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Please email me too I'm into same shit at the moment and I really want to be with this girl

akube34:
brother. Na dat shoe I currently Dey. There are options, she is willing to do them. But I am still giving it a thought as my family no Dey gree. You can contact me privately if you like

Good day nairaland family, I sincerely need to find my way out of shackles of darkness from my relationship.

We started dating year. When we started, jokingly in one of our moment she said I can make you rich but you will leave me I didn't pay attention because I don't believe in all those stuffs like marine and the likes.

Well, lately I realize shit aren't moving for me and I'm at the same pace as I was at the point I met her.

I was supposed to do my visa application in February but my contact suddenly started having issues with his company overseas,cool I wasn't startled. Me thinking it's just God's time and patience stayed my put. eventually we started the process in March only to get all necessary documents and about to apply in April my contact called telling me not to proceed with the application that there is a restraining again on him company.

I have been trying to ask questions and find out what the problem is, so last week I went to see .......... and I was told that my girlfriend doesn't want me to travel out hence why my trip is not working, she is behind everything. Well I didn't believe it but decided to verify myself by not dismissing her immediately.

Guess what my contact called today that he can no longer continue because his license has been withdrawn after paying him 5k pounds deposit although he said he will refund me ASAP.

Guess what, this babe came today and while we were eating together we got really talking and she said same thing again.
IF I GIVE YOU MONEY WHAT WILL YOU DO WITH IT ?

I SAID I WILL HELP AS MANY AS I CAN.

SHE SAID YOU WILL CHEAT ?

I SAID I'M A MAN.

THEN SHE SAID YOU DON'T NEED IT.

perhaps her spirit would really think I was in a trance like I lost my subconscious but since I have Intel I played along. SHE WAS SERIOUS DURING THAT CONVERSATION no jokes.

I'm so bleeped right now.

All my documents are ready but to apply na war.

What do I do? I was advised to back off the relationship gradually.

If anyone has experience this shit before please guide me on what to do.

The elderly, please advise me on what to do.

All criticism are welcome so long I find solution to my immediate problem.

God bless you all.

Pleasant day to you all my nairaland family. Today is actually my first time to post a topic on Nairaland but I have been active since 2012 on a steady daily reading of updates, stories and the likes.

I will be brief with my story and will appreciate the best advise I can get thereafter.

To begin, I believe in God and duly follow the principles preached by christ believing in my best knowledge that I'm on the right path in my dwelling. Well, while I was younger I have been told till this date that my wealth is not in Nigeria that at some point I will leave Nigeria and this has been spoken to me from more than 12 different preachers and strangers supposedly with spiritual sights and all that. Two years ago I was told that I shouldn't bother to marry here that my wife is waiting for me abroad and that was not the first time I have been told but I have not been able to digest the rationale behind these prophecies that I shouldn't or keep love back here in Nigeria before travelling out.

Now, finally I'm on the right track as I have COS from a UK company which means the possibility for a visa consideration is high this time after my first personal trial for a visit visa application went south. My problem now is I recently met a girl I used to know back in school who was dating a guy I new back then but not in close contact with him but we talk randomly, I could see so much values and potentials in her, loyalty to the core which I hold very dear in my kind relationship in place of love which diminishes with time. I confident that this feelings and emotions are real and right. That this time I want to grow old with this girl. Although at the moment she is in a nursing school now and in her first year which means she will likely need 2-3years more before I can have her come over and that is a time i believe might be too long for me to wait cause already i feel lonely inside and i so deeply desire a family of my own.

Now my question is, should I look the other way and allow this flame burn cold and see to towards looking forward to meeting my supposeed destiny wife as these prophecies has consistently preached over the years or stand with my immediate emotions and work towards my own plans as I believe if I dedicate my time and desire it so much I can make it work but in reality God decides who gets anything in life.

Note: I am not a gullible person or sheeply blinded but that doesn't also imply I'm woke but I can tell the difference between both. But my fear is I don't know what will go wrong in bid to ignore prophecies or what will happen if I fail to follow who my heart has chosen.

Please, I will appreciate helpful advise that will enable me make the right decision in this case as I'm in a confused state for some weeks now and anytime soon my visa and everything will be in place.

Feel free to scold me if need be, perhaps i will need it.

Thank you so much

And again, please pardon any grammatical errors in my post😊😊

Waiting for some artist to get insulted by the same celeb.

Very unnecessary.

Make Ghana do come hux��

I don't have anything to say I'm for Peter Obi.

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Well said op, I have really improve in most of those things you mentioned as the aftermath of masturbation, I have added up, look more confident, increased sexual life and more happier now since I stopped two years ago.

Righteousness2:
We are living in the time of Choosing!
We are in times just like Shadrach, Mesach and Abednago.
In times as these, Neutrality does not exist.
It is Either you Stand Boldly and Firmly for JESUS Christ or you Bow to the Babylonians.

For me, to Hell with anything and Everything that attaches the Jab to it.
I Cannot Bow! I will not Bow!

Oga go and get vaccinated joor ignorance is a disease.

May she continue experience more better years ahead.

The government are busy with other things like looting and the rest.

Please I need help I have been treating depression since last and till now I’m still not depression free and it’s getting worse, please does anyone have any coping skill or has treated depression before should give me some advice or the drugs to use.

Inside life.

U people should not I repeat should not start what u cannot finish. Over to shiits

I lost my 2 beloved blood brothers
Shit has killed me silently
People I was dreaming to hustle for so they have a taste of how sweet living can be.
This thread just opened my wound, Op u do well......

Watin concern me

Very sad.

Insane People every, Who brother help?

Yamayama

We have hear ����

Wah wah

It is a wah.

soberdrunk:
Mtcheeewww!! Ontop how much?? Money that I am owing my friends he reach to build stadium and I still dey disturb them Friendship is for better for worse..
......

Common sense you dont have nii

Wonders shall never.

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got me laughing dude.

arrow mate, AYEPKERE

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