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The easiest way to go to hell. Now what to tell and to to ask?

This is too lengthy.......

cheat = cheat = cheat= this is never ending.......

Whats going on here ....

@Jenny... You told all these in your earlier posts wherefrom anyone can guess... No one knows this guy and u know him the most .As you asked for suggestions .... -I think everybody in this forum has given the same way ...and so did I .

kay9: Eyaa, so sorry my dear. You see, me too, i no trust women... I always imagine dat dey are all the same, too!

Don't trust a person who lie.Don't engage with that person

You said " I'm not keen on marriage,it's not even on my priority list now,I'd rather hv a friend nd maybe just hv a child but not now.money chasing is mur on my list than marriage.pls u guys advice me " Now my ques is why you need a child from a married guy? why don't u marry a new guy and then do what u want. Bot of you r messing up the life of others and for you 2 the innocent lady is suffering. This is really a worst thing that I can say.

[quote author=drnoel][/quote]Involving your self with a married was the biggest mistake,Both of you are deceiving the innocent lady- a wife of that married guy.U should refrain yourself from this. There is a GOD who is observing . U told that the person love u and u also but think about his wife and his family. He is cheating his wif e and will cheat u . So don't step forward and kick him though he will try to convince you. Don't rely on this sort of person .He is a real cheat who is cheating his wife and family.

How long do you wanna remain close friends to a married man? How long? A quick fact is that he is cheating on his wife with you, in the amount of time he spends with you. A married man shouldn't rock your world sis, think about it. What if you were in his wife's shoes and you get to find out that your husband rocks the world of another woman? If you can answer those truthfully, then you know what to do.

You should take a break, think deeply and pull out because at the end of it all,he'll always have his family.
Why are u shaking this man and participating this sort of game?I wonder ,if you are really have a guilty feelings then stop your feeling run for him and find another person but not a married person.

What I think u should not go coz this will hurt u again. Just take a step forward , don't look behind and find another man .

OMG! This discussion still going on!Oh Jenny u r still hanging up with this type of backboneless guy?? i have few questions to ask you ........... why there is a misunderstanding between your bf and his wife ? only because her family is rich?? ....oh he did not know that the girl is rich ?? just before falling love ?? ..........the girl is still supporting him financially (As I guess), so the girl is still loving him. If she would not have loved him, why should she spent so much of money for him ?? I can smell some problem with your boyfriend. He is counting everything with money and and surely opportunist type........hahah .......... Do you think he will be appropriate for you?? ....I have some questions ...if he was in Singapore for earning money to pay her back.....then why the hell he went back to his homecountry ?? ......I just cant figure that out.

you must leave him asap........

It's not wise 2 get a relationship who can lie. Relationship based on lie is what one might understand later on. So don't move on to this.

What ever may be the case, love or out of hand/control, No one should cheat his or her partner, He or she should consult with his or her partner and solve together, there should not be someone 3rd person , If its revealed,it should be solved only by husband and wife and must go for the right even if there is nothing left for the partner, they should work together and obviously all love will return, No one should go for the feelings of love which is wrong,

only god is lv, d rest of wat we practice 2day is mere illusion. tolerance n trust i think is mostly required. --- ---------This is true.

Who can deny the love of mother , father , sister  , brother  and as well as opposite partner? Sometime  love involves sacrifice, sometimes dedication, sometimes caring . The difference is with what eye we are seeing . So no need to ask --- is this true or false.

Need to ask those who are taking drugs. But what I think, it should not be the only way of showing.

Nice , How much it costs?

can vary person to person

"I said if he did really love me from the start,,he did told his wife that theres nothing more left for them,  Because he told me he owes big money to his wife when he went to singapore and his wife supported him in studying there. "

Yes, u r right.he should have told his wife about the relationship  if he really love u but he didn't.Now think , he can engage with other girl also ignoring u,at that time also he can silent from his part.From ur post,it is obvious that this person is like that, backbone less. So how u can continue with this type of person knowing everything.He will beg u again and again but u must stop from urself as this person seems to be dangerous type.Some person is there in this world like this type of person.

Another point is notable,

"He said when he earns enough money he will pay back his wife all the money she spent for his study while he was at singapore and earn for their divorce."

Now u think , is this person good who thinks like that?This person can not be worth for loving anyone who can think like that.


"He couldnt realize and understand my reasons,  he just kept on saying that im the one he love and he said i just dont understand him. a very tough man, "

The person who doesnot understand ur reason, how he will be worth for you.

So  ur the smart person and take decision to leave him just now even he begs and begs,