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concupiscent:
"nature placed man at a position of authority, with it comes great challenges,therein comes the woman to help and counsel him. Submission is not slavery or a burden you just have to know your place, carry and perfect your obligations with love. Men you have to see women as the treasure they truly are, respect love and protect her. Always seek her opinions and thank her for them even when you don't support. Do these and the society would be a better place for all"

-concupiscent

It is an undeniable truth that women have faced countless brutal forms of marital and institutionalised discrimination since time immemorial and in all sorts of cultural settings such as inability to vote, deprivation from access to education, employment, pursuing of career, etc. Feminism has been singularly responsible for redressing these deep sexist social injustice. All these are good moves right? Yes I think.

Now let's turn to the outlandish, nonsensical, awkward and troubling Ideologies of Nigerian ladies towards feminism and how they've flipped the switch and morphed it into an entirely different game which has ruined many relationships and perhaps, marriages of today.

Recently, what we see now are bunch of hurt, paranoid, depressed, frustrated, disrespectful, loud-mouth, fault-finders, pompous, anti-male and heart broken ladies hiding under the wimp of feminism who are always fond of calling names, hurling insults and accusations at those they disagree with.

It's a pity that many ladies now see "submissiveness" as as a form of "slavery". They see it as a form of slavery for a woman to remain loyal, faithful and humble to her man. They see it as a form of slavery for a woman to tidy the house, wash her husband's clothes or cook delicious delicacies for him because to them, men do not worth doing these things for.

What we see now are ladies who do not want to go through the stress of their "motherhood" and if we look closely, we will see that all these contribute to the high rate of divorce we have today

Many of our ladies who parade themselves as feminists have something in common which is their "egoistic attitude", and if by chance they happen to fall in the hands of a man, the man's interest in them will rapidly dwindle the moment he begins to notice their bossy and other repulsive attitudes.

To be very frank, any lady who doesn't want to submit herself to her husband is nothing but a clown and should not bother to get married since marriage is not for her. It will do her a lot of good to remain unmarried and live her life the way she wants without the restriction and validation of any man rather than to marry and get kicked out.

The issue on ground now is that you see these ladies talking about the worthlessness of men and how they can't do this, how they can't do that for a man. They are not married yet but already talking about how they will frustrate their mother-in-law if she crosses their paths. Why? Because they have no idea of the sacrifices "women" make to keep their homes in peace and order.

The most surprising thing is that when you ask them what feminism truly stands for, they will begin to tell you about how they want to assume a position which they are not even qualified for; how they want to get admission into Unilag or OAU with just 65 in JAMB. They talk about they are being marginalized and all that. Marginalised by who? They will start blabbing.

Tosyne2much and Wristbangle do not condemn the idea of feminism but what it has become and how it has been running many relationships and marriages. As a matter of fact, the major disadvantage of having the same privileges with men is that most of these ladies tend to misbehave, ridicule and ride on men when they find themselves in position of power. This is when they automatically become the head of the family the moment they have more earning power. This is when the little humility they have is thrown to the wind and their husbands opinion no longer counts. This is when they want their opinions to always count while they pick loopholes in that of others.

The most painful part is that the majority of these acclaimed feminists are usually single but you will always see them advocating divorce and giving bad relationship advice to women by discouraging them from staying loyal, submissive and faithful to their partner men.

Finally, you might reasonably argue that modern women deserve equality but before you throw yourself into a relationship and get kicked out, a word of caution. Note that being a feminist has never helped any marriage or relationship but will most likely ruin it. You can't rob shoulders with your boyfriend or except your husband not to exercise authority over you and expect something good to come out of such a union.

Although the husband is head of the home, but he is not superior to his wife. The wife submits to his final word but that doesn't mean she is inferior to her husband. They are equal. .

Argue from now till tomorrow but it will never change the fact that nature has positioned men to have dominance over women. Women are not dominant over men. In all reality, there are still gaps in these two gender and this is where these get it wrong.

Let she who have ears hear.

Thank you

Jointly written by: Prof. Tosyne2much and Wristbangle

nerodenero:
Thats Kenneth Omeruo.

Right now, Argentina will dread playing us and if we're paired again at the World Cup, the match will be bloody. Super Eagles made us proud today. Can't wait to see our next FIFA ranking. The last ranking, Argentina was 4th and Nigeria was 41st. The little boy in me feels Nigeria will go beyond round of 16 at the World Cup. Taste of defeat from an African team was too bitter for him Xenophobia don kill them finish, the reason they didn't qualify. If you are to measure any South African's blood pressure over this win, you'd be shocked. They're filled with hate.

successgroup:
Goalllllllllllllll, NIGERIA will win the World Cup. Bring on Spain and Germany

Rokia2:
If we check right now, you probably have a short small Di::ck with sagging balls like that of an old man.

But on the internet people are so quick to insult people.
Because hey the internet give them the privilege of been
anonymous. SMH.


Offcourse we all have eyes to see that her breast are sagging must you be rude about it? Or is that your own shallow way of boasting your low self esteem?

divicode:
This is the first state APC will take in the land in the land of the ffllaatties
Congratulations APC
Let's go there
Yes we can and we will


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GavelSlam:
You mean Kanu was confidently nicodemously chopping their money?

adem30:
When we were telling you then, your Potopoto people were deceiving you making your head swell.

Experience is a worst teacher

Princedapace:
Okay, na because of population naija no dey work abi?

What of USA, what of China, what of India?

The way some of u run from truth is amazing.. Bro, naija is big but God have naija resources and wealth to manage her size..

Just accept it, we no dey try bro. The amount OBJ spent on electricity sector during his time, over 15billion dollars, if well spent and not embezzled, would have solved our electricity problem to a very large extent.

Nigerians must stop excuses. We give excuses a lot. Nigeria is backward bro.. Travel and see.. We are backward because we have useless leaders and corrupt citizens.

blackbeau1:
it's not expensive tho. The problem is our currency has depreciated . Before now, things were cheap as dirt here

madridguy:
Sai Baba can I get a slot?

Cc: presidency

laudate:
I will send you a PM by Monday, with details of those you can talk to regarding a USSD short code.

laudate:
Yes, I used to work for them. My career actually started in a multinational telco. I worked in 3 different MNOs till date, before going into private business. I still do a bit of consultancy for one of them.

laudate:
These guys sound confused. Which set of Nigerian graduates are not well-trained enough, to work in the telecoms industry?

When GSM technology was introduced into Nigeria in 2001, who were the people that installed the first sets of Base Transceiver Sites and cell towers? Who were those that installed the Mobile Switching Centres? Nigerian graduates!! And they did so within the first 3 months, under the supervision of South African engineers.

6 to 9 months down the line, Nigerian graduates were carrying out full installation services of telecom cell sites and repairing RF equipment on their own, to the amazement of the white South African engineers who were their bosses. So who is the clown who wrote this crap?

If there is a dearth of skills in the telecom sector, it is because telcos have cut down substantially on training programmes for their staff, who handle core operational functions, as well as technical corps, to the non-technical cadre, who handle documentation and other allied services. In a bid to save costs, many of the telcos reduced the amount spent on training over the years. And now they are beginning to see the result of their short-sighted actions.

Technology changes so fast on the telecoms sector, that employers have a duty to keep their staff abreast of changes within the sector. Many of them have failed in this regard, in the last few years. They decided to outsource many key functions to contract staff, and also turned operations and project management functions, into 3rd party services. Now, the chickens have now come home to roost.

Rapmoney:
Rockation, Tosyn2much, toks208

Amarabae:
Looks like her twitter was hacked.
Believe me, the post looks a bit masculine.
Blackmailers at work.

celwonder:
pls who knows anything or have personally attended interview with / about these people


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Jman06:
@op, you only chose her because she is a lady! I'm sure you must have been carried away by her sexual appeal! Yes! We know how male managers automatically turn to puppets at the sight of a pretty lady. Forget about all the bullsh1t story about the guy being boastful about his education and all that. I wonder what the guy might have said that made you conclude he is boastful. He only fell victim to your insatiable desire for the female flesh!

This is why many companies are folding up! Because they put foolz in critical decision-making positions. Can you imagine! If I own a company in the future, i will be very careful with the kind of people i put in certain positions.

You are just a dog mr Op

tayo200:
a kiss for you Bonke....

Ooni:
my people i know we may not be very
comfortable with this piece of information
but lets comment maturely and respect the
rights of Ibos.