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FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 5:17pm On Jan 15, 2013
kitty kat: Ofcourse u know she is lying. She was harassing the woman and I blv this won't be the first time. She as ready to fight that's why d bro had to whoop her arse. I can't even try that on my bro's wife. If they insult me, I call my brother and report them. And ask him to deal with his wife
I'm sure she must have said very nasty things that got her so angry she would want to beat her up, I doubt if she would have really beaten her up, the wife is such that she can say anything to get someone angry.
FamilyRe: He Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 3:47pm On Jan 15, 2013
kitty kat: Do you then think that a sister of a man has the right to go to the man's house and beat up the wife?
It was very wrong of her to have gone there to fight, she's now saying she did not go there to fight but to find out if it was true the wife said some nasty behind her back
FamilyHe Beat-up His Elder Sister For His Wife by wlex8(op): 3:19pm On Jan 15, 2013
I need you guys to comment on this, how right is it for one to beat up his elder sister for his wife?

This is a true life story

His family would love to have him and his wife separated if possible and this has been going on for a while, they believe she is not a good wife.

Recently, his wife and his elder sister had exchange of words somewhere, later the same day, the sister came to their house with intention to fight with the wife over the nasty things she said about her

The wife kept the house door locked so she could not gain entrance into the house to avoid further confrontation, she later alerted her husband on the phone that his sister has come to kill her

When the husband eventually came and met his sister outside, he tried to settle their quarrel all to no avail, he also insisted the sister must not enter the house

This resulted in a fight, he finally whipped and beat up his elder sister (another man's wife) to the extent that she was dripping with blood

Question: Can you beat up your elder sister for your wife, how can this issue be resolved as every member of his family are against him including his mother, should he go and beg them or not?
Jokes EtcRe: Girls Blackberry Craze...lolz (New Joke will be Updated) by wlex8(m): 8:40pm On Sep 07, 2011
China product no dey last. LOL
Christianity EtcRe: 39, Male, Fed Up With Life And Contemplating Throwing In The Towel! by wlex8(m): 2:37pm On Aug 04, 2011
This OP and many other people are going through same experience, most especially those outside their home country, no relative or close friends, only work.

Like someone said, you need to get involved in church/other social activities. Sometimes this may not help as some people are looking for how to take advantage of you if they know you are relatively OK financially.

But do not take ur life yet until all options have failed, its disheartening not enjoying happiness despite all efforts, you are not alone many are in your shoes friend

visit NL from time to time and you will not remain thesame grin grin grin grin grin grin
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Find The Existence Of God Threatening? by wlex8(m): 3:35pm On Jul 25, 2011
@OP
- What if God is not a psychopath run amok(as those scriptures suggest)?
- What if God does not live only in the scriptures of these so-called 'world religions'?
- What if God does not need our worship via these religions or any other, for that matter(as the scriptures claim)?
- What if God does not need our daily praise?
- What if God does not have a "chosen people or culture", as the world religions suggest?
- What if God has no preferred religion?
- What if God leaves us to create and adjust our morality and ethics as we grow and evolve, instead having them handed down to us via scriptures?
- What if God has created no hell, except the one we create for ourselves here on earth?
- What if there is no paradise except the one we create for ourselves here on earth?
- What if God wants only wants our continual intellectual, mental, psychical, spiritual and physical evolution via our daily interactive experiences with the physical universe around us and beyond through every means available without restrictions?
- What if God only wants to stay in the background and watch us evolve in all these areas and levels without interfering in any way, except to merely set the stage.
People are not addressing these good points you raised

There is absolutely no need to say God does not exist, rather we can say we don't know for sure

If we can have common definition of who God really is or not, that is the starting point.
Christianity EtcRe: I'm Losing My Faith In Christianity by wlex8(m): 3:25pm On Jan 12, 2011
alexleo:
The problem is that most of you that claims to be christians are just worshiping your pastors more than God. In the church i attend, we dont talk money there like all this other churches. We strictly preach God's word more as it concerns our soul, how we should live for christ on earth so as to make heaven at last and this contains keeping to all the teachings of our Lord Jesus Christ. There is nothing like offering time during service. We have a box in-built in the church wall where you can put your tithe or offering anytime anyday without anyone seeing you or checkmating you. We believe that  those things are strictly between you and God. In our church the pastor has no access to cash, his own is to approve when there is need and of course he is not the only one to approve. Most churches today are just business centres with pastors who are more money minded than heavenly minded. Quite a
pity their members are not fed with the word of eternal life  thereby making them unprepared for heaven. May God deliver such churches. Amen.
pls what's the name of your church, how I wish I can locate one like that. most pastors are driving people away from God's kingdom
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do You Have To Be Here When You Are Going To Die Any Way? by wlex8(m): 3:45pm On Jan 11, 2011
xgel:
Why do you have to be here when you are going to die any way?
We are here on earth the same way animation programs exist in computers.
Christianity EtcRe: Can You Afford To Go To Church? by wlex8(op): 10:24am On Jan 11, 2011
Have you heard of a situation where you must give a 1,000.00 euro offering before being allowed to see a man of God or where pastor's prayer intensity is directly proportional to the amount you give as offering, now tell me how those who can not give due to lack of it will feel in such a situation.

I'm only concerned about making salvation too expensive for the poor.
Christianity EtcCan You Afford To Go To Church? by wlex8(op): 3:54pm On Jan 10, 2011
Regular BBC Africa HYS listener Francis Kennedy Ocloo from Ghana says the church is taking too much money from its congregation.  "Sometimes it is too embarrassing if you not able to contribute," he adds.

Church congregation (AP)



Does your church expect too much from you financially? Does the way collections are conducted put people under pressure? Does the pressure to contribute deter you from attending?

How much do you know about how the funds are spent?

If you are from another faith group, are you faced with similar issues?



http://www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/africahaveyoursay/2011/01/can-you-afford-to-go-to-church.shtml
PoliticsRe: Ecowas Names Obasanjo Special Envoy To Cote D’ivoire Gbagbo time is up by wlex8(m): 3:34pm On Jan 10, 2011
~Bluetooth:
that one na osoba style.the mumu dey play local ayo with baba inside house and hin don lose election taytay. cry cry cry
very funny, i dey laugh
PoliticsRe: Witches And Wizards Warn Atiku by wlex8(m): 2:52pm On Jan 07, 2011
Xomba:
As long as d witches supot GEJ no wahala
daroz:
BLOOD OF JESUS!!!!!! shocked shocked shocked
Blood of Satan , BLOOD of Jesus!!!!!!!
FamilyRe: Is It Right For A Dad To Go Through His Daughter's Phone? Could He Be Any More Overbearing? by wlex8(m): 12:17pm On Jan 01, 2011
Atreides:
There is no hidden agenda-Its just the lack of trust that gets to me. I have never given him any reason to distrust me. I dont stay out past curfew,i dont do drugs,he's never had to lock me up in a room to keep me from a guy i was in 'love' with,i dont flunk any subject,i dont smoke,i dont drink(except occasionally),i always make good grades,i've never sneaked out of the house,he's never had to bring my wasted behind home from a club . I am the classic 'good girl'. I know what some kids are putting their parents through,the kinda premature grey hairs they are giving their parents and that is not me. Ive never given him a day of grief and i dont think a little respect for my privacy is too much to ask for. I just dont get why he doesnt trust me because ive never given him any reason to distrust me.
Atreides, please as a classic good girl, try and understand your dad, he probably wanted double assurance that things are going on well with you. Most fathers are like that (sorry I'm like that as well)

He might not want to check it while you are around because some children once they know their parents might want to check their phone, they delete suspicious messages  

You need that fatherly protection and don't be irritated by that action, give him more reasons to trust you the more. Asking for privacy @ <18 means there are some things you are doing which he might not like.

Be openminded and respectful, if it's becoming too much, have a father-daughter discussion with him, let him know you've got nothing to hide, ask him to trust you and give him the double-assurance.
RomanceRe: Why Would A Man Stare At A Random Girl With His Hand In His Pocket by wlex8(m): 12:40pm On Dec 28, 2010
to commit "lookery" and keeps hands in pocket so mum will not notice his ??ection

he's a bad guy
Christianity EtcRe: Is It A Sin To Be A Soldier? by wlex8(m): 12:33pm On Dec 28, 2010
It is a sin to Kill, if being a soldier will make you kill, then don't
PoliticsRe: Obasanjo Collapses In Church by wlex8(m): 12:28pm On Dec 28, 2010
Why only SR reported this?
RomanceRe: Help Am Still A Virgin At 28 by wlex8(m): 4:43pm On Jun 15, 2010
he/she needs some1 to disvgin him/she simple, what's ur contact no,


LOL

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