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Hmm! Well, you have to stop some things at will to call her attention.
I dont know if you guys fornicate, but i'ld advice that you stop that for now, discipline yourself on some things that you have been doing, she will definitely ask questions, answer her thus:

There are many things we have to put in place before getting married so as to enjoy each other well. List to her those things you want her to change and let her also tell you those things she wants from you., Don't get tired. Pls don't manage what you cannot maintain.

Orouvour!!

gliving:
Simp
What she need is a good beating

Oya carry Cain go beat am na! Ptcheeww! Ozuo!!

You are a woman for God's sake!
You should be able to ask questions earlier enough!

Besides, doesn't he have a job?

Ask him when he's living, tell him your sis will be coming to spend few days there, and that it's better you guys leave for his place.. Don't hide this, he's a man, he shouldn't be a pest on you!!

I disagree with you sir/ma.
Even if an imbescile becomes a governor in lagos, he will definitely perform, cause there has been a structure on ground to follow, and Tinubu wasn't the structural creator, he only uses his long
term power and position. There are elites and men of silence but structurally they set up Lagos State....


quotelanto post=107735665]For me. Na Tinubu o
Not because of tribe or anything and if na religion I’m a Christian but when I look at Lagos compared to other states in Nigeria. I wish he can place that Midas touch on Nigeria. We need to better the economy. Everybody can not be running to Lagos. I mean imagine if Tinubu didn’t plan Lagos?
I rest my case.[/quote]

This isn't a good question you have asked, but however, I will advise. You know quite alright that what she's doing isn't right so why are you still collecting from her? Discourage her stealings, cause if the mum gets to know, that relationship is as good as gone, cause you will forever be seen as an irresponsible guy. Face what you do, manage what you earn and work harder, e go pure last Las.

Znation:
Hello nairalanders

Some people may say i'm lucky and would want to be in my position, but i really need ur advice..

My girlfriend mum have a very big provission shop, and u all know how it feels (that joy) to have such person daughther as your girlfriend.

She loves me so much that she can give me money, food stuff, all for free from their shop. infact, i don't even spend a kobo to buy anything again. All i do is just go to their shop, & collect whatever i want.

If i meet her mum when i want to buy something, i'll pay her. But if i give her N500, she will give me change of even N2000 and ask me to go. And i don't argue with her so that her mum won't notice. I will just collect the money and go.

If i call her on phone that i'm hungry, only God can tell the things she will bring for me withing just 20 minutes of calling her..

She's spending so much on me, and i think i need advice.

I thought i was a lucky man b4, but the thing is too much 4 me.

nairalanders, What should i do?

Infact, she couldn't have missed any of the class, cause it would easily be noticed. Congratulations to them all.

mdsne:
A Nigerian lady has been celebrated massively after achieving a milestone of being the only female to graduate in her class.

The lady who is reportedly a new graduate of the Department of Electrical Engineering in Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria, has been applauded on social media for scaling through academic hurdles and emerging as the only female to graduate in the 2020 set.

In a viral photo, she was spotted in the midst of her peers who are all male students as they all posed for a group photo, to mark the end of their B.Sc engineering journey.

The photo was shared online by a Facebook page Key Point, with the caption;



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=424573829036860&id=100044527390192

Hahaha! Why are you this mean? It's obvious you harboured her for sex, your love is not genuinely real, MBA! Why not pay her bride price then? Moreover, she explained to you now! Hia!

This looks so spiritually hard but I believe something. ' If she can confess Jesus as her personal Lord and Savior, my brother, she is safe. Christ already has taken away all infermity. Secondly, you guys can have a collective prayer for her and with her that all written ordinances of the wicked ones have been erased by His blood, according to Colossians 2:14. Finally, she should not in anyway think about it again. All things become new for her as long as she is in Christ. Thanks

LiegeMan:
hello Nairalanders, sorry for the long write-up, it's LiegeMan again.
my name is Mr Omale liegeman and I'm from Kogi State, I thank you all for your kind advice on the other thread regarding my wife's past life and I can assure you all that I decided to put to use some of the advice from here ( yes, I read all the 590+ comments from A-Z) and it's yielding positive result as I've been experiencing happiness as never before in my life, though majority of Nairalanders who contributed in the previous post failed to understand my point of view because I was trying to make the post as snappy as possible. Thank you all once more.

Now, while I was planning ways to work things out with my wife with some of the advice that I gathered here, my Aunty who's married to an Igbo man from Imo state called me that her daughter, who's a student of Imo State University (Imsu) came home during weekend, Saturday precisely, locked herself up in a room and has been crying ever since without food nor water, and has refused to see nor talk to anyone.
I advice them to keep an eye on her so as to prevent her from attempting something stupid, she assured me that they broke into her apartment where she locked up Herself and brought her out.

So on Sunday, being 31 day of October, 2021, I left everything that I was doing in Makurdi and rushed to their village in Imo State, on getting there, I observed that both her hands and legs were tied and when I inquired why, she told me that it was an attempt to prevent her from escaping. I asked them to untie her, she was still crying when I asked her to go dress up that I'll be taking her out, she quickly went inside and dressed up we left the village for Orlu.

When we reached Orlu, we entered into a restaurant, and I started asking her what the problem was, I inquired if it was her boyfriend that broke her heart, she said no, I later succeeded in making her to tell me what the problem was because she's my closest ally.

when she opened up, she told me that she decided to do a little gbaje gbaje, ie do a little runs, she booked an appointment with a man and when she reached the said hotel, she and the Man started romancing and kissing and after awhile, the man started hissing uncontrollably, she inquired from the man what the problem was, he told her that what he wanted to take from her has been taken by someone else, in her confused state, she asked the man what he meant by that, the man looked her into her eyeballs and told her that she's empty, that what he intended taking from her has been taken by another person, he counted the said amount they bargain and handed it over to her and ordered her to get out of the hotel premises. I tried to console her by telling her that the man didn't mean what he said, that maybe his manhood disappointed him, he said those to cover his shame and I also advice her to be very careful because Xmas it at hand, immediately I told her those, she became relieved and stopped crying but I know right inside of me, that what the man said wasn't a joke at all.

when we got home, the news didn't go down well with her mother as tears started rolling down her cheek, she is planning a way to take her daughter to different prayer houses.

Now what exactly is this man talking about, what exactly did he take from her, is it her womb, destiny or what?
please house, any advice for this kid cousin of mine?
or way to find out what has been taken from her and get her liberated.

Hmm! She did the best, though I wouldn't know how the provost presented the issue to the management, maybe for his own credit.. But if she had not done it, it will happen anyway, maybe where she will work in future, besides, her confidence will definitely be affected, knowing fully well that her result is fake.. God shall reward her..

officialmario:
A 300level student of Federal College of Education (name withheld) was expelled after Confessing to the school management of using a fake olevel result.

It all happened that members of the Deeper Life Bible Church student fellowship had preached to her to change from her old ways and she accepted to give her life, she decided to confess all her sins to the college provost who happens to be a deeper life campus fellowship director.

After about two weeks, she was summoned to the Disciplinary committee to come and face panel, She was found guilty and was expelled from the college, and her picture was pasted ot the entrance of the school gate.

I felt bad after hearing her story.
What if she had not confess all her sins to the man? That means she could have graduated successfuly without any hindrance.
What's your say and opinion on this?

Iyaebe:
He will still cheat,men that are pampered are heavily prone to cheating than the ones who is having it slightly hot at home. Women should learn to create fears in their husband's heart(make he subtly dy fear you but dont be wicked)so that whenever he's having the intention of messing around, he'll have a rethink knowing fully well what you are capable of doing. Pamper your husband only when he's old and tired.Don't quote me please.

I pity you mehnn!!!

So she knew it was wrong to swear with the Bible before she pushed you to it, besides, you shouldn't have done that no matter what.. My advice is that you should threaten her that if she does not do it you will table it to both families, mind you, you wouldn't do that, it's just a threat.. But please, don't push anything that you know will make you not to love your wife again.. It might affect your love life towards her. God shall settle your home

You hide it, you'll carry out your responsibilities, you don't hide it, you'll do the same, so why don't you let her know? Except you are the irresponsible type.

Ynix:
Play a simple game...

Write this word on paper and say,

I CANNOT TAKE THIS ANY MORE, BYE BYE WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST IN LIFE

Drop it and travel to a friend's place

Notice her reaction, if disturbed, don't come back until she begs and after that prepare a written agreement. Also be an alpha man

are you married?

I'ld advice you to just leave her be. Her sleeping around is not normal, it could even make things worse with your new cruel plan. Forgive her and let go, face your new life and tell her you have to move on.. It an even change your love life, you might begin to think every woman is like that. Above all Christ never used our unfaithfulness against us, so don't do that to the girl. Shallom!

It's simply the inability of the country to produce it's own and sell locally and also export. All we do is import 95% and glory in them.. Shoes, bags, phones and it's accessories, cars and parts, cloths, electronics and many more.. By the time we pay for all these, not with naira but with dollars, with these dollars rise, while naira postrates..

Check your injector, get it serviced or change it if need be

Please do you have power steering pump for Toyota orobo?