₦airaland Forum

Toks2008:
Then the guy no smart.

A lady asking a man for time can be a green light.

A lady asking a guy the time of lecture can be a green light even a lady asking a guy a question in the bus can be a green light and so on.

On point sir

tonyx4x44:
Leave the mumu group of girls... They are shouting the are saying fucck him etc


They can't stand being rejected but the expect guys to see it as fun

I hate it when ladies form James Bond to enjoy the fun of guys been rejected. Meanwhile they hate it most. They should know how it feels to be rejected na.

Toks2008:
If wooing a guy is the first move the op is talking about then that is a big NO. I dont advice any African lady to do that cos its not in our culture but as i wrote before there are subtle signs a lady can show which is never the same as outrightly wooing a guy.

That is called GREEN LIGHT.

Exactly sir but what if the guy fails to acknowledge her greenlight?

SMH. The story of a spoiled rich kid and a gold digger.

It's a pity how this issue has aggravated to public disgrace

BUTCHCASSIDY:
What if he doesnt give a fùck?

Then he is not fascinated about her

Charles4075:
As men, we are used to the burden of making the first move. It is never fully comfortable for us, but we do get better at it over time. My question is, have you ladies ever contemplated making the first move? Moreover, have you actually gone through with it?

I am sure some of you out there have done this, and others have only hoped inside that the hunk of a man you noticed would come up to you, but he failed to do so.
Now, there could be many reasons why you lack the initiative and ambition. Maybe you stick to the old-fashioned route; maybe you are scared of rejection; maybe you simply do not know how to approach a man.

Welcome to a man’s world. We, too, hate rejection and embarrassment, and some of us have no clue how to approach women. As a man, I can tell you that we do not mind a woman approaching us.
A woman who approaches a man stands out, and we can determine a few things about her. Her bold, no-holds-barred approach tells us that she’s confident, spontaneous, brave, outgoing, direct and thinks outside the box.

All of the above are attractive qualities in a woman; they make you appear humble and real. You should never hinder your chances and opportunities by thinking you are too good to approach a man or assume that he knows you are attracted to him.

Men like to think they can tell if a girl is attracted to them, but there are always cases where we never get the hint or the other person is too shy to make it noticeable.
Men definitely appreciate it when a woman makes the first advance, and I don’t know one guy who has ever complained or made a girl feel bad about approaching him. That brings me to the next area of signs and ways to help zero in on your target.

If you do not want to immediately make a cold approach, send him a few signs to gauge his reaction. These could be done by simple flirty looks and smiles, or by complimenting him on something

Excellent point of view sire.

Estharfabian:
Truth be told...

I'd never ask A guy Out!! even if my life depended on it! how degrading!! My ego won't even let me...

I'd keep giving him signs(Green, blue and yellow lights), I'd talk sweet to him, Change my voice around him, be all touchy n mushy towards him, Act overly caring, maybe call him like TWICE A month?...if he still doesn't get those Obvious/vivid Romantic signs.

He should go hang himself for all I care!!! fûck him!

Dating isn't my priority...There are plenny "Sharks" in the sea...I only have to choose from so many.....!

If he fails to decipher the bolded, then he is a bimbo.

joliyp:
I only reject timid guys

Even if he possess satisfactory appearance and buoyant financial status?

joliyp:
first move? what happened to his leg

Lol, do you think its easy to deal with rejection?

Kachisbarbie:
you will hear some girls say something like, "can't you see I am not in the mood?" "I am in hurry"... etc.
So, I am saying, same way we expect a guy to know when we are in the mood to be approached, we should watch out for his own mood too before approaching.

Thank you madam kachis

Most times ladies say they are not in the mood. So when do we know they are in the mood? Their response, facial acceptance, body language or what?

Remember guys are not wizard to decipher if a lady is in the mood or not. Playing hard to get kills morale a lot.

Oliviaarims:
Seeing the green light should be enough to make him overcome his shyness. Why should he be shy with sb he's known for a long time, anyway?

The only answer to your question is, He is NOT in love with such lady.

Kachisbarbie:
We expect guys to know when we are in the mood to be toasted, if we are his level or not... like he is psychic _ yet we can't do same.
Guys get turned down everyday, yet they are not dead.

You don't go about approaching every random guy, those signs you expect a young man to watch out for, you should be smart enough to watch out for same signs.

At the bolded, Please can you explain in details.

Laveda:
Nah... I can't try that shít again..
Imagine being turned down when you've surmoned the courage to talk to him

I dont advice that...keep flashing that green light..if he's too dumb to see it...fùck him .

LOL.

When a lady makes the first move, she suppose to be diplomatic in her approach and such move can be approved when she and the guy have known for long albeit him been a dude who is too shy to express his feeling.

Perhaps maybe the lady you are talking about oliviaarims was too forward in her approach and also dressed seductively. There are ways to make your move on a guy you have crush on come out of his shell of shyness and if despite your move he is still not proffering his love to you, just assume he is not into you and that doesn't make him less of a man.

Him body don come down bah?

Lalasticlala, let's see the reaction of nairalanders to Olamide apology.

Sharp business

Olamide should learn how to compose himself when such situation occurs next time.

These guys are made. There is no point getting emotional about their personal fuss.

Anyway if Olamide truly followed Davido's advice, that confirms how childish he is. For crying out loud, the headies award is not an award internationally recognised.

See the life of local champions

francizy:
Well, wouldn't know cuz whenever I hear them both on a track, I don't pay attention cuz I know it's gonna be rubbish. I hardly listen to their tracks these days, especially when Olamide dropped that useless dogo yaro song and Phyno Dropped one useless one too. [b]Worst is when they colab, it's always disaster to the ears.[/b]What's the meaning blehhhh? The one Olamide, Phyno and Kesh did, what does it mean? How many things have you learnt from Olamide ever since he went commercial. I don't understand Yoruba but back then I used to listen to Olamide's songs and I ask my brother to interprets but right now, even if you give me money to listen to his tracks, I'd just pass..

Hahaha This guy finished the life of Phyno and Olamide.

Naijaboiy, what do u have to say?

tosyne2much:
U nailed it bro

I respect that guy comment.

Not that these singers are recognised within west Africa terrains let alone Africa except for their wack music/songs followed by noise makers.

Olamide should tread carefully because he may loose trust in his fans. What about fighting this category of award for another day? The fact that lil Kesh didn't win doesn't mean he won't win the next year edition. He should keep doing what he needs to do and as well improve on the quality of his music.


Na waoo! Most of these celebrities live disgraceful and retarded lifestyles. Are these the people we call our role model?

Adufetohposh:
Happy New Year beautiful people!


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Wishing you all an Awesome 2016.... So much love from me to you

Eshee gan. Happy new year dear. . God will honour the desires of your heart this year. Stay blessed

Atmmachine:
These Yoruba boys too dey make noise, upon say them no get anything.

You don't see Psquare, Kcee, Emoney, Phyno, Flavor shouting up and down.

Them too dey form like them get anything, from Wizkid to Davido to Olamide, them be fucck boys.

Your comment is uncalled for bro. We have the lousy yoruba and Igbo celebrities.

EroticAngelina:
am I the only one who thinks this is so scary?

Lol, did u dream of d chinco statue?

mn09abk:
Revisit trust me....i was here some months ago too..I no believe when i come december

Visited 3 wks ago

mn09abk:
This towns are developed im not saying they are not....But u need to come to Anambra to see for yourself u will know what im talking about

Sir, I have seen it all in anambra. Ontisha, Nnewi, awka and others. There are specular development in the state, no doubt but please kindly visit the aforementioned SW states especially Ogun states.

I drop my pen!

mn09abk:
I passed onitsha and entered awka my hometown...I swear anybody that call Anambra an Eroision town again.....Nkita ga lacha gi ike....I am proud of Willie Obiano...Willie is really working....My state is better than any south west state excluding Lag...I can beat my chest and say that.

Lol really. I am not disputing your claim that anambra state is not developed but common have you visited all town of ogun, Oyo, Ondo states?

Ogun state- Agbara, otta, ewekoro, Abeokuta, etc. Please ask your igbo brothers in Abeokuta city and they will gist u wonders on how amosun transformed the state capital. The capital now has 6 over head bridges. Do u heard what I heard, 6 over head bridges. Aside that, we have unspeakable hectares of farmland, timber, and other cash crop production.

We don't do show off like you igbos but I respect gov obiano.

teebaxy:
mad man on the loose

U referring to yourself

manuelzz:
The brown roof warriors won't like this. They'll first question the source,play down the importance of this great news and finally they'll scream Sai Baba...

Lol, I love obiano development but that doesn't mean you should throw tribal jabs on south west as if we are limited in Agriculture and the notion of calling us brown roof region is ridiculous bro. It's not that there ain't brown roof in ontisha.

We also have similar Agric development in Ogun state and other south west states. Have u heard of ofada rice? Ofada rice bag is common at major markets. Just like ilesha rice, Benin rice, badeggi rice and other local rice u can think of.

firstking01:
see dis one, instead of u to start rebuking, casting and binding...ur playing over prophesy ba?

Na prophesy u call this one?