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Hah! Who b did? muyico: |
Who installed the inverter for you? Please contact the person. If not, I can share you the number of my engineer, he is very reliable. 08030618938 JustSayHello: |
Why is it paining you? If you have a sensible solution to the problem, share with him. Stop being cocky! Ptcheeewwww! Tenrack: |
Useless old fool that ought to be in his room praying for his country or giving wise words to his successor. Selfish man. |
CoronaVirusPro:Hah! You know NOTHING. |
garriAndsugar:Ah! I thought I'm the only one thinking this o |
Hmmm! In my own opinion: 1. Yes, in this present economy, 3k can never be enough for soup, except you already have meat and other ingredients at home. Besides, your wife is from a rich home, who perhaps may not be used to such. I'm not blaming you, but I think you ought to have seen the red flag. There is nothing wrong in your wife's family raising you but it's the way it's being handled. 2. Maybe you can seat your wife down and explain how you feel about it. You know about the business they want to open up for her and you're happy about it but she should not use it to belittle you... Honestly, she doesn't understand what she does is wrong, it's the way she's being brought up. Don't use it against her. 3. Are you close to any of his brothers? |
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Solofresh2:Don't think you know this ma. 100M is like 100 hundred naira to him. |
24hours Strike back Extraction |
Morbeta11:Are there not measures put in place to ease off citizens' pains? Electricity is constant, roads are good,foods are available, transportation is smooth in all aspects, refineries are working well. What exactly are you talking about mistress? |
ganisucks:It's obvious you aren't too fine |
codemaster2much:Just 6k/7k and you are good. The new one breaks within 3 months, while the tokunbo wares out, can use 6 months, just be very observant. |
youngfocus:That's the kind of car I use too at the moment. It's very good. Just make sure you tend to the ball joints, and pls don't buy new ball joint, buy tokunbo from reliable part seller. That's all. I actually service every 4 months. Congratulations. More and better ones to come in Jesus name. God will bless you so much with cars that you will give this out. |
Kobojunkie:I get you, but I think what she means is that any woman that is in the habit of checking her husband's phone to dig up or investigate is laying a foundation of distrust.. |
I don't agree with you. What if he wants to use it for business, there are many opportunities that fetch you money on such phones quote author=OChimex post=123286082] I will be honest with you. If you we’d to save money to buy phone 250k in Nigeria, it’s not worth it. Big phones most times aren’t needed in third world countries like Nigeria. Why, you won’t use most of the features, cause they are still operating on a village level. In fact, it’s so risky now in Nigeria to carry expensive phones. Them fit kill you cause of phone, and you no go dey at rest anywhere you go. You only buy expensive phones in Nigeria if you be big boy and just needed them for status[/quote] |
Motorola G30 or G50 are very good phones |
Whatever you would like to do there, have it in mind that you are not the owner of the building. It belongs to both you and your sibling/s. If your brother had the same finance you have perhaps he might do it too.. My advice is that you call him and discuss how both of you will renovate it, let him be part of it. Make a budget for the project.. quote author=JungleJustice01 post=123245798]Both parents have passed no will was left. I basically leave the rents collected from the house rent to my only younger brother. Now the house is deteriorating and I want to fix it, like give it a major facelift but the funds will be coming from me entirely. I don't have a personal house of mine but I believe an overhaul of this place can give leverage to increase the rent as it is in a good part of town. My fear is after this investment, will I be able to recoup any funds? If I am to pass away, will my kids have any access to the property? I love my brother but I've heard and read stories of human behavior especially in situations where there is no documentation. What do I do?[/quote] |
I think you shouldn't expose such to her for now.Save and invest, venture into very good business and get financially stable for marriage first, cause marriage is a very different game from singlehood.. Fine, she's not asking because she knows you didn't have, but when she knows you have she will definitely ask cause she needs things to settle, and that isn't wrong brother.. babaYIBO: |
All depends on the firmness of your wife. This is what I mean: My mother in-law does the same to the 3 married women every day, including my wife, but my wife never for once discuss our affairs with her mum, despite their closeness. She needs to balance up both so one will not affect the other negatively.. But if you know your wife doesn't have that capacity, then you can call her attention to it, there is no harm in talking. Take care bro |
That's wickedness! Why then did you call her in the first place? There is shame in you telling her what you could afford now! So you expect us to applaud you? |
Why didn't you work to avert the fall before now, must it get this high? |
Several people that are advising you leave her might be worse than her. 'Let he that has no sin cast the stone' We all are coming from somewhere, but someone showed us the way. She is financially reckless, infact she might even be giving the money to someone.. But bro, you have to be firm, you have to let her parents know, since you have warned her several times and never yielded.. She will get angry, yes let her, but you are saving her and yourself from financial embarrassment.. And if she decides to leave you by that, fine, but don't let it be that you just left her without letting her parents know what is the problem |
Please do not mind the words of pessimists, their experiences directly or indirectly have turned and make them believe women are never faithful. What you believe is what you attract. Keep the girl, be faithful too, you can do it. I dated my virgin girlfriend for 5years before we got married, and we kept each other.. I wasn't a virgin before I met her o.. You guys should focus on your careers and Christ.. Above all if God says she's the one, who Dare changes it? And if otherwise, better will replace her. |
Yes o! Lol I remember, infact, it's just 5months ago. I was to solo a thanksgiving song,low and behold I forgot all lyrics and I was chopping mouth o! Very embarrassing, cause it wasn't our church members alone that were seated. Another day was when projector went off and all choir members had relied on it, cause it's a long lyrics |
Why not? Yes you definitely can |
"I'm smart, rich and handsome" Brother, can all these save your soul from hell? No, they can't. This is not a matter of religion, this is a matter of knowing who God is. Jesus said "No one can get to the father except by me" What shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and looses his own soul? God created you, He gave you all you have, despite your unfaithfulness to him Jesus loves you bro, just release your heart to him and you'll see what I mean |
Your dad is your dad and you are you. Your responsibilities are different from your dad's. My dad has been an extremely strict man that even people never wanted to relate with him. But living with him for over 29years, I had told myself what I would like from him and I would not, despite that I look so much like him. Brother, you take responsibility of whatever character you put up, don't drag your dad into it. He developed his own please develop yours.[quote author=xamodans post=112563521][/quote] |
Jmichael1: |
You don't know what you have until you loose it. "He gets angry 3 times in a year" Yet you are not ok with such. Madam, you have another agenda. Maybe when you start paying the bills all alone you will know his worth. Why don't you seat him down and tell him how you feel and what you don't want? You claim you are fighting for the children, is leaving an healthy marriage a solution? Please set your mind aright janejjjjj5000: |
cayorday89:That's what I mean by "She lost her decency" She should have set the boundaries.. But forgiveness is vital her, just give her the last chance.. |
Sincerely I don't see her sleeping with the man, things of such happen in work places, she only lost her decency. People that are slamming on her, saying you should abandon her are just either unmarried or they are simply not responsible: Let he that has not done such be the first to cast the stone. Don't let them push you to what they are facing.. Call her, ask her questions, scold her, discipline her (not beat), you will definitely know the truth.. Marriage is all about forgiveness and true love bro. Shalom |
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