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Twaci:
All true Wristbangle.

Nice points.

Thanks dear

Idydarling:
they automatically tag her single, despite the fact that her marriage ring is on her finger

A valid point dear. Some guys will always see that ring on her finger as "figurehead"

The societal views about the life of a lady focuses on her appearance, attitude, mode of dressing, marital and financial status.

Guys often believe that ladies with good financial stability who ride exotic cars, wear expensive clothes and live in comfortable houses find the ways to the top through prostitution and gold digging without considering the fact that some of these ladies work diligently and tiredlessly to find their way to the top

When broke guys spot a rich young lady, a lot of negative things come to their mind which are mentioned and further buttressed.

1. She's a gold digger

I have often heard guys calling ladies using exotic cars all sort of names such as prostitutes, LovePeddler, etc. There is nothing you can say to convince these broke dudes that her source of income is legitimate meanwhile when a lady asks for any financial help from them, they will condemn her to be a gold digger and also spread the false news of how she gets her money.

2. Her father is a scammer or politician

Broke guys believe that the reason behind the financial prowess of a rich young lady is because her father has scammed so many people. By the time they spot such ladies, several thoughts and assessment of how her dad political party shared the looted Dasuki $2.1 billion to her will their discussion of the day.

3. She won't make a good wife

I don't know why some guys quickly jump into conclusion without knowing the inward beauty of a lady. If a broke dude dare attempt to woo her, his friends will make jest of him saying that the lady in question will not subject herself to his authority.

4. She can't marry or date a broke guy

The esteem of some broke guys is so low that once they spot a rich young lady, they will think she can never date let alone marry them. This notion is very wrong because I have seen cases where some rich ladies marry a broke guy and they are doing fantastic well in marriage. I know some guys will say it can't happen in Nigeria, but it does.Tosyne2much is not so rich yet Oliviaarims likes him

5. She's a promiscuous lady

A rich young lady especially if she is very pretty is believed to be promiscuous because a lot of suitors are attracted to her, hence, using that opportunity to get money from them. Not all beautiful and rich ladies are like that. I can bet my life on some of our beautiful nairaland babes are chaste ladies.

6. She can't be a good cook

I shake my head when guys ridicule rich young ladies that they cannot prepare common eba let alone soup. Often times they say their parents employ cooks or chefs to do the cooking which automatically see them as a bad Cook. Lalasticlala, ronald4lif and naijaboiy can bear me witness that the day Kachisbarbie prepared a mesmerising meal for us when we visited her, that was the day we realised that two kings can actually rule in a palace.

7. She will be an Arrogant lady

There is nothing a rich young lady can do to please some broke guys. This is because most rich ladies are stereotyped "arrogant" and "rude".

8. She will be in control of my life

Not all rich ladies who are richer than their spouses control their lives. Regardless of the good financial stability of some ladies, they still subject themselves to the control of their boyfriends.

Charles4075:
The reason I decided to create this thread was due to a certain Nairalander who happen to have a weird fetish for ladies armpit.

Most people just want to know if they fall on the sexually“normal”spectrum, typically to justify what’s going through their mind when they are fantasizing. The truth is, there is no normal when it comes to sex; the only constants are diversity and variation, because we are all different in our sexual desires! As long as there’s mutual consent and satisfaction with your partner, it really doesn’t matter what you chalk up to normal

So, what’s the difference between a fantasy and a fetish? A fantasy is something you spend a good amount thinking about while having sex or masturbating. Some of these fantasies are high up on your sexual bucket list and some you’d prefer never to see the light of day. A fetish, however, is something that HAS to be present for you to achieve arousal and orgasm. So while you might fantasize about a party, you don’t need two other women in the bed with you (though it could be a good time every once in awhile.) But if you have a fetish for tattoos, better make sure your partner is inked or you’re going to have some trouble staying sexually focused.

With that important distinction all cleared up, here are some of the most common fetishes:

1. FOOT FETISH
If the smell of raw feet does nothing but makes you want to take a cold shower, you’re probably not going to fall into the foot fetish camp. Every detail about the foot can get this particular person going. The majority of foot fetishists are men and they often like to smell, lick or taste feet and require some interaction with any part of your foot to experience orgasm and overall sexual satisfaction.

2. VOYEURISM
Voyeurism is a fetish that revolves around getting turned on by looking at people having sex or staring at naked bodies, wherever they can find them. A lot of people have this fetish for observation; they might just be unaware of it. But since 30% of all data transferred on the Internet last year was porn, it’s safe to say the voyeurism is actually at an all time high.

3. LATEX
This fetish describes those who experience immense sexual pleasure when their partner wears latex, rubber, vinyl or other shiny and tight materials. Rubberists, as these fetishists have also been called, experience the presence of such slinky materials as a type of bondage. For others, simply the smell or feel of latex is enough to get them revved up.

4. DOMINATION AND SUBMISSION
Dominance and submission are part of the acronym, BDSM, which has become part of the common vernacular, thanks to the recent explosion of 50 Shades of Grey. It stands for bondage, domination and submission, sadism and masochism but it’s really an umbrella term for couples who engage in any kind of dominant submissive power play during sex. For this to be considered a fetish rather than just a part of a healthy sex life, one or more of the participants must require this type of play in order to feel sexually stimulated.

5. BODY PIERCING
This is a quite popular fetish and incorporates everything from pierced belly buttons to eyebrows, joysticks and nipples. People who have piercings are often drawn towards other people who have pierced themselves just as provocatively. Just the look of another person with piercings might be enough to turn them on, but it can also be the feeling of the cold metallic object rubbing against their body that spikes their adrenaline like nothing else. To be honest, I do have a fetish for ladies with body piercings and also gothic looks.

6. BREASTS AND BEHINDS
Who doesn’t love a great behind or some amazing breasts? But does that make you a fetishist? Let’s find out. Evolutionarily speaking, men are wired to focus on these areas as a sign of fertility. In the bedroom, you’ll know which one you're into if you find yourself constantly wanting to flip her around to doggy style or you’d rather watch her bounce around on top to get a nice view of her breasts during cowgirl. While any man can appreciate these lovely assets, men with these specific fetishes may find it difficult to reach climax without plump breasts or a firm behind in direct view. E.g Tosyne2much and Wristbangle

7. HAIR
Hair is another surprisingly popular fetish. Whether it’s tied in ponytails, braids or pigtails, on a blonde, brunette or redheaded woman, every guy has his own specific preference. Bottom line: the innate sensuality of hair does it for guys on many levels. This fetish could also be more focused on specific styles. When hair is styled in a ponytail, it can easily resemble a whip or provide you with something to pull while you’re in the heat of the moment. Hair is also synonymous with youth, so a woman with pigtails can fulfill a fetish for younger women. And hey, as long as she’s not actually a schoolgirl, there’s nothing wrong giving her a hair tug when she’s late for class.

8. CROSS DRESSING
This one is more common than you’d imagine and involves the fetishist needing to either wear clothes from the opposite sex or be sexually intimate with someone who is. This fetish is common among both straight and gay men. For many guys, knowing they’re wearing even just an item of clothing that is forbidden to them and could be caught doing so, can spike the arousal factor.

9. WATER, THUNDER AND LIGHTNING
Water is popular fetish with both men and women. Just the sound of running water is all the magic they need to get going. A shower, a faucet or even rain storms all work to fulfill this fetish. Some women might even find themselves getting turned on by the sound of thunder and lightening. Those random acts of gigantic flashes of light in the sky can be enough trigger their desire for sex.

10. FURRIES
There exists a subculture of people that call themselves“furries.”These people get together a few times a year to dress up in furry animal costumes as a form of expression, whether sexual or otherwise. These aren’t always your average woodland creatures, either! If you visited a furry convention, you might also see a life-sized kitty with long, bejeweled eyelashes or a pastel bunny rabbit with sumptuous breasts. If this sounds a little out there, you can do what many others have done and search“furry porn”on the Internet to get a better idea of what I’m talking about. It is important to note that not all members of the furry lifestyles participate in a sexual way, much like with the world of cosplay. But of course, there are some who do have a full on furry fetish and prefer furry sex (which does not always involve actual intercourse) to everyday lovemaking.

NBS: No matter what you or your partner is into sexually, keep in mind that there is something out there for everybody. It’s important to stay open-minded and never be afraid to try something new. You never know, you might find that feet, pigtails or women’s panties could take your sexual experience to the next level, and there’s nothing wrong with that!

Oga Charles, u understand very well that I like front and back ministry.

Ola17:
Choi
Abi na Fulani herdsmen?

Any which way, make dem sha collect on top their left yansh
https://static.tumblr.com/415sfpf/rLwm0ancn/thunder_gif.gif

Lmao. Na so God go send thunder kill the enemies of 9ja and nairaland progress

LaurelP:
Are you sure you're not the alternative moniker of tosyne2much? Both of you think, behave and write alike

Tosyne2much, they said wristbangle is you.

ebubey:
nice write up....i ve a feeling tosyne2much and wristbangle is same person

Same here but people still argues we are not the same.

aolumaxi:
so I fit beat this baba enter FTC for tosyne thread??

Na becos my ba3 go flat and network come disappear

Wonderful writeup prof. Tosyne2much.

Let me add to your points

10. Smuggling

Anytime I read story about young guys sentence to life imprisonment or death, am like why will people who could have contributed positively for the future of this nation end their life so abruptly because of the niche to become wealthy fast. I have lost counts of stories about young nigerian guys sentenced to death for cocaine, hemp, marijuana smuggling/trafficking. Of course this is one of the reason men are becoming scarce hence increasing the number of single ladies.

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

Kindly tell me 5 cogent reasons why he loves you before I can give any advise.

boolet:
Hunt indeed, the pix is message-laden. Age no dey her side, as can be seen, she looks like she's in her late 30s. Very experienced but unsuccessful hunter

chai!

WETCUNT:
that is why kids of rusted roofs region and cattle rearers are always intimidated by us......always representing the zoo,...

Easy brother. Stop the tribalism

As a yoruba guy, I doff my hat for the genius anambra state has produced. I hope other states can emulate this achievement.

So hilarious!

dtruth3:
With due respect Mr TonyeBarcanista, I have been willing to ask you this question.
Please I will be very grateful if you can oblige me.

1. Are you still a member of the PDP?

2. Are you considering ever decamping from PDP to APC?

3. If question (2) is YES, hope you will be bold enough to Announce it officially?



Finally, I have read your write up, and its most regrettable that you have provided only the sources, that have collaborated with this present administration to play the JUDGE and the JURY.

If I may ask, has the FG ever given Dasuki an equal opportunity to defend itself?

At the bolded When Dasuki's trial in court emanates which I know the FG will give him the opportunity to defend himself, I know that at the end he will be found guilty but what will interest me most is for him to reveal the remaining miscreants that were also involved in the looting practise.


Tonyebarcanista, excellent article. Your diplomacy this time around depicts there are always 2 sides of a coin. Don't mind shallow minded and brain washed people calling you a traitor.

Young03:
pls, iam not wristbangle...besides if he claims he owns the article, he can as well show me the link to it

i know its because i dont like creating threads dts y u pass judgement like ds

no worry, i go suprise u guys


its me the young xt"

The link below;

https://www.nairaland.com/2632549/8-things-guys-show-ladies

SMH @ OP. I hereby request that our mods should do the needful to this article. Act of plagiarism is not allowed.

ronald4ever:
Oh so some of the info about her was gotten from her diary? Now I'm getting a clearer picture of where her age and other info about her emanated from. But while I condemn using any info gotten from private chatting apps to hound someone, I feel indifferent about the diary ish.

Anyone who put their private life and classified info about them in public, should know that it would be use against them. You don't go about dancing ashilogu in the market square and expect not to be assume as mad.

Boss, when will your ban expire?

alayebamba:
This is total crap. you can woo a lady anywhere, it's your manner of approach and confidence that matters.

Thanks boss. Even when robbery operation is ongoing too? just kidding though

Carnations:
Lol.. I was sniffing around.. . Wristbangle was just sharing all the bombs naijaboiy was dropping. Was forced to strt reading the whole comments from back to back

Olamide epic quote now trending!!! How interesting

kaziblake:
Nice thread

Thanks

misspicy:
well,sorry about this,seems my moniker been giving trolls and the kids on here stomach pain,the stomach just had to burst last night,sad thing is "I missed the drama" BTW no be God say I should not be a saucy one,dude been told me lies about some other members...





next time pah your dues to Mr brother

Chai. Smh!! It's a pity dear, honestly it is.

misspicy:
awwww,you see why I don't wanna live in Lagos
Pele dear




Sweedy,I woke up to it,and I can't stop LMAO,in fact I got to work earlier than usual,so am just here chilling with my hot tea and reading,biko you forgot to appease the god's before creating the thread ni?

As in it seems of recent any time I created a thread, it always end up with episode of fight and bashing

Barigaboy:
U r right but sometimes we need to be considerate. Waiting to get to those places listed above means u just want a girlfriend without criteria. Their was this particular girl I usually see in d market n I usually see her like every 4months d girl make sense. I was waiting till I meet her in a cool place but I have to wait for 4 months in dat case who will inform me when she goes to party, clubs etc

Brother, I will advice you do the needful before its too late. Comments from counterparts so far suggest u can meet your spouse anywhere but please kindly watch her mood before u struck the ball

misspicy:
slept like a baby


you down for the day's routine?

Yes dear. The traffic 4 here no be small oo

Anyway the drama of this thread is keeping me company.

misspicy:


good morning darl
slept well?

Yes, what about u?

misspicy:

Good morning dear

duchess25:
babe u definitely knows what's popping. rap rocks my world anytime anywhere. especially any from future, wiz and young thug and so many of them

@ oga wristbangle nice testing spots. BTW have u tried ur luck in all of these places.if yes then u be sharp and Badt guy ooo.lol

Lol I tried my luck in all the aforementioned places. One thing is to get a positive feedback when u meet the lady for the 1st time and it's another to actually agree in becoming my gf.

tottinova:
So you can't find your love in the market place
Abasha

Lol. I am not saying u can't oo but some market places like oshodi is too rowdy. Anyway like some people said, it depends on her mood.

zicoraads:
So, TonyeBarcanista was actually telling someone to grow up?

Jesu Kristi What an irony

It seems the whole Estharfabian's ish started elsewhere. But I totally hate it when people go to people's diaries to pick whatever they have put in there to come at them with. To me its both childish and petty. And then we have those who will descend to the level of a toddler to actually get to know someone away from here and then use a picture from either their BBM profiles or Whatsapp to come at them.

And may God help the person who will be stupid enough to quote me and spew bile!

Bros, you missed the action yesterday mehn! U need to see the e brawl from page 1. It takes someone who extremely patient not to say a word hence just get ready for ban

onunwa21:
11. Churches

For we that re born again........

12. School Buka or canteen
As long as u can buy her food......

13. Farm
For those of us that come from the bush

14. Examination Hall
She can never say no.......u know what I mean

Lmao epic!

sonofananimal:
my orga! so we no fit WOO WOMEN for CORPORATE places like bank, MTN costumer care line, and even hospital?

cos I once met my girlfriend in a dental clinic!

new year to you!

Woow my oga, from the comments I have seen so far shows u can meet your girlfriend anywhere provided u can play smart enough to capture her mood

Same to u boss. Where have u been?

tottinova:
Oga you dey talk trash


So you can't find the woman you love in the market, or even in the church.
Dem tell you sey na everybody dey go party or beach

Lol like oshodi market where armed robbers dey?

Church till goes with places u can chyke babe bro