₦airaland Forum

mompurity2:
Goodmorning ooooo, for 2days now av not had a beauty sleep. I woke up vry early this mrng crying bitterly abt dis ttc wahala, been a while I felt this way abt ttc. Ttc has affected us (dh and i) so badly that to bd sef na anoda thing. Was evn sayin to myslf that I may tell dh to try with someone els, feeling so fed up. My marriage will be 2yrs nxt mnth and dis ttc is hitting me so hard and eating me up. Anywhr I turn I see preggy ppl, my next door neighbour whose daugter isn't evn up to 5mnths old has taken in again and she ws angry abt it sef (na wah ooooooooo)

Have done several tests and result says anovulation nd pcos, been on clomid for 3 cycles 100mg and triggered, yet no show

Walai! I'm tired oooooooooo.
Sorry for my plenty rants, just needed to pour out my hrt bfor I choke inside

It's okay to rant . for the past three weeks. Neighbours n friends have picked serious interest on my TTC issue. The first week a neighbour was running his mouth like tap. He says why can't u n hubby do something, he is bothered n though not my business but people Are counting.
Went for fellowship, d preacher Gave an illustration of how he doesn't pity his colleague but he has all money can afford yet he doesn't have a child.
Another one told me her issue n said I should try someone n d same lady delivers women.
Another one advised me to try a pastor.
IMAGINE ALL BECAUSE OF TTC.
But u know something, if I take all they say it means by now my house will b on fire . there is light at the end of the tunnel.
God has the final say,because he is all sufficient n fruitful it means we are. Pls spice things up n hit dh till he begs tonight. No dull o

@ image, u need to run that test in a different place. then try herbal cleaning (womb) n guifei bao or tampoon. Sure u will get result

Caringpro:
thanx dear. smobdy suggested fresh native egg if u put it in pap how about thay

Most eggs in Nigeria are not screened. what if the egg is infected

@ BLESSEDMUM, CONGRATS CONGRATS CONGRATS b cos soon u will smile. GOD IS STILL ON THE THRONE

divinemandate:
amen ! amen! and amen! to all the prayers
I also pray that you all will receive urs sooner than u expect
@ mummyesther, I dnt hv blocked tube.
d only thing is dt I trackd my ovulation nd found dt I dnt ovulate
I remember I made mention of it here
dt was how I wanted to use guifei bao
d lady I bought from bombard me wt questions nd I told her is only guifei bao I want to buy. she hv to tel me d function of other drugs
so I use guifei bao nd other products she gv me nd told me that theyare fertility drugs. I also bought some for my husband . we spend oo no be moi moi
for those afraid of using gui fei bao u dnt ned to be afraid, u can gv it. trial. but to achieve quick result u will hv to cmbine wt other fertility products
ds is d lady's number 08039132496 but she sabi ask questionoo

Congrats,may u carry to term.wishing u happy n healthy nine months. Awesome God

@ Nogen congratulations. May almighty God provide the resources to take care of them.i also tap from this awesome gift

oyizaoyiza:
hello my fellow nairalanders,

My name is oyiza, I am from kogi state in nigeria, An event happened to me in the course of growing up as a child that is still ever fresh in my memory and something similar is happening in my marriage presently.

My dad was from kogi state kabba precisely, My mum is from idoma but she lived in lagos and understands yoruba to a fault. My mum is a primary school teacher, My dad was a civil servant in one of the ministries in lagos then.

As a young teenager i knew that my uncles and my aunties where always coming to our house to resolve issues between my dad and my mum ,My father was the one always telling his siblings about how USELESS and disobidient my mother was.

Eventually the issue of my dad letting his families into there marriage became a very BIG ISSUE as every one tagged my mother as the BAD WIFE.

It was a tug of war that lasted for years,Eventually my dad sisters came to our house and threw my mum loads out of the house.

My mum pleaded to come back into the suffering as my mum was always been beating in our presence frequently by my dad.

My mum left and my dads relative had oppurtunity to take over all what my dad and mum had built over the years. Eventually my dad became responsible for the payment of his siblings children school bill at the detriment of his childrens education.

*Me and my folks had to pick up sales girl and sales boy job to further our education with support from the tiny salary mummy was getting.

His business that was booming went into demurage ,he started begging from hand to mouth his sisters and brother abandonded him for that period,i was almost graduadting from school when this strange ailment came upon him, we took him from different hospital to another, Doctors took different tests but nothing was found in his body, we took him to three different churches and we were told that its a spiritual attack that was placed on him by one of his family members that asked for money from him but he didn't give.Fast

forwarded my Dad died 2months to my wedding day. My dad and mum had the best of marriage but trouble started when my dad was always labelling my mum as Evil to his siblings.The most painful thing is that all they laboured for got wiped away in there very eyes as my mum dare not talk where my aunties and uncles are simply because of the way my dad had spoken of her in there presence.

Hence i need help, I have been married for just 3yrs ,we have fought in our marriage but my husband had reported me to his friends and parents more than 3 times his friends call me to now find out what transpired between us.To me i feel so ridiculed as i sincerely hate people putting there mouth in my home affairs, except COUNSELLORS if need should be.

My husband had beaten me before without mentioning it to a single soul. But if its him he wont hesitate to feed his friend and siblings,The first time it happened we talked about it but it happened again 5 days ago,I love my Husband But i dont TRUST HIM AGAIN.I

felt Betrayed by my husband,i dont want what happened to my dad and mum to happen to me as this was the exact way there issues started way back then before it eventually resulted in divorce and then my father died mysteriously just two months to my day of joy.

Please no insult, Advise on how to resolve this is all i need.

*Note that i have been praying too*.constructive ideas,What are the consequences of Bringing Third parties into marriages, please share your experiences.

As hard as it may sound but I will try to simplify. Take some time off . flash back what made u fall in love with ur db n secondly have a personal relationship with God. Whatever it is God will resolve it

fosterkid:
congrats mowojuoluwa and talltosyne,wish you both healthy nine months...

Plus pastoraji. Congrats.may God direct us to the right treatment

Double post

B careful of ur night wears because some of us will receive quaduplet

Wow

@ safe06 chai ! There's god ohhhhhh

Wow, tears flowing down because God has started his good work in this thread. The all sufficient God. Bfp keeping rolling. Congrats to do newly pregnant mum n for those yet to test .......
Receive daily grace to test

ladyF:
This is so unfair. With how cheap se x has become in our society, u will still force someone. Ashawo nko, he no see abi?

You have to distort that little girls mentality for the rest of her life. It will never be well with this man. From failure to failure, peace and progress will forever elude him!

U spoke my mind

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@ legendmom congrats n enjoy ur honeymoon

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@ immibabe here is my phone number.I just sent u a mail

ok, good.abeg wetin b BGG.U CAN REACH ME ON unique_ella@yahoo.com.i will b waiting.

Immibabe:
Warmth welcome to DAME Safe06!
Really really missed u. I don dey prepare all dos delicious meals as u requested o!!! For ur info, na everybori on dis thread go chop o, cos na celebration parry e go be.
Happy to hear from u again. Our testimony is around d corner IJN.

@ all, I throwey salute

@wonyi, I get a packet which I can giv u @ d wholesale price dat I bot it. I'll be in PH on Sunday BGG.

@ safe06. i throwa salute.i miss u no b small.welcome back.

@ all.pls i need the contact for guifei bao. i am in ph

i have been around.always checking for good news.thanks for checking on me.though cold is affecting me, dh has been away for some time now

Redeemed:
@safe06, you 've made my day, happy to have you back. Missed you is an understatement. I've torched light everywhere looking for you but thank God you are back. Please don't MIA again

@miraclebaby, alwaystrue, wonyi and other MIA mommies, pls show face. Want to throw welcome party for safe06. Dancing mood activated.

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Yes

@ beetle congratulations.more joy
, peace, dedication will u celebrate

@ beetle congratulations.more joy
, peace, dedications will u celebrate

@ RipVanWink no idea.hearing those names for the first time

@ cHOKL8Y CONGRATS, I AM HIGHLY EXCITED.WOW WHAT AN AWESOME GOD. I TAP INTO UR MIRACLE. YOU ARE BLESSED.I REJOICE WITH U.WISHING U HEALTHY N HAPPY NINE MONTHS

congrats to beetle n rainyday. a heavy sign of relieve. God that answered ur prayers is still in the business of distributing babies. wishing u both safe delivery. june is A FRUITFUL MONTH. in the sixth month God remembered Elizabeth and Zachariah. God has indeed remembered us. WE SHALL LAUGH.

my neighbour had her baby through surrogacy in benin 2/3 years ago.;the hospital arranged the surrogacy.op wishing u all the best if u haven't found someone and success in your procedure if u have found someone.

@redeemed thanks for checking on me
@ congrations n jubilation .....celebration to mumilaw.

uglyBetty1:
Gud evening all, how are we and the pregnant ones in our mist. I hope they are all fine. For others that are still awaiting our miracle, God will do it for us.

Please has any body use this goko cleanser or something that they sell on the road. A friend of mine said it's good, please I want to know if any body has tried it and how it was.

Thank you, fertility dust on you all.

.buy from known marketers that carry people in buses.just took it during af