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Starboytwo:
Kanu nwankwo, was my hero growing up...

Iconic No 4

Even though I am a man, I was that guy's groupie.

carterguccy:
Seeing Wise Aboki for da first time���

I am seeing a completely senseless man for the first time.

Mrcashman87:
I am not new to nairaland but I have to use this account for my story . I have met her in 2009 she was calm , doesn’t talk much but easily get angry and I also noticed that she wasn’t a good cook but was good in other things ( chores) , it didn’t stopped me from loving her, I didn’t tell any of my people even taught I have sisters that are good cook but I have decided to take care for catering school to learn how to cook which she went for lessons to practice.

We got married in 2013 , she got pregnant that same month and she became so lazy that I will go to work and come back to found the house very messy with everything’s all over the places , dirty dishes and not dinner yet, and I have to take over cleaning and cooking dinner for us.she claimed she couldn’t not longer clean the house , she is tired and need to rest so I have decided to get a house help for her , a small 14 years old this girl was hard working , very obedient but to my wife she is evil , every single day I comes back from work , this girl is always in tears my wife will beat the hell out of her to the extent of giving her black eye , if I confront her she will start accusing me of sleeping with the girl which is not true, I can never stoop so low to sleep with an underage girl. I have nieces of similar ages what I wouldn’t want another person to do to my nieces and wouldn’t do to another person daughter. One time I came back from work to found the girl in a pool of blood , that my wife hit her with a wooden chair and she had a deep cut on her head , I got angry with my wife even her reasons didn’t make sense to me , all because she asked the poor girl to warmed up the baby milk and she mistakenly left it for too long , the milk was too hot to give to the crying baby so she got angry at her and hit her . I have told my wife she shouldn’t act like that no matter what and here come again you are sleeping with her and that’s why u are siding with her , we had an heated argument that I have left the house to cool down , I came back after 5 hours and next morning I have send for my brother to take the girl back to her parents , I have given her money 30k to manage that was how the girl left the house.

When our first child was 6 months , we found out she was 2 months pregnant she cried that the baby is too small , she can’t keep the pregnancy , I have begged her to keep that everything will be alright . Our twins were born a girl and boy , having 3 children under 2 wasn’t easy for us and I have to go to work while she staying with the kids all alone and she was depressed , I have decided to bring in a house help 15 years old boy , the same thing repeated again , she was maltreated him the same thing she did with the girl , that boy didn’t even stays with us for 2 months , he run away . I came back to found her crying that the boy has slapped her and run away, I was angry for what he did even swear if I catch him , he will regret the day he was born but the other way I knew that boy did it for self defence . After the boy left I said no more e help , she will have to manage alone because I couldn’t help her anymore , but my house become dirty that I wouldn’t even want to bring in visitors because of the state of the house , dirty plates can stay in the sink for 3 -4 days , laundry she has a washing machine but she couldn’t bother to do , cooking we eats take away every single night , imagine I comes back home 9pm due to my job and Lagos traffic , at that time I’m even exhausted but I have to started cleaning , one time I got pissed with her that she didn’t wash the eldest daughter school uniform and all her uniform 5 sets of uniform were dirty and she had no clean one to put on in the morning , I have to wash them at 10pm and for her she didn’t see anything wrong with that.

When the twins were 1 years she told me she is tired of staying at home that she wanted to go to work , I have told her to wait at least for them to be a year and 6 months to start school before she can pursue her career but she disagreed with me, so I gave her money for business , she opened a shop . We had an agreement that she should be closing down her shop at 7pm so she could be home with the kids and take care of the house , she was ok and I got a elderly woman as a help , she doesn’t lives with us , she comes at 6 am and closes at 8pm and I also brought 2 of my nieces 18 and 11 to the house. Every since she started working she has never get home on time , sometimes she stays until 10pm , if I talk she get angry and will start raining insults on me , we haven’t make love in a long time , she always complains of being tired , her stomach is paining her etc etc. I have decided to leave her alone and not bother her about sex anymore , and it doesn’t bother too. She acts as im a nobody to her. So it happened in July I came back home to found my niece 11 years old with a deep cut and blood on her eyebrows and my wife did it just because the girl broke a plate so she hit the girl with the broken plate , first all I had to rush her to the hospital and she had 11 stitches and went back home, all I wanted to sit with her and to talk sense with her but she wasn’t even interested all she could do was shouting at me , accusing me of sleeping with both my nieces and the elderly house help , was so angry that I have beaten her badly which I later regretted and apologise to her. That was the first time I have lay my hand on her something I vow not to do to the woman I love but she pushed me so bad and I have been remorseful but she refuse to forgive me . It’s now 4 months we don’t talk , we don’t sleep in the same room , she just do her own and come home anytime she pleases. I just don’t know what to do anymore , I love my wife and children but her attitudes isn’t right. We have 3 beautiful children 5and twins are 4. Sometime i want to divorce her but when I think about my children I just don’t feel like going ahead with divorce but I’m also a human and can’t stop living like this . Please my brothers and sisters help me with your advices

Brother, the situation is hopeless. No amount of optimism from anyone can save this marriage from where it is heading. It will end in separation. If you don't leave her by choice, circumstances will make you.

Better for you to end it by yourself. For your own sake and for that of your children. Also, remember, the people in your life before you met your wife are important. You being married should not make them suffer.

I wish you the best sir

SaintLucia:
You are IPOB and not Omoluabi. No responsible Yoruba son will disrespect their Oba especially Ooni of Ife as Sowore did during his campaign visit in Ife. I repeat you are IPOB .

You are not the one to say who is an Omoluabi.

Do you even know where Sowore is from?
Go and do some research before talking about something you evidently don't know much about.

SaintLucia:
Yoruba no dey reason through their anus like your people. No responsible Yoruba person send am message. He contested for election and lost woefully. 98% of IPOB crying on Sowore matter voted for Atikuchukwu.

I am a VERY responsible Yoruba person and I send am message. I even belong to both the Take it Back movement and the AAC.

Sowore does not belong to Yorubas. He is fighting for the whole Nigeria so I don't expect Yorubas alone to gather round him when he is in a problem. All Nigerians should. Kanu was a sectional leader who fought mainly for the interest of the Igbos. That is why they rallied round him. Sowore is a Nigerian.

Before you answer a question think well. Don't get caught up in foolish intertribal arguments.

PoliticalWitch:
No, Sowoere needs to leave the pages of the newspapers before people know who he is.

No, he needs to start sharing money.
That's what will work for you.

PoliticalWitch:
If I went to a village in Sowoere's LGA, and mentioned his name, very few people would know him

Sowore is more than well known in his local government.
The problem he has is people like you who say you believe in him.

You need the likes of Buhari, Tinubu, obasanjos and Jonathan to endorse him before you can hop on his bandwagon.

Janosky:
You're posting POO.
Clap for yourself.
How many times you done climb your church pulpit and challenge your pastorpreneurs false teachings after he has separated you from your hard earned money in the name of membership dues & other gbogbotigbo?
How much apostle Paul and Peter pay for membership dues?

Your pastors "this is your year" mantra , failed prophecies and ritualistic singsong, you no dey see am?
How many times have you raise objections in your church?
JWs are going forward....
Keep deluding yourself.

Why are you assuming he is a Christian?
He could be an atheist or an agnostic.

wallex1983:
Only this mosque will get full compensation.

So, congratulations to them.

Is that what you read in the article, illiterate?

Ashabbiiee:
He wants to demolish mosque and church, but he has to worship in mosque and beg them seriously.

It is very easy to understand. He belongs to the opposite religion. It is very easy for his enemies to try to make it look like an attack on Islam. He has outsmarted them with this move.

You on the other hand, stop reasoning like a peasant. Think like a politician.

GrabHisBalls:
She's aging.

Inevitably

Like the guy above said, she pronounces the word with the H silent probably because of her accent.
If you are going to correct her, you should go there with a book or article that treats the topic.
Good luck.

0KNM:
Why can lecturers not ask out a student they genuinely have feelings for? Are they not humans? These are adults ffs...

Sex for grades

Omoodua007:
Enlighten us on diff btw what you just said now lol
Abia is not an Igbo state it’s just an ibo dominated state

Ekiti is a Yoruba state because no other tribes are indigenous to the state apart from Yorubas.

Lagos and Ondo, however, are Yoruba dominated states because they have other ethnic minorities.

Just like Anambra is an Igbo dominated state because they have Igala minorities there.

We need to learn to respect minorities and acknowledge their presence in this country.
It shows we are people who believe in fairness and we would not take away another man's rights just because we are more powerful.

Omoodua007:
What type of student thread is this of the 3,500,009 (2016) population of ondo state not up to 17,009 migrated from ijaw Land so clearly ondo is a Yoruba state

Ondo state population according to the last census is over five million. Where are you pulling your stats from?

AmuDimpka:
Can you respect his views? He said he isn't a Yoruba but an ijaw

Ondo State isn't a Yoruba state but a yoruba dominated state just like saying that rivers State. Isn't an igbo State but an Igbo dominated state

He does not say he is not Yoruba. He says he sees himself as both. I totally understand and respect his view.

Isoduwa:
You get luck say na shithole you dey she for sue your d!ckass

If HE sues, we meet in court. No wahala dey there.

Isoduwa:
Who ?

Bobrisky is a HE. You addressed him as SHE.

Iamgrey5:
First tell me the tribes in Ondo and watch me bust your bubble.

Or tell me how a full Ijaw man has Ajayi as his first name.

Imposter!

Apoi speak a Yoruba dialect but the people are originally Ijaw. What part of that is so difficult to understand.
They bear Yoruba names because they speak Yoruba.

abdulwastecx:
Ekiti and Ondo's state have 40% none oduduwa group?
What are you smoking bro?

Ekiti has close to zero none Yoruba group while Ondo has some Ijaw immigrants along its shore, I will be surprised if all none Yorubas in these two states is up to 5%

You cannot call any group that has lived where they are before Nigeria was born Immigrants. They are owners of where they are.

Iamgrey5:
The guy is likely trolling.

I don't think he has been to Ondo all his life.

You are the one who does not know your state. I am Ilaje, we are neighbors with the Apois and I agree with most of what he is saying.

abdulwastecx:
Don't mind that guy, I am from Ondo state an akoko indigene. The question is how can they be the fourth most influential tribe when they are not the most influential tribe in Ondo south senatorial district?

Akoko has the highest number of local government, followed by Ondo town, followed by Akure, then owo.
How can you be 10% of a state where you haven't produce any notable politician throughout its existence.

Ondo is a pure southwestern state any none Yoruba in the state is a settler. I am from Ikare in akoko northeast lga

As long as any tribe came to their present location before Nigeria was born, they are not immigrants. They belong where they are.

Going by that your up side down reasoning it means Egun people are immigrants in Ogun and Lagos State.

Iamgrey5:
Bro you are still lying here

Tell me the other tribes in Ondo.


Mention them !

And while you might have migrated to other regions in small numbers. You only dominate Ese odo LGA hence you can not be more than 5% in Ondo.


And No, the current Deputy governor is not Ijaw.

Ilaje man here.

What he is saying is very simple. I understand and agree with him because Ilaje, Apoi Ijaw and Arogbo Ijaw are neighbors. We actually used to be in the same local government.

The Apoi and Arogbo are both Ijaw people in Origin. While the Arogbo still speak the Ijaw language, Apoi people speak their own Yoruba dialect. They no longer speak Ijaw. But you can still tell their Ijaw origin from the names of their towns and the name of their gods. They have also absorbed a lot of Yoruba culture while still have a little of their Ijaw culture.

So the deputy governor of Ondo state is an Apoi Ijaw. Of course, his language is Yoruba, but their people are Ijaw people who have been Yorubanised, linguistically and culturally.

I personally choose to see them as Yoruba because all the peoples who are called Yoruba today cannot all have come from the same place. Many other people must have been from different places but just lost their languages. It is only the person whose history you know that becomes the odd one, when in fact there must be many like them.

omenka:
Remi is from Delta state? Didnt know that!

She is Itsekiri

Isoduwa:
So you once stayed with them to know she is lying

HE not she

Yhukay00:
Now they Can all shut up. Whittaker has been dealt with, but he should remove every thought of fighting Jon Jones from his mind. That motherfuker was brought on earth to fight.

He is planning to fight Jon Jones in 2021 after clearing out the middle weight division. He knows he is not ready now, but he can be. Na still human being go beat Jones las las.

Chipink:
Lol I always say it that YORUBAS have inferiority complex.. Imagine what their popular musician is saying.
And beating his chest on ontop.

I even wonder the foolish igbo women who gives them the chance to make them talk trash. I mean what on earth will attract me to a Yoruba man.?
Money couldnt attract me so nothing else can..

Don't take it that seriously. There is no hate or inferiority complex. YCEE's mom is Igbo. That's why he is comfortable making such a joke.

Let's live in peace and harmony. God created and loves us all.

meeky007:
mugu go nd worship dem because they are white Nigerians nd u are black Nigerians

Off point.
Shey your head hit ground?

mii4u:
The guy face no change at all

At all, at all