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ekaette1621:
Ipobian things

scait:
Say no to clubbing.. they no go hear. Rip

I disagree, my friend's boyfriend confided in me that my friend left him because she told him is not man enough and when he asked why, she told him, "you have to beat me, if you love me". There are times, he would apologize, she will say, he apologized arrogantly, when he calls, it ends up in a fight.

Jeromejnr:
That's because you are still a kid and know nothing about how real life and institutions and their reputation work.

When or if ever you have your own establishment, you can allow your surbidinates walk naked on the streets since you are "unrighteous".

OmoEpe:
They learnt it from Otokoto in Onitsha in 1996

Remember Chief Leonard Unnogu or if you weren't born then just Google otokoto ritual killings

Ewu Gambia

Eleribu

Quiny32323:
Hypocrisy is when omolabis laff at igbo guys during their drug business outside naija while countless heads are lost in their backyard

descarado:
Team polygamy is beau

Let them enjoy.

I ain't gonna marry a man I know that has a child with an unmarried baby mama lurking by the side.
Life is too short for long drama cos there must be drama.

They said marrying woman with baggage is bad omen.
Seems like it's the opposite.

And the man is still sowing seeds. Just that he uses raincoat this time.

If you look at him, he looked like buhari junior except the face, like he is breaking into 2.

prekumohtim:
Different strokes for different folks. Tradition differs . In Ijaw , if any of that baby mama dies , he must marry the dead body before she's buried because as long as a woman has given you a child let alone children, it will be deemed that you have put her in a family way. My Uncle has a wife and went ahead to pregnant another woman who further gave him two kids but in 2020 during the lock down , the baby mama died. He was forced to marry her dead body and also pay for the burial . You can't also try it with Akwa Ibom ladies, their tradition is more dangerous.

Think9ja:
For a woman to have two kids for a man she's never been married to is the epitome of loose morals

Asin, the morals is nonexistent.
If Tuface never married annie her fate would have been like pero's own...Annie bore a kid or two for tuface before even thinking tuface would ever settle with her all of them are the same except one has a ring on her finger.

Drizzy5001:
Welcome to Africa, where if you try to correct or advice your African parents , they will shut you up , and say you are disrespecting them.
They always think they are right, forgetting that we are in 21st century.

naija4life247:
Oyinbo people that teach their children how to fucck, for how long do those children stay in marriage?

generationz:
Why is it that we never hear stories of men praying forbtheir wives to turn a newvleaf, it is always women Doing the praying.


I'm sure if Nigeria was like America where The man looses everything during a divorce it is the man that would be fasting and praying.

Nonsense.

Mekenz:
ma'am your inquisitive mind would have directed you, on what to do initially,before the issues escalated to the extent of him using his hands on you.

first I believe before things gone these bad, you must have been seeing the signs but you chooses to ignore it, when you first notice his strange behaviour, did you care to address the issues lovingly or you chooses to ignore it?

i must tell you different men has their own way of settling their issues, some chooses a life of solitude for the time being, whereas some might start doing some other funny things till they are able to get their minds together.

for him not care about his conjugal right anymore says a lot about the whole scenario, that man might be going through some difficult moments apart from finance,that you didn't care to know. the problem might be partly comes from you, you might not know,his people not calling you till these moment, says a lot about you and the issues, which I don't want to go into details about it. women needs to understand that men are humans after all, they have their emotional moments.

you would have dug deep, and know the root cause of his sudden change in attitude, before leaving the house in the first place.

try and do some recollections, you will definitely see where things went wrong, please for no just cause never use abusive words on your partner, whether jokingly or in a heated arguments.

anyways you knows him better than I do, I wish you good luck in whatever ways you decide to settle the issues.

Mekenz:
I grow up from a lovely home,my both parents are still alive, but I can tell you, during my stay in Lagos I have one neighbour like that, a young couple I must say,if you see the way and manner the woman is using insulting word's on her husband, you will have pity on the young man,she capitalize on her husband easy going nature, just because maybe she has money,more than the man. in fact to cut the story short, she is the husband, while the man is the wife, what if tomorrow the man say enough is enough, and muster the courage and start beating the woman after every insults and abuse, or better still start behaving otherwise will you still blame the man? I personal don't like the way the op paint the husband all black, one will think that she is infallible.

spare the belt,spoil the wife

mysticgal:
Ogun kii you there and I pray you have a taste of your advise, or probably your sister.

You are a wife beater, I can see it, batterer!!!! Nonsense and ingredients, go back yenyen

Akious2k2:
Any other option except divorce... Divorce should be the last option

CanadianNaija:
Your husband doesn’t give a Bleep about you, don’t get it twisted. Don’t use your children as an excuse, go back to him if you want, but please leave your kids with your family so that they don’t grow up thinking it’s normal for men to treat their wives with disdain.

Make your decisions but own your decisions. This is why I tell people to be wary of men and women that come from dysfunctional homes, I still remember how shocked I was as a teenager in school hearing my friend talk about how her dad beats her mum bloody, and she thought it was a normal couple way of resolving conflict.

She went on to date a guy in university that usually beat the shot out of her and she made excuses for him then, they are married now, and I’m sure it still happens, and they are raising kids that will probably follow in that footstep.

Madam pack your load and go back to your husbands house, no point advising you.

Mekenz:
even the op feels like she made some form of mistakes by leaving her home,maybe her conscience is pricking her, telling her what she would have done. forget all those marriage's you think that are so rosy,just because you have not seen them quarrel each other. let me tell you, majority of good marriage s is solely dependent on the women. a good woman make her home,but the other way round tear it apart. you might not agree with me,but it is a fact.

SirVintageCock:
Op, if you ever go back because you MISSED him, he will leverage on that, kill you and take away the kids. Maybe nobody called because they are tired of the violence and wish you will receive sense. Which you did and you want to fvck it up
Your husband has a faulty upbringing, maybe you do too seeing that you enjoys the sadomasochistic relation by asking this question.

Mekenz:
you're talking as if you have not been with a woman, some of them their mouth is so sharp like a razor blade, at least she didn't say that her husband is a drunk, because is majority of them that doesn't behave rational especially when they are intoxicated. I keep saying these,marriage is not easy,it takes so much of patience, endurance and forgiveness to make a successful marriage. you can go and ask your mom what she past through at some points in her own marriage.

donbachi:
an inlaw once use matchet on my female cousin..everyone asked for his head.some asked her to leave her marriage.when she took my advise,her marriage got born again..note:we are all imperfect beings and the devil will always raise his ugly head.

HarunaWest:
You were wrong to leave with the kids..Remember both of you are to cater for them..You should have had a heart to heart talk with him and Inform him of your decision Before hand...The fact that he doesn't have sex with you means he is having it with someone else....The sudden despise he has for you has probably stemmed from something that you did or you do. If I were you try to talk to him one more time with both parents present so you can find a way,buh if he is still unwilling, move on.

A001:
How do you talk to a fictitious character that doesn't exist and never existed?

Is that not madness? Jesus Christ is nothing but an idea created by Rome. He's just a word.

Jesus deceives; only science saves.

In the near future, when more advances are made in medical science, deaths from cancer will be reduced as the disease will be treated more successfully by doctors.

Pataricatering:
lol ' na im u people still full ground here,?

sonofElElyon:
White (church) wedding if properly organised, also includes signing the marriage register of the marriage registry in church.. so a marriage certificate is obtained.

Focusmind:
Men will never learn. It is good to toil and work hard for your family. But please, take care of your health and your self. Once in a while,I totally disconnect from my family, find a comfort hotel or eatery and enjoy myself.
Taking care of myself has become a great priority for me now. Is it selfishness? May be.

vickydevoka:
Oga you don't know anything abeg shift.
If de man didn't write a will b4 he dies. Nobody owns anything. who ever has de documents owns it. so make de wife begin go de look for the documents now. Or else she might loose everything.
This same thing happened in my neighborhood, de wife lost everything bcus de husband loves his brother more than his wive, so he knows everything about de husband even where he keeps his document. The woman is very educated n strong still she lost everything aside his business which she couldn't manage.

If man love him wove very well dis won't happen I swear. Most rich men don't marry love, de marry yellow b*tches keep for house. Dem go still de follow woman outside. they only people de genuinely love na dere brother n sisters, that's y de brothers will come to fight bcus de might know everything about him even de property documents.

FORWARDEVERLY:
The man's brothers has a point and knows why they are fighting her..
Let them maintain the tempo jare..

All this wives that came to marriage with two pants and two bras be doing the most.. mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeewww

sonofElElyon:
Stupid title.. should've read "relations fight wife over late developer's assets and cash".
The wife is the one entitled to the property of her late husband.. hope he has a will though.. it will resolve all disputes regarding who gets what..or doesn't get