₦airaland Forum

He should not forget to sack himself also..he should go and rest we have seen enough change and next level

Are dey normal..is Davido their governor abi does he hold a political post ..when we were protesting against Sars..did dey support us..instead dey were shouting we want SARS...let their sars go and protect den now..

Sometimes I find it hard to pity den because dey are the architect of their problem..all this will not be happening if dey did not create boko haram all because of power..now dey have d power double wahala..na bombing remain..(though I pray it will not get to dat)...wahala be like bicycle to start am no hard

Jide is very very stupid and foolish..dis is not about early marriage..did is about stupidity..and someone went through pain to bring dat kind of human being to d world which kind of love is dat..I reject dat kind of love 4 myself and every one I know..love dat will not know ur left from right
Jide better go 4 serious deliverance because his village people really sat down and constructively planned his life

DamZik:
Your "enemy" can't have a happy home with this mindset. I have seen someone like you who claimed Jesus only was her husband. Up till now I doubt if she is married. A lady above 40. My advice for you: Go and read about women of faith who accepted the lordship of their husbands. E.g Sarah.

On the aspect of respect, you can't respect your husband unless he respects you first. My advice: Don't ever try to marry an alpha male. A man younger than you will be preferable.

Above all, you are not mentally mature enough for marriage.

Respect is not a problem..and do u know my age dat ur jumping into conclusion ...is it wrong to ask 4 respect

Pelxmiye:
Well your generation has it better than your mom's, society supports equality and all that to a larger extent than when your mom was young...only a lazy woman in today's world can totally blame a man for her failures, I get the part of companionship in relationship, the chances of women going through what your mom went through back down is lesser

Yeah..very true

DamZik:
The reason is lack of respect and submission. Are you ready to accept your husband as your lord?

Lord ..I only have one Lord..he is in heaven..if it is respect..I don't see y it will hard to respect a man..as long as he respect me too

Dbajaj:
You have nothing to worry about dear the problem is for successful women.

Kindly take dat insult and curse back ..Thank u

Primase:
Another man can't pay for the sin of your father.

The best way to ensure that you don't suffer is to make your own money and not by waiting and hoping that a rich man will marry you.

Didn't u get d 'so dat we don't suffer 4 any man'

inumidun2010:
lols, I have an Ex-Girlfriend like you during my NYSC, her Dad left her Mom while she was young, she hates the man like shit. My anger towards her is that she swallowed all what her Mum told her without Verifying if it was true (Her dad retired as a Colonel in the Nigeria Army in the North, the Man wanted to relocate back to his hometown in Ekiti, The woman disagreed and stayed back) The Man left and the Woman didn't allow him take any child along.. The man no send as he was a big man.. but this my Ex always say her Dad disappointed her Mum, and I keep asking her how?... This girl will not appreciate anything i give her except she buys it herself.. Always wants to disprove what u say.. She's so Mean even to her own brothers(A full blown feminist)..I give up the moment she told me she's going to retain her family name when we marry... I japa QUICK

Mine did not happen like dat ooo..I was a teenager when it happened..so it is not mummy told me Daddy did dis...it is I saw daddy do dis..plus it was not to only my mom but to us(me and my sisters) specifically

But dat girl own carry weight oo..and d mother did nothing..my mom always reminds us every time dat all men are not same and not to use her own to judge men..she is kind of scared and worried dat what happened will affect our relationship with men..Mother are different I guess

Go and ask him na..shey u know d way to his DM..are we him ..Him we are ..We are him

inumidun2010:
People like you Dont trust their SPOUSE totally.... Always suspecting their SPOUSE.... Na una dey start this FEMINISM shit

I don't trust at all.I have trust issues actually..both with guys and ladies (friends)..but can u blame me..my father was not a good example so...I have learnt in life not to trust and to always expect d worst from people because I got d worst from d one person I never thought I would

Plus what did I say dat made u think dat

PS:I'm not a feminist..don't see d benefit in being one

Don't tell her oo..finish it den u can surprise her with it

And dis is just getting to fp ...if it was one celebration matter it will have been here since

Anyway..dat road eh..it is one of d roads dat u need to recite d Lord's prayer when using it

bob55dave:
I have know her for long okay, I told her I like her and ask her for her number, which she gave...
We have even gone out twice

But have u reached d stage to say all those things to her..plus u said everything at once..it was to much..wetin..u don't know how to bring d sexual feeling out of a lady aswr...u came out to strong...When u said she makes u hard..u should have waited 4 her to reply..dat 'Oh'..she said is not a reply..u are not supposed to go straight into d I want to put my d**k in u...U are supposed to make her respond properly to dat..den u continue d sexual conversation slowly and be4 u know it na she dey lead d conversation

U deserved it..in fact if it was me I will do worst..correction I have done worst to dumb guys like u ..I don't know u well..we are chatting 4 d first time..and suddenly u are telling me u want to slide dat thing in between ur legs dat ur using to think into me...Are u mad..abi dey are doing u from ur village ..I don't know y guys think it is every girl dat is cheap..u don't u have sense ni .D babe did not even handle u well..u are complaining...

Y did ur baby daddy not marry u ..I don't know y most very successful women find it hard to find a husband...my own will not be like dat in Jesus name

Sometimes I wonder if all those people know..d internet never forget..I hope she shall gets what she wanted...and all this does not go in vain

Y is it always sugar mummies dat do stuff like did..offering d guys babe money to leave him..and all of dat..how come sugar daddies don't do all of this

Y did ur baby daddy not marry u ..I don't know y most very successful women find it hard to find a husband..my own will not be like dat in Jesus name

Beautiful..unlike some people dat can't post without makeup..even in bed dey are wearing make up

OcVoice:
The reward mustn't come from the man. The children could bring the reward too.
You already took a vow: for better, for worse! It could be worse all through but the consolation should be the children.

My mom suffered with my dad but she never got any reward from him till he died.
She's enjoying now, courtesy of her children

But it is not fair..u suffer with a man and when he makes it..he goes outside and spend on other ladies leaving u to suffer..it happened to my mom..so I know what I'm saying..u think it does not pain d woman..and if not 4 d children it will be like she suffered in vain.

Dat is y my mom also suffered 4 us. .so dat we won't suffer 4 any man

I did not know dat Peter is now a gospel singer..how did Peter songs make him closer to God

Okay..but it is not really bad..it is ur body..people will always hate..do what makes you happy and forget about people...u can hardly please yourself so what makes u think u can please people...just do what makes u happy..

OcVoice:
Had a similar case. Everything was going well till I lost my job. She couldn't adjust cos she was used to enjoyment. We were going for our marriage course, I had done introduction sef. She just woke up one morning and decided to break ties with me. She aborted the pregnancy.

I had since moved on though.


I don't know what happened to the girls of our time. Our moms suffered well with our dads without complain. Love was REAL and TRUE then. It was beyond money.

God will help our generation!

Not all the mothers dat suffered with our Dad...got d reward 4 their suffering...

A woman's loyalty is tested when d man is poor
A man's loyalty is tested when he becomes rich

Since u know ur his number two..why are u complaining ..what do u want us to do..mama stay in ur side and if can't carry leg waka...everyone just looking 4 attention..if u are tired of hiding den stop seeing him....all this side chicks dat think dey can graduate to main chick

Elpipitaaa:
how many King does Edo have self?

Are dey supposed to have one king ..each
town or so as it own..Oba of Benin is their boss

How did u present yourself..most guys will dress and act fresh when dey have nothing..like ladies too..everything makes packaging 4 Naija

Put it u took her to a restaurant what did u expect her to order...water ..U would have taken her to some where else..dat is cheaper..I don't understand why he is complaining..Did he not know how much a plate of rice cost ni...

..please wat is ur source

Eh ya..Pele...I don't feel any remorse 4 d Notherners leaders..only d people..dey were d one dat started all this boko haram problem all because of power..and now dat dey can no longer control dem dey are coming out to get pity from people..if dey had not started boko haram will all these have happened..My own is dat dey stop attacking d people but see all those leaders if dey like dey should attack dem finish...mtcheeeew

I don't understand people..is it ur life..or ur sleeping around..whatever she did to make dat money..it is her business