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That's how they send girls into prostitution. Reminds me of my first job in the bank, after series of tests n interview I was posted as an operation staff to a branch. In d evening of My first day @work the branch called me and said he will like me to be in marketing that I will make it as a marketer, I politely turned him down. 2weeks after I got a letter of redeployment to Marketing, few months after I left them for anoda job cos of dia unreasonable target and dem no even give me Gun to use bring the target sef

prissyluv:
Good job dear. Let me see how he will continue. Chai! Umu nwoke dikwanu egwu oooo. Egwu ha na-atum oooo.

I pray it works oh. I don't want it getting to the level of involving his wife cos I no fit oh. Not every wife can handle such news. B4 I turn to that woman who's ear was bitten off by a wife she went to tell about seeing her husband with anoda woman

khatea:
Thumbs up woman! U r brilliant.
If U c dt he's still being serious wt Ur colleague after this converstation U had with him, U can get his wedding/family pix(d 2kids inclusive), send it tru bbm or watsapp to ur colleague wt d caption "We need to talk woman to woman". I hope dis works wonders


NB: Let Ur hubby knw U next plans

I will just watch my colleague to see if there's any change. I know she's excited about the relationship and gist us a lot. The Guy appears unruffled, seems to me he's been into it I'm not sure sha.

prissyluv:
I have been waiting...

There u are

He said I don't even know what business he has with her and I said it's even better I don't know cos the more I know the more things I have to say to my friend(his wife).
He sha tried to deny and wanted to create joke out of it.



On a lighter note, I got home and told hubby, he was so proud of me that I used a stone to save 2birds

....i asked how his wife is doing that I've not seen her for a while now. He said she's good so I said I see him here often and he was like yeah, I come for business transaction and see few 'friends'
He was obviously acting cool until I told him I hope ds 'business transaction' knows he's married with 2kids
I told him my colleague really wants to settle down cos everyone around her s either engaged or married and she believes He's the 'one' why does he want to be a hindrance and cause her pain.

5minsmadness:
Wendy80 I think u should follow this advice.

I used to be in favour of telling the unaware partner about what is going on until something nasty happened.

You'll be amazed how quickly the tables can turn on you if you don't handle it well.


My first advice is MYOB, but if your conscience won't let you then take an opportunity to let the man see you and make sure he recognises you and leave it at that. Let his own conscience judge him.

Or U can use the anonymous SIM message method to let THE GIRL know that he is married.



It's a tough place to be in sha.

Thanx Man. I talked to him 2day.

prissyluv:
What of making yourself visible when next the man visits your office? That should send a signal to him you know...

My Dear, I saw him this morning, it wasn't planned though and wanted to give me that you look familiar kind of look. I greeted them and hurriedly walk away. From a distance, when I saw my colleague going into the office I quickly walked back to him
Let me clear my desk jare. Long gist.

I know how frustrating staying @home doing nothing can be but Ur Dad wants the best for you. Since u said nysc is close, why don't u exercise patience and wait. I'm sure he won't stop u if u get a job after service.

Holywizard:
use ur head dear cos ur hubby might be worse

And how does ds help? #smh

Thanx U all

Just watched it on channels now. I'm so shocked. Entire family? Na wa oh.
Parents needs to be careful seriously.

I appreciate your contributions. Just b4 I left the office this evening, I saw clearing her desk hurriedly saying her 'Baby' is coming for her. 20mins later I saw 'him' driving away with her. Its no longer picture oh, I saw him live.
I'm beginning to wonder if he doesn't know where I work or has he forgotten or just doesn't care
Na wa oh

taryour:
Hmmm my dear, and if I tell her she could accuse me of same thing. If she is wise she will find traces of a married man in him. And how are we so sure she doesn't know he is married and playing along in the game.

No be my mouth them go hear say lizard kill elephant oo.

I can't say if she knows he's married. She doesn't look to me like someone who will willingly date a married man but I won't vouch for her though cos we no de know person finish.

fharmah:
dont knw y dis story refuses for me to belive it
ny way sha just tell d guy/d mans wife nd watch wat appns or invite dem all for dinner

My Dear ds is true life story playing out now. So I will type ds long thing because of what na?

pickabeau1:
SIM cards cost #100

alternatively you can MYOB

Your call

Hmmm, Tot of this too but sincerely can u MYOB in ds case? Be truthful

Hello E-family,
I need you guys to help me with this issue cos I've been disturbed for some days now.‎
‎Last week Tuesday my colleague came to work looking so happy, gisting us about this guy she's bn seeing for some time now, that he's getting serious and we were all happy for her.
On Monday this week, she came again gushing about her trip to Obudu last weekend with her guy‎. During lunch break she showed us some lovely pics they took and I was so shocked to see that the 'Guy' is actually someone I know, my friend's husband(married with 2kids). 
While others were like 'aww u look good 2geda' 'he's so cute' 'I'm happy for you' and all, I was short ‎of words.
I told my hubby what happened and asked what I should do. He first had a good laugh and asked if I want to break a home‎, that I need to be careful cos if I tell my friend and she doesn't handle it well friendship is destroyed and my colleague will be offended if she discover her 'guy' is known to me and I hid the information. 
Now my Dearies, what do I do?
Married Men, what will you advice‎ ur wife in this situation?
Singles like my colleague what do you expect of me Pls?‎
Wives, if you were in my shoes what will you do?‎

Sorry for the typos, not easy typing with phone while @ work jare.‎

Octaves , my brother's boss forces him to attend his church against his will would've bn better. U should have just sought for advice without stating Ur Church, I hate it when threads turn to church war.
^^ Someone said des nothing wrong attending another man's church, TRUE but everything is wrong when u use FORCE.

Either way the marriage is doomed. I'm yet to see a man who condones an unfaithful wife.

ashewopeckas:
Gold digging has no gender discrimination afterall.

Ebuka is doing well for himself na.

jemype:
Says who. All d struggling babes were in d church praying when this onne was taken.

frankzone:
Same way celebrity and even non celebrity girls no send struggling guys

Abi oh

What a male child can do a female child can also do(maybe better sef)

Smart boy. Ds celebrities no just de look struggling babes side oh.
Becky Ur Crush is taken

Built2last:
No matter how hard the media tries to justify children outside wedlock with the watered down coinage ""Baby Mama"

Fornication is fornication.

I don't understand why a woman will throw herself at a celebrity and purse her future for nine months, all because the person is seen on TV.

This reminds me of women who go nude on music videos while the guys singing dress decently

women must learn to add value to themselves.

value determines price. the highre the price the more the commodity is treasured

nuff said

I met a pretty Lady sometime and ask her what she does, she said she's a Video Vixen. I couldn't help LoL. Is Video Vixen now a Profession? Maybe I'm old fashioned.

Airforce1:
so many girls her age waited for the right man to sweep them off their feet

And till today they are over 30years of age and still waiting

So Babymama n02 is ok since she couldn't wait? #smh

K9blunt:
NNE they were friends , platonic abi casual, just friends. if you say flatmates is that not the same with cohabitation or am I missing something here

What the op is talking about is boyfriend and girlfriend who live 2geda in higher institution which is very common 2day. There's no way such pple won't be having sex as long as they're dating/lovers, that's what I'm talking about. I know pple who are just flatmates and nothing is between them

Ds fine babe shd have just bn patient and let one correct Dude sweep her off her feet instead of bn Babymama n02. She's just 19.
Well, u are happy that's all dt matter.

K9blunt:
my brother and his friend he just met

My question was 'what are they to each other'
And ur reply doesn't sound like they're dating or lovers.
Maybe they were just flatmates

Publicity stunt?

superior1:
Learnt women from Onitsha-Oke make good wife, true?

Good wife isn't a function of where one is from, it's depends on individual

kilokeys:
beautiful..
inter-tribal marriages works best when both parties are enlightened

So true.
I'm in an inter tribal marriage and that's the best thing that happened to us. When pple ask my hubby 'why didn't u marry a yoruba girl' he says 'I married d bone of my bone and the love of my life, that's all that matters to me'
I'm only surprise when pple who are enlighten and expose ask me same question too.