Advice Needed by WEEDSDOM: 9:07pm On Aug 26, 2018
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Education / 7 Ways To Free Yourself From Mental Slavery by WEEDSDOM: 8:35pm On Aug 22, 2018
"The biggest enemy you have to deal with is yourself. If there's no enemy within, then the enemy outside can do us no harm." ~ Les Brown .



Human beings are similar to the elephant except for one thing, we can choose not to accept the false boundaries created by others or the past.



' The mind is a powerful force. It can enslave us or empower us. It can plunge us into the depths of misery or take us to the heights of ecstasy. Learn to use is wisely." ~David Cuschieri

Here are the 7 tips to break the chains that are holding you captive.



1. Believe in yourself. You have to believe in yourself ultimately. Always Think big and Dream big. Focus on your strengths and work on developing your shortfalls. Don’t compare yourself to others and don’t let circumstances dictate what you are capable of achieving.


"Believe in yourself and there will come a day when others will have no choice but to believe with you.” ~ Cynthia Kersey


2. Work hard. Do what you can do. Don't waste time feeling sorry for yourself. Take responsibility for where you are. Stop feeling like you’re owed. In life, there are no handouts. If you want something, you owe it to yourself to go out and get it. Nothing worth having comes easy.


“Determination and perseverance move the world ; thinking that others will do it for you is a sure way to fail.” ~Marva Collins


3. Be Positive. Turn negatives into positives and make it a growing experiencing. Don’t dwell on others opinions of you or take things personally. Don’t blame and harbour toxic emotions. It will only hold you back. Let it add fuel to the fire. Envision the future and maintain your focus.


“As I walked out the door toward the gate that would lead to my freedom. I knew if I didn't leave my bitterness and hatred behind, I'd still be in prison .” ~Nelson Mandela


4. Never give up. Be confident. Ask for what you want. Purpose in your heart that you will keep fighting for your dreams. How many times will you try before you decide to give up? This is your dream and you have to protect it. I try every door until I have exhausted all options and yet I don’t give up. Once there is a will, there is always way and I am determined to find it!


"You've only got three choices in life: Give up, give in, or give it all you've got. ~Unknown.


5. Be Patient - For everything there is a time and season. The waiting period can be the most difficult but it's important to not let doubt and fear creep in.
”No matter how great the talent or efforts, some things just take time.

“You can't produce a baby in one month by getting nine women pregnant” ~Warren Buffett


6. Have a strong support network. You can’t do it alone. There are days when it becomes too much for you. You may need a little help to get back up.

“Surround yourself with the dreamers and the doers, the believers and thinkers, but most of all, surround yourself with those who see the greatness within you.” ~Edmund Lee


7. Have faith that things will work out. Some things are out of your control. I trust that God will take me through those difficult moments and this gives me peace even when things don't go my way.
“Faith is like the radar that sees through the fog” ~Corrie Ten Boom
Additionally, as my grandmother would always say, “Make books your friends!” It opens your mind to new possibilities and helps you learn from the experience of others.
The saddest state a person can reach is mental slavery. They have already given up. Everyday I counsel individuals and I wish I could make them believe in themselves, but I can’t. They will have to remove the shackles for themselves. This is your life!
Don’t let anyone else write your story. Take back the pen and make a great ending!


"None can destroy iron but its own rust can. Likewise, none can destroy a person, but his own mindset can" ~Ratan Tata .



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