CFCman:
It will be tough to deliver the heart-breaking news to the other women your brother is dating; but it's better to call them aside and tell them about his decision on time.

You wouldn't want to wait till he has done the traditional marriage rites before spilling the beans.

This is exactly what I'm trying to avoid! Time is running out and they become more commited as time goes by! Funny enough, the lady he's marrying is not from our tribe, and the lady from our tribe is so sure she's the chosen one! How do I even break this kind of news to her?

Vanquay16:


I have a couple of family in Texas...If I come over, how about I take you on a drink?

I don't like you vanquay I hope you won't be calling me names as a Nigerian girl after taking me out for a drink?
Don't derail this thread pls!

Vanquay16:
I knew you must live in Texas...Only Texans have Funny mentalities like this.

Oh, I forgot you an Immigrant

Pls vanquay stop this this is a serious matter! Pls just adress the issue.



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I tried to mind my bussines but its not been easy doing so! And I don't really like your impression about nigerian ladies abroad! This ones I know are very reponsible and nice. If they were not, I wouldn't have bothered myself! Vanquay, all Nigerian girls abroad are not the same pls

I joined my brother in the US over a year ago and observe that he's in a serious relationship with 3 Nigerian girls! All of them have been nice and caring to my brother and also shower me with gifts each time any of them visits. But the problem is my brother has already confided in me whom among them he's going to marry! Infact, serious plans are already on ground to come down to Nigeria by september with one of them to finalize marriage plans!
I really feel quilty for playing along with the other two knowing fully well that my bro isn't going to marry them. They have shown serious commitment in the relationship and I feel as a lady I should just hint them about the whole plan cuz I wouldn't like someone decieving me like that,but I don't want it to seem like I'm betraying my brother. One of them is even around for the weekend and she's not the 'chosen' one! Pls what should I do?

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That's a good gesture! But I heard that a governor in Nigeria said she cannot travel to the US. Pls is this true? I'm asking because I have not seen her in the US anytime. But I have seen the senate president's wife!

truthsayer007:


Well, its just funny that every girl says the same so as not to look like the Guy in questions is paying for sex.

At the end of the day, you will still stylishly ask for money one way or the other.

So abeg cut the bullshit and be real !

Kk

mrwonlasewonie:
I'll rather be a king in my country than a second class citizen in obodo oyinbo. Mshewwww

If you be a kingkong in Nigeria that's your bizness! I have dual citizenship! I'm a queen in Nigeria as well as in the US! I bet no one even knows you in Nigeria! Gerout

truthsayer007:


Why do i have a feeling that you are lying

So I should convince you? Is that what you are saying?smh

mrwonlasewonie:
them never thief your property before Na why you dey speak grammar. If a thief stole your property and YO reported to the police and the police didn't Do anything about it or he was arrested and the next day he was released because Brown envelopes exchanged hands you will love jungle justice aka African mode of judgement which is faster than Nigerian court case of adjournment everytime

You better stay there in Nigeria and be doing that sh1t! If you try that nonsense down here, your ass will rot in jail! Rubbish!!

Teeyoung1:
@ wildQuincy and cherishing u guys(ladies)wouldn't kill me with laughter o(asking questions like when will he come sef, reply; u won implicate me?

Pls don't blame us we just want to know can you help us?

I don't support this at all! I hate jungle justice in whatever form

engrfemi:
oyedepo pikin oyedepo pikin

Yes oo! Pls locate any winners chapel anywhere in Nigeria and fellowship with the saints on sunday God bless you!

Cherishing:

Ok
Question for Bible scholars ,I see you are still a learner in this
Wil pm u Tomorow .

Ok nice

Cherishing:
When is he coming sef

So you want to implicate me? what makes you think I know when He's coming? even the bible doesn't know when! Pls you can help us find out just PM me as soon as you find out. Thanks

Cherishing:

Christ wasn't an immortal being, would have Stil die , to me he die so early considering he started not so early .... wished I met him

Loolz...funny enough you are still going to meet Him! So don't rush

smudge2079:
Yes please, to the Corinthians.

I love apostle paul! He sounds very intelligent honestly! I just know when he's the on speaking! Tanx

Cherishing:
That moment where Judas gave out Christ to be crucified. After reading this place am always scared of getting kiss from close pals .




Matthew 26:48 Now he that betrayed him gave them a sign, saying, Whomsoever I shall kiss, that same is he: hold him fast.

Its funny thou! But thank God judas did it, if not, Jesus christ wouldn't have died for you and me

smudge2079:
1st Corinthians 9:27 ......But I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection: lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a cast away.

I guess apostle paul was the one speaking here?

Matt 6:33

zeusdgrt:

K then.let's be friends then,send me a mssg on my mail containing either ur bbm pin or whatsapp contact.Emmaro4u@yahoo.com,I will be expecting

Okay! Cool

Fynestboi:
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GodblessNig247:


OK. Sorry about that OK. Will be rectified soon. Meanwhile we could drop acquaintances and pleasantries here.

Yea sure! Anytime

GodblessNig247:


I am really touched to the bones. I truly have not heard ladies in Nigeria speak like this for a while. I really felt that sincerity in those lines of urs in ur quote. That's cool. Can I pm u if u don't mind. Thanks

I would have love to receive your PMs but the problem is I cannot read PMs because I'm not connected. I just mailed a supermod to rectify it! I have been a guest on this forum for some time but I just registered yesterday! Pls help me contact them if you can help. Thanx

zeusdgrt:

I will be a child to laff or mk jest of an opinion,as for frnds I dnt do child as frnds.So tell me ur concept of luv cz am all hears there's no harm in learning

If you want to be a friend, I will tell you what love is from my own perspective as we progress! But I think its just too early to let you in on it too soon! I don't know why I hold issues like this close to the heart! I'm sorry if you feel I'm not all out the way you want it! I'll tell you but not now because if I try to tell you now, I may let you into my personal stuffz and that's not cool by me

GodblessNig247:


If ur quote is truly a reflection of ur personality then u are a superhuman. Are u sure u are a complete Nigerian girl? Lol.

Loolz I was born and bred in Nigeria! I haven't spent up to year outside Nigeria! But I think its all about who you are as a person and what you want and not really where you reside

dyn1800:
Painful though..... But they can't fool us all the time..... Cos we're gradually phasing em out... I strongly believe a beautiful future is assured

I will really love to believe with you about the future of our dear country but its just difficult honestly! A cousin of mine who came from Nigeria to visit us has a lot of negetive things to say about home and it really breaks my heart, couple with the things I read here online! Let's just keep hope alive and pray things change for the better!

dyn1800:

You might be right ! But as it stands we cannot outrightly claim the order is from above..... Though politics and politicians are Motivated liars

I agree with you buh I don't like when this people try to play on our intelligence

zeusdgrt:

Then please educate me,let me have ur opinion.I know is not wt we tink it is cz we make the mistake of making the person we luv the core base of our life happiness

You have your opinion already which I believe you hold strongly! Is my opinion suppose to replace yours? I don't think so! Defining love is very objective and to each according to the perspective form which he/she sees it! If I tell you what love is, you and your friends might just laugh it off like WTF pls don't let define love to you! Pls pls pls

dyn1800:


Politically motivated or not .... I'm sure it gat nothing to do with the presidency..... Except misconcept your meaning of" order from above" - cos the case is strictly a PDP affair

You don't really understand the dynamics of politics. I advise you look closely to see the handwriting on the wall! Don't worry, you will understand as the drama plays on