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[quote author=psalmz post=127184795][/quote]27k... in Lagos?.

What is your Location?

He is 17, he needs one at beating to reset his brain before he get to 18.

If you don't want to do it, someone else will do it and you will have to come defend him

Do it now to save yourself nd your family more problem in the future

Temioolajide:
Pls how do i deal with my junior brother?

I'm 19 yrs old and he is 17
He is very spoilt and stubborn
I just finished having a confrontation with him because i locked the window in our room cus the breeze entrying was much and it was making the cotton to fall.

He came in the room where i was reading and started shouting that the room is smelling calling me insultive name like olorun,obun room that isn'tsmelling at all.a new room.

When my mom intervened he starts saying she's always supporting me which he always says..

He thinks he can fight me but i don't just want to destroy that his mouth that is running like tap so i had to control my temper because he is a slim person and I'm more muscular.

Imagine when he had a surgery my mom spent over 120k on the surgery yet he still has the balls to talk any how to her.

Pls how do we bring him to order
Note: Our dad is late

Thanks much

In my culture (Igbo) the man who paid the bride price of the women is the father of her children

You are insulting your father inlaw by going ti look for another man to respect, and complicating your life.

If you want to meet the biological father aka sperm depositor (which is unnecessary) wait until after you have completed all marriage ceremonies. Else you u will be disrespecting your father and mother in-law.

MetaBroadband:
Good morning mature men and women in the house. Please I need your help on this topic.

My Fiancee told me about how her biological dad abandoned her and her mum after getting her mum pregnant.

Her mum later married another man who adopted her as his child.

Now she's grown and I've proposed to her, I wanted to go for her official introduction and list collection.

Would it not be nice to hear the biological father's opinion? Should I just ignore the fact that the man is still alive and proceed with the marriage arrangement?

Although she said I should not bother about that, but this is Nigeria and as an Akwa Ibomite I don't think it's proper. Although she's against me trying to find out about the man's opinion. Should I care?

What can you say about this?

Note: she only told me that the man abandoned them, but what if it was her mum that actually took her away?

I don't know your culture but in Igbo culture the man who paid for the women bride price owns her children.

There is nothing like biological there.

ZIMDRILL:
this is complex but it differs tradition of every tribe etc

where i came from son in law can ONLY pay bride price to the biological father in law or the women's family. if the child was raised by the mother alone, the biological father will
be present at the bride price day to witness and given a little token, but the large sum is given to the mum and her brothers



In my culture a step father can not represent a living biological father not matter the reason
they separated from the mother and whether deadbeat.

In my culture, if the father was absent when the girl was growing up and when she is getting married the biological father is invited to charge bride and the same time they will
charge him for being an absent father. if he had not paid bride price, they will charge him pride price, meaning instead of getting pride price from him daughter it will go pay the bride price of the girl's mother

For spiritual reason you pay bride price
to the biological father


In such situations your own family (son in laws) must guide you in finding the biological father or or his relatives, otherwise you pay pride price twice

Back to the story, lets say he pays bride price to the step father and in the long run the couple fights or have problems in house, which family will intervene to help ? the step father's family ? but if pride price is paid to the biological father its easy to seek help from relevent people from the biological father's family there are related by blood.

aieromon:
Post the VIN

Unfortunately that I what was written on the frame.

More information

TA-ACA21W-AWPNH-V

Ecu
89661-44240
211000-8680

Can you help me with the correct ecu.

ACA 210082456J

trademerchantng:

Do you sell the battery? I have a couple of these and battery replacement is always the issue.

2felix:
Is there anything wrong with classic?
Anything wrong with the classic model?
I thought classic model is the best

Just choice. Nothing wrong with the classic model.

Asumns:
MORNING! Can anybody help me with Surveyors Council of Nigeria' code?

Survey Council or Nigeria 0234006001

aircafe:
Somebody should help me with GIFMIS CODE for national population commission

0543001001

You can get most GIFMIS codes here http://gifmis.gov.ng/gifmis/images/open_treasury/quarterly_reports/stmt_cap_dev_fund/2015/STMT_OF_CAP_DEV_FUND_1st_Qtr.pdf

zayhal:
Please I need the code for FRSC, checked the link and only found the name but the number isn't listed.
Thanks.

Depends on the particular command or office. The list is here https://frsc.gov.ng/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/GIFMISCODE.pdf

NairalandFAYOSE:
pardon my blunders.
I was aware she has a baby before we met but still continued the relationship because the baby is with the father. she told me it was a mistake and the guy's family doesn't support their relationship. so they went their different ways while the guy kept the baby.

when we started, I found out she's humble, hardworking and she's everything I ever wanted in a woman. so we got married 4 years ago and have a 3 year old son and 2 beautiful twins (just 3 months old).

now the problem started when she went to church and her ex brought her 7 years old daughter unannounced. that he's married now and can't continue taking Care of the girl.
she called me from church and told me. immediately I told her not to bring a child thats not mine to me. she now took the baby to her mom and came home to meet me with my kids.
she has been begging me since to allow the baby in our home because the mother gave her 3 days to come and take her baby from her.

nairalanders pls I need your advice on this. those it make sense that I take the baby while the father is out there enjoying his life.

This is a tough one, and part of the reason its hard to marry a single mother. This should have been discussed in plain languages. From what is written here, it seems like it was an understanding...

You have mentioned somewhere here that you know your wife, and thinks she wont accept is she was in your shoes.

Do NOT listen to the ones here who are "guilting" you into accepting any responsibility, many of them have not carrried any responsibility in their lives. Also the suggestion about adoption is not just ignorant, it is actually a legal minefield. The father WILL need to allow you to do that.

That is why you should be careful before accepting ANY responsibility. The child is not your and will NOT be yours. We are not in US or EU, so all the foreign examples should be thrown away to the dustbin.

But whether you want to accept her or NOT, you should make sure your wife reports the problem at the child welfare office. This is important for now and in FUTURE... because this same man who abandoned his child would give you hell if anthing happens to his child.

For the child sake (and that of your wife), you can try to resolve the issues with all the parties (also inviting the child welfare).. but make sure anything is written and signed...

I wish you luck.. but ANYTHING you decide here, is correct... You are not at fault in ANYWAY here.. do not let anyone make you feel otherwise.

namet:
[b]You accepted her mother. You should accept the daughter. [/b]Stop focusing on the fact she is not yours.

This is NOT TRUE... He accepted the woman ONLY, the daughter was NOT part of the agreement. And by the way... the OP said he knows the woman wont accept if such happened to him!

namet:
Stop focusing on the fact she is not yours. Treat her like your own, considering she didn't ask to be brought into this world or into a a situation where her dad is not around.

She is not his child and WILL not be. Infact if ANYTHING happens to the child under his care.. the same father will jump and give him troubles

JEEZ.. Such hate. drink some water

cutekhalifa:
enjoy ur cement road while it last.... I hope u won't come back tomorrow and start claiming abandon properties In near future I don't see an ngwa man owning a land property in aba.... U nah don sell unah land finish with 1bag of rice and stock fish.... Or do u want to eat ur cake and still want it back.... I pity none ngwa's,

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LastProphet:
You must be in Abuja so can we meet at the Bureau now to confirm, I work beside it, am waiting for you truthteller

You STILL dont want to let go! Gullible People

SMH...

LastProphet:
I have it on good authority that the Statistician General of Nigeria - Dr Yemi Kale has fled with his family since on monday, he obviously fears for the false statistics he has been publishing at the behest of Okonjo Iweala. He fled with every single member of his family.

I CANNOT BELIEVE YOU GUYS!

Dude stop peddling lies

Atouke: reading and comprehension are too different things next time dont just read articles try to comprehend it. now a few excerpts from your article:........" The average age of the fleet of the seven large U.S. passenger airlines -- including American, Alaska, Continental, the merged Delta and Northwest, Southwest, United and US Airways -- is about 14 years old, according to The Airline Monitor.
It found American and Delta/Northwest had the oldest fleets, at about 16 years on average"...........

.....' "I'm not really sure that people should read that much into that," Aboulafia said. "From a safety standpoint, a lot of the older planes were built tougher and with proper maintenance, there's no reason why a plane can't stay safe for 25 to 30 years."
The U.S. and most of the developed world have superb standards and maintenance regulations, the result of decades of experience that have made the system incredibly safe, Aboulafia said....."

go and read the bolded again and draw contrast with Nigerian airlines because a plane can last b/w 25 to 30 yrs is conditional on proper maintenance culture which is lacking in nigeria.

do you know the average age of associated airline airplanes? and what do you know about the maintenance history of the plane? even if they did maintain it regularly and on schedule which is doubtful, did they accquire the plane brand new? ans no the bought it used which brings to question how the previous owners maintained the plane and how many yrs its been in storage/inactive in its 23yrs.

only fools like you with a quasi knowledge of airplanes will advocate the use of a 23yrs old airplane which requires more than normal routine maintenance based on its age, in a country with no maintenance culture,,facilityand expertise.

I can see you have diagnosed yourself.. lack of COMPREHENSION #noddingslowly

Atouke: there is every thing wrong with a 23yrs old aircraft. If you drive you know that even after 10ys a car feels different no matter how you maintain it.

It may still drive but it will require more maintenance and will breakdown more frequently.

not to talk of a 23yrs old airplane.

If you dont knw about something, ask questions. There is nothing wrong with a 23 yr old plane. I hope the CNN article will answer that

http://www.cnn.com/2010/TRAVEL/02/01/planes.age.dreamliner/index.html

pisolution: I beg, no deceive yourself, you fit learn all these languages on your own ooooo.

Seems like you didnt read the first line of the comment you quoted!

If the main reason you want a CS course is programming, then you dont even need to go to school.

Computer Science is a very very wide field. BSc exposes you to all of the field, from the basic to practical, and its your choice what you want to do with it.

The best analogy is military school or training. You dont need the army to learn to shoot, (or even fight in a war)!

The list of the World Championship qualifiers?

CFCfan: Yea, I guess they were too tired to spin around d opponent. Still Uzo could have passed to either Aminu or Diogu.

There wasnt enough time, Diogu and Aminu were double teamed!

But the shot he missed wasnt that hard

CFCfan: D'Tigers lost gallantly

I disagree! They are better side, can find a basket! Its like the used up all their offense last match

I cant believe we lost against Senegal!!

Sagamite: They killed us with 3 pointers.

And we were wasteful with free throws.

All Senegal did that was notable today was 3 pointers and fouls.

The former they did well, the latter we did not exploit.

Our offense was the problem, It was smelling... Common floater took us out!!

We are out!!

Squeaky bum time!! D'Tigers please last this out

Forth Quarter NGR 52 61 SEN

Wake up D'Tigers!!

Nigeria is playing tired, Senegal is piling up fouls, that will be their undoing..

Our defense is not that bad, but our offense need to click!

The team is not just clicking.. Shots are not falling.

The only good things is the defense which is a bit better

Their center Sene was bullying Oyedeji

And we are letting them in!