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Christianity EtcBreaking!!! Ufo Alien Disclosure By Canadian Minister Of Defense May 2013 by wlex8(op): 11:08pm On Jun 10, 2013
AutosLagos Cleared (tokunbo) Nissan Auto 2006 =N=1m Neg by wlex8(op): 11:57am On Jun 07, 2013
Very Clean automatic Nissan Primera 2006 model
ABS Brakes, Airbag, Alloy Wheels, Power Steering, Centre Armrest
Multi-function steering wheel
Climate Control, Air Conditioning
Central Locking
CD Player
Electric Windows
Parking Sensors Reverse Camera
Child Locks eTransmission
Petrol, 108k miles mileage
1.8 Capacity

Email: wlex8@yahoo.co.uk
Tel: 08029736247

EducationRe: Naughty Things You Did In Primary School by wlex8(m): 4:17pm On May 12, 2013
Mine was in pry2. This girl took my money and immediately put it in her pant thinking I could not dare

I grabbed her and deep my hand but instead of taking the money I started rubbing her thing.

Can't forget that incident

I recently searched for her name on fb out of curiosity

grin
Jokes EtcRe: Who Am I? by wlex8(m): 10:00am On May 06, 2013
If u know just say instead of d abuse

Una dey fear huh
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Nairaland Post Your Best Pic Of You Day by wlex8(m): 11:29am On May 03, 2013
I can't belv I went thru 106 pages. NL filled with funny dudes die

9ic pix n fine babes

Still following
RomanceRe: 10 Foolish Things To Avoid On Facebook. by wlex8(m): 7:57am On May 03, 2013
Victoriousvic: Last week, i found one of them and the post i saw got me angry. It had the picture of an already dug grave and the admin had this to say "say amen and this shall not be your portion, but if you don't the grave will be for you". It really got on my nerves.
Thanks for raising this issue, this is really annoying, some will post some horrible pic or stories and asking people to say amen at the end of it

I wonder how people derive joy in posting those horrible images on fb

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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Nairaland Post Your Best Pic Of You Day by wlex8(m): 9:02am On Apr 30, 2013
adorable11: Dats mee
Beu2ful pic
Christianity EtcRe: The Law Of Attraction ( For Those Who Seek Spiritual Knowledge Of Nature) by wlex8(m): 10:55pm On Apr 27, 2013
ooman: Joblessness - the fact is that there is no god.
Are you 100% sure there is no God

Is your assurance from your personal experience / observation / research

Are you very conversant with all that exist in the physical and other dimensions

Lets hear your view. Thanks
Christianity EtcRe: The Law Of Attraction ( For Those Who Seek Spiritual Knowledge Of Nature) by wlex8(m): 6:57pm On Apr 27, 2013
Nice one @ Joel

This law is responsible for whatever is happening in man's life.

Hope to learn more on this
Christianity EtcRe: If You Were God, What Would You Like To Change On Earth?. by wlex8(m): 11:17pm On Apr 15, 2013
smartg :
Some times i wonder why God allow some things to happen and why he choose to do certain things. That is what brought this thought into my mind. ''If i were God, what are those things i will not like to do?''. Though i can't challenge or blame God.
As for me, i will stop visiting the sins of the parents upon the children. That means everybody will live and face the consequence of whatever they do on earth, and not their children.
1st, I will always show up myself to mankind collectively every 10 years and remove all doubts about my existence

I will clearly communicate my wills to them and remove all ambiguities

I will disclose to them directly the reason why I created them and their purpose in this universe

My laws will be clearly understood by all men without the need for any interpreter, priest or imam

I will tell them in clear terms which religion I approve


Since I love mankind so much that I sent my only begotten son to them 2,000 years ago. I should be able to do any of the above so that many will not perish but inherit everlasting life
CelebritiesRe: Lagbaja Joins List Of Glo Ambassadors by wlex8(m): 10:50am On Mar 24, 2013
ezedolar: And who is lagbaja?
Iagbaja is nobody

no worry yourself. thanks
PoliticsRe: 'My Oga At The Top': Wife Protests At Channels TV' by wlex8(m): 7:22am On Mar 17, 2013
salmanalone: Not a distasteful joke to me @ all. Whenever I want to laugh, I just play the video or search #oga on twitter. I'm sure the man is paying for the ignorance of his predecessors and his own too. No pity! ww.nscdc *coughs* so, dass all. ;DNot a distasteful joke to me @ all. Whenever I want to laugh, I just play the video or search #oga on twitter. I'm sure the man is paying for the ignorance of his predecessors and his own too. No pity! ww.nscdc *coughs* so, dass all.
ok, we done hear. first let me ask my Oga at the top. dass all
RomanceRe: My New Babe Has Yam Legs: What Do I Do? by wlex8(m): 10:25pm On Mar 12, 2013
The OP said they met on the Internet but didn't know she got yam legs...it's her fault

My advice is you take her to court, I'm sure if you get a good lawyer you can win the case.

Yam leg nah serious offence....

If u need money to hire a gud lawyer, sell the yam, and still go ahead with the case


Call this no for free legal advice..080341190310381
Christianity EtcBest Qualities For Success - Time To Discuss by wlex8(op): 10:13pm On Mar 10, 2013
Surely, many will agree with me that this life is governed by various laws/principles once we understand these laws and apply them daily we get desired results, there are human attitudes or behaviours that result into success, I will like them to be discussed here....

If you have learnt or applied any of these to get desired results, kindly share the knowledge so as to benefit others

If there is any principle you consider as your core value and has helped you over the years or has enable you to obtain success in life, i will like you to feel free to share the knowledge

Over to you guys, time to discuss the best qualities for success in life!!!
Christianity EtcRe: Who Or What Is God? by wlex8(m): 4:57pm On Feb 24, 2013
God is the alpha and the omega, the beginning and the end

This implies that God is All in All, since there was nothing beside him at the start, everything originated from Him and will end in Him.

The moment we begin to understand this concept that we all one in God, there will be less evil in this world.




Following......
AutosRe: 2006 Automatic Nissan Primera by wlex8(op): 10:20pm On Jan 22, 2013
xuchy: Call me for credible info. 08039309096
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AutosRe: 2006 Automatic Nissan Primera by wlex8(op): 9:49pm On Jan 22, 2013
Ok I will contact you on email
Autos2006 Automatic Nissan Primera by wlex8(op): 8:38pm On Jan 22, 2013
Please I need advice regarding this car - 2006 Automatic Nissan Primera

I will like to know if this type of car is in use in Nigeria, how much can it be cleared from the Lagos port and how much can it be sold in Nigeria

The car is currently in UK. Thanks

Following is the spec

Automatic Transmission, Petrol, 108k miles mileage, 1.8 Engine
ABS Brakes, Airbag, Alloy Wheels, Power Steering, Centre Armrest, Multi-function steering wheel, Climate Control, Air Conditioning, Central Locking, CD Player, Electric Windows, Parking Sensors, Child Locks etc

FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 5:37pm On Jan 21, 2013
chaircover: Did you say that the wife is your girlfriends friend . . . . and I recall you saying somewhere that your girl was firmly on the wifes side and the sister deserved the beating!!!! Hmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!! No comment! lipsrsealed
You are right she is a friend to the wife and she's firmly on the wife's side that the sister deserved the beating

I'm of the opinion that even though the sister was wrong to some level, the brother also went too far in the beating, likewise the wife erred.

Thks
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 10:48pm On Jan 19, 2013
@All

I really appreciate your excellent contributions.

From the comments so far, I realized almost everyone blamed the sister, some blamed the brother as well, but only few think the wife deserved any blame. I can understand the reason being that a lot of women have suffered unjustly in the hand of their in-laws

As they say, there is no smoke without fire, I actually narrated this story from the accounts of the wife and the husband, the wife being a friend to my girl, there is every possibility that some details are missing, nevertheless, most of you have already hit the nail on the head.

The wife probably played the role of a devil in the whole episode, she said some nasty things about her sister in-law, she locked herself in the house and refused to come out , when the sister-in-law was getting beaten she was happy, what if it was the sister that smashed object on her husband and gets injured in the process, would she be happy, no one should be happy about any form of violence against another person, no man will be happy seeing his wife beaten in such a manner no matter how bad or wrong she was. If the man is a military officer, that will be "isu ata yann yann - yam pepper scatter scatter grin grin grin grin"

Like some people said, the sister deserved it, ok what about the wife, she also deserved some lessons on how to relate with in-laws as well.

Because you married a man does not mean he belongs to you alone, he's still a brother and a son to other people as well. There must be mutual respect, if you sincerely and consistently give love you will reap love

As some people observed, it's true issues have been going on in the family for a while and it's like a circle

'A' offends 'B', 'B' reacts to 'A' and 'A' gets offended and reacts again to 'B' and so on and on and on in circle

For those that praised the guy, I don't see how that violence has solved any problem, if she can not fight back immediately she would want to fight back somehow someday and the circle will continue, we need to eschew violence at all cost as no one can predict exactly how it will end, we should rather maintain love and peace with all men

I'm still expecting ideas on how they can resolve the matter


Many Thanks
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 5:37pm On Jan 16, 2013
I really appreciate all your comments for / against what he did to his sister.

I can not provide too much information, I'm not even sure if any of them are reading this, but for clarification purpose, I'm aware of the following


1. There are unresolved issues between the wife and the husband's family

2. The husband is not 100% satisfied with his wife's attitude to his family, just trying to live with it, managing it

3. The husband's family loved her so much initially, they changed due to some of her attitudes to them and even to the husband

5. The sister is far older than the brother

6. When the guy was seriously sick, they claimed the wife did not take good care of him, rather it was the mother & sister that helped him out

7. On that very day, the wife said very nasty thing, a kind of allegation that could cause the sister her own marriage

8. Since the wife knew the gravity / how terrible what she said, she refused to open the door for the sister she instead called the husband that his sister is about to kill her

9. Not that she carried gun / cutlass or tugs to beat her up / they did not have any physical contact to warrant her beating / killing the wife

10. The husband could have left her outside and go somewhere else to relax / call police / call the husband etc

Applying force for her to leave without addressing why she came led to the struggle, the brother later used "koboko" to whip her, reason why blood came out

11. The wife felt very happy that her husband dealt with his sister

I hate how the sister did not respect herself and leave the house but I also hate how the man beat her up mercilessly

The wife and the husband are now living in fear of unknown

PLEASE CAN YOU GUYS SUGGEST THE SOLUTION, HOW CAN THIS NOW BE RESOLVED. THANKS
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 10:18pm On Jan 15, 2013
2sexy: I think it would be wise if you ask what really happened because this problem did not start today. It may have been long it started...
Already in the post that the issue has been going on for a while "His family would love to have him and his wife separated if possible and this has been going on for a while, they believe she is not a good wife"


One of the issues they have with the wife is that she doesn't want any of husband's family to come to their house
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 10:01pm On Jan 15, 2013
ileobatojo: grin grin. Ah! If I were some of these posters' wife, my own done finish be dat. Cos I'm sure they will open the door for their sister and drive off so she will really have time to finish the job she came there to do. grin
Jeeee, that will never happen, keep the gate locked while I get her arrested or something but not raising hand to beat up a woman what if she collapse and die as a result
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 9:54pm On Jan 15, 2013
ileobatojo: Sooo, first the sister believes that she can come fight her brother's wife in her own home at anytime she feels like it.

She believes she has a right to park herself outside their house like a crazed stalker waiting for an opportunity to enter even after being locked out.

She also believes that she has the right to be gained admission into the home by her brother at any time even when her mission is to come fight with his wife.

She believes that failure to be admitted to the house means fighting with whoever stands in her way.

Ooookay!

By the way, what's the OP's question again?
You are very funny lol
grin
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 9:49pm On Jan 15, 2013
2buff: It's easy for people to seat in their arm chairs and judge based on patchy information from a packaged story as evident of the title. Truth is we were not there.
Obviously the man went there with the mind of peace to just settle it. From an intent to settle...to beating the other person bloody...that's a huge emotional shift....and emotional shifts of that magnitude DO NOT happen just like that.

Obviously the sister said or did something further that was conveniently ommited during the reporting of this story (As is the case with most women palava stories) to create a pre-established bias. Add that to the sheer disrespect of coming home to find your home invaded by someone who is adamantly trying to hurt your wife, after possibly a long tiring day at work...yeah, anything can happen. Full story, with full accurate events or GTFO.
Thks for your comment, my girl friend is a friend to the wife, she narrated this story to me as mentioned earlier, I can try and provide missing information if need be.

This issue has generated much more problems for the wife, I'm of the opinion that the husband went too far in the beating as it has only aggravated the conflicts

There is no bias in the story, I'm not in support of any of them but I feel beating another man's wife who happened to be his elder sister is a bit too much. The Sister's husband is like a brother to him as well, how would he react.
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 6:52pm On Jan 15, 2013
hispinkolo: Op are you the sister? You seem to know every intimate detail about this fight.

The man tried to settle quarell,she refused.He tried to barr the her from entering the house but she still refused to stand down and this resulted to fistcuffs between both of them.
So i don't see why you are infering that he beat her up because of his wife per se.

If i were his wife though,i'd never allow things to escalate to beating levels,what's the point in strife?

This means everlasting fight oo cos the elder sisters husband may also want to retaliate..nawaya
I'm not the sister, I heard this story from my girl friend, although I know all the people involved as well

My girl friend is of the opinion that the husband did the right thing by defending the wife while I think he went too far in that defence and has compounded their family problem

We were unable to agree on who was right or wrong, that was the reason I decided to post it here for comments. Thanks
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 6:39pm On Jan 15, 2013
coogar: very funny....
this is like asking what you should do if your child gets beaten outside for misbehaving. if the wife had marital training, she wouldn't go to another woman's house to make trouble. since she refused home training, it's only fair she got trained outside her matrimony!

one question - would you have liked it if she had been beaten up by her sister-in-law instead of her brother?

better train wife properly and not have her behaving like a rabid dog otherwise anyone would beat her up and you won't do nada. the woman here got beaten by her own brother and blood is thicker than water. what can you do?
Two women fighting is different from when a man beats another man's wife to the extend that she was dripping blood, did he consider how the woman's husband will feel as well, no matter what she has done, what if he also loves his wife so much that he would also do anything for her, won't that result into more serious issue

This is a sister they both came out from the same womb and might have been of help to him one way or the other when they were growing up
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 6:28pm On Jan 15, 2013
greatgod2012: No matter how......i can never allow my hubby to beat up any of his sister because of me......but im still wondering why d wife have not distanced herself from d sister, since from d story, d sister could not be a firsttime offender, and since she also know dt d sister is a trouble maker......just thinking.

That being said, i will beg my hubby till he promise not to beat her up because of me.......with what has happened now, d hubby has already added petrol to d fire in that family.
May God help us all o.
Not that the sister has been coming there to fight no, that was the first time and it was due to the nasty things the wife said about her

The husband's family do not really like the wife due to several reasons, some are genuine while others are not - they complained about her attitude to their mother and to the husband himself etc
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 6:13pm On Jan 15, 2013
coogar: her own husband must be irresponsible to have allowed his wife to go to another married woman's house to cause trouble. if this was on a neutral ground, i can understand! what right has a woman to go threaten another married woman in her home?

there's no sentiment here.
i would not tolerate such nonsense as well - if my sister respects me, she won't come after my wife to threaten her. in a nutshell, if you threaten my wife, you have also threatened me and i would do anything within my powers to put you down. she's lucky she wasn't fed to the dogs. respect begets respect - no individual has any right to go another person's house to threaten them.
They all live in the same area, the husband probably didn't know it will result into that

What should the husband do to the person that beat up his wife

May be I'm a bit sentimental here, I just don't like women beaten up no matter the provocation, what if something terrible happened in the process or should the husband and the brother start their own endless fight.
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 5:44pm On Jan 15, 2013
coogar: he did well considering the circumstance.....
like your story revealed - he tried to settle with the sister, he told her not to enter the house but she insisted on making trouble. i think the sister deserved what she got. a man must protect his wife from any threat(foreign or local)!!!
That's true but in this case, the wife is inside the house while the sister is outside their gate. The sister could not have beaten her up since they are not together at that point in time, the treat was not severe enough to warrant the beating up of the sister. What if her own husband was there at the time or what should he do to the brother who beat up his wife like that


It's like saying "you people don't want to leave my wife alone for me, I will deal with you all today and wham!!!! beating, the sister also might have been so aggressive and she slapped first (not sure)"
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 5:36pm On Jan 15, 2013
feminine A: In as much as I love the fact that the man stood up for his wife he has compounded his wife's problem with his family members. There are better ways to handle it. Ask her to leave, threaten to call the police, insult her to handle her family problems rather than yours etc
Thks, this is my exact position, there should be a better way to deal with the situation rather than beating up his sister, now the entire family including his mother are all against him and the wife.

The wife's family are happy he dealt with his sister and they see nothing wrong, not knowing this will only add to the wife's problem with her in-laws
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 5:25pm On Jan 15, 2013
donchris369: Wow, beat my sister because of my wife even to the extent of dripping blood. Wow... When we were struggling together from childhood, going to primary school, secondary school and even university, pulling things through together where was my wife. When we were drinking garri together in our struggling days in a very harsh condition, where was my wife. When people were making carricature of my family, even taunting us where was my wife. Now am a made man, rich and get myself a wife, i should now turn against my family. Beat my elder sister for what? If i didnt make it in life, will my wife look my way at all, but, i guess my sister will still put effort to make me a made man. Op did you say my elder sister? my elder sister is probably a senior to my wife, so why should my wife say nasty things about her to disrespect her? Wow.... I love my wife but, i will never turn against my family because of her. GOD forbid bad thing. Oya, i know all the married women in the house will want to take on me now. But, ask yourselves if your junior brother you sufferred for beats you up because of his wife, no matter the reason how you will take it.
I felt irritated that he could beat up his elder sister to that extent, this is someone they both grew up together, married with kid and beaten up like that.

It's good to defend ones wife but in this case it compounded the rift in the family

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