Hmmmm...this thread sha!!

UyaiIncomparabl:
I will NOT marry until I achieve financial stability to an extent, and of course, until I have a life. Presently, Life is still living me. I wonder what the hype around marriage is.

Ladies, strive to have a life first!
Anyone who tells you marriage will foster your dreams and ambition(s) is totally lying to your sorry ass. Just pray you do not marry an inconsiderate, unsupportive and a pessimistic man, if you do, you're totally on your own, as someone like that wouldn't want your progress. Succinctly put, you'll maintain neutrality all the days of your life! It's not a curse, but a certainty. It's no crime to be ambitious. Marriage isn't an escape route, but a path for companionship. Find your jam. Help your growth.

I beg to disagree. Marriage actually "Fosters" dreams and ambitions. As long as those dreams and ambitions are there in the first place. It also depends on the person one chooses to marry.A good Marriage does not give a person ambitions or dreams, it encourages/fosters them.
I agree that marriage is not an escape. It can make things worse for an individual without drive sef.

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The comments here put nails in his coffin!

LynnnCHI:
Yes a million is ok .

All you need to do is to make the two ceremonies same day.Preferably,the white wedding should be done in the village of the bride or around same town.You can do this in any time of the day,if you guys are catholic better!A priest can fix you guys on any during morning massFirst mass on a Sunday is sweet because the coverage in video will show we'll dressed congregants.


After that proceed to the venue of the traditional wedding.Do your thing.Avoid buying can drinks.Make sure more than 90 are in bottles.Avoid high drinks like Heineken and Guinness,buy in little quantities if you must.

Other cheap brands are Hero,Goldberg,Star,Legend,etc

As a ph guy,where your money should be spent is on drinks.You see this small small liquors dey sell 100 naira is very very important.a carton should be around 3k or less.Like pasa bitters,Baby oku,Erujeje,etc.

Village guys dey like them well well.


I think a million naira is Ok
And during rainy season things are relatively cheap.I wish you the best.Atleast you get1 million.Some people no get to pay bride price sef.




Let's say my guy has 1 million this is what I will do.

First monetizing the whole thing may cost 300k to 350k including bride price.

2 cow head costs 40k.Big ones like 43k
You can add a carton of turkey like 10k-13k or close eye buy He-goat 25k to use for only bitter leaf soup and remove ogbono soup.

Bag of rice 18k
Gallon of red oil ten liters is 4000
Vegetable oil 9000
Tomatoes fresh 6000
Tin tomatoes 3000
Other ingredients including Maggie salt and the rest around 7k
Two basket of onions 2k

Soap Egusi a bucket is ok
And ogbomo half bucket is ok
Every other ingredients for soup is minor.Na the meat and fish be the look

2 bag of semo 6k
Garry or Akpu 6k

You can add salad or moimoi if you want.Salad is perfered cos w cheap for rainy season.Cabbage carrot and Irish potatoes and eggs are ok with biggest bama.Person wey know how to run am no go spend more than 5k.Secret if good salad na creaming.Blend sugar with bama and peak milk and salad go sweet.

Remove like 20k -25kfor dried and stock fish
Cameroon pepper like 500 is ok
Crawfish bucket is 1500

Renting of pots and canopies depending on how many 25k

Renting of wedding gown like 20k

Both of your traditional wear both of you can wear good lace for 10 yards around 35k in lagos Island market.You can chose to wear normal Senator.Aba near Ph ,you fit run an there with your wedding suit.Just buy better check material see the suit them buy plain material for trouser wey go fit am.E no cost.Just use good tailor wey no work The color of trouser should be same as your blazers.

Better shoe for island you will buy 12k.But you can still buy two for that amount.If I'm a guy I go vesper buy correct OK sanders like 8k for traditional wedding and 5k shoe for whites.I don't like cover shoes on senator wears.Good leather palm sandals is classy!Just pedicure your legs well.

Gele and shoe around 10k
Beads like 3k
And there's provisions to rent if need be.

For drinks
250k is ok
You can buy local liquors like They sell 100 in four cartons.The reason is that this little drinks are handle and when guys begin to take it with other bottles they will get really high.Just make it available and cold.

Go for other hots like captain jack,etc

Calculate and get back to me make we add more.

So where can a wedding dress be rented in Lagos?

felony101:
For once I'm d first to comment...

Congratulations bro...not an easy feat...

dingbang:
lol.. I guess you two are married

I'm not actually

Quality20:
well isn't cs for older women at ist child birth, like past 25?

did you just call me old
I'm hurt

laliga01:


Lolx.... You no just get chill at all... Oya no vex, I believe you.

I don hear oo.

laliga01:


Picture or idonbilivit.

Really? If you cannot believe me...a person who can talk with you "nairalandly" (Not physically this time), how you wan tah believe God so

lefulefu:
comparisms like my ex always picked me up to bed and cuddle me but u..u not romantic!... My ex was a good kisser..but yu always biting my lips and pouring saliva in my mouth, my ex could read my innermost thoughts but u...u so clueless!. I understand. .. Hmm so u a babe? But u choosed a masculine moniker though.anyway i no get issues wth short babes cos they easy to lift and twist around.. And na dem dey quick carry ukwu.

And na dem dey quick carry ukwu .... Baba you need to repent. Kneel down lemme lay hands on you!!!

lefulefu:
bros if ur girlfriend still has the pictures of her ex on her phones and still in frequent contact with him on the phone and social media or she tells u how much she misses her ex cos of the crazy sex they had in the shower or cos he always put her to sleep with a deep kiss...sooner or later she will fall if dat ex makes contact. If ur babe is always sounding abt her ex then its wise u start making coded plans on how to exit dat relationship.

True sha... I agree. It might also be that the babe wants her man to step up. She probably wants him to start doing some stuffs her ex did that made her feel good. Either way, it's a warning you shouldn't ignore.

P.s: I'm a girl...a short fair girl.

lefulefu:
Hmm Ex factor. Any person that still misses her ex is bound to cheat on his/her current partner.

Not necessarily. She left the guy for a reason naa...even with his "amazingness".

hefelove:


Shey na only me this girl story dey confuse?

Biko, explain your confusion. I can help.

I miss the crazy things we did together...

Hanseel1:


Please, where did you get this statistics from? That ladies aren't fulfilled without marriage. You see what African primitive mentality has done to you?

A young lady is talking about career here and you're talking about marriage, are you normal for God sake? People like you are the reason why African girls make marriage their top priority in life even when they're still in the University. Nobody needs marriage to be fulfilled.
Do you want her to limit her career because of marriage?. You were making sense until you made that disgusting, primitive and uncivilized comment.

Calm down naaa!
You could have still made your point without insults. I'll like to say "Some" people find fulfillment in marriage. But then, I do not support throwing a career away for it...the same way I think that, all the money and career heights in the world cannot cure loneliness...nor can it give the love/satisfaction of having a family.

Wisdom is needed sha.

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