IyaebeTheGreat:
In my opinion I don’t think thread like this should be posted on this forum, you know it’ll trigger a lot of things. It’s time to preach peaceful coexistence, elections are over let us move on and hope for a better Nigeria with Asiwaju. Be mindful of your posts in this delicate period, opposition are already embracing peace gradually.

You're one of the most if not the most divisive people on this forum, I wonder how your conscience allowed you call for peace all of a sudden.

Situations (election) don't make people do things, they just exhibit what they have inside inherently in tough situations. Afterall, the Bible said out of the abundance of the heart..

Lol, they've bought those ones. One thing I know if Sanwo Olu wins he's going to deal with a sector of people for making him panic, humble and accountable.

Arrogant people don't like being held accountable and begging for things like he ignored all the debates before the presidential election.

Everything he's doing now he is thinking, if I deal with you later you won't believe it, because by then I've nothing to lose.
However, whoever wins in the states elections should win I've no stake in Nigerian elections past the presidential.

Where are those people asslicking Trump? We've always said he is a despicable human being they refused to listen.

Pence was silent because he didn't want to offend him, not like he is a good person himself because to stomach all Trump did just for personal gains and speak up when you have something at stake is hypocrisy.

If you dislike Tinubu and support Trump, you are a hypocrite without morals as well because Trump is not very different from Tinubu. Do not wish evil in the name of Trump on usa a second time.

God1000:
No sane nigerian is happy at the moment.

3rd march was my birthday and I was very sad too, I didn't even celebrate it

Happy belated birthday, you're one of the few people who makes sense on this forum.

God1000:
What is he looking for again

Majority in HOA so he can impeach Godwin Obaseki, plus he also wants to be a godfather in Edo. Although, Obaseki deserves impeachment. Dude, is a serial betrayal, not working in the state.

This man always giving tinubu as e dey hurt. Haha

SmartyPants:


You don't need to respond to everything, especially when you are going to come in with zero comprehensive and the usual abuse of simple words like "gaslighting".

First of all, no one takes Twitter or Facebook serious since it is known to be a breeding space for rubbish. Nairaland should aspire to be better.

Secondly, I said visitors not investors. My advise is simply that Seun should have made nairaland a trustworthy source of election results for people looking for them.

This topic is not for you. Don't you have ballot boxes to snatch or something? Sha make sure our gallant boys in green don't put evacuate you from the land of the living.

Bye.

Why did you edit your post from investors to visitors to be capping long unnecessary things? Anyways, pray Tinubu does not win una suffering and intimidation from thugs is doing press up. I'm doing my bit from where I'm for Obi since I cannot be there in person so keep your ballot snatching to yourself.
And again, Seun owes you nothing.
Bye

SmartyPants:
Seun really dropped the ball on this result checking exercise.

Nairaland ought to have set up a team of volunteers to work on this throughout the elections. Or ever paid staff. nairaland would have become the hub for checking results. As it is everyone is saying something different here and this may put off visitors.

Twitter and fb where they're posting fake results how will it put off investors there? Stop gaslighting the young man he owes you nothing.

Please don't post south results online until north post. They're taking advantage of it to know how to adjust their rigging figures.

Ogbuefi2020:
This is why some people think that SE governors are the least performers, simply because we insult them freely on social media. When we do same to FG or politicians from other region they call it hate. Did we spare our own? The masses have enormous power in the East, more powerful than any politician. We are the most democratic society in pre colonial Africa

This is true, and that is why the elders respect themselves, they don't feel entitled to respect. A society where elders feel respect is their right, they misbehave, abuse your rights and still expect total submission. This is why it is strange for other regions outside south south and south east to understand how we call our leaders out, it is because we imbibe the respect is reciprocal rule.
Btw, I'm not from the east but south south.

Way to go. While the likes of Ned are advocating polygamy see someone that has sense avoiding it. A Man that cannot tame his manhood is not a responsible man, many of the people in government right now shouldn't be there because they're wasting public funds on their large family.

The poor ones in the north should be made sterile after 3 or 4 children, you people down here are not more Muslims than Arabs, yet those ones use their brain. Since the ones here don't use their brain, they should sterilize them. It is because of this excessive birthing that boko haram, almajiri and other criminal organizations are increasing.
Our facilities are over stretched and can't go round.

Fuckingmallam45:
What Musk is doing at Twitter is fascinating. I feel bad for the employees. I don’t deny Musk’s brilliance. I doubt his capacity at self reflection and empathy. He’s not a good leader and he’s attracted a cult following of fanboys that shock me in their obsession with him. Whatever. It’s fascinating.

I don’t think it’s going to work out for Musk. I am incapable of predicting anything. It just seems like Musk and Twitter are collapsing. Musk won’t ever accept that he’s wrong. This is the problem with people like him or Trump or Putin (& their apologists). They are so desperate to look right that they forgot how you just be right.

A hunch? (Someone call me on this!) Musk is going to let Twitter collapse then rebuild it. It’ll end up being “offline” for several weeks to months before it relaunches.

Musk, Trump, Putin are textbook narcissists. All the characteristics you named are typical of narcissism.

Huge ego bigger than mansions.

They can never accept being wrong. (Remember when Trump gave a wrong path for a hurricane that hit Florida I think, he is not a meteorologist when meteorologist gave the actual path which did not include some of where he stated, he had to use sharpie pen to add his own path.)

They lack the ability to empathize.

They don't love because they lack emotional connections, if you watch they always have many ex or have cheated on their wives. Their emotional growth stopped at childhood.

He can't self reflect because he'll see those emotions he tries to lock out.

They always have a cult followership.

They're crass, degrade and talk to their employees anyhow, cut corners.

They're mostly rich, this is to allow them buy people to themselves.

They're impulsive leaders, they're like gunpowder waiting to explode.

The pathology of the ailment is they were shamed, ridiculed and maybe rejected as children. They copy their abusers and replicate it.

Trumps father was a racist, bigot and evil person. Musk father is irresponsible, even till today he says it openly that he prefers his other child to Musk. That alone can make a child narcissistic. So both parents were toxic, I don't know about Putin's parents he must have been toxic too. See the pattern?

Mbanks419:
ANOTHER BANGER

l don't have access to the email attached to this account, you can send a msg here or your email. Hope all is well?

Lol, Reno's obsession with Peter Obi is real. This has become Irritating and batshit crazy.
May someone never live rent free in my head the way Obi lives in Reno's.... Amen.

Reno is toxic and manipulative, he just wants to do divide and rule with this post.
He is patronizing a certain tribe now, after courting the one that has now deserted him. He wants attention.

Keep family members away from your marriage as much as you can. Some get under the couple skin when nobody is watching and behave like angels when people are around. I'm talking about family members of both partners.

Help them as much as you can but they should not be living under the same roof. If we hear her side of the story now you'll be baffled at what she's bearing. Some in-laws are rude, and don't help with house chores because you married their brother.

Marrying a child bride now makes this man talk like a child, association usually rubs off.

Victorclean1:
That man called Soludo is very very foolish. There is a big difference between educational enlightenment and moral wisdom.

His wife should bury her face in shame.

Why? Was it the wife that asked him to write it? Is his wife his parents that refused to teach him about loyalty? Why should women carry the shame of their husband's? Please men should face their music without dragging their wives into it.

Mindlog:


What makes you even think every female wants to get married? So don't dangle marriage as a "reward" for keeping her virginity.

What would reduce the incidence of "side-chicry" is when more heterosexual men decides to stay faithful to their girlfriends/wives.

I like the way you think. �

Vipro:
please, is Business education a good course to study in Nigeria university?

Of all the courses in the world why Business education? Haven't you seen or heard about the unemployment in Nigeria?
Before you study any course ask yourself;

1. Where do you intend to work? Gone are the days where people say you can work anywhere. Many of those people who said it or were deceived by it today are roaming the streets without jobs.

2. What is your motivation for that course?

3. Even if you get a job what will the salary look like?

4. What are your prospects if you ever want to japa?

Personally, if my younger one comes up with such a course I'll be very mad with him or her because he is definitely positioning himself to be a liability in the future.

This is a CNBC article showing courses people regret studying abroad, these are places where jobs are not as difficult let alone in Nigeria where jobs are difficult to get and pay is poor. Forget all the religious favor talk, help your destiny. It is better for favor to take you from 100k job to 200k job because you read a course in demand instead of praying favor for a 30k job because nobody needs your skills. Just my 2 cents.

https://www.cnbc.com/2022/11/12/the-top-10-most-regretted-college-majors.html

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Nonexisting1:
Your wife get sense pass you. Her decision not to go to the pastor for nonsense deliverance was superb. I suggest you change your mentality from its current state. People lose their means of livelihoods everyday. The smart ones go about looking for other means to survive but the foolish ones go about looking for solutions in prayer and spiritual houses. Tell your wife I say well done for not following you about to prayer houses like mumu.

I'm so glad and proud that Nigerians are beginning to think like this. Thank you bro for this post.
Before now, every little predictable is caused by somebody. That woman is trying, I can't even live with a man that sees a spiritual undertone to everything. They can advise him to ask you to leave or poison you for his peace he won't baìt an eyelid before he does. He is so gullible and naive.

Charisco:
Shameless people everywhere, at this age she still have the got to do this. A fool at 40 is a fool forever. What will she teach the young generation, I wonder how next generation will live and survive with this evil set of people. God help us

She is a human being that has needs, if a man her age does it is it sacrilegious also? People should be allowed to live their lives irrespective of age or gender.
No need for all these double standards, you see they didn't condemn her in the write up? Because they know it is her fundamental human right but condemned the person who leaked it because it is called private and intimate for a reason. I pray he is dealt with, he thinks he is in Nigeria where women are shamed for sex.

And btw it is "guts" not got.

Jeweltz:
Those of you asking what am I bringing. I give him peace of mind and be his support

Hope if he cheats on you, you will still give him peace of mind sha.

Some salient red flags imo

Angry and rude; anger issues from home.

Can't keep the house clean; as much as we like to say she is not your slave, but she should be able to lay the bed she slept on. Nobody is her slave either.

Likes to behave like the richest; poverty mentality, rich people don't do notice me.

Says you should stop speaking your language; inferiority complex and trying to form big girl.

Sleeps till 10am; the more reason she is broke/poor.

Can't cook basics; she wants you to order in, some people from poor homes are more choosy than the well to do.

In summary, do not start a relationship by trying to heal or nurse a broken winged bird.
You won't grow or achieve much with such a character around you. Look for people that are hardworking and bring out the best in you.

Abelino:
I'm very much proud of you Bro for this write up. Your level of reasoning is top notch. Nice one...

Thank you, bro., someone has to say the difficult truth sometimes.

Kewtt:

Shut the trap in your head.

Because you can't handle the truth? Unfortunately you can't shut me up.

The only thing insecure people like you know is, arrogance, bullying, intimidation, and insult. It does not work for me thou.

Kewtt:

Shut the trap in your head.

Lol, because the truth is too difficult for you to handle?
You can't shut me up unfortunately. Continue in your vituperation and you'll be banned.

fxexperts:
Amen oo.. Someone like Brastivila. God forbid.

They will never do that. i just pity the simp of a man, such height of disrespect.

He should have respected himself first. Respect is earned.

davodyguy:

Does the bible give you permission to dishonor your parent irrespective of what they have done?

Yes, as in the case of the Bible verse. Forget all these unnecessary respect stuff, they're the reasons old people misbehave in this country without checks and balances. Abroad you can't offend someone and be expecting respect, if you misbehave they treat your Bleep up, irrespective of age. Does it mean nobody is going to heaven Abroad?
Just like the Bible said do not provoke your children, people only quote honor thy father and mother here just to manipulate and gaslight children so they can misbehave.

Pastors need to preach this aspect of the Bible more, so that people know it is OK to call out erring elders. They don't mention these verses so they're not called out themselves, many people who only listen to pastors may not even know this verse.


Anybody that wants respect should earn it. If you provoke your children you never can tell their reaction, (some children hate their dads so much today, that is their own reaction to his provocation.) He should deal with it.

davodyguy:

Be angry, be disappointed, but sin not

Shouting at your father, sharing his video for me in Nigeria to see is a sin says the bible

Read the Bible verse and don't interpret it to suit yourself. It is clear, if you provoke and disappoint your children expect repercussions.

davodyguy:
Rubbish

Even in the holy books, cover your parent's unclothedness.
Show some respect to your parent and not embarrass either of them

Leviticus 18:7–16; Leviticus 20:11–21

7 vYou shall not uncover the unclothedness of your father, which is the unclothedness of your mother; she is your mother, you shall not uncover her unclothedness. 8 wYou shall not uncover the unclothedness of your father’s wife; it is your father’s unclothedness. 9 xYou shall not uncover the unclothedness of your sister, your father’s daughter or your mother’s daughter, whether brought up in the family or in another home.

Ephesians 6:4 says, “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord”

while Colossians 3:21 echoes “Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged. I'm sure that discouraged also means disappointed.
” Risking the wrath of expositors everywhere.