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taiocol:
Like right Now (here)?

taiocol:
Stupidity is also a free gift of nature

Oliviaarims:
Parents, family.. They all make up society... And it is this same societal expectations and castigation that's responsible for so many ills today. Too many ppl are trying to conform . If u analyse the situation properly, u'll find out that sth relating to popular social beliefs is part of the reason why there are a lot of women who are below par.. (ideally speaking).

Oliviaarims:
Money or desperation to get married when they feel they are getting too old. This is why society needs to stop over emphasising on marriage as though it's a do or die affair... But, still, a truly sensible person won't see writings on the wall that foretell doom and still rush headlong into such a union...for whatsoever reason.

skywalker240:
@op nice post,..especially 5 and 8...guys(me to b precise) cant be with a girl who goes out wit chairmens never its better we dont know cos even when we 4giv we wont trust and definitely we wont stay for a relationship rather we go just like chop our own commot suffer e no hook us 4 throat..if i c any1 i go just bleep my share comot

Oliviaarims:
I totally concur. Responsible and level-headed guys are hard to come by. The same way there are silly girls everywhere in the same way there are near useless men everywhere.... That's why everyone has their match.

refreshrate:
OP that number 2 point! Gbaayi. if you know how this thing annoys me ehn!

Had to ask one the other day if being fine was now a logical excuse for stupidity to her

mumu was just looking

dollyjoy:
Nice writeup!!

Laveda:
You don't sound serious

tenderlyme:
@Laveda its like u read my mind bt still LADIES read d write up thoroughly b4 crucifying d op ok?Excellent write-up op d yr is still fresh&plenty of rm 4changr.á bientôt

Hadez:
Op you are right though, we all(irrespective of the gender)
have to do away with some bad attitude in order to become responsible enough for out family.

cashcity:
Some ladyz dnt believe they can offer any other thing in dis life except that ther sexuality... Kiss, romance, sex dats wt most now believe they are created for.

RexKex:
Over 50% Of Ladies are Guilty of Most, If not all Of the things you listed Above. Little Wonder Most of them End up With Irresponsible Men.


BUT your Number 5 Though. You know "Playing hard to get" is a Norm in Most Ladies, They think it makes them appear less Cheap. My Question is; How does "Playing hard to get" attract irresponsible Men? What is the mechanism


We all know that Number 8 is an "Unavoidable" practice amongst Most Ladies today. That leads me to my earlier conclusion.


Great Thread!

Dotwillis1:
Looks scary sometimes

Especially when they sweating

Nubian113:
See this is the mistake. Men think the world revolves around them and this comment and thread is my proof.


[b]She paid for it. She wore it. She rocked it. [/b]She made a mistake. Please point out where you might fit in. One man's trash..... You get me.


I say be fabulous! Be YOU not me not him or them. YOU. And trust that YOUR Equal is waiting for YoU.


Forget all this because I've stopped reading ya'll NEGATIVE list. Bye romance land.


Wristbangle nuff luff it's only IMO.

tommychow:
Why are you guys always trying to help them? LEAVE THEM THE WAY THEY ARE! Let them learn the longer, more painful way. That way it'll stick well...then they'll rise their daughters right making the future brighter for the unborn Nigerian men.

Guys, do it for the future AND SHUT THE F@#K UP!!!

Laveda:
You aren't asking me out ..or are you?

Estharfabian:
LoL!

cocky much??

It's A huge turn on...

funlord:


Oh no! A thread like this can only end up in "gender based carnage"!!! Na to observe be that!!!!




**quietly sips green label mixed with kunu**

Dotwillis1:
Their excess foundation powder too

agarawu23:
Some ladies are just permanently silly, some don't even know what they want

I recently deleted and blocked one 2days ago.
If you dey claim say u fine or you are feeling somehow important, I will make u feel like u never exist

Laveda:
Nice points wristbangle

You won't blame these ladies when they play hard to get
..guys sometimes term some ladies cheap when they accept too quick...but I think I've gone past such stage

Estharfabian:
Oh! yeah!! missed that...

You included packs and muscles too??

I think I Like You already!!

tosyne2much:
Wristbangle, the write-up is flawless. Thumbs up baba


Since you have started the aluta, lemme continue


9. Not Replying PMs

Each time I send avalanche of PMs to a lady and she intentionally decided not to reply, I will shake my head for such a lady, and my respect and regard for such a lady will dwindle afterwards. This reminds me when I sent a PM to a lady (don't ask me for her moniker ). She replied and the following conversation ensued

"Tosyne2much: Hello Miss.......


Miss...... : Tosyne, please I want to draw your attention to something, please, don't ever send me a PM cos I'm not looking for a boyfriend on nairaland. I know your intention of sending PM. Please I'm in a relationship that will land on the alta soon, so don't think you can get me with your 10 things 10 that.

10. Being Too Hostile

Many ladies have lost potential husbands due to ignorance and hostility. However, many have chased their husbands away just because he couldn't answer the question "where did you get my PIN or phone number?" . Last month, I added a lady on BBM and before I knew it, she PING me saying I won't succeed if I added her with the intention of getting under their skirts. She further added that I should introduce myself, or else, she will use the deleted feature at once. They need to stop this silly attitude in order not to be placed on LOX, so that they can attract responsible "chairmen" like us


*Nobody should quote me, or else, I will show you why elephants and hippopotamus are the only mammals that cannot jump*

Estharfabian:
Well, You missed those!

Estharfabian:
You should also create a thread about this...
Lemme give You some insights...


"10 Things All Guys should fix before A Responsible Woman Could Marry His Ass..."

Potbelly××
No packs/Muscles--Another big Turnoff.. Is Treysongs not A man too?
Snoring In bed××
Too much beards/untrimmed goatie..A huge turnoff..××
Too Much Sex..×× Girls are Humans people!
Grumpy Attitude ××
Too many Social networks..×× one humanbeing would be on Fb, whatsapp, bbm, Nairaland, IG, Yahoo, Twitter, snapchat, Skype, IMO... ugh! it shows you're very unserious..
Bad Cook... It's Imperative that A good husby should learn howtah Cook...
Good hygiene--its No news that guys wear their boxers twice a year? y'all need to change that too.. Girls have nose!
Unwillingness to do chores--He should also learn Howtah do laundries.. e,g his wives undies and all that? very romantic...
ugh!! the list is endless!!!

I think I'm done? thankme later?

Decker:
Op nice points.

But sadly nothing can be done about point 4. The dumbness of some ladies just can't be helped. Some are just inherently_stupid and not much can be done about that.

Nubian113:
Hun!!! I got banned on your thread by anti spam hahahaha so here's my answer. NO