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[b]I saw your mention and I will react to it this way, for one you may be right but the truth is I will never look the way of a woman who has such financial muscle and would want to challenge me in my home whether broke or rich. This is my mental philosophy not controlled by money, so know this! This used to be the typical alpha male philosophy until Africa started raising effimenate males

I am of the breed of men who believe in team work in a family but that you must have one leader, wife empowered or not. The fact remains that as a man who knows himself fully and understands so many things in this life, I am spoilt for choice with women and I know those ones that I won't even consider as an aquintance.

I must not date nor marry every woman. And just like the ocean, there are plenty of fishes. I feel sorry for weak men who don't understand this FACT! Irrespective of how much she makes, I give no ounce of damn. The truth is she will not be in my space. She can go and buy as much weak men as she wants with her billions, she will not be in my space or within my closed family unit with that bullocks of feminism.[/b]

emmaodet:
Bro forget it, the reason your wife calm down was because she is not really empowered.
For example, if she is working with maybe Chevron and netting like 6m per year plus unofficial office money of about 5m per year making total of about 10-11m per year, she will tell you to fvck off because she can take care of her children.
Infact, she will go for that course she plans in abroad and even send her kids there without bathing an eye.
She will be arrogant, when you raise your voice she will raise her own back.
Why do you think there is ever increasing shout of Empowering women? The hidden agenda is to disarm Men from been in charge of there family and crumble traditional family settings.
When a woman has her money she believes she doesn't need a man with all his numerous baggage and troubles but when a man has money he believes he needs a woman with her baggages and troubles, he will manage it.
Women are trained to be selfish bro and the more empowered women become, the lesser they will likely want to marry and it will not interest them again.
It is called the Employee's Mentality

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[b] Chief you see eh, this matter is as simple as ABC and no it's not just about being rich. It is more of a mind matter. "Feminism" to me is bull-crap to dignify it with a word. And yes the fight for equal opportunities was appropriate and should be commended. But you see in marriage like I opined above, there are rules that govern it and that rule of a captain in a ship supercedes them all.

Anyway, the conditions are already set in mine and I am willing to make sure that these conditions remain and are not tossed aside. Everybody will figure out what works in theirs and I wish them the best at it. But surely women will test boundaries and like one oga said here will probe for weak spots....Lool. A man should be ready to stamp his foot down and give direction in a marriage, leaving a woman to give these directions in most cases than not backfire as women are more emotional beings and when it backfires they start running helter skelter seeking for who to blame!

Signing a prenup is the simple anti-dote to some of these vile and greedy women who would want to send a man to his early grave when there is a little quarrel. I still maintain that those who came with dry cowpea (okpa) in a public grinding machine point are still waiting on the queue to grind their dry cowpea (okpa) not to mention those who came with wet maize. Those ones will have to go home and come back another day or stand at the back of the queue pending when all dry goods have been grinded. Only the wise will understand this my idiomatic expression.

As for my sex life.... Chief that's a story for another day. But be rest assured that man's not weak or lacking... [/b]

Unpussified:
The power of walking away at play and demonstrated clearly here. Guys should learn from this. @WorkSmartEdu is an example of how men should conduct themselves in relationships and marriages cos women will shit-test you and do stuffs like this alot. His readiness to leave all he has worked for and invested so much in behind ensured his wife got in line and was ready to be submissive again. I bet his sex life is great too cos nothing makes a woman more wet than a man who knows how to put his woman in her place.

[b]I spent a very long time going through this post comment after comment and I want to salute the men and women who are standing against this recent madness which many unfortunate females are calling "feminism"

I am a strong believer of equal opportunities for all whether male or female and as a husband and father who has the mixture of both sexes, it is imperative that I drill into them the realities of planet Earth as nature is just unforgiving and the fools who fail to learn from it will have themselves to blame.

This game of marriage is a team game....QED and just like in every team there are defined roles for each member. A goal keeper cannot be struggling to take a penalty kick with an astute striker. The only opportunity a goalie will have at a penalty kick is if they are ajugded the best taker or if every other better positioned players have failed.

In my family, my instructions and directions are clear. I am capable enough to provide for my family and my extended family (wife's family) and I need a helper who will produce my kids and help me take care of them and carry out domestic activities which are places that I don't class as my forte. Now it got to a point from I presume reading some vile posts from these frustrated girls and single mothers who hate men, my wife wanted to challenge that guideline, I carefully cancelled my initial plans to send her abroad fro further studies, sat her down and offered to continue paying her the salary of over 1.8m per annum excluding over 150k in bulk sum each quarter that I am paying her because we have children now and they are my priority so that she will let me BOUNCE as I was willing to keep paying the house rent for her and have joint custody of our kids. I was thinking she would jump at the offer, but alas she started weeping and gathered both families that I shouldn't go..Lool!

See eeeh I am a man's man and I would not debate what that means. I am willing to take the bullet for my family but what I won't accept is the madness of two captains in a ship. Hell No!

My daughters will grow coming from a position of priviledge and some level of wealth and will have equal opportunities like my sons. But I promise to raise them up just like my mother with the clear understanding that irrespective of what you have and who you are, that there must never be two leaders in a progressive team and that Nature provided roles and guidelines and no one fights nature and wins.
She must learn to ignore the probable idiots who are dishonest in their cravings and who hate all men and want all men subdued under the ridiculous tag of "feminism".

But men please and please do not insist on my path if you are deficient in providing for your family and household and also don't think it unfair if your wife insists you do house chores if she contributes to the family not because she wants to but because she has to!
I help out on some chores when I feel like and not because I am compelled to. I also raise my kids at any given opportunity that I stay with them just because I believe I have better experience at it. By the way since my woman got back to her senses, I have invested over 1.5m in a business for her too but with very clear instructions that if she allows the small wealth she is getting as a result get to her head and forget our family commitments, there will be consequences.

Nature will take care of these oversabi wannabe men-women who are hiding under the cloak of "feminism". [/b]

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