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maasoap:
Caged? If you think you are caged in Nigeria, travel to Canada or Australia and know the true meaning of being caged.


He's not talking about income but his age.

The cage abroad are self induced and personality lifestyles. Please.

NairalandSARS:
Thank you all for your replies.

You have helped me in making this important decision.

Agbor makes sense. Agbahro isn't bad

CodeTemplar:
Where are the build-factories crusaders? Buhari is gone and the cry has suddenly subsided. I wonder why it happened like that.

The build factory ideology is legit. It's saying we don't want to beg money or ask you to give us money. Build up institutions and we are ready to earn rather than beg. Have you ever paused why some leaders have fiercely financially tight organizations than liberal ones that brings people up the ladder ?


It's one man showmanship. The desire to the only one standing.. Jesus wasn't like this. Neither was Paul. It's a quest with I'll motive to pauperized the gathering and use the poverty as a control mechanism. Where as where the Spirit of His is there's freedom. No form of control.

judedwriter:
God has blessed you richly for a reason....

To be a blessing to others!

Your blessings don't count if you can't use them to bless others.

Na. It's a systemic hijack. God blesses the church for the entire church. Not just God bless me for a single person. It's a system hijack

God blessed the church not an individual and if such is the case, should the sheep not partake of the corporate blessings ? Even in corporate entities, dividends are distributed vertically and horizontally. The board of directors do not end up becoming the beneficiary of corporate profits alone, No. The organization becomes more established as it benefits. Then, share holders benefits as well


When you belong to any church that emphasizes receiving and not giving back and is fast to say IT IS WELL WHEN YOU'RE IN A VERY BAD SITUATION over queries like what could be your needs, know that you're in an unhealthy church.


The kingdom of God is not dependent on any single individual. God will raise alternatives.an must be subject to God and submissive to The Holy spirit, not the other way around !

Onyinda. You don't want bachelor's to marry early abi

Logo saved

Persephone1:
I apologize for assuming you worthy of a thoughtful conversation. You can go back to pondering of what happens between a woman's tights while I continue surfing Nl.

Thank you for your time and attempt to keep up.

As expected. Very predictable species Make una dey encourage you get females to divorce without first thinking about post-divorce existence

Usefulsense:
This is my story. Please advice.

I sent my wife to Australia in 2021 on student visa.

She has invited us, myself and our children aged 12 and 9 and our visa is out. I have also paid like 6 months fees for my children school which was a requirement for the visa.

Owing to her performance at her work place, the company she works for has promised to sponsor for PR. Infact, the process just began and we are sure of having the PR.

I am currently 48 and won't be able to support my family working in Nigeria. Wify has encouraged me that we will be fine that abroad is meant for 2 people.

My only constraint is my age, hence my question. If you are in my shoe, will you travel?

By the way, I work for a private firm here in Nigeria and you know what it is working for a family company.

You will receive satanic advice that will scatter what you've been building privately. Oga travel and explore, see the world. Refuse to the caged. You can't earn lower than Nigeria in Aussie, not even it's equals. So why stalling ?

Persephone1:
Lol. Women are not that difficult to understand it's just that in our society understanding women is not a necessity. Unlike men, what goes on in a woman's mind doesn't really matter. So they don't know women feel just as much pain as a man does when he is betrayed or cheated. I read his post too and I see a man who attempted restitution too late. Along the line Nina put some strain on his marriage, tried to redeem but it was too late.
It's one thing to forgive, it's another to heal. The latter takes time. No amount of sweet public display can solve it but time. To be honest,I feel sorry for him and I wish his marriage worked out.

You are of the opinion that a woman can't handle success and marriage. Lol I can't change your ideology, I'm not interested but that is your story. I've seen successful women in lovely marriages around me but one thing is common their husbands are very involved, they see and treat their wives like humans . A happy family/marriage isn't the responsibility of a woman alone. A man can't be cheating around and expect his marriage to work out .

BTW Funke Akindele was very okay before she met her last husband.

I don't know what you're about. I have nothing against women. Trust me. I'm always happy to see our women radiant and glowed-uo in marital bliss. My own personal position is that our ladies should take it easy with all the wokeness. After divorce what's next. What happens to the vagina for the next 20-30+ years



Wait a minute, what's you madams sexual plan when you quickly call it quits and expect to leave on for the next 20-40+ years. Let me guess. Pay boys to service the coochie or stay celibate for that long years. Smh. What do I know sef, i'm yet to turn 18. Next thing Dem go dey hawk towtow up and Dan like satchet water

BOSSkesh:
I think this is the reason why France and it’s neocolonialism needs to leave Africa
If you check it the coups have been staged by French West Africa, this shows that French West Africa is tired of handing over its resources to France just like that For piss poor Pennie

Africa is waking up
Good thing for them

Stop encouraging illegitimacy. If the entire African nations follow suit, the continent would burn

Persephone1:
Perhaps it's high time to examine the whole essence of Nigerians relationships or marriages then.
If a person worth is superficial, it's a matter of time before he or she is dismissed.

From your analogy it is safe to say that Nina's worth is tied to his finances. Bunmi attained that herself and didn't need Nina. Lol I have typed it here over and over, as a man/guy if you have bad character and attributes you will be discharged. The era of buying accountability, good virtues, silence, unfaithfulness, subversion and forgiveness with finance is over.

Be a good and loyal husband and enjoy your marriage, it's not that hard.

Note: We both don't know what really happened.

What do I know about women. Read his posts and internally process even from his typos. You go know say he nigge did his best. Some women can't be pleased and it's not about buying. What of men who can not afford to buy?


Listen, after God and Bola, I was the next person to know the marriage was going to tabk soon Trust me. Immediately I saw the endorsement deals coming in, my chest began to pump more blood. Women can't manage such successes easily and be cool headed. Was Funke Akindele not cool headed when she was married to a mad man as a third wife. However when she got convenience, another marriage and blessings to follow, what happened?

I got a phone from a guy at Ikeja today. You may try him by chatting him up

togifon:
u dey assume dats wat happened here or u know

Google the lucrative financial deals she had been making for the past twelve months and her body expressions in the pics. What do he'll do I have to bend over for a man for when I can foot my bills. Many Nigerian women love reckless freedom than their relationships

Apus:
The wife try no be small. Always knew she was bearing a lot.

Na so. Online in-law. Na which complain she complain give you. Tell us

Creamypie:
This one wey dey always praise his wife too? Don't believe social media display of " love."

Once Nigerian women get financial independence they become monsters. This guy sure loved this woman to the second heavens

Lolz. Rather Nairaland is an APC member

Ozoro etc ?

Agbahro ?

Kwale ?

Are you atleast 18 years of age ?

If you can't make your mind on issues personally, I'm deeply sorry for you. You misunderstand what getting counsel without being influenced mean

If I'm permitted, I'll say face your man, build your marriage, leave your daughter for some years to be trained and instilled in Godly way. After your relationship with the man stabilizes, take your daughter over, but try to leave her in Nigeria till 15, let Goldly values be instilled in her here deeply first

Next time spray with biochemicals and leave your crops to fully develop

ChisomGloria:
Nairalander's assist with advise, there's this man I meet on Nairalander when I was in university, he wanted to marry me tho we never meet in person.
2 years ago he sent me money to visit him but I was so scared and I declined his request. Till date I've been feeling guilty because of #20,000. I want to return his money tho I'm not in contact with him anymore.

Is it a good idea?

You are your prophet. Follow your spirit. If your spirit says don't go, then don't go


If otherwise, a man should do the visiting at the initial stages of the getting to know one another until you have the instincts if safety. This can be as much as a while year. To test the waters get to know him, his temper, his behaviors. This is the right approach to date. Tell him you appreciate his gesture and would like to return the money but you would prefer if he does the visiting so you both tested the waters in getting to know one another over a while first. After you've both developed very stable connections you can think of visiting


Do not visit any strange male as a female. You may get killed or harmed badly

Brandiebird:
He was sick as a child like billions of children are around the world everyday of every month. But, in order to feel special he has concocted some magical, mystical meaning from it. Long story short, he is special 🙄

Relax na who him turn reach dey Sabi. Keep begging for it. Smh

charlezcoker


You need this !

Botragelad:
Mate, how do you diagnose that something is a case of witchcraft and not medical? How do you tell the difference between a natural and a supernatural cause of a problem? How do you rule out other possible explanations that are based on science and logic? And how does witchcraft work in that sense?

How do you understand the mechanisms and the motives behind it? How do you verify the effects and the remedies of it? These are some logical questions that you need to ask yourself. Thanks!

Good question. The way out is not to quickly diagnose anything as spiritual or medical but to give things the opportunity to be investigated across varied means, vertically and horizontally. The results of the investigation will reveal finer details.


This applies across broad spectrum of life

Epinigirls:
What does show you your condition "exponentially" even mean?

Empty threats!

Smiles. I didn't threathen you. What you don't know is more than what you know. Things you assume are of the ordinary have roots deeper than you have understood.

victor175:
Keep shaking your head. I bought it few days back. I need a stronger bass so I’m selling it

Lolz. Smh

Botragelad:
Could you please break this down for me?
I have trouble understanding!

It means there are many cases when people are under witchcraft and that doctors should stop prescribing such witchcraft situations as medical all the time.

That one is afraid doesn't mean someone isn't against them and they're sick.

There's a madd obsession with labelling things as psychosis and prescribe all sorts of medically term but the reality is many of these things we want to disguise as medical aren't.

Witchcraft is as real as day light and the obsession with labelling such situations as physchosis needs to be put to an end. Just speaking in egenrsl term not for this particular one. If mad person no fit recognize him mama, the madness mad abeg

Epinigirls:
The hookup opened the shop for me, so no regrets there

Even the guys that weren't aware, we still broke up very quickly

This statement means you haven't dug dig to understand your situation. You never meet who fit hold you for hand show you your condition spiritually and exponentially so you dig way dig beneath the surface. Ah. My dear you better start the Waka now

Epinigirls:
How exactly do "anger issues" show?
Because, I honestly feel I don't have anger issues
I just don't take nonsense and belittling statements or behaviour from anyone

I'm based in Delta state

Tone down on this :


I just don't take nonsense and belittling statements or behaviour from anyone

I'm based in Delta state



Your heightened sense of judgement. Become flexible. Ughelli girl. Reduce expectations in and on people. Accept people's imperfections, reduce reacting in the moment. Sometimes leave some issues to time to resolve and do not act or react with impulsiveness. Work on these things and see how you can make some tweaks and make your life significantly happier

EmekaStanley:
It's unbelievable, so unbelievable

Do you know these people hear the devil directly and can't withstand the temptations because they don't have light in them


See the kind of conversations the devil has with people. If he tries a spiritual person with woman and the person withstands it, he will try money, if the person passes,he will try other things. When all fails, he will tell the demons to step back and begin to do the work himself. He will whisper things like this to their hearts. Emeka pikin go big pass your own. Once the devil says such, he walks away. Finish. Emeka senior brother will then take up war and begin a crusade of war to kill Emeka for forty years. Before the person eye go clear or brain go reset e go reach death bed after I juring Emekas destiny