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Health / Re: Nigerian Woman Gives Birth To Triplets After 6 Years Of Marriage (Photos) by whoisuche: 11:35am On Jun 06, 2017
dainformant:
Congratulations are in order for a Nigerian woman who received multiple blessings after years of sorrow. The woman gave birth to three bouncing baby boys on her first delivery after 6 years of marriage.

Sharing the good news on Facebook, Eseosa Agbonlahor wrote; Thank God for safe delivery.... My aunt just gave birth to 3 boys....after 6 years of marriage ....we serve a faithful God

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/06/woman-gives-birth-triplets-6-years-marriage-photos.html

TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY IN JESUS CHRIST MOST POWERFUL NAME AMEN.
Religion / Re: William Kumuyi Celebrates His 76th Birthday Today by whoisuche: 11:29am On Jun 06, 2017
lalasticlala:


https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/William_Kumuyi

Happy Birthday Sir, May GOD Give you more Grace and Power in JESUS CHRIST NAME AMEN.

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Religion / Re: 30 Simple Characters Of Mature Christians by whoisuche: 9:27am On May 30, 2017
ADEWUMIMichael:
*Signs of Matured Christians*


✅ They speak the truth at all times

✅ They are good listeners

✅ They hardly take offense

✅ They are quick to forgive

✅ They are reliable

✅ They are supportive

✅ They have appetite for prayer and fasting

✅ They rely on the Word of God

✅ The more God lifts them up, the more they become humble

✅ They hardly defend themselves

✅ They are quick to repent

✅ They seek peace and pursue it

✅ They love people and they are compassionate

✅ They know when to talk and when to be quiet

✅ They are full of wisdom in many aspects of life

✅ They respect people and are very sensitive to people's feelings

✅ They have a lot of patience and they are not short tempered

✅ They fear God

✅ They give honour where it is due

✅ They are content with what they have

✅ They have good leadership skills

✅ They are hospitable

✅ They are not carried away by all kinds of teachings

✅ They are good followers

✅ They have a sacrificial spirit

✅ They don't gossip and look down on people

✅ They have faith

✅ They take part in church activities and attend church regularly

✅ They are clean in every aspect of life

✅ Their spirits are sensitive, they hate sin

✅ They don't act holier than others

✅ They don't compete with others




https://lambfollower./2010/10/18/30-characters-of-a-mature-christian/

Please permit me to copy it, Thanks, this is my email: whoisuche@yahoo.com, can i have urs all you just send me a confirmation mail.
Family / Re: 57-Year-Old Woman Welcomes Her 1st Child With Her 62-Year-Old Husband (Photos) by whoisuche: 10:02am On May 19, 2017
stephenduru:
As shared by Yomi who lives in Ibadan....

'I can't stop shouting about this AWESOME WONDER! Wow, what a mighty God we serve.This is Dcn. Owoade, the 62 year old husband of our 57 year old Dcns. Owoade whom God visited on 16/5/2017 with their 1st Child. He does great things past finding out. Yes, WONDERS without number. Job 9:10. We bow our hearts in worship Olorun Ara! Onise Iyanu! Key into this testimony, you are next in line for a MIRACLE'


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/05/57-year-old-nigerian-lady-welcomes.html

AMEN. TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY IN JESUS CHRIST AMEN.
Romance / Re: South African Lady Celebrates 4month Relationship Anniversary With Semi-Nude Pic by whoisuche: 9:59am On Mar 21, 2017
soberdrunk:
The fact is, if truly there is "Hell" then some people must go there and this young lady just made her choice...... angry

There is hell and there is Heaven
Religion / Re: The Importance Of Being Thankful To God Through Charity by whoisuche: 3:57pm On Mar 18, 2017
Opinionated:
By Emmanuel Chiedu


When I was a little boy, I learnt that every food and offering brought to the alter during thanksgiving belonged to God, and this includes bags of rice, bunches of plantain, and money of which part were coins which was popular back then.

Eventually, I began to wonder how God will eat all of the food and money, so I did something stupid. I took a ladder and climbed the fence of the Reverend Father’s house where the food was always being taken to, I could hardly see God, but I saw a glimpse of a store where the food was being taken into. As I struggled to see further, I feel from the ladder.

Months later, I joined the alter boys association and discovered that the foods and beverages where eaten by the priests. Majority of us as adults know our thanksgivings to God go directly to the priests/pastors, but that does not in any way diminish the fact that they are to God.

How often do give to God? Is it only on Sundays, or monthly during tithes? How often do you give to the needy? Do you know that to give God is to give man?

I can quote tons of Bible verses I am sure you must have heard previously, but choose not to. All you need to know is that by giving we receive. When we give, we move one step forward, God in return gives us 99 more steps through Grace to continue marching on.

Thankfulness is a mental and verbal expression of one’s acknowledgement and appreciation of God’s person, his Grace, Blessing and sovereign work in one’s life and the world.

God’s greatest commandments were to love God and love your neighbour as yourself. Some people feel that only those who are rich should give. But in truth, no one is excluded. Don’t wait till Sunday to give, don’t wait till month end. When you give something and it doesn’t feel like something parted from you then that’s not giving.

Giving can be in church, your neighbours, your co-workers and even to give something to your boss. The word humanity is from the Latin humanitas for “human nature, kindness.” Pope John Paul II said, “Nobody is so poor he has nothing to give, and nobody is so rich he has nothing to receive,” for giving makes us human.

Source: http://www.opinions.ng/importance-thankful-god-charity/

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Religion / Re: 10 Bible Verses On Tithing by whoisuche: 3:55pm On Mar 18, 2017
ipreach:
Many people have argued much on this subject on and off social media especially on Nairaland.com, that's why i decided to bring to here


1. Because God commands it:

"A tithe of all you produce is the Lord's and it is Holy." (Leviticus 27:30)


2. Because Jesus commands it:

"Yes, you should tithe, and you shouldn't leave the more important things undone either." (Matthew 23:23) Tithing was the only thing Jesus commended the Pharisees for doing right!



3. Because tithing shows that God has first place in your life:

"The purpose of tithing is to teach you to put God first place in your life". (Deuteronomy 14:23 (LB) If God does not have first priority in your finances, He isn't really first in your life and your witness for Christ is false!


4. Because it reminds you that everything you have was given to you by God:
"Always remember that it is the Lord your God who gives you the ability to produce wealth." (Deuteronomy 8:18) Rather than feeling "I'm giving God 10% of my money," realize God is letting you keep 90% of HIS money. Without God's help, you would have nothing.


5. Because tithing expresses your gratitude to God for helping you earn income:
"How can I repay the Lord for all His goodness to me?" (Ps. 116:12) Here's the answer: "Each of you should bring a gift in proportion to the way the Lord your God has blessed you." (Deuteronomy 16:17)


6. Because refusing to tithe is stealing from God:

If you don't tithe, God says you are using money that rightfully belongs to Him. "God says: "Will a man rob God? Yet you are robbing me!' But you ask, 'How do we rob you?' God says: 'In tithes and offerings. Bring your whole tithe to My house.'" (Malachi 3:8-19) (God has a right to whatever He asks for from you.)


7. Because tithing gives God a chance to prove to you that He exists and wants to bless you:

"Bring me your tithe. Test me in this," says the Lord, "and see if I won't throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it, I will prevent pests from devouring your crops and the vines in your fields will be protected from plagues."

This is one of the most amazing promises in the Bible. God actually offers you a challenge. He says "I dare you!" Start tithing and watch what happens!" He not only promises to bless you with more, but He also promises to protect what you already have! In the Bible, tithing is the only way given that you can prove God exists. Start tithing and get ready for God's amazing blessings!


8. Because it is essential to spiritual growth:
"Just as you grow in everything in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in earnestness and love...see that you also grow in the grace of giving." Many Christians remain spiritual babies because they disobey God by not tithing.


9. Because tithing shows you really love God!
"Where your treasure is, your heart will be also." (Matthew 6:21) Wherever you put your money is where your affection is going to be. Every time you give back to God you are drawn closer to Him. You may say you love God, but 2 Corinthians 8:8 says that you’re giving tests the sincerity of your love. You can give without loving but you cannot love without giving.
Jesus said, "If you really love me, do what I command." (John 14:15)


10. Because tithing is an investment for eternity:
Jesus told us to "Store up treasures in heaven." (Matthew 6:19-20) How do you do that? By investing your money in helping people get to heaven! Most of the things you spend your money on will not even last for ten years, much less last for eternity.

http://godsinspired..com.ng/2016/03/10-bible-verses-on-tithing.html

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Religion / Re: Lady Lays Curse On Stephanie Otobo, Begs Apostle Suleman For Help by whoisuche: 8:00pm On Mar 15, 2017
Pastafarian:
SHOW ME A COUNTRY...

Show me a country that respects its Pastors, Imams, and Rabbis more than it respects its Farmers, Teachers, and Scientists, and I will show you a doomed country that will forever be the laughing stock of the world.

Tell me the name of the country that puts bible above brain, faith above facts, prayer above proof, churches over schools, rapture above reason, invisible gods over visible goodness, life after death above life before death, tithing above thinking.

Tell me the name of that country and I will tell you the name of a country whose children will grow up to be children---mental cripples.

Does that describe your country?

Credit: Joseph1013

I pity you honestly. I don't comment any how, rather I advice, but except you repent you will continue to wallow in bondage. May God help you
Religion / Re: The Whole Duty Of Man, Please Read Through by whoisuche: 12:37pm On Mar 14, 2017
Melchizedek1:

1st. Formation and creation of man
2nd. The whole duty of man
3rd. The beginning of death
4th. Life and death after death.

By the end of this message you will get most of your questions answered.

My name is Nnachi John Okam, the old testament teacher, and I welcome you on board.

1st. Formation and creation of man

Genesis 1:26 says "Let us make man in our image, after our likeness"

Who are this beings God was talking to?

Job 38:4-7 says "Where wast thou when I laid the foundations of the earth? declare, if thou hast understanding. Who hath laid the measures thereof, if thou knowest? or who hath stretched the line upon it? Whereupon are the foundations thereof fastened? or who laid the corner stone thereof; When the morning stars sang together, and all the sons of God shouted for joy?"

Note: the morning stars were in existence before the foundation of the earth was laid. but the earth existed before the stars we see on the sky. the morning stars and the stars in the sky are different.

The morning stars and the sons of God were present before the foundation of the earth was laid.

So, God the self existence being told the first existed beings " Let us make man in our image, after our likeness "

Likes begets likes, the sons of God are gods.

So, man was made in the image of God which is also the image of gods

Gen 1:27 talks about the creation of man, while
Gen 2:7 talks about the formation of man. So, they was creation before formation.

Before anything is made, there is always a mental image created for that, before it is made, that is creation. And when that mental image is created, then raw materials are been put together to fit-in the created image, that is formation.

Formation brings about the manifestation of creation from the mental sphere to the physical sphere.

The created man was only existing in the mental sphere, until dust and breath was put together to fit-in the created image of the man. then he manifested in the physical word.

So, the raw materials that made up the created man, are ;the flesh which was formed with dust, and life which is the spirit of God, that came into the formed man through the breath of God.

The created man has the image of God, which is an invisible image, while the formed man give covering to the created man.

The difference between created Adam, Gen 1:27 and the formed Adam Gen 2:7 is the body and the spirit.

2nd. The whole duty of man

Who is a man?

Genesis 5:1-2 says "This is the book of the generations of Adam. In the day that God created man, in the likeness of God made he him; Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created"

Eve and Adam are both Adam

The mental picture of man, had two persons in one.

The first was formed with dust, and the second was formed with a bone from the formed dust.

The both has one thing in common which is dust.

Most times when the bible says he or man, it means both male and female.

Now let's talk about the whole duty of man

Ecclesiastes 12:13 says "Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man."

Who is he that fears God, and who is he that keeps his commandments?

We knows that the fear of the Lord literally means to be afraid of God but we don't understand how to fear God.

Proverbs 2:3-5 says "Yea, if thou criest after knowledge, and liftest up thy voice for understanding; If thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures; Then shalt thou understand the fear of the LORD, and find the knowledge of God."

The fear of the Lord is meant to be understood

Proverbs 8:13a says "The fear of the LORD is to hate evil:........."

So, a God fearing man is he that hates evil.

This means that the first duty of man is to hate evil.

Who is he that keeps God's commandments?

Proverbs 9:10 says "The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding"

If we can understand understanding then we can know what keeping God's commandments is all about.

So, what is understanding?

Job 28:12-28 says "But where shall wisdom be found? and where is the place of understanding? Man knoweth not the price thereof; neither is it found in the land of the living. The depth saith, It is not in me: and the sea saith, It is not with me. It cannot be gotten for gold, neither shall silver be weighed for the price thereof. It cannot be valued with the gold of Ophir, with the precious onyx, or the sapphire. The gold and the crystal cannot equal it: and the exchange of it shall not be for jewels of fine gold. No mention shall be made of coral, or of pearls: for the price of wisdom is above rubies. The topaz of Ethiopia shall not equal it, neither shall it be valued with pure gold. Whence then cometh wisdom? and where is the place of understanding? Seeing it is hid from the eyes of all living, and kept close from the fowls of the air. Destruction and death say, We have heard the fame thereof with our ears. God understandeth the way thereof, and he knoweth the place thereof. For he looketh to the ends of the earth, and seeth under the whole heaven; To make the weight for the winds; and he weigheth the waters by measure. When he made a decree for the rain, and a way for the lightning of the thunder: Then did he see it, and declare it; he prepared it, yea, and searched it out. And unto man he said, Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom; and to depart from evil is understanding."

To depart from evil is understanding

This means that he who keeps God's commandments is he who departs from evil

So, the whole duty of man is to hate and depart from evil.

What is evil?

Since the day Adam and Eve ate the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, good and evil became part of humanity.

The definition of evil is written in the heart of every human being, that is why; before you do anything, something in you always access it to know weather it is good or evil.

Both good and evil is in the knowledge of every human, the choice on the side to follow is left for the person.

Can they be sin without law? No!

Moses wasn't yet born when Sodom and Gommorah sinned against God, so they wasn't any written law during that time, how could they have sinned? Sodom and Gommorah was destroyed because they sinned against the first law in there heart.

The tree of the knowledge of good and evil is the first law in the heart of every human being

The law of Moses only guides us to make the right choice between good and evil, which is already registered in our heart.

3rd. The beginning of death.

Genesis 3:22a says "And the LORD God said, Behold, the man is become as one of us, to know good and evil:......."

The knowledge of good and evil is the knowledge of God and gods.

The tree of the knowledge of good and evil, made humanity as gods.

Genesis 3:4-5 says "And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall not surely die: For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened, and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil."

The serpent told her the truth about the tree but lied about the penalty of death attached to the eating of the tree to her.

The tree of the knowledge of good and evil brought death to humanity, because the earth was programmed by God for humans to live forever in it, but the tree made humans part-god-part-human, and so, man has to die, leave his body and enter into the terrain of gods.

Psalms 82:6-7 says "I have said, Ye are gods; and all of you are children of the most High. But ye shall die like men, and fall like one of the princes."

Death is the transition from the god with a body to the god without a body.

4th. Life and death after death

In death, the flesh returns to dust where it came from, the life which is the spirit of God returns to God who gave it, the created man becomes a history, while the god-man enters the congregation of the dead and await judgement.


1samuel 28:11-19 says "Then said the woman, Whom shall I bring up unto thee? And he said, Bring me up Samuel. And when the woman saw Samuel, she cried with a loud voice: and the woman spake to Saul, saying, Why hast thou deceived me? for thou art Saul. And the king said unto her, Be not afraid: for what sawest thou? And the woman said unto Saul, I saw gods ascending out of the earth. And he said unto her, What form is he of? And she said, An old man cometh up; and he is covered with a mantle. And Saul perceived that it was Samuel, and he stooped with his face to the ground, and bowed himself. And Samuel said to Saul, Why hast thou disquieted me, to bring me up? And Saul answered, I am sore distressed; for the Philistines make war against me, and God is departed from me, and answereth me no more, neither by prophets, nor by dreams: therefore I have called thee, that thou mayest make known unto me what I shall do. Then said Samuel, Wherefore then dost thou ask of me, seeing the LORD is departed from thee, and is become thine enemy? And the LORD hath done to him, as he spake by me: for the LORD hath rent the kingdom out of thine hand, and given it to thy neighbour, even to David: Because thou obeyedst not the voice of the LORD, nor executedst his fierce wrath upon Amalek, therefore hath the LORD done this thing unto thee this day. Moreover the LORD will also deliver Israel with thee into the hand of the Philistines: and to morrow shalt thou and thy sons be with me: the LORD also shall deliver the host of Israel into the hand of the Philistines."

Samuel appeared as a god and even spoke with Saul.

Proverbs 21:16 says "The man that wandereth out of the way of understanding shall remain in the congregation of the dead."

This is death after death, but the man with understanding has hope in his death.

Psalms 37:27 says "Depart from evil, and do good; and dwell for evermore."

That is life after death.

Understanding gives you an everlasting life.

Conclusion

Ecclesiastes 12:14 says "For God shall bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil."

What becomes of the god without a body after judgement; depends on the doing of the god with a body before judgement.

Do not be deceived with teachings, doctrines and religions that makes you feel comfortable in your sin

Just as Sodom and Gommorah that faced judgement based on the first law in there hearts, our forefathers who never knew the true God are been judged by the first law in there heart.

Do not be deceived, listen to that first law in your heart and make the right choice.

Remain blessed, until I comes your way again.

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Family / Re: My Sister's Marriage Is About Hitting The Rocks by whoisuche: 3:28pm On Mar 11, 2017
Tomjazzy2:
As tereble as this may sound, but the earlier ladies started accepting the fact that men generally speaking, are polygamous in nature, the better for their sanity.



If you eventually find a man who is faithful- there aren't much around nowadays- you'd consider your self lucky, but if you don't, you just try as much as possible to device a means of handling him
.

Stop generalising. Not all men, except those who don't have the fear of GOD.

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NYSC / Re: Corper Wearing Skirt At NYSC Camp Causes Stir (Photos, Video) by whoisuche: 12:00pm On Mar 10, 2017
Harinholar:
when you don't obey the rules and regulations of the government or the lawmakers becomes a sin which is indicated in the Bible....it's never in the rules of NYSC to put on a skirt...so what's her problem...

What of when the government or the lawmakers want you to go against the law of God. did you the story of the three hebrew men, what of Daniel, did they obey the king or they obey God. you people just come online to say whatever you like. Bible say if any part of your body will make you sin cut it off. Bible also says work out your salvation with fear and trembling. I know you will want to abuse or say something, but remember lets do what it is that pleases God. I don't know if you a Christian, but I think we christian we always contradict ourselves, if it is the opposite religion they will stand for what they feel it is against their religion.God bless you.

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Religion / Re: 13 Scriptures That Will Change Ladies From Entering Hell... By Watchman Peter by whoisuche: 4:52pm On Mar 06, 2017
ozimec:
. ((13 SCRIPTURES THAT WILL CHANGE LADIES
FROM ENTERING HELL AND WHAT THE SATAN
DOESN'T WANT YOU TO KNOW IN YOUR CHURCHES))
Watchman Peter
1: IF YOUR IMMORAL TIGHT DRESS MAKES A
MAN TO LUST ON YOU, ALREADY YOU HAVE COMMITTED ADULTERY WITH THAT MAN AND
YOU WILL BE JUDGED AT THE END FOR ADULTERY. eg min-skirts, Short skirts, trousers,tight cloths.
Matthew 5:28 But now I tell you : anyone who looks at a woman and lust after her is guilty of
committing adultery with her in his heart.
2: THE GRACE OF GOD SAYS WE SHOULD NOT LOVE THOSE FASHIONS AND UNHOLY THINGS.
Titus 2:11-13 For God has revealed his grace for
the salvation of all people.
That grace instructs us to give up ungodly living and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in this world, as we wait
for the blessed Day we hope for, when the glory of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ will appear.
3:GOD SAYS CHRISTIANS SHOULD NOT LOVE
FASHIONS AND THINGS OF THIS WORLD eg. worldly cloths, movies and make ups!
1 John 2:15-16 Do not love the world or anything that belongs to the world. If you love the world,
you do not love the Father. Everything that belongs to the world,”what the flesh desires, what people see and want, and everything in this world
that people are so proud of none of this comes from the Father; it all comes from the world (satan).
4: GOD IS TO BE WORSHIP IN A HOLY WAY,HOLY
DRESSING,HOLY LIFE.
John 4:23-24 But the time is coming and is already here, when by the power of God's Spirit
people will worship the Father as he really is, offering him the true worship that he wants. God is Spirit, and only by the power of his Spirit can people worship him as he really is.
5: WOMAN SHOULD BE DECENT AND HOLY IN
THEIR DRESSING....
1 Timothy 2:9-10 I also want the women to be modest and sensible about their clothes and to dress properly; not with fancy hair styles or with gold ornaments or pearls or expensive dresses,
but with good deeds, as is proper for women who claim to be religious.
6: DON'T WEAR MAKE UPS/PAINTINGS FOR YOUR BODY IS TO GLORIFY GOD.
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 Don't you know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and who was given to you by God? You do
not belong to yourselves but to God; he bought you for a price. So use your bodies for God's
glory.
7:NO TROUSERS.
Deuteronomy 22:5 “Women are not to wear men's clothing,... the Lord your God hates people who
do such things.
8: EVERYTHING YOU WEAR OR PUT-ON, IS IT PLEASING GOD?
Colossians 3:17 Everything you do or say, then, should be done in the name of the Lord Jesus, as
you give thanks through him to God the Father.
9:NO EAR RINGS &JEWERIES, ORNAMENTS BEFORE GOD.
Genesis 35:1-4 God said to Jacob,€œGo to Bethel
at once, and live there. Build an altar there to me, the God who appeared to you when you were
running away from your brother Esau.” So Jacob
said to his family and to all who were with him,
“Get rid of the foreign gods that you have; purify yourselves and put on clean clothes. We are going to leave here and go to Bethel, where I will build
an altar to the God who helped me in the time of my trouble and who has been with me everywhere I have gone. So they gave Jacob all the foreign
gods that they had and also the earrings that they
were wearing. He buried them beneath the oak tree near Shechem.
# Exodus 33:4 When the people heard this, they began to mourn and did not wear jewelry any more.
Exodus 33:5King James Version (KJV) 5 For the Lord had said unto Moses, Say unto the children of Israel, Ye are a stiffnecked people: I will come
up into the midst of you in a moment, and consume you: therefore now put off your
ornaments from you, that I may know what to do unto you. Exodus 33:6 So after they left Mount Sinai, the people of Israel no longer wore ornament.
10: NO ARTIFICIAL HAIR,NAILS AND COLOURS THAT IS LIEING WITH FALSE THINGS AND BIBLE
SAYS THAT NO LIERS WILL ENTER...NO IMPURE
OR FALSE HAIR OR NAIL COLOURS WILL ENTER HEAVEN. Revelation 21:27 But nothing that is impure or False will enter the city, nor anyone who does shameful things or tells lies. Only those whose names are written in the Lamb's book of the living will enter the city.
GOD SAYS YOU MUST BE HOLY IN ALL YOUR DEEDS(INNER AND OUT)
1 Peter 1:14-16 Be obedient to God, and do not allow your lives to be shaped by those desires you had when you were still ignorant. Instead, be holy in all that you do, just as God who called you is holy. The scripture says,œBe holy because I am holy.
11:WITHOUT DRESSING HOLY AND LIVING A
HOLY LIFE YOU WILL NOT ENTER HEAVEN.
Hebrews 12:14 Try to be at peace with everyone,
and try to live a holy life, because no one will see the Lord without it.
12: WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF YOU DON'T OBEY THIS WORD.
2 Thessalonians 1:7-9
He will do this when the Lord Jesus appears from
heaven with his mighty angels, with a flaming fire,
to punish those who reject God and who do not
obey the Good News about our Lord Jesus. They
will suffer the punishment of eternal destruction in
Hell ,separated from the presence of the Lord and from his glorious might,
13:THOSE WHO DON'T BELIEVE THIS WORD-
Revelation 21:8 But cowards, traitors, perverts, murderers, the immoral, those who practice
magic, those who worship idols, and all liars€”the place for them is the lake burning with fire and
sulfur, which is the second death.
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Religion / Re: Should I Leave The Church Because Of Him? Pease I Need Your Advice by whoisuche: 4:39pm On Mar 06, 2017
greatnaija01:

New Living Translation Romans 14:23
But if you have doubts about whether or not you should eat something, you are sinning if you go ahead and do it. For you are not following your convictions. If you do anything you believe is not right, you are sinning.


Matthew 5:29
New Living Translation
So if your eye--even your good eye--causes you to lust, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell.


Those two scriptures above should help you tell anyone who cares to know why you have to leave that church... it is not a bad church but since the pastor can not be firm and disciplinary on misconducts then YOU ARE NOT SAFE. I KNOW HE MAY HAVE YOUR NUMBER orr YOUR HOUSE ADDRESS....
Kindly leave else you have sown a seed for someone else to destroy your own HOME. Its usually in men's undisciplined nature to CHEAT... do not be the tool of the devil.


Nice, I copied your Bible Verse you gave here. Thanks

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Religion / Re: Happy 75th Birthday To Pastor Adeboye by whoisuche: 11:41am On Mar 03, 2017
LifeDrama:
Today 2nd March is our Daddy in the Lord, Pastor enoch Adejare Adeboye 75th birthday. He was born in Ifewara,Osun in the year 1942 and he assumed the position of General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God in the year 1981. God bless our daddy in the Lord.

Kindly Drop your Birthday Messages and Prayers to our Father-in-the-Lord, Pastor E.A Adeboye even as he celebrates his 75th Birthday.

God Bless you!

http://lifedrama.com.ng/happy-75th-birthday-to-pastor-e-a-adeboye/

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SIR. LONG LIFE AND GOD'S BLESSING IN JESUS CHRIST WONDERFUL NAME AMEN.
Romance / Re: My Fiancée Wants To Break Up With Me Because She Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by whoisuche: 2:22pm On Feb 27, 2017
Mophasa:


It's not like she got born again or something, fornication is not the only sin in life and all sins are equal before God.
She still does other stuff too and it's not like I met her a virgin.

One thing you people did not understand is not reading the world of God, which is the bible. Amos 3 vs 3 NKJ, says can two work together except they agreed. Marrying somebody either male or female must be a mutual consent. You don't beg for some one to marry you, and also someone cannot beg you to marry her. For the fornication, if she was not a virgin and now she realises that what she is doing is bad in the sight of God not man and she has decided to repent let her be, stop saying you did not met her a virgin, a thief at the cross with Jesus Christ who begs for forgiveness, God forgave him. If someone is doing something which is not good and realises it, then decided to stop from it what is wrong. Even if there are other things she is doing which is not good with the help of The Lord Jesus Christ he/she can change. Except you are not a christian and you don't read your Bible. the only thing to do is that no fornication till marriage and on ur parts make sure you a changed person and you have repented. If she insist on moving on, don't force her into something both of you will regreet tomorrow. There are other women, when it's time for you to get married, pray to God to give you a better wife. God bless you as you accep Jesus Christ as your Lord and Personal Saviour.
Family / Re: Teacher Divorces Her Husband Over “Unattractive Joystick” In Delta by whoisuche: 8:16pm On Feb 24, 2017
slurryeye:
For those saying pre-marital sex is bad, now tell me how this 2 would have married if they have had sex pre-maritally.

It is not for those who are saying pre-marital sex is not good, it is the word of God. Fornication is a sin.
Crime / Re: Stepmother Stones Her Stepdaughter Dead In Benue, Connives With 2 Others(Pics) by whoisuche: 9:03pm On Feb 23, 2017
bedspread:
THERE IS NO MORE TIME.... THE COMING OF JESUS CHRIST IS MUCH MORE CLOSER..... CHECK THIS OUT

I WAS TOUCHED IN THE SPIRIT WHEN I HEARD THIS...
One of our pastors was preaching yesterday evening, and
he said: 3 weeks ago, while he was doing morning prayer
a man came out of his house listening and responding
amen to his prayers...
After he finished preaching, the man came to him and said "pastor, I want to speak with you. "While they were yet discussing, the man showed him his house. He said: see that upstairs, God built it for me as a reason of me evangelising
for Him. but now, I don't evangelise anymore and I don't
know why, but I'm still serving God...
The man said: my wife died 2 weeks ago. While d pastor
was trying to sympathise with him, he said "no, because she returned back to life. " And he started crying...
The pastor was curious to know why he was crying, and
the man said: she died in an operation and the doctors
confirmed her dead, but she returned back to life with a message...
And the message was "Go and tell your husband and everyone, as many as you can reach, tell them that THE
CHARIOTS ARE READY!!" and the man continued crying...
*Friends, I don't think we need any other explanation to this...
What we should do, I don't think we need anyone to tell us..
There's no more time... BE INFORMED... BE WARNED...
​Jesus is coming very soon​
Pls don't just read and like this, but make sure that you share
with everyone in your contacts. By doing this, you're as well doing
a great work of evangelism which is the heart beat of God.
God bless u.
Copied, I will share it on my face book. For the message of the gospel.
Health / Re: Nigerian Lady Gives Birth To A Baby Girl In A Car In Nsukka,enugu(photos) by whoisuche: 1:07pm On Feb 21, 2017
sar33:
According to Daniel who shared the story,his neighbour gave birth to a baby girl in his car.According to him,the incident happened on the morning of February 18.

See the narration of the story on the screenshots above

cc; Lalasticlala,mynd44

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/02/nigerian-lady-gives-birth-to-baby-girl.html

TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY IN JESUS CHRIST NAME AMEN.
Family / Re: After 19 Years Of Having 9 Miscarriages And 4 IVF, Lady Conceives Naturally by whoisuche: 8:04pm On Feb 20, 2017
Ifexxy:
Instagram user, Kaojo, took to her Instagram page to share her testimony. According to her, she was barren for 19 years and in the midst of it all, she had 9 miscarriages and 4 IVFs. She finally conceived naturally and gave to a beautiful baby girl. Read what she wrote below;


"Forever my praises shall be heard in at the nooks and crannies of the world for what the most high God has done. Just like Anna, he took my reproach away and gave me joy everlasting. I have search through eternity but they is no one I can compare with this God who makes impossible situation possible. My God who made a barren woman of 19 year sing for joy of motherhood after 9 miscarriages, 4 IVF but then gave a child naturally at the time i least expected. E ba mi pe oruko re, emi ni tin je emi ni. The one who promises and fulfills it at his own time. What can I say or how can I explain or describe this God. God your praises will always be heard from my abode. Yahweh the miracle working God.

I bless your name for who you are. No matter what we might be going through know that God is in the midst of it. He might be silence but definitely working on your situation and at its own appointed time he would show forth for the glory of his name."

http://www.thearticle.com.ng/2017/02/after-19-years-of-having-9-miscarriages.html


TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY IN JESUS CHRIST NAME AMEN.
Family / Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by whoisuche: 2:02pm On Feb 18, 2017
darsool500:
Hi Nairalanders, Good morning and I hope you all had a great night rest? I just wanted to seek a quick opinion here if any of you married guys were in my own shoes, which I feel no-one or probably few might be in the same shoes as I am in now. During the short time we courted before we married, she was always opened to me, and that made me sort of more attracted and glued to her, because thats my type of person. She told me about her ex, most especially their sexual past, infact while with me then, the ex used to call, and then she'll pass the phone to me to answer, but I wouldnt. She opened up as to how big his manhooooood is, and how it took her months when they started dating to adjust to his size. I am just a normal sized person, with lots of skills and stamina to make any woman whose appetite for big manhood satisfied regardless, and this is exactly what my wife portrayed while dating her, she made me feel she was satisfied.

On one faithful day, we were doing it, then suddenly my pe.niis had entered her an.us, oh my, it was so wide that I felt maybe my pe.nis had mistakenly throbbed her butttt cheek, cos she has a massiveness butttt. I didnt say anything, then she later on sent me a text right after I left the house that I did I notice we just had anallll sexxxx, I was like, it cant be that if that was ur an.usssss, then its damn toooo wide. By the time I got back, I started to question her that in my life, though I have had few anallll intercourse, but I have never come across an.us as wide as that, asked if she has been doing it b4, she said NO, claiming it was the kind of body she has. I was stuck to believing her, even though I was not convinced. Few months later, we got married, then she started opening up the more. Funny thing months after marriage, we started having more of anallll intercourse, the an.us is now back to what I can call normal, tight and enclosed, and then I asked how come ur an.us is now tight considering the fact you told me thats how your body is, she said well, she doesnt understand why its all tight up now. That I just put aside and didnt want to worry about, knowing fully well, she was probably doing it while she was dating me or whatever.

Almost a year entering into our marriage, she started talking about how she loves to have his man have a kind of di.ccckk that can handle her fat asss, bla bla bla, though we were just having a flirty chat while she was abroad to give birth, going deep into the convo with her, I decided I'll buy penile extension, the type that a man wears, like an artificial diccck, to give that deep and widening feel that she has always been used to. I am this kind of man that wants to bring fulfillment and happiness in terms of sexual contentment not thinking if I am less of a man or allowing complex to hold me down, Infact I was happy we agreed to start making use of it. Lo and behold, she was back, and we started using this stuff, 11 inches of penile extension, up to 8 inches up her butt, for the first time, my wife was all smiles and very happy after the first try. Then I knew this was what she has been missing all these while. It now came to a level where after usage of the penile, she can drop it anywhere around our bathroom where our kids do go into, and I have been complaining that this is a private tool that needs to be kept and secured for no one to see, the kids can mistakenly take it when visitors are around which can be seen. This has been happening over and over again, the last time when I decided to throw the tool away was when she had dumped it in the visitors bathroom after usage for 2 days, I just figured it out the third day, I was furious and I threw it away, because nobody should see it.

My fellow nairalanders, judging from my write up, many will think, I probably have a small manhood, in all sincerity, I dont, infact my wife is the only woman in my entire life that I had to go and extra mile for, because of the experience she had with her ex who she claims has an extremely huge manhooood, so it made my case very different. Also, my experience and skills and stamina does work, but sometimes, she just needs that deep feeling so her orgasm can be 3 times more powerful than the orgasm she gets from my own normal penetration. My fear now is, regardless of the fact that I see as a faithful woman, is there a probability that she'll cheat? Because the constant carelessness of the tool was better off for me to have thrown it away, also if we had sex 10 times in a month, we only make use of the toy twice.

I need response from experienced married men please.

You and ur wife should put carnality aside and embrace Jesus Christ. Read the Bible it will help you. Always have normal sex. May God see you through in Jesus Christ Name Amen.
Health / Re: 7 Home Remedies For Urinary Tract Infections UTI by whoisuche: 1:49pm On Feb 18, 2017
Adekanyeope:
A urinary tract infection (UTI) is usually bacterial infection in any part of your urinary system — your kidneys, ureters, bladder and urethra. Most infections involve the lower urinary tract — the bladder and the urethra.


UTI is the key reason women are often told to wipe from front to back after using the bathroom. That's because the urethra- that tube that transports urine from the bladder to the outside of the body is located close to the anus. Bacteria from the large intestine, such as E. coli, are in the perfect position to escape the anus and invade the urethra. From there, they travel up to the bladder, and if the infection isn't treated, it proceed to infect the kidneys. Women may be especially prone to UTIs because they have shorter urethra, which allow bacteria quick access to the bladder. Unprotected sex with an infected person is usually the major cause in men.


The pain associated with UTI brings a whole lots of discomfort and most medical practitioners advise the use of antibiotics. However, taking an antibiotic isn’t the only way to get over symptoms of a urinary tract infection.

In fact, some remedies don’t require a prescription — and they can be done right at home in addition to any treatment your doctor has recommended.

Below is a list of seven viable home remedies which have been proven to be effective and less costly in treating and preventing the symptoms of UTI

1. Get Your Fill of Water

One of the first things to do when you have a urinary tract infection is drink plenty of water. That’s because drinking water can help flush away the bacteria that's causing your infection, according to the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases (NIDDK), which puts you on the right track for recovery.

2. Load Up on Vitamin C for a Healthy Urinary Tract

Getting plenty of foods high in vitamin C is important, because large amounts of vitamin C make urine more acidic. This inhibits the growth of bacteria in your urinary tract, according to the Johns Hopkins Medicine health library. If you have an active UTI, taking vitamin C supplements may help, too, advises Kandis Rivers, MD, a urologist at Henry Ford Health System in West Bloomfield, Michigan.


3. Soothe UTI Pain With Heat

Inflammation and irritation from UTIs cause burning, pressure, and pain around your pubic area, Dr. Rivers says. Applying a heating pad can help soothe the area. Keep the heat setting low, don’t apply it directly to the skin, and limit your use to 15 minutes at a time to avoid burns.

4. Cut Bladder Irritants From Your Diet

When you have a UTI, caffeine, alcohol, spicy food, nicotine, carbonated drinks, and artificial sweeteners can irritate your bladder further, making it harder for your body to heal. Focus on healthy foods, such as high-fiber carbohydrates, which are good for your digestive health, says Dr. Lucille.

5. Go Ahead, Empty Your Bladder Again

Every time you empty your bladder — even if it’s just a small amount — you rid it of some of the bacteria causing the infection, according to the NIDDK. So keep making those bathroom runs, advises Rivers.

6. Consider Herbal Remedies

You may find some relief from taking the herb uva ursi (bearberry leaf), which is used as a treatment for lower urinary tract infections. But Rivers cautions that it should be taken only for short periods of time — five days or less — as it could cause liver damage. In addition, the herb goldenseal may be used as a remedy for UTIs, according to the National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health. It's smart to tell your doctor about this and any other medications or herbs you’re taking, because side effects or drug interactions can sometimes be serious.

7. Change to Healthier Habits

Lifestyle changes matter because they can help you recover from a UTI and might prevent another infection.To lower your risk of getting a urinary tract infection, pee within 30 minutes of having sex, says Lisa N. Hawes, MD, a general urologist in Fulton, Maryland, and a physician spokesperson for the American Urological Association. And ignore the often-shared advice that both partners should wash their genitals immediately before and after sex. "This actually changes bacterial flora and will increase UTI risks," Hawes says.

Source: http://2000views.com.ng/2017/02/18/home-remedies-treating-uti/

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Seun
mynd44
lalasticlala

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Business / Re: I Find It Difficult To Spend Money by whoisuche: 12:16pm On Feb 14, 2017
Vavana:
Good evening house,

Please talk to me. Please no INSULTS.

Is this a problem or obsession?

From my childhood I save money a lot, especially during those Xmas time when aunty n uncle give kids money.

Now am grown ooooo, people I still find it difficult to spend my money ooo oooo. My hard earned salary.

I drive joy in saving, saving n saving. In fact I shop for myself twice in a year. Though when am buying, I buy quality wears.

If I spend my own money, I will be angry. What sort of stupid life is this.

Even if someone gives me money, I still use it carefully.

Am not hear to earn online like.

Matured comments, please oooo.

Thanks.

It is good to save, but remember God loves a cheerful giver i don't know if you are Christian or not but if you are pay your tithe:The first tithe (Gen. 14:19–20) And he blessed him and said, “Blessed be Abram by God Most High, ... In gratitude to God's authority and blessing, Abram gives Melchizedek a tenth of his possessions. help the needy. Do things in the House of The Lord with your money and God in His Infinite Mercy will not make you lack, he will see you through. Also give God offerings.

ABOUT TITHE


Deuteronomy 14:22–29, Malachi 3:8–10



Crime / Re: He Had Sex With Me, Forced Me To Drink Semen – Victim by whoisuche: 12:39pm On Feb 10, 2017
Chiebunigom:


No matter what you do; you'll be gone someday..
This life oo this life...is real.

Ooooooo
This life is mysterious
Now who can tell me what this life is all about
There is bitterness, good and evil
Ooooo....this life, wherever it leads...
We must follow(follow),
Ohhhhh this life....
No matter what you......

To summarise it all. Without Jesus Christ No eternal life. So you every one needs him. And to give his/her life to Jesus now.

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Religion / Re: Being Pure In Heart Can Be Traced To These 5 Things. by whoisuche: 12:45pm On Feb 02, 2017
Agimor:
Being pure in heart influence your attitude and determines how you see things. Purity in the Greek word "katharotita" means something that is unblemished, blameless and untainted.

Being pure in heart can be traced to these things listed below.


1. A heart that permits no immoral thoughts.
When your heart is preoccupied with pleasing God and doing those things that gives glory unto God, it's an indication that you're pure in spirit.

2. A heart that bears no hatred of another.
Envy holds sway in a man when he feels joyful at another's misfortune or is sad when better things come his neighbor's way. The envious man rejoices at another's troubles and is cast down when all things goes well with him. If you don't indulge in this it's an indication you're pure in spirit.

3. One's pattern of dressing.
No much ado here. The way you dresses speaks much about who you are. Be moderate in the way dress.

4. A heart that is compassionate and forgiven.
Someone that is pure in heart bears no grudges against his neighbors and is quick to forgive.

5. A heart that thinks of God only.
A man that is pure in heart longs for the things of God only. As recorded in Galatians 1:10 "For am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a bond-servant of Christ".
Above all, let's strive to live a life that is worth emulating, as we never can tell the way you your may be the only bible people may read. Garcia's!!!
copied.
Family / Re: New Study On How To Avoid Adultery In Your Marriage by whoisuche: 12:06pm On Feb 01, 2017
[quote author=VastFinder post=53312154]

Please note that you can avoid adultery in your marriage. It is within your power to do it, if you really mean it.

Carelessness is one of the major causes of external affairs in marriage not the devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into error. So abide with the following simple rules and you will never fall into adultery.

1. Never make a member of the opposite $ex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions.

2. Never be with a member of the opposite $ex at a time your spouse doesn’t know you are there.

3. Never speak evil about your spouse in the presence of anyone. They will know you are not happy in your marriage and take advantage of that by showing you insincere affections and give you what you lack with your spouse and destroy you.

4. Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and wife / husband you visited.

5. Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse because affairs thrive in secrecy.

6. Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite $ex, there should be somebody of your $ex you can talk to. Don’t dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth.

7. Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from the opposite $ex. They will ask for $ex in return. They are not Father Christmas.

8. Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your husband or wife. You don’t know what their spouses are enduring at home. What you see outside is just show biz, don’t be deceived. Grass is only greener in the other compound because it is far from you.

9. Divert all your $exual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to satisfy you and keep you holy.

10. Always remember that whatever every woman or man has in his or her body, your spouse has it too and they are not different from each other, only faces differ it is the same package.

11. Deal with any $exual thoughts that is not directed towards your spouse, kill it before it kills you. $exual error doesn’t begin in the bedroom,it begins in the heart.

12. Before traveling have $ex with your spouse and put your mind to it that you will not have $ex until you come back. That decision may save your life and destiny.

13. Men, avoid looking at the front and back side of ladies and top imagining what is there. It is stupid, childish­ and dirty to do that, that’s called lust, what is there isn’t different from what your spouse has, please don’t misbehave sir.

14. Walk in the company of good and Godly men/women. If you keep company with adulterers, you will become adulterous.

15. Discuss your $exual desires with your spouse and let it be met at home, don't hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow, your wife/ husband has the best, get it at home.

16. Fill your heart with the word of God always, this will not give lust a chance in your mind.

17. Always count the cost of adultery, don’t just look at the pleasure, look at the pain, loss of integrity, how you will hurt your wife/­husband, children, friends and above all GOD the almighty.

18. Always remember that the enjoyment, pleasure and the thrills in $ex is just 8seconds or less, it can not be more than that but its repercussions can last for eternity. Why trade eternity for 8 seconds, is there wisdom in that?

19. Pray regularly for your spouse and your marriage as well

Finally BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID.

God bless your marriage (Home). Share this until it gets to all married couples. You may be saving a soul or a family.


Source: https://vastfinder..com/2017/01/new-study-on-how-to-avoid-adultery-in.html

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Romance / Re: Don't Marry Anyone Who Puts Password On Their Phone - Counselor Warns by whoisuche: 12:22pm On Jan 30, 2017
arizon101:

Nonsense sad sad sad, i put password on every gadget i have,many of my lady friends know the pswrd and dat maks dem tnk d re special 2 me grin grin grin grin grin

The problem with u people is the ability to read and understand simple grammar. He talked about couples who are using passoword and hidden it from their spouse. You are not married. Stop comparing your girlfriend/boyfriend attitude. How will u feel if you are married and ur partner start
hiding things from you.
Romance / Re: Don't Marry Anyone Who Puts Password On Their Phone - Counselor Warns by whoisuche: 12:12pm On Jan 30, 2017
sarahade:


So true.
My boyfriend locks his phone so do i and we don't know each others password and there is peace.

You call him your boyfriend not ur husband he is talking of husband that are legally married and blessed by God Almighty. Try reading and understanding.
Family / Re: Ways You Are Making Life Hard For Yourself by whoisuche: 11:25am On Jan 30, 2017
eleojo23:
When we were young life was easier, right? I know sometimes it seems that way. But the truth is life is still easy. It always will be. Over the course of time, we made our lives harder and harder, and we started losing touch with who we really are and what we really need.

If you can relate to this, here are some ways you’re likely making your life harder than it has to be, and some ideas on simplifying things:

1. You keep thinking about worst-case scenarios.
I have a bad habit of fast forwarding everything to its worst possible outcome and being pleasantly surprised when the result is marginally better than the utter disaster I imagined. My mind unnecessarily wrestles with events that aren’t even remotely likely. My sore throat is probably cancer. My lost ATM card fell into the hands of a Boko Haram terrorist who will wipe out my savings account.

Negativity like this only breeds more negativity. It robs you of happiness. It will carry you away from shore, and if you don’t swim away it will pull you under. The bottom line is that you can see the world through a lens of doubt and despair or hope and excitement. It’s your choice. Either way, you will someday arrive at the same destination. The only question is: Do you want to arrive with a frown or a smile?

2. You constantly compare your life to others.
You were invited to a nice party somewhere. You are enjoying the smooth jazz, wine and party jollof rice. What more could you want? As the party goes on you notice a group of guys and girls with expensive outfits enjoying themselves on another table across the party hall. Suddenly you begin to feel that you don’t measure up to the guys/girls on the other table - people you didn’t even know existed until just a few minutes ago.
Those people are having more fun. Mary has a bigger house. John gets all the lucky breaks. Tunde has more money. Ada is better looking.

Stop it.

If you compete with everyone else, you will become bitter. If you compete with a previous version of yourself, you will become better. It’s as simple as that.

3. You avoid facing the truth.
The truth does not cease to exist when it is ignored. You cannot find peace by avoiding things. You have to feel it to heal it. Bring your fears and weaknesses front and center and shine a blazing spotlight on them. Because the only way out is through. The pain of facing the truth is SO worth it in the long run.

4. You believe that everyone is out to get you.
Someone in your office does something nice for you and automatically you begin to wonder what they want. Another driver cut you off in traffic. Your friend never texted you back. Your colleague went to lunch without you. Everyone can find a reason to be offended on a daily basis. So what caused you to be offended? You assigned negative intent to these otherwise innocent actions. You took it as a personal insult – a slap in the face. Don’t do this to yourself. Don’t take things personally.
Don’t assign negative intent to the unintentional actions of others. Let today be the day you look for the good in everyone you meet.

5. You see a future full of pitfalls.
You finally have a dinner date with a person you really like. Instead of thinking how great this is and how much you are going to enjoy the evening, you focus on the ways that this evening is going to be a disaster. Or you finally get to take a bold step to do what you love and instead of seeing it working out well, you focus on how it is going to fail.
You are always so focused on all the negative things that might happen that you fail to see the benefits and opportunities before you. You could be missing something great!

6. You are the sun and the world rotates around you.
When planning an outing do you insist that everyone follow your plan? When you are having a bad day do you make sure all your friends and family know about it? These behaviors could be seriously making life more difficult for you. By making things less about you and more about others would make for smoother relationships and less tension.

7. You focus on popularity over effectiveness.
Seek respect, not attention. It lasts longer and it’s far more useful in the end. Do things and build things that make a lasting difference. And above all, never confuse popularity with effectiveness. Being popular means you’re liked for a while. Being effective means you’ve made a difference

8. You are stuck on your mistakes.
It’s important that we forgive ourselves for making mistakes. We need to learn from our errors and move forward. Make a pact with yourself today not to be defined by your past. Sometimes the greatest thing to come out of all your hard work isn’t what you get for it, but what you learn from it. A happy, successful life, after all, is not a life absent of problems, but one that’s been able to rise above them.

9. You have an “all or nothing” mentality.
There’s no such thing as perfect success, just as there’s no such thing as perfect failure. This is why labeling things in extremes – all or nothing – success or failure – is an exercise in futility.
What does exist, however, is a continuous series of imperfect moments filled with infinite possibilities and opportunities. Appreciate the grey area between the extremes – the journey – the experiences. And above all, never let success get to your head or failure get to your heart.

10. You can’t let go.
She embarrassed you in front of your colleagues and you are never going to forgive her. Sound familiar?
Learn to let go of the wrong things people have done to you. Most times the other person is out there enjoying her life while you keep on carrying the burden of hurt on your heart.

Another scenario is this: you know you are right about how something should be done and nothing is going to change your mind. Has this attitude ever embarrassed you when it turns out that you were wrong in the end?
Learn to let go. It makes life easier.


These and many more are the ways we unknowingly make life hard for ourselves.

I believe this post has been of help to you. I have decided to work on areas in this post that concerns me and I encourage you to do the same this year.
Let’s make life easy again!
Happy new year.
smiley


Credits to www.marcandangel.com/2014/07/27/18-ways-youre-making-your-life-harder-than-it-has-to-be/ and www.lifehack.org for excerpts used in this post
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Romance / Re: Have You Ever Had The Opposite Sex As A Roommate Before? Share Your Story by whoisuche: 11:10am On Jan 20, 2017
jesfrosh:
YES YES

N:B - Original names have been changed for Private reasons


It all started last year when me and a friend needed somewhere to stay,so we started scouting for free apartments around my school,then one day my friend John called me,said he found a guy that needed roommates and was asking for 80k#,I asked him to make enquiries and find out if the guy can take in 2 people.

After talking to the guy John said him and the guy had concluded that we both could come in and agreed on #50k each,we went to the place and it was in a raz environment but we were in urgent need of a place to stay so we took the place.

6months down the line John had moved out Cuz he didn't pay fully and I was left alone with the guy at the apartment,just last two weeks he said his junior sis gained admission and that he's going to serve February and so he's going to give his sister his place in the room,I was like Wtf :-/, so his sister moved in last week..... chai the girl set die.....so I've recently been thinking how only me and this girl would stay alone in a self contain apartment without any ********* happening,because January first I made a resolution to no do fisting and player this year kiss , but it's not been easy whenever she's in the room I can't even wear only boxers cus my blokos would be showing..... I can't polute the air (mess) in peace :-( , and I can't come out of the toilet without tieing my towel,it's just been one week tho.....I don't talk to the girl much tho.... but it's not been easy.....I can't imagine how the next few months with this girl would be.....I'd keep you guys posted....I need advice from experienced people tho....so share your experiences here too
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don't mind my grammatical blunders tho

TAKE UR MIND OFF THE EARTHLY THING. c HER AS UR SISTER UR MIND WILL GO OFF. IF U R A THROUGH CHRISTIAN READ UR BIBLE ALWAYS.




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Business / Re: Young Boy Storms Enugu Market With His Friends In His 'Self Made' Vehicle.Photos by whoisuche: 2:59pm On Dec 29, 2016
OZAOEKPE:
WE NEED ATIKU TO BRING OUT THE BEST IN US

We need Jesus Christ to bring out the best in us.
Career / Re: What Can I Do When My Boss Treats Me Like This? by whoisuche: 6:52pm On Dec 28, 2016
pappy4real:
This might be long but please read to the end and offer advice. Good morning folks, a merry Christmas to you all.
I've been thinking a lot about what I can do about the current situation I'm facing.
For starters, in 2014 I was working with a popular liquor factory in sango ota as a contract staff. There, I earned guaranteed minimum wage of 18k but always boost that up to between 32k and 36k monthly with over time. I got daily meal vouchers worth #520, free transport to and fro with end of the month allocation of our products.
The job was difficult but it was doable plus the promise of being staffed was present.
In January of 2015, my aunt from lagos asked me to quit the job as she felt she could get me a better offer with her tenant who is into IT since I'm computer literate and very intelligent with an OND result.
She believes in me that I deserve better than waste away by drinking my life away in a liquor production environment.
I agreed with her and she took me to her tenant who fixed an appointment for me for an interview.
I attended the interview and afterwards the man asked me to start work the following month which was February.
February came and when I was supposed to resume, I called him and he asked me to resume the following week as he wasn't around.
In a nutshell, I resumed on the 9th o February 2015. It was a hospital in lekki. My boss designs medical software and I have to resume in any location where there's job.
I waited endlessly for an appointment letter, I'D card, remuneration bargain and other binding documents.
Need I say that I'm still waiting for all of that till date even though it's almost 2yrs already.
End of February came and while we were there, he sent me on an errand and said something like, let me look for something for you for the month.
Before I returned from the errand I received an alert of 40k from him. I thought that was because I didn't start working from the beginning of the month.
I accepted gladly and hoped for improvement subsequently but till date nothing has happened.
I tried coping with the job and I had to leave my residence (which was my church) in sango for my family house in shogunle.
Logistics was Killing my pay but I tried hard to cope against all odds.
Later on we had a job at NNPC mosimi shagamu and on getting there, after showing us what to do, my boss paid for weekly accommodation there and nothing more. This means my colleague and i had to resume at shagamu on Mondays and leave on Fridays without any form of compensation whatsoever.
I still coped cos I liked the environment.
After a few months of working in sagamu, my boss transferred me back to lagos but this time to falomo police hospital. Still no compensation for logistics at all.
I finished the job in falomo at record time and was moved to ikeja police college. That was a relief to me cos it's much closer to my house.
I did a good job there too and was moved back to mosimi shagamu but this time he didn't provide accommodation so he paid to and fro transportation fare and nothing more.
He later moved me to another private hospital in arowojobe estate of Maryland with no provisions at all.
The laptop I was working with developed a certain issue and I informed him. He didn't replace it till date.
After sometime he complained that my colleague and I were being idle and he couldn't continue to keep us when there are jobs to do outside lagos.
I reminded him of dynamism and my ability to speak English, yoruba and hausa fluently.
He then concluded that we should resume at jaja clinic UI ibadan from the next day which was in october.
Apart from accommodation and transportation he still didn't provide any other allowance for us.
The last straw that broke the camel's back was when he said our next stop was kaduna.
I asked him severally what the nature of job I kaduna would be like but he constantly declined answers until we got to kaduna. Need I say that he flew to kaduna while we were confined to a 16hrs road trip to kaduna.
On getting to kaduna very late on the 7th of November I called my boss severally but to no avail. He later called and asked me to pay our hotel bill for the night and he'll reimburse me.
Before 7am, he knocked the hotel room, handed me the money for the room and left.
Now my question is, since he didn't make any arrangements or provisions for us before leaving lagos, what would have happened if I hadn't left lagos with up to 6k?
On getting to national eye centre kaduna the next day and seeing how large and long our job would be there, he made arrangements with the locals to give us accommodation in one of the hospital's lodges.
He gave us a #600 per day lodge which I later found out the original cost was #200 per day. Th inhumane conditions we had to cope with in that lodge is story for another day.
After 3days in the lodge, with cost of feeding so high and my resources almost completely drained, my colleague and I decided to reason with my boss that it would be more economical to buy stuff and prepare meals.
He agreed with us and when he was leaving that weekend he gave us 8k to buy stove, pots, plates and food stuff.
We managed and bought some things, but colleague and I added our personal money to buy food stuff.
The following weekend we went short on resources so my colleague mailed him to inform him but then his response was jaw dropping.
He responded that he regretted assisting us with the 8k stating that it's not his obligation to cater for our logistics.
I became furious and sent him a mail stating that I wasn't ready to add hunger to the harsh conditions I was contending with already up north and he replied me that by the end of November he'll send our tfare back to lagos.
He sent 14k to us and tfare was 15k. He didn't pay me my November salary until the 16th. In his mail, he asked me to await his instructions on arrival to lagos but he hasn't even called or messaged me since my arrival from kaduna on the 1st of December.
I decided never to reach out to him but after multiple pleas from friends and folks, I mailed him and he hasn't replied.
I've not been paid for December and being someone with multiple obligations I'm trying hard not to take any irrational decision.
Please friends and family need your advice.
All comments would be appreciated.
Please pardon any errors, it could be due to auto-correct

Put it in prayer move on God will see you through, don't pray bad prayer for him. Ask God to take control.

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Religion / Re: Man Claims Using Make-ups Will Lead Ladies To Hell - Twitter Users React by whoisuche: 1:07pm On Dec 28, 2016
Biafman:
What an idiot. So all those companies producing those things this idiot mentioned should all close down and lay off their workers. Then such workers will flock to the church of this idiot to pray to God for help while giving the idiot their money in the name of tilt. You wonder why some black people have shit in their brains caused by all these imported useless religions? Can't creat jobs and at the same time trying to kill off jobs that employes thousands of people. Many unemployed in Africa, yet they have the highest number of churches and mosques.

May God Almighty forgive you and open your eyes to spiritual things.

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