₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,326,851 members, 8,428,362 topics. Date: Wednesday, 17 June 2026 at 10:28 AM

Toggle theme

Xamodans's Posts

Nairaland ForumXamodans's ProfileXamodans's Posts

1 2 (of 2 pages)

EducationRe: Are Nigerian Parents Spoiling Their Children? by xamodans: 4:39pm On Oct 23, 2025
Hah! Who b did?
muyico:
Why correcting her?? Were you assigned to disciplinary committee?? African is born to lies
Science/TechnologyRe: My Solar Light Is Flickering by xamodans: 1:44pm On Oct 21, 2025
Who installed the inverter for you? Please contact the person. If not, I can share you the number of my engineer, he is very reliable. 08030618938
JustSayHello:
Yesterday, I plugged my fridge when phcn restored light. When they took it off, I mistakenly forgot I had my fridge still connected.

Immediately I connected the switch over to Solar, the inverter started making a sharp dotted noise. I ran and disconnected the fridge.

Later this morning, I noticed the light from my bulb was blinking or flickering at intervals.

Please what can I do to rectify the flickering issue?
I don't know if it's the battery causing the flickering or the inverter.
What should I do 😔
Science/TechnologyRe: My Solar Light Is Flickering by xamodans: 1:41pm On Oct 21, 2025
Why is it paining you? If you have a sensible solution to the problem, share with him. Stop being cocky! Ptcheeewwww!
Tenrack:
the guy no just wise.
Foreign AffairsRe: Cameroon President, Paul Biya To Contest Again At 93 by xamodans: 9:12am On Aug 23, 2024
Useless old fool that ought to be in his room praying for his country or giving wise words to his successor. Selfish man.
Foreign AffairsRe: Protesters Block US Military Ship Allegedly Carrying Weapons For Israel by xamodans: 2:45am On Nov 08, 2023
CoronaVirusPro:
Fvck Israel!

America should stop feeding Israel!

The whole power they have comes from America! Take it away and Nigeria will run over Israel!
Hah! You know NOTHING.
FamilyRe: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by xamodans: 6:34pm On Nov 06, 2023
garriAndsugar:
Where did this tales by moonlight come from?
Ah! I thought I'm the only one thinking this o
FamilyRe: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by xamodans: 2:47pm On Oct 18, 2023
Hmmm! In my own opinion:
1. Yes, in this present economy, 3k can never be enough for soup, except you already have meat and other ingredients at home. Besides, your wife is from a rich home, who perhaps may not be used to such.
I'm not blaming you, but I think you ought to have seen the red flag.
There is nothing wrong in your wife's family raising you but it's the way it's being handled.

2. Maybe you can seat your wife down and explain how you feel about it. You know about the business they want to open up for her and you're happy about it but she should not use it to belittle you... Honestly, she doesn't understand what she does is wrong, it's the way she's being brought up. Don't use it against her.

3. Are you close to any of his brothers?
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Chris Oyakhilome Donates ₦‎100M To Jaga Testimony For Support by xamodans: 4:07pm On Aug 06, 2023
slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Damnnn that's like 130k dolls from my keyboard huzzling...tdamnn...inheritance and benefits money

Anyway oyakhilomen Ain't got no praise from me

We all no where the money is coming from

Hundred million to his gospel music career


The fact that you don't listen to it does not mean everyone else does the same.

I've got like 120songs on my phone and you can never hear any other song aside Christian music. Wake up bro!

Who the hell still listen to gospel songs

You ain't no shit bro
Gospel songs now is dead on arrival and put in dead
Nobody vibes to it anymore even the Christiana don't give a fuckkk...only time they manage to listen to gospel song when they are on a journey to a long distance like God is good motor you see the driver start the journey with gospel songs and take it off immediately one hour after the and bring on secular songs
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Chris Oyakhilome Donates ₦‎100M To Jaga Testimony For Support by xamodans: 4:03pm On Aug 06, 2023
Solofresh2:
Audio N100M grin
Don't think you know this ma.
100M is like 100 hundred naira to him.
TV/MoviesRe: What's That Movie You Watch 3 Times But You Still Feel Like Watching It Again? by xamodans: 5:35am On Jul 28, 2023
24hours
Strike back
Extraction
CelebritiesRe: Nigerians Buy The Cheapest Fuel In The World - Eniola Badmus Defends Tinubu by xamodans: 12:09pm On Jul 26, 2023
Morbeta11:
https://www.pulse.ng/entertainment/celebrities/nigerians-buy-the-cheapest-fuel-in-the-world-eniola-badmus-defends-tinubu/jvc6kvc?utm_source=twitter&utm_medium=social
Are there not measures put in place to ease off citizens' pains?
Electricity is constant, roads are good,foods are available, transportation is smooth in all aspects, refineries are working well.

What exactly are you talking about mistress?
Foreign AffairsRe: President Putin Signs Law Banning Sex Changes In Russia by xamodans: 7:15pm On Jul 25, 2023
ganisucks:
Don't mind Mr Put it in. He's just playing politics, as usual. There's nothing wrong with a man becoming a woman, or a woman becoming a man. It's a matter of choice. You can't dictate to another human how to feel. In fact, it should be encouraged and made law here in Nigeria. I'm sure there are millions of Nigerians who would love to change their sex.
It's obvious you aren't too fine
Car TalkRe: I Have Finally Bought My First Car by xamodans: 1:53am On Jun 16, 2023
codemaster2much:
how much is the ball joint
Just 6k/7k and you are good.
The new one breaks within 3 months, while the tokunbo wares out, can use 6 months, just be very observant.
Car TalkRe: I Have Finally Bought My First Car by xamodans: 3:05pm On Jun 15, 2023
youngfocus:
I have finally bought my first car,Honda eod I love the car movement nd stability,is there anything u want me to know about the car maintenance nd tips I will b glad for ur contribution thank you all
That's the kind of car I use too at the moment. It's very good. Just make sure you tend to the ball joints, and pls don't buy new ball joint, buy tokunbo from reliable part seller. That's all.

I actually service every 4 months. Congratulations. More and better ones to come in Jesus name. God will bless you so much with cars that you will give this out.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Becky Enenche Warns Married Women Against Checking Their Husband’s Phones by xamodans: 8:09am On May 29, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Any woman who suggests this to others is not in a marriage herself but a prison defined by such restrictions. If you are not free to even look at your partner's phone, then you might as well say you are just fuckmates? undecided
I get you, but I think what she means is that any woman that is in the habit of checking her husband's phone to dig up or investigate is laying a foundation of distrust..
PhonesRe: #200,000 - #250,000 Which Phone Should I Go For by xamodans: 5:41am On May 22, 2023
I don't agree with you.
What if he wants to use it for business, there are many opportunities that fetch you money on such phones




quote author=OChimex post=123286082]

I will be honest with you. If you we’d to save money to buy phone 250k in Nigeria, it’s not worth it. Big phones most times aren’t needed in third world countries like Nigeria. Why, you won’t use most of the features, cause they are still operating on a village level. In fact, it’s so risky now in Nigeria to carry expensive phones. Them fit kill you cause of phone, and you no go dey at rest anywhere you go.
You only buy expensive phones in Nigeria if you be big boy and just needed them for status[/quote]
PhonesRe: #200,000 - #250,000 Which Phone Should I Go For by xamodans: 5:38am On May 22, 2023
Motorola G30 or G50 are very good phones
FamilyRe: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by xamodans: 3:26pm On May 21, 2023
Whatever you would like to do there, have it in mind that you are not the owner of the building. It belongs to both you and your sibling/s.

If your brother had the same finance you have perhaps he might do it too..

My advice is that you call him and discuss how both of you will renovate it, let him be part of it. Make a budget for the project..

quote author=JungleJustice01 post=123245798]Both parents have passed no will was left. I basically leave the rents collected from the house rent to my only younger brother.

Now the house is deteriorating and I want to fix it, like give it a major facelift but the funds will be coming from me entirely. I don't have a personal house of mine but I believe an overhaul of this place can give leverage to increase the rent as it is in a good part of town.

My fear is after this investment, will I be able to recoup any funds? If I am to pass away, will my kids have any access to the property?

I love my brother but I've heard and read stories of human behavior especially in situations where there is no documentation.

What do I do?[/quote]
FamilyRe: Is It Okay To Let Your Fiancée Know Your Monthly Salary Range? by xamodans: 4:01am On May 20, 2023
I think you shouldn't expose such to her for now.Save and invest, venture into very good business and get financially stable for marriage first, cause marriage is a very different game from singlehood.. Fine, she's not asking because she knows you didn't have, but when she knows you have she will definitely ask cause she needs things to settle, and that isn't wrong brother..

babaYIBO:
I’ve been dating this girl since early last year when I was still serving and she’s really into me. She doesn’t bill me unless I purposely send her something. And we occasionally hangout a lot too.

By mid last year, I brought her home to meet my mum and some of my siblings. My mum likes her so much and she would spend time with me in our house.

I finished my service around September last year, and I started hunting for job. I was taking online classes etc..

So I got a job earlier this year, and the pay isn’t bad. Only my mum knows how much I’m earning and few friends. My girl doesn’t know.

Now, I’m likely to be getting a pay rise this month.

I’m also planning to get married to this girl next year, hopefully, she’s been a good girl even when I was jobless.

I don’t know if it’s okay to let her know my salary range. Although I’d not be telling her specifically the amount.

Is this a good idea?
FamilyRe: Marriage: My Mother Inlaw Calls My Wife Everyday Is It Proper? by xamodans: 12:21pm On Nov 08, 2022
All depends on the firmness of your wife. This is what I mean: My mother in-law does the same to the 3 married women every day, including my wife, but my wife never for once discuss our affairs with her mum, despite their closeness.

She needs to balance up both so one will not affect the other negatively..

But if you know your wife doesn't have that capacity, then you can call her attention to it, there is no harm in talking.

Take care bro
RomanceRe: See What I Did To My Ex For Cheating On Me. by xamodans: 3:45pm On Jul 29, 2022
That's wickedness! Why then did you call her in the first place?
There is shame in you telling her what you could afford now!
So you expect us to applaud you?
BusinessRe: We Are Working To Avert Further Naira Fall – CBN by xamodans: 3:24pm On Jul 29, 2022
Why didn't you work to avert the fall before now, must it get this high?
RomanceRe: My Soon To Be Wife by xamodans: 3:45pm On Jul 16, 2022
Several people that are advising you leave her might be worse than her.

'Let he that has no sin cast the stone'

We all are coming from somewhere, but someone showed us the way. She is financially reckless, infact she might even be giving the money to someone.. But bro, you have to be firm, you have to let her parents know, since you have warned her several times and never yielded..

She will get angry, yes let her, but you are saving her and yourself from financial embarrassment..

And if she decides to leave you by that, fine, but don't let it be that you just left her without letting her parents know what is the problem
RomanceRe: My Virgin Girl Says No Sex Till Marriage by xamodans: 3:34am On Jul 01, 2022
Please do not mind the words of pessimists, their experiences directly or indirectly have turned and make them believe women are never faithful.
What you believe is what you attract. Keep the girl, be faithful too, you can do it. I dated my virgin girlfriend for 5years before we got married, and we kept each other.. I wasn't a virgin before I met her o.. You guys should focus on your careers and Christ.. Above all if God says she's the one, who Dare changes it? And if otherwise, better will replace her.
Christianity EtcRe: Most Embarrassing Moment As A Choir Member by xamodans: 12:53pm On May 15, 2022
Yes o! Lol
I remember, infact, it's just 5months ago.
I was to solo a thanksgiving song,low and behold I forgot all lyrics and I was chopping mouth o! Very embarrassing, cause it wasn't our church members alone that were seated.

Another day was when projector went off and all choir members had relied on it, cause it's a long lyrics
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Can I Apply For Immigration Recruitment As A Serving NYSC Corper by xamodans: 12:47pm On May 15, 2022
Why not? Yes you definitely can
Christianity EtcRe: My Father Is A Pastor But I Don't Believe In God. by xamodans: 3:37am On May 09, 2022
"I'm smart, rich and handsome" Brother, can all these save your soul from hell?
No, they can't.
This is not a matter of religion, this is a matter of knowing who God is. Jesus said

"No one can get to the father except by me"

What shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and looses his own soul?

God created you, He gave you all you have, despite your unfaithfulness to him

Jesus loves you bro, just release your heart to him and you'll see what I mean
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop Behaving Like My Dad by xamodans: 1:50am On May 06, 2022
Your dad is your dad and you are you. Your responsibilities are different from your dad's.

My dad has been an extremely strict man that even people never wanted to relate with him. But living with him for over 29years, I had told myself what I would like from him and I would not, despite that I look so much like him.

Brother, you take responsibility of whatever character you put up, don't drag your dad into it. He developed his own please develop yours.[quote author=xamodans post=112563521][/quote]
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop Behaving Like My Dad by xamodans: 1:43am On May 06, 2022
Jmichael1:
Good day my fellow nairalanders.
please I'm not good in writting, abeg make una pardon me. I just want to go straight to the point.

i'm michael,the first child of my parents(all boys)as a 1st son,i took 90% of my dad character of wish i don't like 70% of them but i can't stop acting like him, I behave exactly like him in almost every thing.

I have tried all i could to stop bt no way...
Please want do u guys suggest for me to do?
i don't want to live the kind of life my dad lived.

please i need your advice...
FamilyRe: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by xamodans: 3:45am On Apr 23, 2022
You don't know what you have until you loose it. "He gets angry 3 times in a year" Yet you are not ok with such. Madam, you have another agenda.

Maybe when you start paying the bills all alone you will know his worth.

Why don't you seat him down and tell him how you feel and what you don't want? You claim you are fighting for the children, is leaving an healthy marriage a solution? Please set your mind aright
janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.

Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.

He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.

I feel like pouring out my heart.
FamilyRe: Help! My Woman Caught Red Handedly Romancing Another Man Publicly by xamodans: 2:11am On Apr 08, 2022
cayorday89:
Yes this happens a lot in place of work, but the women should know when to draw the line and as a man, know when to draw the boundaries when playing with people's wife(ves) and put yourself in their shoes how you will react if you find your wife in awkward positions with men in her place of work.
That's what I mean by "She lost her decency" She should have set the boundaries.. But forgiveness is vital her, just give her the last chance..
FamilyRe: Help! My Woman Caught Red Handedly Romancing Another Man Publicly by xamodans: 3:43am On Apr 07, 2022
Sincerely I don't see her sleeping with the man, things of such happen in work places, she only lost her decency. People that are slamming on her, saying you should abandon her are just either unmarried or they are simply not responsible: Let he that has not done such be the first to cast the stone. Don't let them push you to what they are facing..
Call her, ask her questions, scold her, discipline her (not beat), you will definitely know the truth.. Marriage is all about forgiveness and true love bro. Shalom

1 2 (of 2 pages)